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Speaker 1: Katie Summers next show, Hi Katie.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Katie showed me her phone.

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Speaker 3: She showed me a text thread with someone and it

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Speaker 3: was jarring what I saw. My question is eight hundred

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Speaker 3: four Own Nain ninety three ninety three. Please call in

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Speaker 3: and answer this question if you can relate to Katie's situation.

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Speaker 3: The question is how many texts did you receive before

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Speaker 3: you responded, or if you've still not responded, how many

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Speaker 3: texts have they sent so far? Eight hundred four own

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Speaker 3: nine ninety three ninety three Get text A ninet seven

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Speaker 3: seventy two zero.

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Speaker 1: I love seeing Ashley. Then open up the computer.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I have this guy, Frankie, Love Frankie. But he's

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Speaker 2: been talking to himself in my dans for like three years.

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Speaker 3: All right, oh my god, Well you get that up, Katie,

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Speaker 3: talk to us.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's an acquaintance, it's someone that I know,

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Speaker 4: and it's like a professional type relationship. But oh my god,

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Speaker 4: the texts they just keep going. And at what point

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Speaker 4: do you wonder why the other person isn't like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I should probably grab a clue from the clue bag

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Speaker 4: and uh, you know, maybe this this texting isn't happening.

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Speaker 3: I get anxiety sending texts, do you yeah, because I

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Speaker 3: second guess everything that I say and then you sit

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Speaker 3: and you wait for a response. And sometimes I'll just

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Speaker 3: put away my phone and then it's like two hours

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Speaker 3: later and they did respond, and that now I'm getting

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Speaker 3: anxiety open it up because I'm late on it. So

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Speaker 3: I do kind of I don't respect because you could

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Speaker 3: be a total creepizoid about it. But there I feel

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Speaker 3: like there is a little bit of like is it

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Speaker 3: confidence or ignorance?

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Speaker 5: I think delusion. There's a good way about it.

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Speaker 1: It's do you do that?

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Speaker 5: What text a bunch of people and not get a

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Speaker 5: response back? Or do do I respond to text?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: It seems like it's a guy thing.

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Speaker 3: So once again the question is how many texts have

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Speaker 3: you received without even responding? Or maybe you are that

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Speaker 3: if you're that person you want to tell us. I

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Speaker 3: would love to hear from you as to why you

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Speaker 3: do that. But have you done that like with a

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Speaker 3: girl or anything.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure in the past, for sure, there was girls

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Speaker 5: that I would would try to date and I would

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Speaker 5: just you know, two three texts in a row, you know,

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Speaker 5: fire them off, and you're just sitting there and you're like,

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Speaker 5: oh god, I should not have done that.

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Speaker 4: But you're not gonna hit him with like that, Hey hey,

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Speaker 4: it was a sub ash hey you Oh yeah, there

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Speaker 4: it is.

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Speaker 2: And I'm trying to restore the messages, but it won't

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Speaker 2: let me restore it because there's tons of messages of

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Speaker 2: him just saying.

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Speaker 1: Sub Ash, Hey, Ash, how are you Ash? And I

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Speaker 1: don't reply.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're literally talking to yourself.

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Speaker 1: And they can see that you've read.

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Speaker 4: So it's like at this point and you know, no offense,

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Speaker 4: but we're not doing this.

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear somebody who does do this,

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Speaker 2: Like what in your brain is telling you to keep

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Speaker 2: messaging someone who's not messaging you back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the hope of them responding, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: There is hope, Joe. I mean, yeah, there is hope

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Speaker 5: for anything. But at the same point in time, I

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Speaker 5: get what Ashley's saying. It's like doing the same thing

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Speaker 5: over and over again. That is the I think it's

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Speaker 5: almost little real definition of insanity.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, it could be that people do

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Speaker 2: it because they they could be insane, and then maybe

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Speaker 2: I'll get irritated enough that I will reply to the message.

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Speaker 2: Like hi, and then you'll get one high out of

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Speaker 2: me out of like five thousand messages.

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Speaker 5: I do have a little bit of a trick to

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Speaker 5: though for Katie Summers. Okay, does well? I got a

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Speaker 5: question for this. Is there this person who's texting you.

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Speaker 5: Do they have an Android or do they have an iPhone?

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Speaker 5: Because you're not going to be able to get away

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Speaker 5: with this if they have an iPhone.

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Speaker 1: I think it's an iPhone.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, no, okay, yeah. So if you if you're

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Speaker 5: running into this experience with somebody who has an Android

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Speaker 5: and you have an iPhone, what you're able to do

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Speaker 5: is you can put one of those copy paste messages

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Speaker 5: of the number you are trying to reach is no

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Speaker 5: longer whatever.

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Speaker 1: And then you block them. That is true. Why what

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Speaker 1: does the type of phone have?

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Speaker 5: Well, because it's the green messages versus the blue because

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Speaker 5: the I don't know if it's still true now because

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Speaker 5: I don't really text Android users all that much, but

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Speaker 5: it says like delivered it or or whatever. I don't

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Speaker 5: think that applies with I phones versus androids.

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Speaker 3: Is this person's number saved in your phone?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I believe if you delete their number then it will

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Speaker 3: show up on your phone, as is this spam?

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Speaker 1: Have you guys seen that I had on your iPhone?

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Speaker 1: Report junk? Yeah, I think is what I have. I

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Speaker 1: have a couple of them right here.

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Speaker 5: No, that's brilliant.

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Speaker 3: Ye.

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Speaker 4: I feel bad though, Oh my gosh that.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, no, leave me, leave Katie alive, Katy.

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Speaker 5: This is a little bit of a throwback, Joe. We

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Speaker 5: all love Sharry the fifty I think she's fifty five

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Speaker 5: or fifty six year old version. She's a listener to

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Speaker 5: the show. I mean there was a time where she

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Speaker 5: sent me like thirty five or forty messages, eight straight

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Speaker 5: phone calls in her row and I did not respond.

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Speaker 5: And I love Sherry, God love her.

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Speaker 3: If you did not expect to get this message from

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Speaker 3: an unknown center, it may be spam, and then you

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Speaker 3: can report spam.

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Speaker 1: Who sent you that? I don't know? Okay, okay, who

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Speaker 1: wants to play golf? Oh yes, Tammy, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 4: Jed is notorious for answering text a month after you

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Speaker 4: send it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I am. I am.

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Speaker 5: But at least you know, Tammy, because I try to

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Speaker 5: respond and I have some people who are just sending me.

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Speaker 5: You actually send me funny stuff that sometimes I'll use

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Speaker 5: the show content.

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Speaker 1: But for every stealing content.

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Speaker 5: Sometime, yeah, Tammy's doings homework, but I will say, I

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Speaker 5: will say this, Tammy you want. But for every person

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Speaker 5: like Tammy who's awesome, and she'll she won't like fire

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Speaker 5: off a billion text messages like some of these people.

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Speaker 5: But there are people who will text me twenty thirty

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Speaker 5: times in a row and I'm like, okay enough, yeah

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Speaker 5: you know, And she's not like that. Tammy is the

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Speaker 5: complete opposite.

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, what is that?

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Speaker 3: I just want to have friends, so I don't know too.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to let anyone down. Hey, love you

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Speaker 3: so much, Tammy. I love hearing that last tiff Dino girl,

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Speaker 3: You've got some phone advice. As Katie has received about

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Speaker 3: a thousand text messages from the same person, she's still

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Speaker 3: yet to respond.

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Speaker 1: But androids can see each other messages.

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Speaker 2: Now I have a newer Android, and my mom can

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Speaker 2: see my messages and I could see hers and chance

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Speaker 2: on apples.

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Speaker 5: Well, there goes my theory.

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Speaker 3: Do you ever do this, Jed? Do you ever feel

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Speaker 3: like you make up a theory in your head and

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Speaker 3: you just kind of go with it.

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Speaker 5: I thought, I because I never saw that on the androids. Honestly,

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Speaker 5: until just now, I always thought that it was just

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Speaker 5: delivered with the androids because I don't text people who

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Speaker 5: have androids.

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Speaker 1: It is interesting, okay.

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Speaker 3: And last one because he was rude and Sherry, what

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Speaker 3: the heck is Jed's problem?

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Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. Hi, I love Sherry.

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Speaker 1: Why I heard she'all talked about me? Well, hold on,

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Speaker 1: I didn't Jed did?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I know it was mister jen mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Sherry. Do you wish Jed would answer his phone more often?

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Speaker 4: It would be nice if he could.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. He does it. By the way, Sherry,

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Speaker 1: you're not alone. He does it to me too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And you know I'm gonna be fifty seven in all

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Speaker 1: many thirty four?

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Speaker 2: Is that the right, Jess?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. I love it, Shery, this fifty

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Speaker 1: six year old virgin. Oh yeah, and yet I'm still

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Speaker 1: in a budget and never bank shit. Still, it will happen.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to happen.

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Speaker 3: We'll see what happens first, Sherry, you you kissing someone?

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Speaker 3: Or Katie finally responding to the text, Yes, exactly, Sherry.

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Speaker 1: We we love you. Hey, Oh my man to end it.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 4: Oh man, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: He yo, don't we don't we know?

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Speaker 2: Like somebody that like probably just reads our messages and

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Speaker 2: doesn't even answers Colby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope Colby's listening right now. Jewels, Jed I

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Speaker 3: are in a group chat with Colby. He doesn't respond.

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Speaker 1: What not anymore?

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Speaker 2: When's the last time he responded?

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Speaker 5: We'll look right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, tell me the last time he responded, because that's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: He works in the office with us for the people

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Speaker 2: who don't know something, Joe and Jens him every day.

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Speaker 5: Last time he responded, let's see, was January seventh. January

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Speaker 5: January is over a week ago. But then before that, though, Ashley,

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Speaker 5: he had not responded since. Still searching, still searching, still searching,

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Speaker 5: still searching. Still So we're going back before Christmas. Now

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Speaker 5: there's a bunch of messages between Jewels, myself and Joe,

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Speaker 5: which we might as well have just started a group

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Speaker 5: chatleng M. You're not going to be mean, Ashley. We're

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Speaker 5: trying to turn a new leaf this year. This is

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Speaker 5: the year of ling because he's playing call of duty.

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Speaker 1: He played that you don't.

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Speaker 4: Want He's not so good for us now.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's looking at us like from a balcony,

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Speaker 1: like he's high class now because he played Call of Duty?

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Speaker 3: Jules, can I play one song and have you back on,

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Speaker 3: because I do have some interesting news that I heard

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Speaker 3: from Jed.

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Speaker 5: All right, that's.

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Speaker 1: One second. One second, well, don't hang up