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Speaker 1: It's Marcus trying to wrap up a week strong. We

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Speaker 1: got second date update back in effect, and we have

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Speaker 1: Eli on the phone. Good morning, Eli, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, good man? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, you know.

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Speaker 1: Other than the ghosting thing. Every time I say that,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well it is apart from the ghosting thing.

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Speaker 2: You're good. Yeah, other than that, pretty good.

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Speaker 1: So we want to talk about Marissa. Well, let me

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Speaker 1: explain second date updates. So basically, Eli went on a date.

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Speaker 1: Typically these dates go well, but you tell me and

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Speaker 1: she has ghosted sense and we're going to call her

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Speaker 1: and try to figure out why. So tell me about

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Speaker 1: the date. First of all, how'd you guys meet?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we met on bumble. We decided to go

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Speaker 2: out to downtown Campbell area, you know, and uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: we started at one spot, had some drinks, then we

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Speaker 2: grabbed tacos and just kind of walked around, got an

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Speaker 2: ice cream after. Like it was it was nice, Like

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Speaker 2: we had a really good time, and you know, we

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Speaker 2: were we talked about some like weekend hiking spots that

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Speaker 2: we're thinking about checking out, and you know, like we're

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Speaker 2: both super into Trader Joe's snacks, Like we got a

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Speaker 2: thing for those, so we have a lot of common. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I like those rolled up little taquito things that they do,

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Speaker 1: the spicy ones.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was great.

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Speaker 1: I get accused of stealing those at my house. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: go ahead daydreaming about SNACKSLM.

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Speaker 2: If they're at your house. You can't steal anything from

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Speaker 2: your own house.

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Speaker 1: My daughter will tell you differently.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair anyway. At one point, just like it

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Speaker 2: was just this little moment, like this little dog walked

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Speaker 2: by wearing a sweater, and Marissa crouchdown to say hi

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Speaker 2: to the dog, and I just like I made a

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Speaker 2: joke about how like I will only date women who

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Speaker 2: greet dogs before humans.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my guy's got the money.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to stop you and give you a massive

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Speaker 1: compliment because women keep coming into the studio. Ladies, get

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Speaker 1: on the mic really quick, both of you. One to ten.

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Speaker 1: How much is Bradley Cooper on the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: Producer Taylor Right?

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Speaker 3: Doesn't it kind of sound like it?

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Speaker 1: Angelina just wandered in from Wild ninety four nine. It's

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Speaker 1: like the pipe piper. This guy, like I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: I'm talking to him, but the door keeps opening. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm on a call right now. Ladies, Please, I promise

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Speaker 1: it's not Bradley Cooper, but I don't actually know to

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Speaker 1: keep him away from us. Sorry, I'm completely derailing it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys, I have to work anyway. Sorry, Eli, back

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Speaker 1: to you. What were we doing? Oh, we were talking

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Speaker 1: about your date? So since the day, like, what happened? Like?

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Speaker 1: It sounds pretty pretty slick. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. I mean, she just she

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Speaker 2: ghosted me a few days later. I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: I can't think of anything because it wasn't like she

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Speaker 2: ghosted me immediately either, right like a few days of

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Speaker 2: us talking about doing something again and then nothing.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus. We're doing second date up date right now.

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Speaker 1: We are talking to Eli about his date with Marissa.

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Speaker 1: Sounds super cute, downtown Campbell and it was kind of

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Speaker 1: a neighborhood walk. I understand you grabbed tacos there, ice cream.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it all seems to work out. Plus we've

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Speaker 1: established my guy sounds like Bradley Cooper. Do you ever

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Speaker 1: get that, Eli?

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Speaker 2: Or No?

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Speaker 1: Am I crazy?

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Speaker 2: No? This is the first time i've heard it, but

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Speaker 2: I you know, don't call into a lot of radio stations.

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Speaker 1: That's true too, that's true too. All right, well go

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Speaker 1: ahead and mute your phone. We're gonna give her a

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Speaker 1: call right now. All right, May I speak to Marissa?

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Speaker 2: Please?

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Speaker 1: This is Marissa Fantastic. My name is Marcus So. I

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Speaker 1: hosts a radio show at Star one on one three

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Speaker 1: for iHeartRadio. And I'm wondering A. Do you listen? And

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Speaker 1: B do you have a second to be on the air.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of mar Yes, I listen.

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Speaker 2: I know you.

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Speaker 1: This makes my juff so much easier. You have no idea.

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Speaker 1: So we're doing second date up date right now? Does

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Speaker 1: that mean anything to you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, sweet. So there's a guy on the phone. I

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Speaker 1: might as well just tell you because I mean, since

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Speaker 1: you know what's up, who would love to take you

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Speaker 1: out again? He said, you guys just went on a

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Speaker 1: first date. His name is Eli. Can I invite him on?

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Speaker 3: You can invite them on?

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Speaker 1: I mean, what am I talking about? He's already there, Eli?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead? Are you there?

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Speaker 2: Hey? Yeah, I'm here?

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Speaker 1: So, uh here we are. Eli thought you were amazing.

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Speaker 1: He'd like to go out again and I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out if he did he do something wrong

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Speaker 1: because he's feeling ghosted. So did you ghost that's A

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Speaker 1: and B. What did something happen?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I have good reason. Hey, I think I have excellent reason.

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Speaker 1: The only clue that I have is that it didn't

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Speaker 1: happen right away like that you were you were cool

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Speaker 1: for a couple of days after, and then you weren't.

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Speaker 1: So what happened? Well?

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Speaker 3: I ran into him at Target in Koopertino.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he was not alone, I see. Can you elaborate?

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Speaker 3: Well, he was with a woman and two small children,

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Speaker 3: and the children were calling him daddy. The woman was

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Speaker 3: hanging on his arm. They were laughing together. Shute little

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Speaker 3: family picture. It was not what I was expecting.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Eli, any explanation on this, because.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she listen, you got it mixed up. That's my

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Speaker 2: ex and we are we're just co parenting. So there's

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Speaker 2: no uh, you know, there's nothing, nothing happening. That's that's all.

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Speaker 2: It is. Just you know, we stood up, but we

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Speaker 2: still do stuff with the kids for trying to be

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Speaker 2: good parents, that's all.

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 3: You were wearing matching gold rings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we're separated. It's not official yet. I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I guess we just haven't gotten out of

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Speaker 2: the habit of that. I don't know. I don't really

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Speaker 2: think about that.

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Speaker 3: How about the family sized cart of groceries.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean it's still a family. There are

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Speaker 2: still kids. We're not together, we don't live together, but

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Speaker 2: like we're shopping together for the kids, so we want

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Speaker 2: to make sure we get stuff with them. And it's

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Speaker 2: just a that's a separate part of my life and

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Speaker 2: has nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 3: So when she gets you on the cheek, was that

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Speaker 3: my imagination?

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Speaker 2: No, it's just this is a friendly moment, you know, Like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what to tell you. Listen,

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Speaker 2: we're not together, we're just co parenting.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not interested in whatever version of co parenting.

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Speaker 2: This is all right?

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Speaker 1: Hang on you guys. I don't think this is going

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Speaker 1: to work. This feels a little too complicated, So just

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Speaker 1: hang on. I'm calling it no second date.