WEBVTT - What's Considered a Date?

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<v Speaker 1>S'smo joone in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So my wife was texting with another man last night

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<v Speaker 2>again and I was like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you texting?

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<v Speaker 2>She says, I'm texting with Kevin And I said, oh really,

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<v Speaker 2>And I said why is that? And she said, because

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin is on a date. So I asked Kevin just

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<v Speaker 2>a second ago, when we were off the air, I go, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 2>how is your date? He goes, it won't a date,

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<v Speaker 2>and I go, what do you mean it wasn't a date?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you not classify it as a date?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I think there are certain.

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<v Speaker 3>Times you go out with a person and you just

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<v Speaker 3>go out with them. You may not have any intention

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<v Speaker 3>on really seeing this person in that way. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>a fun thing. It's just something to do. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>really like you know what I see you identify you

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<v Speaker 3>with somebody I'm trying to court. I want this to

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<v Speaker 3>be something more. This wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a hangout. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a couple of weeks ago, I'll posted on my

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram story I wanted to get a massage. I think

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<v Speaker 3>some people lurk and they file certain things. So if

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<v Speaker 3>you say something publicly they'll say noted, they'll put that

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<v Speaker 3>in their back pocket. Weeks later, she posted on her

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<v Speaker 3>a little and you know, like Instagram stories, you could

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<v Speaker 3>put like a capsule or something. Now, so she put

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<v Speaker 3>on there, I want to get a massage.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hit her.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, let's go get massages and then we

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<v Speaker 3>go back and for Launcher and shot them like, you

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<v Speaker 3>pay for the massage, you pay for the massage. She

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't trying to do that, but she ended up doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you pay for the massage, I'll pay

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<v Speaker 3>for the food afterwards. So that's what we did yesterday. Massage.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, this story is way more complicated.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the only one who thought it wasn't a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she also know that? How do you know if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else knows it's a date? I think most you

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<v Speaker 1>invited her to do something out. Does that mean date?

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<v Speaker 2>Most women think that if they're going out with a

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<v Speaker 2>man one on one and date and getting a massage to.

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<v Speaker 3>Depends on what your relationship is, though we don't have

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship at all, Like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Last night would date you if you now?

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<v Speaker 3>I can tell now from last night she had a

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<v Speaker 3>wonderful time. We wouldn't like we wouldn't we wouldn't leave

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<v Speaker 3>each other, like we got into the music bag. Like

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying, Like play me your deepest song,

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<v Speaker 3>playing my deepest song, let's talk about it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I established meaningful connections with people, so I

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<v Speaker 3>can see why it made.

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<v Speaker 1>It feel like you master manipulator. I just like enjoying

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else's company, you know what I mean? Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>really really do know what you mean.

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<v Speaker 2>But now that you know that she has feelings for you,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to make it very clear that it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like that, or she is going to get all wrapped

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<v Speaker 2>up and keV knows.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's okay. Though all were with her. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do anything. I kissed her at the end.

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<v Speaker 4>We just.

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<v Speaker 1>Date. Then it's still giving her little crumbs of hope.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay. But you don't want to be in a relationship, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't we just hang out? Why does everything have

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<v Speaker 1>to be? Why not? Because caussing is like that's a

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<v Speaker 1>form of intimacy.

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<v Speaker 3>But if the vibe is there, if it leads to that,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Where does Chelsea figure into this story?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so I actually on Chelsea because I was out

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<v Speaker 3>near like I guess where Chelsea hangs out. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, hey, I'm going out with somebody. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>like that, but give me somewhere good to eat. And

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<v Speaker 3>she sent me some recommendation.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did she?

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<v Speaker 4>Where you go?

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<v Speaker 1>So what's what's it called? Road? Roadside?

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<v Speaker 4>All?

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<v Speaker 3>So they walk and see and they sit us down

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<v Speaker 3>brownie points. These ladies start staring at me. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna, not gonna acknowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll take her on a non day sometime. And

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<v Speaker 1>the lady was like Kevin, and then the ladies, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, like Ojo, what do you think of this spot?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Give me date vibes?

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<v Speaker 2>The restaurant, well, I have gone there with Chelsea alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone there with Chelsea and the and the boys,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. So it can be both. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a very nice restaurant. It's it's not I would

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<v Speaker 2>call it romantic, but it can be.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys sit on the same side at the

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<v Speaker 1>table or how would you do that? That's awkward that time?

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 3>So I can hear him if you touch you feeling,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you can get all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, eight four four six six five six five four eight.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Kylie? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>But how are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>We're good, Kylie? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Good? Ken?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not we are you have two we are single.

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<v Speaker 3>You have two single people who needed a massage and

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<v Speaker 3>we went together.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, the communication is key. What am I communicating?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, why am I communicating something before? I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like it needs to be communicated, Like we don't

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<v Speaker 3>even know anything yet. Why am I already setting boundaries?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you need to set boundaries if you don't think

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<v Speaker 4>that you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna date or well I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know yet, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's not my intention. It couldn't be offering. If you

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<v Speaker 3>enter a situation you just want to hang out with

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<v Speaker 3>someone and he's automatically like, hey, before this goes anywhere,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to date anybody, Like, bro, we not

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<v Speaker 3>even I'm not even trying to date you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, let's just relax, okay, Okay, I get it, Kye, Kylie.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, this guy has so many different definitions and explanations,

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<v Speaker 2>definitions and accusations.

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<v Speaker 1>We need we need a dictionary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, false false, Thanks for the call, Kylie, have a

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<v Speaker 2>great morning. What's up Amy? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning? How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening? keV?

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<v Speaker 3>I love you, but I am cussing you out so

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<v Speaker 3>bad in my car right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't play with that girl's emotions, dude, don't don't kiss

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<v Speaker 4>her if you don't want that. You got my blood

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<v Speaker 4>pressure up this morning at six twenty two am.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. It was a mere lah on the lips.

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<v Speaker 2>It was.

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<v Speaker 1>On the cheek. It started on the cheek and no, sir, no,

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never gone and get a massage with anybody

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<v Speaker 1>besides my.

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<v Speaker 4>Fiance when we were dating.

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<v Speaker 3>This was probably I want to say it was maybe

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<v Speaker 3>my second massage of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say my first massage.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple of massage or you went separately.

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<v Speaker 3>In individual rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>We were in individual rooms. Did they call it a

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<v Speaker 1>little less Yeah, but nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that you buy two individual massages or

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<v Speaker 2>did you get the double massage?

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<v Speaker 1>I called it a couple of massage.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, he called it a couple of massages when I

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<v Speaker 3>when I went in, and that's how I said, may

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<v Speaker 3>have you ready for our couple's massage and.

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<v Speaker 1>Babe, you gotta have fun with life.

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<v Speaker 4>You are.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what the vibe called for. Amazing And I got

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<v Speaker 1>naked naked for your massage. Oh yeah, I lady. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, can I take my draws off? She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do whatever you want? Was like that, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Justin? How you doing? Smojo on the

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<v Speaker 1>morning show?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>What what's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Mojo?

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<v Speaker 1>Buddy?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, man, I can't mind gonna lie. They say maybe

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a dog. Bro. You are You know when you

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<v Speaker 4>when you when you when you said you want to

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<v Speaker 4>go on the massage, You ain't going on the stop show.

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<v Speaker 4>Best friend, my man, you know you know what's going

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<v Speaker 4>on in the fact you're trying to play it crazy

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<v Speaker 4>to give your wh.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>You got to do better, man, You got you got

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<v Speaker 4>because I'll be rudined for you every morning. I'll be happy.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't know what to be talking about but today,

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<v Speaker 4>cause I ain't gonna lie to you. My brother. You

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<v Speaker 4>was on the day, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where the line is.

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<v Speaker 4>You was on the day. Bro. You kissed the good

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<v Speaker 4>night and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why listen, I didn't I didn't touch anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, does that count My hands state above the.

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<v Speaker 4>Touch each other, so that means it's all like each other?

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<v Speaker 1>Are there? Aren't there levels to kissing?

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<v Speaker 4>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't serious, you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm saying, Arthur, I feel like if your hands

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<v Speaker 3>stay above the waist or they don't touch anything.

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<v Speaker 4>First date, this is our first date, right, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not I'm not even gonna say it was our first day.

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<v Speaker 1>It was our first time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what we need? Can I be honest with you?

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<v Speaker 2>We need to get her definition.

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<v Speaker 4>Because we know you and live sprinting and everything. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning probably was it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was literally justin thanks buddy, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Turn your radio down?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my bad, my bad, Hey cav don't let nobody

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<v Speaker 4>hand you this man, because look I did the same

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<v Speaker 4>thing a few weeks ago that they.

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<v Speaker 1>Were slipped out on me.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean a couple of massages. It was just

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<v Speaker 4>you know, get to.

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<v Speaker 1>Nowhere, man, Thank you? You know, and how did the

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<v Speaker 1>things go? Are you guys? Are you guys still.

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<v Speaker 4>Talking that little kids? It's just a welcoming kids. You

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<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you still talking to that girl? Are you are

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<v Speaker 2>you are you not hearing me, or you just don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to answer that question.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard you, mojn't look I communicate, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>communicate with Maybe it's the same girl, poor girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been I've been playing in the snow since day one, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Unbelievable. This is why girls say that guys are listen. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't think they ain't all you're doing the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, stop playing this, go both ways, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Mojoe in the Morning Show.