WEBVTT - 7am Hour - Blow Up or Stand Up 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:03.519 TV Live on YouTube and the iHeartRadio app. 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:05.960 It's one on one point three kt w B. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:09.840 Happy Halloween. It is kd WUB. We had a great 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:11.720 time at boom Bash last night. Go see the pictures 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:15.160 on Dave Ryans Show on Instagram. There are dozens of 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:17.400 pictures and we just packed the house last night in 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:18.920 hot House. It was so we got to get out 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.320 more often. We do get We get out about twice 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:23.759 a year. Yeah, and it's like we want to go 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:25.919 out and say hi to people who love KATWV and 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.080 they're lat, yeah, well, you know, we got stuff coming on. 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:29.760 We got we had a lot of things. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:31.600 And also someone came up to me like right at 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.040 the end and she's like, oh my gosh, there's so 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.480 many young people here. And I was like, hey, yeah, 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:39.680 we're a cool, fun vibe station. And she's like, you 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.600 know you and vont really bring a lot of the 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:42.120 young people. 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:43.760 And I was like, yes, Vat who's twenty four and 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:44.880 me who's. 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:47.960 Twenty fourst you're free min pose pre minopause. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:48.239 I know. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.280 But is she ever gonna have a baby? Gary? I 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:51.839 mean you look over Bailey. She wants to have a 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.600 baby someday. But you know, the odds are not looking good. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:56.000 Whoever told you I wanted one? 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:59.080 I want a baby. She's gonna have like two two babies. Yeah, 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:01.920 twins and one, so she'll have three. Oh wow, look 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.080 at that. Okay, I'm where's she going to meet this 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:04.679 guy anyway? 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:05.560 Yeah? Today? 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:09.880 Well I think he's multiple guys, but you know two guys. Yeah, 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.920 you know, Wow, she's gonna get with this guy pretty. 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.160 Will you convince Bailey? Because I got to give a 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:18.319 keyword for Sabrina Carpenter important. This is the keyword is please. 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:20.360 And this is really important because you get a chance 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:22.120 to go to Los Angeles to see her in concert. 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:24.600 So use the keyword. If you're listening for it, open 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.320 up the iHeart app, tap that red microphone, and then 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.920 just say the keyword is please, and you're good to go. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:33.440 You've got to get rid of this demon that Bailey 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.160 has because the first time I met her was like 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:38.560 ten years ago, and I thought, oh, she's an attractive 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:42.520 young woman. You were probably twenty five at the time. 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:45.319 I thought she's an attractive young woman. Bailey's got this 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:49.200 pall that hangs over her like a big pity cloud 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.640 of like I'm not cute. I'm not cute. I look 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:54.440 like a barn owl. And I said, you don't look 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.440 you look a little bit like a barn owl. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:57.800 Well who who? 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:00.840 But no, I think she she's kind of hot. Bar 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:05.520 Will you get out of her mind that she's not 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.240 good enough, smart enough, or important? 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:10.639 Which exercise me, exercise me. 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:12.960 Here's what you gotta do. Okay, say right now, and 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:18.280 this will work for everybody. I say, I'm I'm worthy worthy. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.240 You didn't mean it, No, she didn't mean it. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.280 You could tell. I could tell them belieterately, I'm on 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:23.040 your same page. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.639 Yeah, come on, okay again. 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:26.240 Every okay, everyone else has to say it. 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:27.960 Okay, okay with you with me. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:32.079 If you're listening, David, you as well, I am worthy? 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:33.959 Well look at you. You did it. 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:37.480 Well, I know I'm worthy. Ryan. Okay, that's a joke. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:37.880 You've got. 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:39.720 That's a joke, a joke. 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:44.560 She because she's got she's a guy can say. Last 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.520 night you were really cool. I was. 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:47.919 You were really dressed up. 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.120 Though I had splashes down to the front of my 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.600 shirt and sweat marks down the back and under our hair, 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.760 and you were in drag, but you were really cool. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:56.920 Tell me what you mean by that God, you would 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:59.239 just tell me drag queen. But you were a cool 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:00.440 host of you. 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:05.320 You really, you know, I really enjoyed you being yourself, 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:08.360 you know, and you you were amazing with the crowd. 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:11.560 The crowd loves you, and so I don't think people 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:13.919 tell you that enough that I do shows all over 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:16.639 the place, So I mean, you are really all that 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:17.519 with your crowd. 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.000 Wow, look at that Bailey here, You're like, don't make 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:23.639 me sing. I didn't tell the crowd f you one time? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.160 Did you hear that? 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:26.679 I did hear that? And I said choice. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.080 I said, I'm going to make a decision on the 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:30.440 costume cut winter and if you don't like my choice, 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:33.720 fu And they laughed because I had him eating and 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.200 have paulm on my hand, Gary, because they saw you 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:36.760 were real. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:38.360 They people on. 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.760 Me in person is pretty much the same a hole 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.400 that I am on the radio. So Bailey, would you agree? Yeah, 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:50.120 let's get Gary stopped screwing around? All right, Gary Spivey, 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:52.600 the world's most gifted psychic is here to help you out. 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:56.840 And it is Halloween and we just you know whatever, 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:59.440 the psychic vibes are a rolling. Let's get on the 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:01.720 phone here and see who wants to talk to Gary 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:07.800 and what your issue is. Let's do a spooky one first. 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:13.840 It's Diane. Hello, Diane, Hello, talk to Gary Spivey. 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:15.600 Yeah. 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.080 So we have a grandson who's three and a half now, 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:22.640 bought a year ago or so. He started saying looking 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.599 at me directly and saying the word d D. And 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:26.159 we'd ask. 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:27.480 Kudidias word d D. 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:29.039 He'd say, d D's around? 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:30.479 Is DD here? 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:32.800 And we've never been able to figure out who he 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.960 is talking about. And I'm wondering if you could tell me. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:38.280 Well, you know this is this is kind of neat. 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:42.479 He's remembering a previous lifetime. And I've had this a 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:47.160 lot lately with kids, where they're thinking of remembering their 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:50.880 previous lifetimes. They'll say seeing things over and over, like, hey, mom, 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:54.800 remember when I was big, Remember when we were in 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:59.479 the other house, you know? And so sodd this was 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:03.600 his grandmother in a previous life. Who was you? So 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:06.000 and so do you have a previous life connection with 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.320 this one with this kid? And and he already loves 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.960 you and you already just are madly in love with him, 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.640 and so did you do you feel some crazy bond. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:17.000 I don't know if you have other kids, but if 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.520 you do, do you feel this bond with this one 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:20.880 that is like something different? 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:24.600 Yeah, it's he lives really close to us too, so 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:28.640 it's very special. But yeah, he's very work close. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.680 Yeah, it's crazy, but it's a previous life connection and 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.920 seeing many times in your lifetime's previous lives, you will 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.279 be one person in one life. Sometimes you could be 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:38.880 a son, you could be a brother, you could be 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.360 a sister, you could be a mother, grandmother, and or 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:45.000 best friend and so so or or whatever and so. 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:47.560 But but you have a connection. That's what it is. Okay, 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:49.920 thank you, Dianne. We have more with Gary Spivey. We're 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:52.839 gonna be back one hour commercial free and we scheduled 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:56.039 Gary until seven thirty, but I you know what, who knows? 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:56.600 Who knows? 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.400 We might go until noon with Gary. Spies get crazy? 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:00.840 You got all? Hey Gary, what are you doing? 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:02.040 I'm just hanging out with you, Dave. 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.960 Can we order in lunch today? Gary, stay on the 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:06.160 radio until one o'clock. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:07.080 I drink. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.720 Sorry, Bailey's got stuff. We'll be back with your calls 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:13.159 and questions for Gary Spivey next on KDWB. We are 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.680 live with Psychic Gary Spivey. We're also on YouTube this morning. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.760 I want to see what Gary looks like, and it's 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:20.760 always the shock. First time I met Gary, I was like, 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.240 oh wow, oh, look at that hair. And then I 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.520 kept staring at his hair. I was like staring at 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.599 his hair, and Gary was getting annoyed with me, like, 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:29.560 stop staring at my hair. 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:30.320 I'm not. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.279 It was obvious, though, really obvious. 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:33.320 I'm not looking at your hair. 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:38.160 Dave Ryan TV. On YouTube, Gary is answering questions. You 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:39.760 have a good time a boo bash last night? Oh 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:41.640 my god, I had so much fun. It was one 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:44.200 of the best, maybe the best boo bash we've ever died. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:47.560 People were fantastic. I enjoyed reading them. I mean, I 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.240 really had a great time. This is such a great 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:53.720 energy through the crowd. Okay, let's start in with some questions. 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:55.839 We're gonna get to as many as we can. And 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:58.280 if you miss Gary on the radio, you're gonna be 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.400 in town for a couple of days. Yeah, yeah, they 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:00.960 call me up. 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:04.640 Eight hundred day two seven, Gary, Meet Gary in person 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:06.920 or do it on the phone. Eight hundred day two 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:11.720 seven Gary or Garyspyvey dot com. My phone number is different. 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:17.160 It is six' five one nine eight nine KD. Wb all, Right, 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:20.080 taylor you are up. First tell me about your engagement. 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:20.840 Ring what's going? 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:26.480 On, Yes, so my sister offered to hold on to 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:31.240 my failed engagement ring about two and a half years ago, 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:35.120 now AND i found a buyer for it a year 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:38.160 and a half, ago and WHEN i went to go 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.960 get it from, her she claimed she lost it or 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:41.720 her kid lost. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.320 It CAN i ask why you asked your sister to 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:45.800 hold on to? 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:49.960 It, YES i regret it, now but she had a 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.800 safe AND i did, not and it just seemed like 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:53.440 the smartest. 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:58.200 Move your suspicion is sis ponned that ring or sold 0:07:58.200 --> 0:07:59.800 it to somebody, else, Right. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:01.040 Yes that's my. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:06.440 Suspicion And i'm wondering if that, through or if she'll find, 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.040 it or if she'll pay me back for it SO 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:10.760 i can get some sort of closer. 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.320 Piece, SURE i don't see you're paying you back for, 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:17.720 it AND i do see you're selling, it and so, 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:20.840 yeah that's exactly what you. Think she did this? Before 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.160 was somebody or? Something was it your? Stuff she did 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:24.720 this one time? 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.880 Before not THAT i know of, okay. 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:30.040 But she has a little history of. This do you know? 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.200 That, NO i. 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.480 Don't, actually, WELL. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.680 I can't believe she'd lose. It if you gave it to, 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.160 her she'd put it right in the, safe. Right how 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.520 are you gonna lose it if you lose? It, Yeah 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.920 so the answer is she stole right and then they. 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:45.760 Just, say, OH i lost. 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:48.920 It, yes, sorry somebody else on the. PHONE i believe 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:51.240 it might be. Another is This, Taylor. 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:53.439 Taylor with your? 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.720 Wedding tell me about your canceled? Wedding what's? Up? 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:57.600 Uh? 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:02.480 Okay for long story, short my, mom who is technically 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:08.880 my biological, aunt has completely taken over everything from you, 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.240 know the guest, list insisting the day isn't about me 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:14.160 and my, fiance but it's rather about our. Guests and 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:18.720 she absolutely lost it WHEN i invited my fiance's mom 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.520 to the dress, appointment saying that it took away an 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:23.800 experience from. Her it's not you, know it's not my 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:28.160 fiance's mom's place because we aren't family. Yet some trying 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.680 to figure out, like is she acting this way because 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:33.840 of her own childhood, trauma you, know being adopted herself 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:37.800 from losing her sister who is my mom or from 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:40.480 losing her parents in the recent. Years i'm just trying 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.480 to figure, out like what's really driving her behavior towards. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:49.160 That so this is your adopted mom who's actually your. Aunt, yeah, 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.080 okay got. It, okay so your mom is, Gone so 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.000 this is a person that's been acting as your. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:58.839 Mom, Okay, YES i don't think you're her therapist first. 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:00.960 Off and so you're and you're trying to come up 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:03.120 with all these reasons why she's this that or the other. 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.840 Thing there's a lot of things that put people, together 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:08.640 good or, bad and this is just the bad side of. 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:10.800 Her she's a control freek on a scale of one to, 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:14.280 ten like one hundred and, ten and she's just wanting 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.880 to control. Everything and then she does it so much 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:21.000 that she actually believes this wedding is her, wedding her, 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:25.560 production her, wedding not your wedding or your spouse's. 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:27.800 Wedding that is so weird that somebody will think happens a. 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.760 LOT i, mean the queen of the wedding is the, bride, 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.760 right never the mom or the mother at. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:36.800 Law not, Really, yeah this happens all the. Time why 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.920 it just, does and it's always a big giant. Calamity 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:43.800 it's very, common AND i read it with people all the. 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:46.599 Time and so you can't go down the road a 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.240 little ways with these. People your first mistake was saying 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.000 you needed any help at. All you should have done it. Yourself, 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:56.200 wow and so so, yeah now you, know, well. 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:59.079 Then you're in such a precarious. Situation either like make 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.599 her mad and you'll love her and she's going to 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.000 be bitter forever, forever or you push her out of 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.560 the wedding and have it your. WAY i, mean there's 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:09.600 really or let her control everything about your. 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:13.000 Wedding it's like that's a bad scene and there's no 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.760 way out once you're, in and you're, in and and 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:19.559 SO i think if, you IF, i IF i looked at, 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:23.120 IT i believe that it maybe your spouse talks to, 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.960 her and so then she could just hate him forever 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.760 instead of, you and she's. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.199 Yeah but he's never going to do that because the 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.800 guy is usually so beaten down by his mother over the. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.840 Years isn't it true that he won't stand up to his? 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:37.439 Mother is that? 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:37.760 True? 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:41.679 TAYLOR i, like at the end. 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.080 Of the, day we don't want to hurt people's, feelings 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:44.240 but we also we're not a dorm. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:48.120 AT i think you'll blow up or you'll stand. Up 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:50.120 that's WHAT i. Think so you you know you're going 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:51.600 to blow up at her and it's going to get, 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:55.600 messy or you're going to stand, up and you, know 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:59.440 reclaim your. Wedding and SO i would reclaim the. Wedding 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.000 and WHEN i, SAID i fil to get warm all, 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.280 over SO i know that's the right. Answer and so, 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:08.040 yeah reclaim you. Wedding, yeah good, Someday Tiffany. 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:13.360 Bigon is it a decision you're thinking? About what's going? On? Tiffany? 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:14.959 Yes so can you hear? 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:15.520 ME i hear? 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:15.679 You. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:19.679 Okay so my mom lives In. Texas that's the only 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:23.680 FAMILY i have, there AND i would be leaving a 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:27.760 relationship of five years and taking my six year old. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:31.280 Daughter And i'm wondering IF i should do that or 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:31.760 not do. 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.360 That so you would leave, here leave your relationship and. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:36.960 Go be with your, mama, yes, Yep and that's the only. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.520 Family i'm like born and raised In. Minnesota EVERYBODY i 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:42.720 know is here except my. Mom And i'm just really 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:44.920 deciding if that IF i should make that. 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:48.360 Leap, YEAH i read. It about twelve different. Ways one 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:52.599 of the answers was hell. No the other answer was absolutely. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:55.520 Not i'm kept on hearing the same thing different. 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:57.560 Way so don't go To. Texas bad? 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.160 Idea oh why bad? Idea because you're going to get 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.200 there and they're gonna realize what AM i? Doing? 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:03.720 Oh? 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.280 Okay and so you're a little bit. Impulsive you have 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:10.560 sort of an impulsive personality disorder a little, bit you, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.640 know have you just do things on impulse and you, 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.960 go oh my, god how to get? Here? Right and so, okay? 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:18.520 Stop this is one of those times if you think 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.040 back at all those times you jump before, you you, 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.920 know think about. It just chill for a. Minute this 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.640 will pass and you don't need to go To. Texas that's. Crazy, 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:30.080 Okay good, Luck. Tiffany up next Is. Angie, Hi, angie, 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:34.280 right question For, Gary i'm. GOOD a question about a. 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:35.600 Relationship what's going? 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:35.760 On? 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:36.280 Ange? 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:38.600 YEAH i broke up with my boyfriend In. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.000 March we were together for ten. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:44.840 Years he is an alcoholic and my kids absolutely can't stand. 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:47.080 Him is he the one THAT i meant to be? 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:48.199 With and GOD i hope? 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:48.320 Not? 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:52.920 Yeah forever and? Ever, NO i heard? Good you broke 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:56.800 up with him. Good this won't change anytime. Soon he 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.560 looks like he's really hung in this in this. Addiction 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:03.440 addictions very tough for. People he is a good guy 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.720 underneath all. That but you don't you don't have the, 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.800 energy and you got to do things because you got. 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.600 Kids you have to do things that make sense in your. 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:16.320 Life and many times addicts make no. Sense, ever and 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:18.679 and so this won't work. Out it's just going to 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:20.720 be very painful until you get worn. Out and you're 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.600 not going to be with him. Anyway and SO i 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:26.280 think IT'S i think it's, wise AND i think it. 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.720 Hurts but you, know you're not going to be really 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.680 good a good spouse for an, addict because you're too. 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.080 Responsible you're real, responsible. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.760 Right, YES i. 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:37.320 Am you take care of, everything you bounce you check, 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:38.640 book you. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:38.720 Know. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:45.920 Yeah and he messes up everything he, touches right. Wow 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.240 and if he gets close to your, stuff he messes 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:50.280 all that up as, well right. 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:53.080 Yeah he makes your kids crazy because Like gary's a 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.200 psychic or. Something and your kids don't like him. 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:57.680 Either, no, no gosh, No. 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:00.800 And there's tweet and your kids are, beautiful beautiful. Kids 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.000 this is Why gary gets to charge money for what he. 0:15:03.080 --> 0:15:09.160 Does you're better than a magic eight. Ball thank, You. 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:10.960 Angie let's go to. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:11.760 That. 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:18.640 Matt matt has some suspicions about another. Man, Hello, matt 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:20.480 talk To. Gary what's, Up? 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:25.480 Hi? Gary just curious that it's been a couple of. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.920 Years but me and my wife are having problems at the. 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:34.120 Time and she met this guy at a bar and 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:37.120 then she was she was talking to for a, while 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:41.800 AND i had suspicion on them doing. Something and she 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.920 said there was nothing that happened between, them BUT i 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:46.240 still kind of think that there. 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:51.960 Was WELL i don't, know does fondling in a car mean. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:56.360 Anything that's the only, thing that's. All that's as far 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:58.480 as you see you. Going didn't really go to like 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:03.000 real major you know. Everything what did she tell? 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:08.640 You, well she said, that, uh they kissed one time. 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:13.360 In the car foods at Cub. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:16.480 Foods at Cub, Foods what a weird place to kiss 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:16.920 in the. 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:19.320 CAR i think she's in the park. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:24.680 Lint he worked near where she was delivering at, booths and. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.640 Yeah, YEAH i just see him around in the car 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:35.960 and but nothing really major, happened and and so that's 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:38.960 WHAT i, See and SO i THINK i think she woke. 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:41.680 Up sometimes people will test the water to see if 0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:43.840 they still are in. LOVE i mean that sounds a little, 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.560 crazy but people do. That AND i think this WAS 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:49.040 i think this is what this. Was she was just kind, 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:53.240 of you, know doing. That will everything be okay for? 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.000 ME i think it's going to be. FINE i think 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.360 she really, knows she really loves. You you're an amazing. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.960 Person she's in love with. YOU i don't see her doing. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.040 This it's not a thing she does all the. Time 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:03.000 it was just something that. 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:06.520 Happened, yeah, exactly that's WHAT i was wondering. 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:08.920 Life, Yeah i'd forgive. HER i MEAN i really. Would, 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:11.719 okay good, Luck that's WHAT i see all. Right up 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:16.159 next to Is. Jamie, Hi. JAMIE a totally different. Question what's? 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:17.240 Uh what do you want to? Ask? 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:23.600 Gary we started homeschooling this. Year my son HAS adhd 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:27.879 and so going to the normal school was pretty tough for, 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.000 him and we just want to know if we made 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:30.280 the right. 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.879 Decision you MADE i think a really good. Decision at this, 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.360 POINT i see another type of school where he's with 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:40.200 us some other, kids but in a small. Setting what's going? 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:43.600 On you're your? Son hell is he now? Nine, okay 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:48.240 he's very empathic and very. PSYCHIC i know what it's 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:50.879 like to be a psychic, child and BECAUSE i, was 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:55.760 and so he can impath. Everything he feels. Everything his 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:58.960 volume buttons on, TEN i mean he, does he. Does 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:02.159 he sort of back like. That when he's around disruptive, 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:06.040 people he becomes. Disruptive when he's around kind, people he becomes. 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:08.840 KIND i, mean he just Becomes he's like a. 0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:09.480 Sponge. 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:12.080 Yeah and so so for him to be able to 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:14.560 go to the school where he was was a nightmare for, 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:18.600 him and he was very misunderstood and he couldn't focus because, 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:22.320 see he's able to. See it's not that he's, uh you, 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:25.320 know tied up with attention deficit and all those things 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:28.160