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Speaker 1: Do you agree or disagree with this statement? Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: RSVP culture is broken?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if anybody really uses it anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, people use people RSVP all the time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: When I get something, I don't RSVP. I just show up.

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Speaker 4: Secury rules. You were wondering if the system is what

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Speaker 4: Elliott broken?

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Speaker 1: Broken? Doesn't seem like it.

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Speaker 5: So wait a minute, so and I mean think, I

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Speaker 5: mean you can get our.

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Speaker 4: Jen you know better.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so if.

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Speaker 5: It's somebody's like I'm there trying to think like I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I was gonna go small and do like like a

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Speaker 5: like a dinner, but you're talking about somebody sends you

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Speaker 5: an invite to like a wedding and you you don't

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Speaker 5: even answer.

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Speaker 1: You just show up.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, they know where I'm coming.

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Speaker 1: No, actually they don't. That's why you are SVP.

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Speaker 4: She's the one that you have to track it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to text forty times.

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Speaker 1: The oh are you coming or not? You invited me?

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Speaker 1: You invited me? Oh my god. No, I was reading

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Speaker 1: this whole thing.

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Speaker 5: I guess I've never thought of it about whether or

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Speaker 5: not they said RSVP culture is destroyed?

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Speaker 4: What killed it?

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Speaker 5: You know what, they blame a couple of things. They

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Speaker 5: blame and they don't know whether whether they don't know,

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Speaker 5: rather to blame the RSVP er or the host, the

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Speaker 5: host meeting whoever is having the event, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And they don't know which one is to blame.

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Speaker 3: I would think it would it would foam more on

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Speaker 3: the person who's not RSVP ing when they're being asked

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Speaker 3: to why because it's just a common courtesy. I mean,

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Speaker 3: my my head is going to like a wedding because

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Speaker 3: those are always RSVPs, right, well, not to everybody.

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Speaker 4: That's so formal though, right, And you're not really getting

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Speaker 4: sometimes not always, but you're getting a letter in the

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Speaker 4: mail and then there's a letter to mail back like it's.

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Speaker 1: That never happened. And by the way, that is one

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Speaker 1: of the problems.

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Speaker 4: What the tradition is a problem.

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Speaker 3: What people are forgetting.

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Speaker 1: The lack of tradition is the problem.

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Speaker 3: So that that old way was the better way as

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Speaker 3: opposed to it being.

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Speaker 1: All online, yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Because that people are more apt to forget.

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Speaker 1: Or no no, no, no, no no no. So where

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Speaker 1: do you want to start, Where do you want to start?

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Speaker 4: How about that people don't send out.

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Speaker 5: Nobody sends out nobody sends out mailers anymore. Nobody sends

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Speaker 5: out anything in the mail. And again, it's very easy

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Speaker 5: to just go to a wedding. But it could be

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Speaker 5: for anything. You could be having a housewarming party, you

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Speaker 5: could be having a birthday party, you could be having

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Speaker 5: it could be anything. But they say it used to

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Speaker 1: There was no evite.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and see who you know, see who checks yes,

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Speaker 5: and who checks. Now that if you wanted, if you

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Speaker 5: wanted to invite somebody to come to something, you had

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Speaker 5: to send out an invitation. And again, housewarming, birthday, celebration,

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Speaker 5: anniversary party, whatever it was, you would have to send

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Speaker 5: you're coming. You have to RSVP, right, nobody does it,

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Speaker 5: so that's on the host. So they blame the host

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Speaker 5: and go people stop doing that. And when it did

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Speaker 5: it it made it very personal.

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Speaker 4: So hold on, so people stopped including response cards.

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Speaker 1: People don't even send out invitation.

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Speaker 4: Oh I did not know that.

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Speaker 5: Like if you and Lindsey were going to have an

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Speaker 5: know what I've just realized, as I said that today's

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Speaker 5: my anniversary. If I were going to have an anniverse

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Speaker 5: to send out an invitation. I mean, not to you guys.

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Speaker 5: I would just tell you here, but you would send

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Speaker 4: Diane knows if she's gonna come or not. You should

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Speaker 5: But nobody does that for anything. Nobody does that for anything.

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Speaker 5: But when somebody did send out an invitation, number one,

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Speaker 5: you got it, and there was a if you said yes,

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Speaker 5: like you may take a little bit of.

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Speaker 1: Time to answer and figure out, but if you said yes.

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Speaker 5: You were signing a commitment that you were going like up,

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Speaker 5: I already said yes, we're in.

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Speaker 4: You probably also picked what dish you.

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Speaker 5: So that's the part of the host that f'd up

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Speaker 5: now is the receiver. So when everybody started going to evites,

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Speaker 5: two things. Two things changed immediately. Number one, and this

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Speaker 5: isn't true in all of them, Who's going, Who's going? Oh,

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Speaker 5: don't hide responses?

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Speaker 5: And you would see the number of people in invited,

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Speaker 5: and you could see who the yeses were the nose

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Speaker 5: not doing this. So it was it became a does

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Speaker 5: this benefit me? And all of a sudden, it's not

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Speaker 5: about benefiting the host. The host may want you to go,

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Speaker 5: the host wanted you there, but you're looking through it going, well,

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Speaker 5: this one's not there, going, this one's not going. I

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Speaker 5: don't want to go, and you say no. The other

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Speaker 5: thing that it made real easy if you so let's

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Speaker 5: back up a step. If you got an invitation in

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Speaker 5: the mail that you are svp'd and sent your response

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Speaker 1: Response, it was an effort. You had to call them.

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Speaker 5: You had to text them, but you had to make

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Speaker 5: contact with them and tell them I am not coming.

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Speaker 5: And again I don't mean that you're speaking to them,

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Speaker 5: but you would have to send them a text and go, hey, Tyler, sorry.

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Speaker 1: Here comes a lie. Something came up. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to be able to make it. But you had to contact.

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Speaker 4: Them, and that's at least in the world of texting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but previously call now just changed me from yes

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Speaker 1: It's fine.

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Speaker 4: So honestly, it all boils down to whether it's the

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Speaker 1: It's manners, I guess if you want to look at

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Speaker 4: If you're choosing not to go to the formal route,

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Speaker 1: But if you're not, if it's just a bunch of

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Speaker 4: Said, okay, okay, but then if you go to the

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Speaker 4: guest side, it's the treatment of the invite. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 4: treating it like it's not a big deal whatsoever.

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Speaker 7: True.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, not only is it not a big deal, I'll

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Speaker 5: see what else comes up a lot of times and

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Speaker 5: who else is going?

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Speaker 4: Those guest lists are needed not to just no, but

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Speaker 3: Yeah what do you mean? And then you got to

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Speaker 5: Seating charts not for everything. Not everything is a wedding

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Speaker 3: Shopping is the big Okay, okay, Yeah, you don't want

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Speaker 5: Right. Well, they were talking to this one woman who

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Speaker 5: I don't know if it was on evite or whatever,

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Speaker 5: it was, but when she when she did it, fifty

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she went out.

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Speaker 5: She was buying and she wasn't getting anything fancy pizzas, snacks, drinks, whatever,

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Speaker 5: And then she went out and bought all of it.

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Speaker 5: Morning of nope, nope, nope, nope, eight people showed up.

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Speaker 3: Oh got eight pissed yea.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's sitting there with forty five pizzas and kegs.

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Speaker 5: Eight people showed up, and she said she felt pathetic. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: like on the morning of it was too easy for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, I'm tired. I'm not going. Oh,

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Speaker 4: So are popular people with friends inundated with evs? Maybe

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Speaker 4: I just can't wrap my head around that. Like the

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Speaker 4: times I've ever received evites, they were for like significant occurrences.

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Speaker 4: Really yeah, No, I've never gotten an evite for something

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Speaker 3: I feel like we get them for Christmas open houses

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Speaker 5: You know, I've never been to a Christmas open house.

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Speaker 5: Are you talking about like a Taggy light show? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, people having like cocktails at their at their

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Speaker 3: anytime between you know, six and eleven, that kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh, or have you ever got one of those?

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Speaker 5: I've gotten together with friends over like Christmas break, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And I feel like, and then there's our our friends

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Speaker 3: massive evite because there's like hundreds of people that get

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Speaker 5: Oh do they and do they allow can I view responses?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's good because then I got to figure out

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Speaker 5: I like, if you go back to old school of

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Speaker 5: like like mail out invitations, like if somebody was doing

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Speaker 5: quietly asking imagine, yeah, it would be I don't even

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Speaker 5: we get invited to Roach's birthday?

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Speaker 3: Well, don't ask me no exactly exactly it was the email?

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Speaker 1: Were they individualized emails or was it a group email?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: Because you couldn't see the response.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't a group email.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so it would be like, hey.

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Speaker 4: Did you get No, that's not what happened. We'd brought

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Speaker 4: it up on the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's when Diane didn't realize.

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Speaker 5: No, but at least at least if it was an

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Speaker 5: individual email, Diane had no idea.

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Speaker 4: Said join us for dinner to celebrate Gregory's fiftieth I

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Speaker 4: went Saturday, October first, twenty twenty two. It was an evite,

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Speaker 4: true evite. It wasn't like and there's so many different

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Speaker 4: companies that do this now and that we just we

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Speaker 5: But did it take you to their to their's because

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Speaker 5: a lot of like evites, you just click on the

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Speaker 4: Didn't you get in trouble because you weren't responding for this? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you had to get tracked down by Katie, Yes, by

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Speaker 1: Yes. And then we during this and I told her,

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Speaker 1: Like the good old days. That's the good old days.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but like the last evite I have outside of work,

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Speaker 4: That was the only one that came up in outlook.

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Speaker 4: But for personal it's a rehearsal dinner in twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: And I was the best man?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: So it's just not something that's part of my life.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to say we get them all the time,

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Speaker 5: but we get them regularly, Jackie and I get them regularly.

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Speaker 4: And are you bad about it? Like we're talking with manners,

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Speaker 4: Does white person rely on your wife a lot?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because I'll delay because I want to see

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Speaker 5: I can see who's going going because and again I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm part of the problem. Is and that that this

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Speaker 5: When you could see who's attending and not attending, you

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Speaker 5: benefit me? I'm not looking at it to benefit me.

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Speaker 5: I just look at it and go.

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Speaker 3: How fun is this going to be?

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Speaker 5: If Diane was throwing a party and the evite came

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Speaker 5: out and it was all of your like Radford girlfriends

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Speaker 1: I'm not going.

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Speaker 5: I may say yes the day I get it and

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Speaker 4: If I was on the scene in ninety eight, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been around on it for a very long time.

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Speaker 4: And it wasn't even the first online RCP website.

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Speaker 1: What was.

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Speaker 4: Well, I should have antic party?

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Speaker 1: When is party full? When did that come out?

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know that P A.

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Speaker 1: R T I F youl. It's the same same thing

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Speaker 5: Twenty twenty oh so a little more recent, a little

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Speaker 1: Where am I going? Line one? Hi Elliott the party?

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Speaker 7: Hey Elliot's say from Fairfax.

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Speaker 1: I know, man, Hey good, what's going on, dude?

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Speaker 7: Hey? Yeah, So we're doing a birthday party, forty year

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Speaker 7: old birthday party, sending out these evites and it is

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Speaker 7: my single friends and are you coming? Answer the freaking evite?

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Speaker 7: So I know if you're coming or not.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well they're gonna, but they're gonna wait and see

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Speaker 5: who else is coming.

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Speaker 1: Are you hiding?

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Speaker 7: Responses I didn't know you could do that. I should

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, no, no, no, no, you don't want

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Speaker 1: to do no. I want to know who's coming.

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Speaker 4: As a possible I want to know what if it's just.

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Speaker 1: All Diane's Radford girlfriends.

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, hide responses that that's troublesome.

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Speaker 1: So you're doing how many? How many?

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Speaker 5: How many people did you invite to the fortieth birthday party?

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Speaker 7: Well we only did one side of the couple because

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Speaker 7: you had to pay for to invite or evite or whatever,

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Speaker 7: So we total invited like one hundred people. So it's

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Speaker 7: way too many people. But you send out like fifty

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Speaker 7: evites and somehow my mom responded that she's inviting another guest,

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Speaker 7: don't know. You gotta worry about the old people not

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Speaker 7: knowing how hevites wear it call.

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Speaker 1: So but yeah, so you would agree.

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Speaker 5: Now in hindsight, do people wish that you would have

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Speaker 5: mailed them an actual invite?

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Speaker 7: I can't imagine we would get any response with that.

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Speaker 7: Who checks their mail anymore?

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Speaker 5: Well, I was gonna say that's the other thing is

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Speaker 1: But I don't want that, you know, the worst thing

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Speaker 5: I gotta be careful saying this a wedding invitation because

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Speaker 5: now absolutely yeah, because now you have to mail.

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Speaker 1: But first you got to mail back the response.

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Speaker 5: Then you got to keep whatever it is, so you know,

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Speaker 5: and like getting it, getting an invitation in the mail

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Speaker 5: is a real inconvenience.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, But like you said, also, I'm actually a little

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Speaker 7: worried about people the morning of saying oh, you know what,

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Speaker 7: I don't feel like it today, and then changing it,

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Speaker 7: you know, the day of, and then I got food

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Speaker 7: for one hundred people, and then you know, I gotta

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Speaker 7: drink all the beer myself.

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Speaker 1: I can. I can make this promise to you.

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Speaker 5: And like you said, it's a fortieth birthday party and

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Speaker 1: What day of the week is the party?

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Speaker 7: It's a Tuesday. No, it's a Saturday.

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Speaker 4: Come on, man, Oh I don't I wouldn't it be

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Speaker 4: a Saturday. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what they're into. Maybe the venue was cheaper.

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Speaker 5: Here's what I can tell you. A bunch of them

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Speaker 5: are going to get housed on Friday night. They're gonna

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Speaker 5: wake up on Saturday and be like fat man, I

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Speaker 5: ain't even getting out of bed. I'm telling you you

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Speaker 5: know it's coming.

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Speaker 7: Go go pick them up at their house. If they

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Speaker 7: do that, probably be getting trash with me. That's the

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Speaker 7: prob the car.

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Speaker 1: All right, dude, I saw.

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Speaker 7: My friends coming in, family coming into town. We're gonna

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Speaker 7: be getting drunk on Friday night, and now you know

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Speaker 7: the party.

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Speaker 1: Out for a fortieth all right? Thank you my friend.

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Speaker 4: Yes, So if you don't want to send back a

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Speaker 4: response card, oh I hate it is the model of

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Speaker 4: mailed invitation, but online response better for you.

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Speaker 1: No, because I still want to see who's going Kristen.

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Speaker 4: Is that what you did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I thought so.

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Speaker 1: That's what you did. We got one in the mail

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Speaker 1: and then responded online, Did I do that? Jack did?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 1: I have to go to a wedding in December? You do? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is it out of town?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 4: During regular holiday break? No, so do we have a

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Speaker 4: day off?

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Speaker 1: No, Jackie's going early. I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Where's the wedding Europe Houston? Oh you can do that

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Speaker 4: in a weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 1: Jackie was like, we.

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Speaker 5: Should go, and I was like, perfect, I'll see you

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Speaker 4: You don't have to be there for anything in the

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Speaker 4: morning on Friday.

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Speaker 1: I was invited, but I'm not going.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm also not going to make the dinner.

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Speaker 4: Is this a friend or is this like a you're

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Speaker 4: saying same? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: Is this wait? Is this I'm going?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I don't even know. No, I have a

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Speaker 3: Friday Friday wedding. I'm not sure of the exact Timeriday wedding,

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Speaker 3: Friday wedding that I'm that. I'm I'll try my best

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Speaker 1: You know what, you'll see the reception. Yeah, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: ain't getting off for that.

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Speaker 4: Are you domestic?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It's in Detroit.

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, that's.

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Speaker 4: Not like you're just driving from work to get there now.

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Speaker 3: No, I'll drive from here to the airport.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'll get there for the end of the reception.

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Speaker 4: We'll see did you did? Does he know about this?

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Speaker 1: No, this is the first I've heard of it.

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Speaker 4: This is in December. Also, No, it's in October.

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Speaker 1: No, this is the first I've heard of it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it was also in December. If

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Speaker 5: No, we're not taking that Friday off. No, the no,

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Speaker 5: it's the one in Houston's a family wedding.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's friends.

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Speaker 5: No, it's a family wedding. But I'm not I'm going

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Speaker 5: to the wedding. I'm not going to anything beforehand.

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Speaker 4: And you's this family as well.

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Speaker 1: Jesus h I hope there ain't listening.

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Speaker 4: From Instagram. I currently have four evites out right now.

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Speaker 1: Wait that they sent out.

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Speaker 4: That they are hosting.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what are you hosting? I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: I bet they're not getting a lot of responses. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, another party? We get it.

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe one is something like you always just joke

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Speaker 4: about the promotions, not realizing that Halloween's coming up October

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Speaker 4: Halloween I can see one of them says Halloween extravaganza.

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Speaker 4: The other two look like birthday parties.

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Speaker 5: Wait a minute, it's June when I have the RSVP

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Speaker 5: what I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: For HALLOWEENA Oh, okay, that you need annual Halloween extravaganza.

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Speaker 5: So this is their thing? Okay, I don't know. I

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Speaker 5: know what day of the week Halloween is. I don't

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Speaker 5: know what I'm doing it. I have no clue. Don't

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Speaker 5: ask me in June. No offense to that person, But

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Speaker 5: now you're putting my feet to the fire that I

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Speaker 4: Well, there are events actually on the Friday before. Oh,

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Speaker 4: when's the wedding? Is it the thirtieth?

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Speaker 3: No, No, it's not Halloween, because.

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Speaker 1: Then you'd make it back in time for the Halloween

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Speaker 1: part Nos. No, you'd miss it because it is.

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Speaker 4: You're going to miss the wedding anyway. Yeah, so are

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Speaker 4: you missing morning activities or mid activities on the Friday?

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Speaker 3: From what I have heard, very scant details about it.

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Speaker 3: But I guess I'm not sure exactly what time the

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Speaker 3: stuff that's happening Friday.

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Speaker 1: You're not making any of that.

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Speaker 3: No, No, that's why I say I'll probably get there

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Speaker 3: for the reception, right whatever.

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Speaker 1: have said something to me.

452
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 3: No, I just know how I've learned about it or

453
00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 3: what the answer is going to be.

454
00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 4: That's why.

455
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 1: No, you don't know that.

456
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,440
Speaker 3: Okay, can I have the Friday off?

457
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 4: Then no? So I'm saying you have it off? That

458
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 4: can the show take off?

459
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: That's a very selfish approach.

460
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 4: From Regina on Facebook. My stepmother fusses about RSVP for

461
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 4: Christmas dinner. Yeah, like you're gonna throw me out if

462
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 4: I don't show, if I show up at my dad's house.

463
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,120
Speaker 1: But that is but like that, that's a food issue.

464
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,480
Speaker 1: That's a food issue.

465
00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 4: No, she's saying, come on, you know that these very

466
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 4: close family members are going to be there for something

467
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 4: like that Christmas dinner, right.

468
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 1: No, but maybe something came up this year.

469
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 5: Maybe you're going to if she's going, maybe they're going

470
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Speaker 5: to the other side of the family for dinner.

471
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 4: But is that a case where the online platforms are

472
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:52,200
Speaker 4: over used?

473
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: Yes, that just pick up a goddamn phone.

474
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 4: Because at least the person who had three or four

475
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 4: out they were birthday parties and the Halloween thing. They

476
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 4: were like really celebratory dates. Christmas dinner is going to

477
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 4: happen if you don't have to say it's our annual

478
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 4: Christmas dinner. It's it's just a thing.

479
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 1: Right.

480
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 4: So when the person's relying on you to respond to

481
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 4: you're like, come on, you know I'm going to be there,

482
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 4: Thank you.

483
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 1: Where am I going? Line four?

484
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 4: Don't write that for your wedding.

485
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 1: We don't know that.

486
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 4: I'm nervous for it. Now what time?

487
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 3: I don't know what time it is. All I've gotten

488
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 3: is to save the date.

489
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 1: Oh so maybe they're doing that very true wedding.

490
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 3: No, but I know it's it's going to be Friday,

491
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 3: and I'm assuming it's going to be Friday evening ish.

492
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: Oh, you should be able to make this.

493
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 4: I really hope, because you say I.

494
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 3: Think there's like there's a dinner or something, but.

495
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 4: I'm really hoping it's not like a thirty wedding.

496
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 3: Well, I'll find out. Hi, I see how fast I

497
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 3: can get to rate it.

498
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: No, I'll get off early. Hi, Elliot in the morning,

499
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: Good morning Elliott. Yes, Hi, who's this?

500
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 7: This is Todd?

501
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 1: Yes, Todd. What can I do for you?

502
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 6: We like getting the email of the uh in the mail,

503
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,239
Speaker 6: the invitations in the mail. We do is we go

504
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 6: my wife and I because we use it as part

505
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 6: of the gift. We go get a picture frame and

506
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 6: have it professionally, you know, set in a picture frame

507
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 6: and engraved in a picture frame, so they always have

508
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 6: their invitations.

509
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:33,439
Speaker 4: That's nice.

510
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 1: That's a gift.

511
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, the gift. It's a it's an expensive picture frame.

512
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: You realize I gave that to you. That that's that

513
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 1: you're You're Indian getting it? Well, no, so you're not.

514
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 3: No, but he's taking he's taking, no, but taking that

515
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 3: and then making it into a gift. Don't don't you

516
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 3: guys have a framed wedding in the.

517
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. We do not see we do?

518
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: I don't think so yeah, I do.

519
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 7: We do.

520
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 3: It wasn't given to us as a gift, but I

521
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 3: mean it's like boomerang gifer is that?

522
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 4: Okay?

523
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: Wait?

524
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 5: So you so you you go out and I'm not

525
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 5: saying that it doesn't cost money. Framing is very expensive.

526
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 5: But that's the gift for the couple, is their wedding invitation.

527
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 7: Well, sure it'll last forever. It's not like it's a

528
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 7: coffee maker or something that's going to break in five years.

529
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 7: People forever, but you know what it's.

530
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's very I just I never got one

531
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: of those. I'm sure it's very sentimental exactly.

532
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 7: I mean something, do.

533
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: People like them?

534
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 7: Like?

535
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: Are they like this is nice?

536
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 7: Yeah? They love them.

537
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 6: I mean they tell us that. I mean, how do

538
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 6: they really feel? I don't know, but I really don't care.

539
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 6: I think it's a great idea.

540
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 4: I do too. But is it expected of you now?

541
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 4: So do you always have to do it?

542
00:23:59,040 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 7: Oh?

543
00:23:59,240 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: Invite Darryl.

544
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 3: You know, he's the uh, he's framed guy.

545
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: He's the framer.

546
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 6: We don't go to very many weddings anymore. We're a

547
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 6: little older, so all of our friends are married.

548
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: So, oh, Diane write that down for Detroit though.

549
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 4: That's good, And I do like that he gets to

550
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 4: walk into others' homes and he always sees the gift.

551
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: Oh, have you walked into somebody's house.

552
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 6: And it's not up, you don't go searching for it.

553
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 6: But if it's there, you can obviously see it, but.

554
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: I would point it out.

555
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 5: Look, I gave you that, all right, very good, very good,

556
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 5: Thank you sir, thank you, my friend.

557
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: That maybe that is maybe that's a good thing.

558
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 4: I don't have a copy of our program, even like

559
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 4: in a known place.

560
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 3: Wait, I mean the invite or the program.

561
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 4: I'll invite in program. Yeah, I'm just saying, I don't know.

562
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 4: If someone said, can you go get it for me,

563
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 4: I'd like to frame it. I'd say, oh, it might

564
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 4: be with the tape of our wedding, which I've never

565
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 4: been able to find.

566
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what, jack Now that I think of it,

567
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 5: You know, Jackie and I got for somebody once and

568
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 5: what do they call those where.

569
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: It's it's a frame, but like it's a like a

570
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 1: big frame shadow box, shadow box. Yeah, they got married

571
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: as a Jewish wedding.

572
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 5: They got married, and we got the I say we

573
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 5: Jackie got the glass that they broke and put the

574
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 5: broken glass in there.

575
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 4: Oh that's cool.

576
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 5: I don't remember if like the wedding invitation. There's no

577
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 5: way the wedding invitation was in there. But whatever it was.

578
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 5: Maybe it was a picture or something.

579
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 3: And then that's that's like in a little bag, right,

580
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 3: the glass that gets stomped on.

581
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I.

582
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 5: Thought that was kind of cool. Yeah, yeah, I don't

583
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 5: have that. Where am I going? Line?

584
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 7: Too?

585
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 4: But to be fair from your stories, I was not

586
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 4: a part of your wedding, right, Diane. Was what other

587
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 4: than sand what it would people be framing for you

588
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 4: as guests at your wedding?

589
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: Nothing?

590
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean they could have gotten the guy who

591
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 5: married us one of his dreadlocks.

592
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:58,360
Speaker 1: I guess.

593
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: I saw my bouquet. Yeah, we have from our wedding. No,

594
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 4: when I say that, we do have Lindsay's bouquet on display.

595
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: Do you really it's in a Yeah, it's in like

596
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: a little glass case.

597
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: Ours ours is too.

598
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 4: It's not christ What are you saying, Oh my gifts

599
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 4: to you?

600
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? What was that?

601
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 4: That's personal?

602
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: What what was it? Was it a bouquet?

603
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 4: I actually screenshot her website and put it in a

604
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 4: digital frame.

605
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: Oh what are those frames called Fruma or something like that?

606
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: Aura Aura or No, that's a ring.

607
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 4: I know that's a company that does the digital frame.

608
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: Oh whatever, Hi, YOA in the morning That's what I

609
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,719
Speaker 1: got you. I just there dropped a picture for you.

610
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: Here you go, and it has nothing to do with

611
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: your wedding. It's me.

612
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 5: Hi.

613
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: Who's this?

614
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 2: Good morning Elliott?

615
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi, who's this?

616
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 2: Hi? This is I mean?

617
00:26:59,080 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 3: Now are you guys?

618
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 7: Oh?

619
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: I lead from New York? How I am doing great?

620
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 1: How are you?

621
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: I'm good?

622
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 4: I'm good.

623
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: So people are not our rsvping to invite. So I

624
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 2: sent an evite. As you well know, Memorial Day.

625
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 3: Was a wash.

626
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 2: Remember it was really cold riting. Remember, so all my guests.

627
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 2: I invited fourteen guests for four for July. Out of

628
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 2: the fourteen, thirteen were invited for Memorial Day. But then

629
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: that up being a wash, and we all discussed how

630
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna do for for July. So about a week

631
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: ago I sent an evite because everyone knows, you know

632
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna host for for July. Out

633
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 2: of the fourteen guests, eleven viewed, eight have not responded,

634
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 2: three responded, and three were delivered. Never even opened it.

635
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 5: Did you know you could see that for even that

636
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 5: I didn't know. So when you send out an evite,

637
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 5: you could see who viewed it. By the way, That

638
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 5: is good to know because some of them I'll read

639
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 5: the evite and then do nothing with it.

640
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 1: And do you know who it is?

641
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 5: Like?

642
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: Can you see by name who it was?

643
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 5: Oh?

644
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: No, yeah, exactly.

645
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: You know what's even worse what everyone is pretty much

646
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: family only a couple of friends. And one of my

647
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: sisters says, calls me, doesn't even respond to it. I said, well,

648
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 2: if this person's not going, I'm not going.

649
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: Oh it's not about that's where you got that. Those

650
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: are your maybees.

651
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 5: Those are the maybees, yes, no or maybe, and they'll

652
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 5: check maybe so that on the day of they can

653
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 5: look and go. You know what, I ain't going, just

654
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 5: check now. Yeah, that's Eileen. I would go to your party.

655
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 5: I mean I can't, but I would.

656
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: I would.

657
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 2: Hey, you guys are all invited, come down, all right,

658
00:28:58,720 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: like it.

659
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 5: I'll be there, all right, very good, Eileen, Thank you,

660
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 5: thank you.

661
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 4: Diane will be at Eileen's fourth of July party and

662
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 4: that of her family's wedding ceremony.

663
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: Fourth of July on Saturday. All right, give me a

664
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 5: do I know where I'm going?

665
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

666
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 2: I do.

667
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: Give me a quick break at Ellie in the morning.

668
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 8: For a few weeks we've debated if working the Declaration

669
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 8: of Independence into promotions would be tacky, possibly even inappropriate. Well,

670
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 8: we hold these untruths to be self evident, whether it's

671
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 8: the America two fifty standard pickleball paddle or the America

672
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 8: two fifty Limited Edition white pickleball paddle, or we're serving

673
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 8: it up. Besides saying semi quincentennial is hard, winning one

674
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 8: hundreds a day is easy. Listen around seven thirty, then

675
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 8: nine for your chance to be endowed some Benjamin's courtesy

676
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 8: of long haul, because, as the aphorism declares, trust goes

677
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 8: a long way. Actually, did you know Franklin and most

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Speaker 8: delegates didn't sig in America's birth certificate from to the longest?

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Speaker 1: Who cares right? Not my wine total?

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Speaker 8: Mister Jefferson, Life, liberty and the pursuit of hundreds a day?

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Speaker 8: Elliott in the.

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Speaker 3: Morning, sunny today, a little more humid and hys it

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Speaker 3: ninety two.

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Speaker 1: easy oil change in just fifteen minutes. Jeffy does it.

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Speaker 1: But there's more to it.