1
00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,920
Speaker 1: It's Marcus in this time once again for what we

2
00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,080
Speaker 1: call second date Update. Then listen to the show for

3
00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:05,760
Speaker 1: any length of time. You know all about it. We're

4
00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:07,840
Speaker 1: just trying to bring people together. If you get ghosted

5
00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,400
Speaker 1: after a first date, this should be your first stop

6
00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,040
Speaker 1: because we will call your date with you on the

7
00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,400
Speaker 1: line just to see what's up, hopefully getting you a

8
00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:15,880
Speaker 1: second date.

9
00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,560
Speaker 2: That's the key. Am I right, Trevor? Are you there?

10
00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:19,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

11
00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here.

12
00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:23,239
Speaker 1: So I think second date would be the goal, but

13
00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,040
Speaker 1: let's at least get some answers. Okay, tell me about

14
00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,560
Speaker 1: That's good? Your date with Mallory?

15
00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

16
00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:34,720
Speaker 4: So she was super funny, easy to talk to. We

17
00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,040
Speaker 4: spent the first part of the night venting abouts of

18
00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:42,600
Speaker 4: like work stress, and we swapped a favorite podcasts and

19
00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,680
Speaker 4: we were laughing about how dating apps feel like.

20
00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:49,040
Speaker 2: A second unpaid job. Sure and yeah, I don't know

21
00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:50,200
Speaker 2: the vibe.

22
00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,640
Speaker 4: Doll com It was grown up and mature.

23
00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:54,600
Speaker 2: It wasn't chaotic.

24
00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,040
Speaker 4: There weren't any awkward silences.

25
00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,880
Speaker 2: Was it a dinner or an sure or a yeah?

26
00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:08,560
Speaker 2: It dinner in Palo Alto? Easy? Okay, yeah, and she yes,

27
00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:09,760
Speaker 2: she's ghosted.

28
00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000
Speaker 4: I mean I thought that it was a super solid

29
00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:12,520
Speaker 4: first date.

30
00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,080
Speaker 2: But yeah, I haven't heard from her.

31
00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,600
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, like I said, we're gonna call her.

32
00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,960
Speaker 1: I'll have you not even holding but like listening in. Okay,

33
00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,840
Speaker 1: So we'll have you meet your phone and we'll give

34
00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,280
Speaker 1: her a shout. Let me play a song, and then

35
00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,840
Speaker 1: we'll get after it. All right, it's it's second date

36
00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,680
Speaker 1: update Star one on one three. We're doing second date update.

37
00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,840
Speaker 1: We've got Trevor on the phone. We've been talking. He

38
00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,200
Speaker 1: had a date with Mallory in Palo Alto. This is

39
00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:35,800
Speaker 1: just a dinner.

40
00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,040
Speaker 2: I wrote down that you said that the vibe felt

41
00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,040
Speaker 2: very grown up. I don't know.

42
00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,319
Speaker 1: I don't know why that why that hit for me,

43
00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,759
Speaker 1: because I know sometimes it can get kind of chaotic,

44
00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,520
Speaker 1: especially dating and stuff, and it sounds like the the

45
00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:49,880
Speaker 1: conversation was really easy.

46
00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,600
Speaker 2: Is that fair to say, Trevor? Yeah, super easy? Okay, Yeah,

47
00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,400
Speaker 2: well let's call her and try to figure some things out.

48
00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,120
Speaker 2: Go ahead and meet your phone. I'll give her a

49
00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:08,160
Speaker 2: shout right now. Hello, I may I speak to Mallory please?

50
00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,640
Speaker 3: Yep, this is Sheef Ma comes.

51
00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,480
Speaker 1: This is Marcus calling from Star one one three. Marcus

52
00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,239
Speaker 1: in the morning, I don't know.

53
00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:19,720
Speaker 3: If you listen, I do did I win something?

54
00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,640
Speaker 2: No, we're doing second date update? Okay, do you know

55
00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,200
Speaker 2: what that is?

56
00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:29,520
Speaker 3: I do know what that is. Okay, it's Trevor holding

57
00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,080
Speaker 3: right now.

58
00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:39,760
Speaker 2: He is Trevor. Are you there? Yeah, I'm here. Okay, Trevor, Trevor.

59
00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:49,320
Speaker 1: Hey, we're back, you guys, We're backy.

60
00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,120
Speaker 2: So, Mallory, I'm just gonna ask like, did you ghost?

61
00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:49,280
Speaker 3: Yep?

62
00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:50,280
Speaker 2: Okay?

63
00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:51,000
Speaker 3: Following up?

64
00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:57,640
Speaker 1: Okay, what did my guy do something wrong or what happened?

65
00:02:58,639 --> 00:02:58,839
Speaker 3: Yeah?

66
00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,200
Speaker 2: I mean, how was the date for you? Sorry, let's

67
00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,359
Speaker 2: just go roll it all the way back. How did

68
00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:03,640
Speaker 2: it go?

69
00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:10,120
Speaker 3: Okay? I would say dates started off pretty normal. Okay,

70
00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:17,240
Speaker 3: he seems normal and yep. Things just started feeling pretty

71
00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:23,600
Speaker 3: off once he started ordering his dinner. So instead of

72
00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:28,120
Speaker 3: like just yeah, I'll tell you, instead of speaking just

73
00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,560
Speaker 3: like at a normal volume, he would I he would

74
00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,600
Speaker 3: lean forward and he'd whisper his order to the server

75
00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:41,840
Speaker 3: like he was like sharing classified information. And he didn't

76
00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,360
Speaker 3: do this just like one time. He did it every

77
00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,760
Speaker 3: single time he placed an order.

78
00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,480
Speaker 2: Like can you can you demonstrate?

79
00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,120
Speaker 3: He was just like yes, So I would really like

80
00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,360
Speaker 3: the salmon with the rice and just a side of

81
00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,360
Speaker 3: green beans, if I may. The server had to like

82
00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:03,760
Speaker 3: vendo to like listen to him. Honestly, it's so funny

83
00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,960
Speaker 3: you called. I was literally just imitating and doing the

84
00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,680
Speaker 3: play by play of my date to my coworker with

85
00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:16,280
Speaker 3: the toes and oh yeahs. So then the food comes out,

86
00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:21,039
Speaker 3: and with every plate, Trevor asks the same question, is

87
00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,440
Speaker 3: this the exact portion it's supposed to be? Like, and

88
00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,400
Speaker 3: I try to laugh it off, but like it just

89
00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:32,239
Speaker 3: kept happening. Appetizer, is this the exact portion it's supposed

90
00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:36,720
Speaker 3: to be? Entre side dish? Like, same question, same intensity,

91
00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,200
Speaker 3: and like about halfway through, I just finally asked, like

92
00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:46,240
Speaker 3: why is he's so like intense over the food? And

93
00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,080
Speaker 3: Trevor just casually is like, well, I don't usually eat out,

94
00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:54,039
Speaker 3: like there's too many variables, and I was like okay,

95
00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,599
Speaker 3: so like then you must cook a lot. Nope, he

96
00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:06,320
Speaker 3: does not cook either takeout Yep. He likes to be

97
00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:11,599
Speaker 3: able to control. He likes to predictability like that he

98
00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,640
Speaker 3: can even customize everything down to the sauce packet. So

99
00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,599
Speaker 3: he just gets really stressed out when he goes to

100
00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,479
Speaker 3: restaurants because there's like too many moving parts that he

101
00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,920
Speaker 3: can't control. I don't know, he's just got some low

102
00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,159
Speaker 3: grade anxiety radiating off of him with like the whispering

103
00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,000
Speaker 3: and like the portion check okay, and that was just

104
00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,400
Speaker 3: like it was a lot.

105
00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:39,480
Speaker 2: It's it's quirky, quirky, yes, Trevor.

106
00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. So in my defense, I don't think any

107
00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,520
Speaker 4: of this is that weird because like as far as whisperings,

108
00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:49,120
Speaker 4: the server goes. Honestly, I don't like making mistakes, and

109
00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:53,120
Speaker 4: speaking softly just helps me focus. And then when like

110
00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,800
Speaker 4: questioning the portions, like is it so bad?

111
00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,920
Speaker 2: I just want to know what I'm.

112
00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:01,400
Speaker 4: Getting, you know, and consistency matters to me, And so

113
00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,719
Speaker 4: like living off takeout, like I know what I like.

114
00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:05,919
Speaker 3: I mean, like why.

115
00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,479
Speaker 4: Should I take a gamble or risk when I just

116
00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,080
Speaker 4: can get what I want exactly how I want it

117
00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:11,640
Speaker 4: every time?

118
00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,640
Speaker 3: Sure, so you know what that's fair for you? And

119
00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:19,040
Speaker 3: I don't mean to judge your eating habits. I do

120
00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:24,880
Speaker 3: find them quirky, but I just I don't want every

121
00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:29,040
Speaker 3: meal to feel like it's like a logistics meeting, Like

122
00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,320
Speaker 3: I just want to enjoy my food and not analyze it.

123
00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,680
Speaker 3: It's like I just don't want dinner to feel like

124
00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,280
Speaker 3: something we need to like manage, right, Like I'm an

125
00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:42,320
Speaker 3: adventurous eater. I want to try the new things, and

126
00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,880
Speaker 3: it just it was very intense, like everything just.

127
00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well I feel like there's some self awareness here,

128
00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,560
Speaker 1: so like, would you want to try a second date?

129
00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:55,720
Speaker 3: No?

130
00:06:55,720 --> 00:07:00,839
Speaker 2: No, no, all right, hang on Turky for sure.

131
00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,920
Speaker 1: Second date update back tomorrow right after seven o'clock and

132
00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,760
Speaker 1: of course nine o'clock. Of course, got the podcast too,

133
00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,440
Speaker 1: which will be updated by noon. Go search out Marcus

134
00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:09,920
Speaker 1: in the morning. Second Date update