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Speaker 1: Wait what Yeah, that's a big deal just to just

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Speaker 2: To say, Oh, she refuses to have anyone like young.

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Speaker 1: That's lame. Yeah, don't don't applaud that, Emily the hell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah so that and then I want to get life

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Speaker 2: But I want to do it where it's like you

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Speaker 1: So you didn't care about your wife before the baby.

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Speaker 1: I did, but I didn't want to pay one hundred

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Speaker 3: I made a whole document bro of where everything is,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know you two were options, and I thought

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Speaker 2: I think that intrigues me about Emily. It was trial

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Speaker 2: We were running through the gamut and my brother in

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Speaker 2: I don't want dad either. So we've decided without telling

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Speaker 1: You are Jewish team Israel here. So it's between it's

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Speaker 1: I guess Emily again, excuse you. I don't know, way

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Speaker 1: that guy's gonna be out of diapers in a minute anyway,

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Speaker 1: To do all that stuff is awful. This guy will

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Speaker 1: get together after the show. I'll give you my estate plan.

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