1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Star one on one three, It's Marcus and it's time 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: once again for second date update. We've talked about it 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: for years. You go on a date, you get ghosted, 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: we will call your date to figure out, Hey, if 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: you screwed up, b if they've just been busy, or 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: see what the deal is. And that's why Felix is here. Yeah, yeah, Hi, 8 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: good morning. Obviously we want to talk about this date 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 1: with this girl, Dana. 10 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 2: Yes, so yes, Now you said. 11 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: You met online. What did you do for the first date? 12 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. We went to Japantown, went to the 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: sushi joint for dinner. Okay, this day was It was amazing. 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: I love this place is like warm lighting and it 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: feels like one of those first dates that attributed a movie. 16 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 2: And we talked about travel. She had just been to Japan, 17 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: so okay, perfect. We like talk embarrassing childhood stories. Anyway, 18 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: at one point, you got a put of soft on 19 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: her nose and I got my neck and I wiped 20 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: it off and she blushed and I actually said out loud, 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 2: like total rom com moment. Yeah, and she like smiled, 22 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, this is this 23 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 2: is incredible. So after dinner, we hit a karaoke bar 24 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: nearby and we closed the place. We had so much fun. 25 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 2: And I do not say this about dates, but it 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: felt magical, Like I thought, oh my god, this is 27 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: what I've been waiting for. This is the kind of 28 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: first date you tell your you know, kids about. But 29 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 2: I'm shocked. She's vanished quite completely. 30 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: I was just talking to my producer Taylor about dating online. 31 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: She says it's horrible. So this must have just been 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: like a cool moment. 33 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: I guess, huh, very all right, but I know you 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 2: guys help out people. People get ghosted. 35 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. We're gonna call her, So let 36 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: me play a song, we'll regroup, and then we'll call Dana. Okay, 37 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: all right, all right. We'll have you on the line 38 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: when we do it, so i'll have you mute out. 39 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: But that's happening. Next, it's it's Second Date Update, Star 40 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: one one three, poor variety from the two thousands, the nineties, 41 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus 42 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: Thursday morning. We've got Felix on the phone. We're in 43 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: the middle of Second Date Update. I do like your date, 44 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: Felix quite a bit. 45 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: You. 46 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: So, just to recap, you all went for sushi in 47 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: Japantown in San Francisco, and then karaoke lounge afterwards, and 48 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 1: you basically shut the place down. I get it all right, 49 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: she has ghosted, so let's figure it out. You can't 50 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: think of anything that might have happened. 51 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 2: No, I keep playing it over my head because there's 52 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: nothing else I can't. 53 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: Sure, go ahead and mut your phone. Let's do this right, Oh, 54 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: let's hope. Here we go. 55 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: Well, Hi, can I. 56 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: Talk to Dana please? 57 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: Yes? This is her? 58 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: Hi, Dana, this is Marcus from Star one one three 59 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: in the morning. 60 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 3: Hi. Hey, I've been listening to the second Day Update 61 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: for years. I have a feeling I know what this 62 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 3: is about. 63 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, somebody. 64 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,119 Speaker 2: Just checked your time. 65 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 66 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, So you're good to be on Second Date 67 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: Update because you know who was holding. 68 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 69 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 3: I figured if I'd be on this it would be 70 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: because of something wild happening. And I have a story 71 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 3: for you. 72 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: So okay, great, gat to be here. Do I bring 73 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: Felix on an hour later? 74 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 3: Sure you can. 75 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 2: I mean, it's totally up to you. 76 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: Felix. 77 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: Are you there, Bud, Hey, hey man. 78 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: Hi. So Felix said you had a great time. This 79 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: was the date at the with sushi and then karaoke. 80 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember, Oh I remember? Okay, 81 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: So how did you ghost? 82 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: I mean it was the first date, so I don't 83 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 3: consider it ghosting. 84 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, I obviously did not. 85 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: That's like the fourth time I've heard that. So is 86 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: it not technically ghosting if it's just one date? 87 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 3: I personally one date, I don't consider it. 88 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: Okay, maybe after I learned things every day, So okay, 89 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: let's not call it ghosting. But you're done, Yeah, definitely 90 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: all right, So tell us about the date from your perspective. 91 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 3: Well, hi, Felix, I mean, honestly, it started off really great. 92 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: Felix. 93 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: You're handsome, you know, you're funny. We had a great conversation, 94 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: and then things kind of went downhill. 95 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: We got karaoke. 96 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: First. 97 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 3: I mean, you definitely got really drunk, like you were like. 98 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 4: Leaning on the mic stand drunk at karaoke, and I 99 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: really was turned off by the fact that you were 100 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 4: snapping at the bartender when you wanted another drink. I 101 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 4: thought that was just so disrespectful and that was already 102 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 4: bad enough. But then you got up on stage and 103 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 4: you started singing I'll make Love to You by Boys 104 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 4: to Men, and you looked at me in the eye. 105 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 4: It was just so uncomfortable, so cringe. Yes, yes, and 106 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 4: like for a first date. I was just already you 107 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 4: were you're very, very drunk, and then adding that it 108 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 4: was just such a turn off, and I was, yeah, 109 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: I just didn't know why he thought that any of 110 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: that was. 111 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: Okay, the visuals alone, what is going on? 112 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 2: Okay? First of all, yes, I had a few. I 113 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: mean you had a couple of drinks too. We were celebrating, 114 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 2: like you were vibing. I was vibing. It's karaoke night, 115 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: you know, we had dinner, like a party at here. 116 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: Let's go, you know, let's have fun. 117 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 118 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: When you were like on. 119 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 3: The mic, yeah you were. 120 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: You were super bartender. I was not rude. I was 121 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 2: just trying to get their attention because it's a loud place, 122 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 2: there's music playing. What do you want, Like, am I 123 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: supposed to yell at him? I feel like fingers snapping 124 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: is like more considerate. I'm not gonna yell. 125 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 3: I you ever worked in like a restaurant or anything, like, 126 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 3: don't snap at people. I think it's super disrespect. Well, 127 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 3: you can get up and go. 128 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 2: Talk to them. You don't yell. You have to get 129 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 2: their tension. That's not rude, you know. 130 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 3: I just that's the way you treat service people. I 131 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 3: feel like is a is a big tell. 132 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I agree, but I feel like I wasn't 133 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 2: rude to them. 134 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: I want to get to the serenade though, because that's 135 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: my favor favorite part. 136 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 2: Come on, it was really unh that is absolutely a 137 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: classic song for karaoke night, and I was trying to 138 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 2: be funny. I was not being creepy. You cannot my eyes. Yeah, 139 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 2: I was playing up the song we haven't even kissed yet. 140 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 3: You can't be singing I'll make love to you. Like 141 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 3: It's just it was such a turn off. I feel 142 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 3: like it was just way too much, too soon.