WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Drinking Activities 

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<v Speaker 1>It was okay. And he's not going to believe it. So,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you take care. You guys have a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>You too, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, why are you not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>after you went on a date? We are going to

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<v Speaker 1>figure that out this morning. Hunter is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us right now. He's gone on multiple dates with

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, and she still hasn't responded to him. After

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<v Speaker 1>how long? What's the last... Time that you've actually talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her. Hunter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's been four days. That's it. Four days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. We were hot and heavy every day. Really?

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys were seeing each other every day. And

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden it's been now that you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen her in four days.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't heard from her at all.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Well, we got to figure out what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to try to find you an answer

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<v Speaker 1>here this morning with the second date update. Say hello

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<v Speaker 1>to Julia, Hunter.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi there.

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<v Speaker 1>Hunter, are you going to speak, or what do you

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<v Speaker 1>got going on here?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm right here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. I didn't hear you say hi.

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<v Speaker 4>I said hello, Julia.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning. Okay, you must be. Where are you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you indoors or outdoors? Because your phone must be.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm indoors.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. All right. Say hello to her. Say something nice

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<v Speaker 1>to her.

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning, Julia.

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<v Speaker 4>Why haven't you called me?

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<v Speaker 5>Straight to the point.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 9>Hey. Um....

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<v Speaker 5>I.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>So... I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's only been, like, four days. This is kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you into Hunter? Do you like him?

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<v Speaker 10>I mean, yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Like, we've gone out a couple times, and he's cute,

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<v Speaker 8>and he's funny and nice.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had a good time.

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<v Speaker 11>Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't mean to ghost.

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<v Speaker 8>I guess I just, you know, been busy and also, like,

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know, didn't know if I really wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 4>On another date or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa.

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<v Speaker 10>Why?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I don't know if I need to, like,

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<v Speaker 8>it's not anything that serious, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of noticed that.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, after our first couple of dates.

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<v Speaker 8>It seems like all Hunter wants to do is like

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<v Speaker 8>drinking activities. Um, like whenever I suggest other things, it's

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<v Speaker 8>always like, it always comes back to let's go to

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<v Speaker 8>the bar or let's go, you know, go out and

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<v Speaker 8>get drinks. And it's like, I mean, I like to

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<v Speaker 8>party and have drinks like the next person, but like.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you scared to be sober around me?

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<v Speaker 8>Like what's the deal with that?

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>That's, that's interesting. That is actually really deep. Hunter.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Listen, I mean, I'm a grown man and I

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<v Speaker 4>enjoy going out and having a good time and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't see anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>With going and having a few drinks and, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>partying and letting loose.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's kind of how we met. That was

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<v Speaker 4>our first three dates and we had a great time.

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<v Speaker 4>So why does that.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to stop? What, what have you guys done for

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<v Speaker 1>your dates? What are some of your dates?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we met at a bar. We went to get,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, drinks, and it was great. We went to

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<v Speaker 4>Atwater the second time. Second date, we got a hotel downtown.

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<v Speaker 4>Hooked up. It was great.

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<v Speaker 3>Third date, we went out again to a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>And, I mean, it was like, for me, it was

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<v Speaker 4>like three for three.

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<v Speaker 5>It was good.

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<v Speaker 4>We laughed. We had fun. And now, all of a sudden, nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I get where she's coming from, though. Because if she's

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<v Speaker 2>recommending other things that she wants to do with you

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<v Speaker 2>that don't include alcohol... Whether she's intentionally doing that or not,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, oh, no, we, you know, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to have some drinks. I guess that

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<v Speaker 2>would make me nervous, for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's just a little, it's a little off.

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<v Speaker 8>Like, you know, I'm not trying to make a, like,

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<v Speaker 8>judgment or anything. It's just like, why does it always

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<v Speaker 8>have to revolve around partying and drinking? But like I said, like,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm like, I'm no goody two-shoes or anything. I like

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<v Speaker 8>to have some fun, but do you really want every

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<v Speaker 8>single date to be just like partying like a frat

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<v Speaker 8>kid kind of vibes, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>How old are you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm 34.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys, okay. I, I have to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, know where else I would take somebody unless

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<v Speaker 1>I was... You know what I mean? Because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a let's go to the park type of a person

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<v Speaker 1>or let's walk around a zoo or whatever. Usually I

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<v Speaker 1>would just take you to any place that we could

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<v Speaker 1>go get something to eat or something to drink. If

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<v Speaker 1>I was single, I'd be a horrible person to date.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that I don't know if I necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>blame him. He's just looking for places to go.

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<v Speaker 8>If I make suggestions of places, then... And instead, we

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<v Speaker 8>want to go just to the bar.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. It's a little, you know.

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<v Speaker 10>What kind of stuff are you trying to suggest that

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<v Speaker 10>you guys do?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I offered, like, for us to go to

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<v Speaker 8>a festival recently. There's other things like movies, putt-putt, bowling,

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<v Speaker 8>getting coffee.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's not like all very normal things.

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<v Speaker 3>Those sound like teenage activities to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 9>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Going to a festival? Can I be honest, though, on coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>And I know it is another beverage, and I love coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes I feel like when you go to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>get coffee or if you're going to get, you know, to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee place, I feel like they don't want you there. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. What do you mean? I don't know. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going there for a date, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there would be– it's not as intimate as having a drink,

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<v Speaker 1>unwinding a little bit, makes you feel a little loose.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe Hunter feels a little nervous around you. Maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>needs a little bit of alcohol. just to calm him

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Let me ask you this. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>coffee dates are the best. Highly recommend. You like coffee dates?

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<v Speaker 1>How many drinks is he drinking? Like, if he's drinking, like,

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<v Speaker 1>12 drinks, okay. But if he has one drink, is

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<v Speaker 1>it that bad?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, of course, like, a drink or.

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<v Speaker 1>Two wouldn't be bad.

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<v Speaker 8>These evenings have gotten kind of boozy, which is, like

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<v Speaker 8>I said, from time to time is a fun thing

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<v Speaker 8>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all you've known so far with him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all I've seen and known.

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<v Speaker 8>That seems to be all he wants to like do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I'd love to get to know somebody outside of

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<v Speaker 8>that and, you know, be able to have, I think

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<v Speaker 8>you can sometimes have more meaningful conversation when you aren't

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<v Speaker 8>like tipsy or drunk, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Angel wants to comment. Angel, what are your thoughts on this?

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<v Speaker 7>If he has to drink every single time he's with her,

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<v Speaker 7>he doesn't actually like her. Like I understand where she's

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<v Speaker 7>coming from, like wanting to do other things, like going

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<v Speaker 7>out and doing fun activities, because if they get into

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<v Speaker 7>a relationship, is he going to be drunk and drinking

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<v Speaker 7>every single day that they're together?

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<v Speaker 1>That seems really like a heavy statement to say that if,

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<v Speaker 1>That he doesn't want to be around her because of that?

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<v Speaker 4>That's not true.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just why do you have to drink and party

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<v Speaker 7>every single time that you're with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 11>Is this how you are with all of the women

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<v Speaker 11>that you date? Like, is this just what you like

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<v Speaker 11>to do with women?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, and I've, you know, had a good time

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<v Speaker 4>while I do it. I don't see anything wrong with it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I can definitely do other things. I just

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<v Speaker 4>didn't think any of the activities she suggested... for date

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<v Speaker 4>four were something fun. So maybe that turned her off.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That's more the reason why y'all shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be here.

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<v Speaker 7>They're just on different pages.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 10>He's just trying to have a good time, man. And

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<v Speaker 10>that's his idea of a good time. They just don't

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<v Speaker 10>seem compatible in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Cav, where do you take your girls to if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a non-alcohol place? Your house. Yeah, that's one of the places.

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<v Speaker 1>But you do like the Riverwalk. I feel like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 1>A few places, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I bring so much. That's our special place.

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<v Speaker 10>Don't tell everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Annie.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Annie.

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<v Speaker 1>Annie. See, Annie's proven you can go somewhere besides alcohol.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you just order with light ice?

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<v Speaker 10>I ordered a Coca-Cola with light ice.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm in the McDonald's drive-thru.

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<v Speaker 1>See you there. She's got the Jack in her purse.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't let her fool you. What do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say about these guys?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, I think that she should just drop him.

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<v Speaker 5>All he wants to do is just go out and

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<v Speaker 5>have alcohol.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, how many times does he drink a day?

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like a really concerning thing.

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<v Speaker 5>He sounds like he might have an alcohol problem. Calling regular,

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<v Speaker 5>normal dates, teenage activities is really terrible.

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<v Speaker 10>Like, what else do you do.

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<v Speaker 4>With your free time?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That just seems a little harsh, Annie.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Harsh or no?

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<v Speaker 11>But Mojo, they're not going out to dinner and having

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<v Speaker 11>a glass of wine. It sounds like he's trying to

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<v Speaker 11>get plastered every time.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked the question, how many drinks is he drinking?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said a lot. How many drinks are you drinking?

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<v Speaker 3>Four or five over the course of a night.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll talk. Okay, that's a lot. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot. And honestly. He was on his side.

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<v Speaker 2>But even if you said one, which is not a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if you said one, it's like you still need

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<v Speaker 2>to branch out and do other things.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're getting to know somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>If you take him to church and all he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to do is go get the wine, then we know

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<v Speaker 1>we got a problem. I'm only going on first Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Dana?

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<v Speaker 11>Dana.

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<v Speaker 9>Hi, I was just calling in and saying that I

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<v Speaker 9>feel she should cut him off if he thinks that

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<v Speaker 9>he needs to go to the bar all the time.

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<v Speaker 9>I feel like the bar is your prime time, so

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<v Speaker 9>your younger 20s. But I don't see why the other

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<v Speaker 9>activities isn't kind of adult-like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm 26 and I.

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<v Speaker 9>Don't see myself at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Hunter, there's nobody thinking that you're right in this one here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on. Ricky, maybe. Ricky, what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>What's up, Mojo and the crew?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, man.

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<v Speaker 6>He got to tone it down some because it seems like.

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<v Speaker 1>She liked the young man, but.

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<v Speaker 4>She choose a place to go. He don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on.

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<v Speaker 8>She's a woman.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you know, that's the only way you're going

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<v Speaker 6>to get it. That's why she stopped, you know, dealing

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<v Speaker 6>with it, because he don't want to do what she

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<v Speaker 6>want to do. Just give it a try. Maybe it'll work.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, all the drinking, it's not cause for it.

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<v Speaker 6>It's okay to drink once in a while, but come on, man.

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<v Speaker 6>The young lady like you, man. Give her a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to work with it. Thank you, Ricky. I

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<v Speaker 1>like Ricky. Sarah, what's up, Sarah?

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<v Speaker 5>This way of thinking is exactly why men in their

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<v Speaker 5>late 30s are single. Because all they want to do

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<v Speaker 5>is what they want to do And what he wants

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<v Speaker 5>to do is clearly get drunk, have a good time

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<v Speaker 5>with her, get in her pants, and then that's the

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<v Speaker 5>only thing that's concerning him right now. So when she's

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<v Speaker 5>not calling him, he's not getting the attention he wants.

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<v Speaker 5>And when he takes her out, it's about what he wants.

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<v Speaker 11>Selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>If he switched up right now, would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with him, Julia, or is it too late that

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<v Speaker 1>you've already learned who he is?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>This has been kind of eye-opening and a little awkward.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know if I would go on another date

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<v Speaker 8>after this or not.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd have to think about it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Yeah, because I was going to say, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that there's a way that you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>going on another date. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 6>Trevor.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Hunter.

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<v Speaker 10>Hunter, would you be willing to try one of these

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<v Speaker 10>experiences that she's mentioned to you?

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<v Speaker 1>A coffee or... putt-putt or anything like that? Yes, I would.

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<v Speaker 3>I liked Ricky kind of spoke to me. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that was two callers ago. I liked what he had

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<v Speaker 3>to say. And yeah, I mean, listen, I would.

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<v Speaker 4>Do something like that. And I try not to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>when it's over, can we go to the bar? But

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's just, that's what I do and.

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<v Speaker 1>What I know.

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<v Speaker 4>And I have a good time with it. So that's me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to be me, but I'm, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>did like The time we spent together, I thought we

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<v Speaker 3>had fun. That's what upset me about it. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm willing to compromise to see if she'll go out again.

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<v Speaker 10>And that's the interesting thing he just said.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 10>This is what he's used to. So he's just doing

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<v Speaker 10>what he knows, but he is willing to open himself up.

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<v Speaker 10>Go on another date, man.

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<v Speaker 1>You might work out. Think about it, Julia. If you want,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it. Otherwise, no worries, no pressure. Second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. The five lies to tell your mom phone scams.

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<v Speaker 1>And Shannon's dirty on the 30. This is Mojo in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. All right. Secret sound.