Speaker 1: All right, it is Mojo in the Morning phone number
Speaker 1: eight four to four Mojo Live textas nine to five
Speaker 1: to five zero zero. I want you guys, tell me
Speaker 1: if you think this is a red flag. We have
Speaker 1: a friend who has been dating a guy for gosh
Speaker 1: over a month or so, and he still hasn't told
Speaker 1: his friends or coworkers that he's dating this this girl,
Speaker 1: and I want to know. They're staying at each other's
Speaker 1: places and uh, touching naughty bits and hanging out with
Speaker 1: each other all the time. They're going to dinners, they
Speaker 1: hold hands, they do things like that red flag if
Speaker 1: you don't tell friends, like you don't tell your actual
Speaker 1: close friends, or you don't tell like your family that hey,
Speaker 1: I've been seeing this person. I think that there's something
Speaker 1: that you got to be aware that this is not
Speaker 1: a relationship. This is not going to be for some reason.
Speaker 1: He's something's crazy, there's something.
Speaker 2: So you're saying the person that's being dated if the
Speaker 2: other person doesn't tell everybody, I should think that's a
Speaker 2: real Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like, like we were having a conversation and we said, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, uh, so have you met like anybody like
Speaker 1: you've been together for a couple of months. I think
Speaker 1: it has been, have you you know?
Speaker 3: Oh so it has, it hasn't just been. I was
Speaker 3: just gonna say, cause a month to me is not
Speaker 3: that crazy. Like her friends have met, but his friends haven't,
Speaker 3: and I just think that they're like to me, I
Speaker 3: would do war the roses on this guy.
Speaker 2: It's too early.
Speaker 1: I would think that there's somebody else.
Speaker 3: I would tell you that when West and I started dating,
Speaker 3: that I had started dating somebody because I was trying
Speaker 3: to keep our newness in this little protective cocoon, just
Speaker 3: to see like, Okay, I want this, do I want this?
Speaker 1: But do you go somewhere?
Speaker 3: And then I was like, okay, now I can tell everybody,
Speaker 3: but you told somebody.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you told oh yeah somebody. Yeah, tell you
Speaker 1: didn't tell us because we're you know, the show. But
Speaker 1: I guarantee you told your closest friends. You're right, I did, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and maybe family like your sister or somebody. But so
Speaker 1: this is this is weird. He has not told anybody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: after a couple of minds serious to him?
Speaker 3: Huh?
Speaker 1: Is it that serious to him? Well? I could tell
Speaker 1: you this that he looks like he's enjoying every bit
Speaker 1: of her.
Speaker 4: See.
Speaker 2: That's the thing though, brocause I've been in situations before
Speaker 2: where the girl and I we were just smashed and
Speaker 2: she would come over, we would do our thing, we
Speaker 2: might go outside and get a bite to eat, hit
Speaker 2: the movies.
Speaker 1: But it's not a relationship.
Speaker 2: So it's not going to be something that I feel
Speaker 2: is serious enough for me to involve other people.
Speaker 1: If you're a guy and you don't let your best
Speaker 1: guy friends know that you met somebody, you're not into
Speaker 1: that person. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's not serious.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: I can be into the person, but it doesn't mean
Speaker 2: that I see this person as somebody I'm going to.
Speaker 1: Be in a relationship with her. And if I was
Speaker 1: a girl, I would think that that is a I
Speaker 1: would be red flagging that and taking this from a
Speaker 1: guy that you know has dated but also has a
Speaker 1: lot of friends that date. I have a lot of
Speaker 1: guy friends. I know when they're serious about a girl
Speaker 1: when they're telling the group text, Hey man, it went
Speaker 1: out with her, we had a great time like stuff
Speaker 1: like that, or.
Speaker 3: I don't know, bro, I've never liked See I agree
Speaker 3: with that if I know, if I if I'm dating
Speaker 3: a guy hypothetically Obviously, if I'm dating a guy and
Speaker 3: it's been two three months and he hasn't told any
Speaker 3: of his friends about me or family, I haven't met anybody,
Speaker 3: I'm thinking there something is very very wrong now.
Speaker 1: And I think that if you're spending like weekends like
Speaker 1: where you're spending the whole weekend. And I said this
Speaker 1: to her, I said, hey, like, does he take calls
Speaker 1: when you guys are around? And he goes, no, He's
Speaker 1: really good about like not picking up his phone or
Speaker 1: doing stuff like we spend time together. We really are
Speaker 1: with each other. I'm like going, Okay, guess what, he's
Speaker 1: turning his phone off because he don't want people know
Speaker 1: he's got somebody over. I holds hiding.
Speaker 2: I hold my friends and my family to the highest
Speaker 2: of standards, and everybody just not about to come around
Speaker 2: and meet them. Some of my family members have only
Speaker 2: met one person that I've dealt with literally okay. And
Speaker 2: it's not because I was ashamed of the person or
Speaker 2: I was hiding them. I just like, no, my family
Speaker 2: is my f but they're gonna meet the one.
Speaker 1: But have you been consistent you're solo with or you're
Speaker 1: only with that person and you still haven't even talked.
Speaker 1: You're with other people exactly. That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: think that she's got to be worried about I think
Speaker 1: she's got to be worried that there's other people that are.
Speaker 5: Are we are?
Speaker 2: Do we believe that she's only dealing with him? Yes,
Speaker 2: I know her intentions, she's she's a friend. What's going on, Gina?
Speaker 2: What do you think?
Speaker 5: Hey, Gina and Nathan, Why what's happening?
Speaker 1: Guys?
Speaker 2: So we're just in here listening.
Speaker 5: We think that it's not a red flat because what
Speaker 5: if the family is crazy and they just get all
Speaker 5: up in their business and try to like interfere in
Speaker 5: their relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what about friends though? What about close guy buddies?
Speaker 1: What about that? What about he hasn't told anybody, She
Speaker 1: has not much. She has not met anybody associated with him,
Speaker 1: not even coworkers, not, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: it's the only the only person that she she has.
Speaker 1: Matt is the DoorDash delivery guy that comes and brings
Speaker 1: food to their house when they go over to his playoffs.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, maybe maybe he just wants a little
Speaker 5: privacy and he just don't want empty in his business.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the doordass driver.
Speaker 2: Sometimes people rush into stuff too much and start introducing
Speaker 2: him to everybody.
Speaker 4: It is my son.
Speaker 1: Like, no, take it easy, bro, slow down.
Speaker 5: I don't even know what this is like said too
Speaker 5: about you know, maybe it's just now I'm curious.
Speaker 1: You don't even get health insurance to you ninety days in?
Speaker 1: Why are you? Melissa? Do you agree that it's not
Speaker 1: a red flag like the last callers?
Speaker 4: Oh no, it's a big red ferend. Even my twelve
Speaker 4: year old daughter, she's a texted and thinks it is
Speaker 4: a big red flash.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I like it. I like we're taking
Speaker 1: advice from a twelve year old daughter. Here, what's going on, Melissa?
Speaker 4: He's right here, so Bella say hi, Hi, Bella, Bella.
Speaker 1: How do you know it's a red flag? Are you
Speaker 1: a twelve year old that actually is? Dates?
Speaker 3: No, my uncle is doing it was right now?
Speaker 1: Oh wait a second, hold on your uncles. Let's sell
Speaker 1: out your uncle here a little bit. He's hiding a
Speaker 1: girl form everybody. Yes, how do you know?
Speaker 4: Because we're still friends with her?
Speaker 1: Oh you really do you think that you your do
Speaker 1: you think your uncle is uh? He's got some other
Speaker 1: girls on the side, some potential. Yes, really, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I like this. By the way, we need to have
Speaker 1: we need to have more twelve year old moments where
Speaker 1: they're given a absolutely all. They're giving us all the
Speaker 1: gossip about what's going on in their family's business exactly. Melissa,
Speaker 1: are you are you? Uh you know a guy right now?
Speaker 1: Or who you? What do you got in your life? Uh?
Speaker 4: Sort of? Yeah, yes, yes I am.
Speaker 1: Did your daughter give you advice on relationships? Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's my bilt and best friend, and.
Speaker 5: She gives advice to you guys, just not.
Speaker 4: On the phone, but on the way to school every morning.
Speaker 2: Are there any red flags with mom's boyfriend? Yes? Many?
Speaker 1: Which ones are? Does she know this? Yes?
Speaker 4: The flags the way he acts, like.
Speaker 1: What specifically, just like his like his emotions.
Speaker 4: He's still like I don't want to explain it, but
Speaker 4: he's back and forth, up.
Speaker 3: And down, hot and cold.
Speaker 1: Yes, this is amazing. You think that kids don't notice
Speaker 1: stuff that goes on. They notice everything that's unbelievable. You
Speaker 1: guys need to call us more off And I like that.
Speaker 1: Anaya what's up? A Naya morning?
Speaker 5: Guys, Good morning, I say It's definitely a red flag
Speaker 5: or maybe even yellow flag, because my first date with
Speaker 5: my now boyfriend of five years is actually with his
Speaker 5: best friends.
Speaker 1: So it.
Speaker 5: Was more so like his best friends mean the world
Speaker 5: to him. So if I kind of passed that test
Speaker 5: with mingling with his friends and I was good to go.
Speaker 5: So now we're five years stop.
Speaker 1: I agree. If you are that good, he's going to
Speaker 1: bring everybody and want you to be around everybody because
Speaker 1: his goal is that he wants to show you off
Speaker 1: first date.
Speaker 5: So you should ask her though, if the guy, if
Speaker 5: his friends are that important to where they really need to.
Speaker 2: Know with the first first date with best friends, I
Speaker 2: feel like you don't know how you know, you know,
Speaker 2: you don't know how to operate on your own.
Speaker 1: But within the first within the first month or two,
Speaker 1: you you can't wait to introduce him to your family.
Speaker 1: Unless your family is like Shannon's family and they'rembarrassing, then
Speaker 1: you don't want them. What's up, Tiffany High?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's a red flag. I kind of
Speaker 4: feel dumb. But I dated a guy for six years
Speaker 4: and never met any of his friends or coworkers.
Speaker 3: Yeah, why why was he keeping you a secret?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 4: He was cheating the whole entire time. But he was
Speaker 4: cheating with coworkers and he was a R nurse, but
Speaker 4: they cheated within the whole entire you know, working industry.
Speaker 4: But I've heard, yeah I met his family, but yeah,
Speaker 4: I never met any of his coworkers or friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I'm telling you. I think this is maybe
Speaker 1: not going to go six years before he introduces, But
Speaker 1: I think that there is something to this relationship. Not
Speaker 1: introducing to people that you supposedly care about, including your
Speaker 1: best friend.
Speaker 2: Has he had a lot of failed relationships.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know this story.
Speaker 2: Maybe he's like, I don't want to just keep introducing people.
Speaker 2: I want to make sure this is someone that will last,
Speaker 2: and then I'll introduce.
Speaker 1: Or maybe you're the embarrassing friend.
Speaker 4: I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm actually not. I'm friends with We're friends with her.
Speaker 1: So that's why why I bring it up, you know,
Speaker 1: because I think that there's definitely something to be said
Speaker 1: about that.