1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: All right, here we go with the Minnesota goodbye for 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: for Friday. And let's see what we got here in 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: the email. Let's open up the email bag and see 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: uhh uh oh uh uh oh. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 2: Okay, here's here's one. 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: It says, hey, morning crew, from Laura, thanks for helping 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: my daily cleaning go a little bit quicker a couple 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: of things. I was behind Jenny at Cole's also doing 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: a large amount of Amazon returns. It was thrilled to 10 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: see she is still rocking the eyeliner. 11 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: Ways you do you? 12 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 3: Okay? 13 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 4: I posted this on chatter last night that I was 14 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 4: so stressed because there was no one in line for 15 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 4: the Amazon returns. And then I show up and I 16 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 4: had like ten different QR codes and all of a sudden, 17 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 4: there was like five people in line, and I felt 18 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 4: so bad. The guy, the Coles guy, was getting stressed. 19 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 4: And then I like put my head down as I 20 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 4: walked past everyone leaving. But yes, I am still rocking 21 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 4: the eyeliner. 22 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: As a super blonde woman, I need eyeliner and masscare 23 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: every day. I almost stop you to mention this and 24 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: that the dream the listener had about you was hilarious. 25 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: But my arms were too full, and the line was 26 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: getting longer. Anyway, I am writing in about do you 27 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: love stronger as you get older? As somebody who's been 28 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: in love a few times, I agree that you love 29 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: stronger as you get older. I look at my high 30 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: school boyfriends, who I loved the extent that I could 31 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: at that age, but we were still young and selfish 32 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: figuring it all out. Then my college boyfriends, those were 33 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: wild times, so I wouldn't consider that much as much 34 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: love as an experience. I am sure others can relate. 35 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: Then comes love in your twenties. I got married, had 36 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: three kids. I loved my first husband, and I'm grateful 37 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: for our three kids, But I realized after becoming parents 38 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: that love for another was definitely conditional. While we had 39 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: fun and worked without kids, when the sacrifices were needed 40 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: for children, that love fell flat, and we saw family 41 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: as two different things. I am now in my forties 42 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: and married again, and I see that love does have conditions. 43 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: As I've grown older, I look at how I can 44 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: make his life better in him the same I think 45 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: I've realized that the deeper love comes from showing up 46 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: every day even when you aren't at your best and 47 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: trying to apologize when you know you've hurt each other, 48 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: spending time understanding and practicing each other's love languages. I 49 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: don't know, do you love harder when I think that's true? 50 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: Because I really I was in love with Kathy when 51 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: I was in Las Vegas, so in love with her. 52 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: But then as I got older, ten years later, I 53 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: found somebody that I loved even more. That would be Julie. 54 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: And then when I loved Julie, I found you know, 55 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: other people that I loved even more. And so I 56 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: think that you when you do get older, you go, oh, well, 57 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: that was nice. You know, when you tell your first 58 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: boyfriend that you love them, you think you do, yeah, 59 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: but it's not until you're thirty that you really love 60 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: somebody or forty bill. 61 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 5: Then I also think, though it's now, it's been so 62 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 5: long since I had my first boyfriend that I loved, 63 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 5: and so I'm probably not going to remember what it 64 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 5: felt like to love him versus what it feels like 65 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 5: to love anybody now. 66 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 3: So I don't know if I know. Well, I guess 67 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: I believe like, yeah. 68 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 5: You're a grown person and you're loving another grown person 69 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 5: and versus being like a couple of kids. But I 70 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 5: don't know if I would love more or any differently. 71 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 5: It's just maybe I don't know what I'm saying, but 72 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 5: I think every. 73 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: Love is so different it's almost hard to like quantify, 74 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 4: maybe not quantify. 75 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 76 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: It's hard to like say, because I think they're all 77 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 4: probably different kinds of love too. 78 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: I think that's true. I think that sometimes. Yeah, I 79 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: don't know. We've spent a long time talking about it. 80 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: But you know, sometimes you love somebody because they're cute 81 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: and they're funny and they love you back. Well, then 82 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: you get a little bit older and you go, I 83 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: want somebody who I can really talk to. They don't 84 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: have to be hot anymore. That's not important. It's more 85 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: that I just love to be with them. She finally says. 86 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: Last point. My friends and I have asked, what if 87 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: every ten years you was a couple, decide do we 88 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: stay together or do we decide to part ways. My 89 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: husband thinks this is crazy in theory, and I do too, 90 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: But we're coming up at ten years and had that chat. 91 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: We decided, yeah, yes, we're committed for the next ten years, 92 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: likely forever. But it was a good touch point. Discussion, 93 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: a time to remember the last ten years, etc. Any 94 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: thoughts on this is that too weird? Appreciate you all. 95 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: Thanks for the laughs from Laura. I have a friend 96 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: who is married to an airline pilot in Colorado and 97 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: she was divorced and she basically has agreed with her 98 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: husband like, Hey, let's check in every year or so 99 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: and ask do we want to keep doing this? And 100 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: they do and they seem like they're a really good couple, 101 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: but she's experienced the love and the cheating and the 102 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: falling out of love, and her and her husband both agreed, 103 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: if you're gonna cheat, just leave. Just don't hurt me 104 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: that way, just leave. And so she doesn't want to cheat, 105 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to cheat. I'm sure they probably have 106 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: both cheated before and they check in like do you 107 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: want to keep doing this? 108 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 3: Yeah? 109 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 5: I mean I think that in theory is like a 110 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 5: really good idea, but it takes like a certain maturity 111 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 5: by it from both parties to do it, because like 112 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 5: you could say, oh, yeah, we should totally talk about it, 113 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 5: But what if one of you decides that you don't 114 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 5: want to be together anymore and the other one does, 115 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 5: and then you're like, wait a second, what that's not huh? 116 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 5: And then it's like, well, you agreed that we would 117 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 5: check in every year, and if you're not happy with this, 118 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 5: then we're gonna leave. And if one of us isn't, 119 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 5: then we're leaving. 120 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: I like it. 121 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 4: I like it, but I do agree that it does 122 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 4: take a sort of maturity to be able to do it. 123 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 4: I like the checking thing because I think, like, if 124 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 4: you've been burned in other relationsships before, checking in is 125 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 4: like so important because I don't know. I just think communication, also, 126 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 4: I would say, is what grows as you get older 127 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 4: and you like how that person's saying that you love stronger, 128 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 4: harder or whatever. I think communication also is like much 129 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 4: more open. Like I feel like I'm already like openly 130 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 4: talking to the person I'm seeing about things that like, 131 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 4: I think I've been uncomfortable before, but I don't want 132 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 4: to waste my time anymore. 133 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 134 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 4: So right, you just like are willing to talk about 135 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 4: harder things or communicate better? 136 00:05:59,440 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 3: Yeah? 137 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right. 138 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: Next one, it's another Sarah holler at them all we're 139 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: all in our thirties forties because we can't hear hello, 140 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: my radio friends. I've written in a few times and 141 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: contributed well pretty much nothing but effort was made and 142 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: that's all we can ask for. 143 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: Amen. 144 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: Okay, she's funny. I once wrote in asking about having 145 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: a crush on a professional baseball player turned Felon then 146 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: into a social media influencer mixed with a lot of 147 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: political rants. He was so fine it went nowhere. I'm 148 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: still single, but I'm good anyway. I'm doing late night 149 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: scrolling on my favorite store social media, which got me wondering, Dave, 150 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: since you are heavy on that purchase button, what impulse necessary? TikTok, trends, 151 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: Instagram ads? Do you get suckered into bune? Are there 152 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: items you were so impressed with or would recommend to others? 153 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: What were the worst? 154 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 2: If any? 155 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: M Okay, worst that comes to mind was a little 156 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: tiny pain set that I bought for Allison because Alison 157 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: is a mom and she's busy, and I thought, oh, 158 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: I'll go to this paint set, which is basically, if 159 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: you unfold it, it would be the size of an 160 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: iPhone and it had a little palette in there with 161 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: different colors and a brush, and it had a little 162 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: clip for a pad of paper, and I was picturing 163 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: Alison taking it down to the park and unfolding it 164 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: and you know, using her little watercolor brush, and it 165 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: turned out it was crap. It didn't come with paints, 166 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: it didn't come with a brush. It just came with 167 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: a little woodholder. And I thought, okay, well, now she'll 168 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: have to go out and buy paint for it, and 169 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: buy a clip and buy little pads of paper. 170 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 2: So I just threw it away. 171 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: Stuff that I bought that I liked, I'll be honest 172 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: with you, a lot of it is. I can't think 173 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: of anything that I bought that I've loved. I did 174 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: subscribe to. It's called like it's like testosterone pills, like 175 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: T two or something like that, that they're supposed to 176 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: boost a man's testosterone because you'll lose it when you 177 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: get older and then you're not as strong or viral 178 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: or is it viral viral? I think, yeah, I don't know, 179 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: all right, burning And I've taken them like you take 180 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: three a day, and I liked those because they seem 181 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: to work and they seem to help with workouts and 182 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: things like that. But I can't think of anything that 183 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: I've absolutely loved. If you gave me a minute, I 184 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: probably could if you thought it bought anything you absolutely loved. 185 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 5: I don't really buy a lot. I mean usually with 186 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 5: like Instagram ads and things. If it's something that I like, 187 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 5: I will click into it and like scroll around on 188 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 5: the website and then X out of it and never 189 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 5: buy it because I always get in with like the 190 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 5: there's like a cool website that has all of these 191 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 5: different dresses that have all fun prints and stuff, and 192 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,839 Speaker 5: I'm like, ooh, fun, I could put all of these 193 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 5: dresses in my cart, and then I do, and it's 194 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 5: like a five hundred dollars cart, and then I just 195 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 5: never buy any of it. 196 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: I just add it to my cart. 197 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, it's a smart move to put it in 198 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: your cart, and maybe you'll buy it. Maybe, But then I. 199 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 5: See an ad for it constantly as they're like this 200 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 5: woman went on their website and put things in her cart. 201 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, she'll buy something eventually, and you reasably right. 202 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: And do you ever get the thing where it's like, hey, 203 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: save ten percent, put your email in here, Yes, and 204 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden your email is full of 205 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 1: crap that you never asked. 206 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: For, which is why I don't fill out that little 207 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 3: but it's ten percent. 208 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jenny anything. 209 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 4: Oh no, can you guys know me? I go on 210 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 4: Facebook Marketplace for every deal there ever was, so I'm 211 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 4: not easily influenced by ads. 212 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: Sarah really enjoyed your email. She writes that. 213 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: She says, no dart licking here, but just for clarification, 214 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: that's something one asks for on a first date, right, Yeah, 215 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: research purposes, She says. Love, y'all have a great weekend. 216 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: You are funny, Sarah, and you need to write more often. 217 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 1: You have a gift and you're wasting it. You're wasting life, Sarah. 218 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: You're wasting my life. You're busy smoke and weed and 219 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: binging TV shows when you should be writing into the 220 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: Minnesota goodbye. 221 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 3: Oh call her out. 222 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep. Chelsea writes in No, she's asking for 223 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: free tickets, and I delete requests for free tickets anymore. 224 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 2: I just do. Is that rude? 225 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 3: Well, there's so many. 226 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: Well I got one. 227 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: I've had one from a former intern who wrote and 228 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: said a Dave, I really want to get Lady Gagat tickets, 229 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 1: and I just ignored him because it's like. 230 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 3: I can't help you. I can't get Lady gog got tickets. 231 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: Well, you don't go into Warner Stellion and say, you 232 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: know what I need. I need a dishwasher. I really 233 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: would love a dishwasher. I know it's four hundred dollars, but. 234 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: You just don't. 235 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 3: And your uncle works there. 236 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: Maybe they can give you a discount, but your uncle 237 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 1: probably can't give you one. 238 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 2: But I got one. The other day. 239 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: It was something like, Dave, my friend has been going 240 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: through a really rough time and I'd really love to 241 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: get her Bruno Mars tickets. And I went to get 242 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: him and I didn't realize how expensive they were. And 243 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,959 Speaker 1: if you're right back, you'll either get one of two responses. 244 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: It's either like okay, well I thought I would try, 245 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: or you get like, well thanks a lot. You know, 246 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: I know you could get him if you wanted to. 247 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: And too many times it's the latter, so I just 248 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: delete them. Yeah, I don't even answer them anymore. I think, 249 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 1: is that wrong that I don't? 250 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: Oh, we get a lot of them. 251 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 4: I didn't answer my friend the other day who messaged 252 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 4: me and asked for Morgan Walling tickets. I didn't even 253 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 4: respond to them. I was like, Nnny's blind. Suddenly She's 254 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 4: like oh, I didn't see it. 255 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: Huh. Let's see. 256 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: That one's a little bit long, so I think I 257 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: will save that one for later. Let's try this one. 258 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: Hello everyone from Crystal, longtime listener twenty four years, first 259 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: time writer. Wow, with a topic of love and soulmates. 260 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: I want to tell you my story. I fell in 261 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: love a handful of times. However, I do believe everyone 262 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: has one soulmate, and if you're lucky enough to find 263 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: him at the right time, it's simply meant to be. 264 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: My husband and I met about sixteen years ago. We 265 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: worked at a bar. He was in the kitchen. I 266 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: was a server. At the time, I was engaged, he 267 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: was in a long term relationship. We became friends and 268 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: after a year we both found ourselves single. We started 269 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: hooking up for about a month and then went our 270 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: separate ways. I dated my abusive X for three years. 271 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: Once I was single again, I went wild for a 272 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: few months. Not too long after that, my husband reached 273 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: out to me for the first time since we had 274 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 1: hooked up. We started seeing each other and things went fast. 275 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: We dated for six ish months before getting engaged married 276 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: two months later. Fast forward to now, we've been married 277 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: for ten years, three kids. He is my favorite person 278 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: in the whole world. Oh that's nice, that's great. The 279 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: reason I feel he is my one and only soulmate 280 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: is fate. How else do you explain how I was 281 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 1: born in New York, he was born in California, yet 282 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: we met in Minnesota. For me, there's no other explanation. 283 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: I truly hope everyone can find that one and only. Dave, 284 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: would you not consider Susan your one and only? Having 285 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 1: been together, having Alison, breaking up, getting back together, having Carson, 286 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: and staying together. Sorry for the long email, but thank 287 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: you all for everything you do. There isn't many constant 288 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: things in my life, but your show and all your 289 00:12:55,040 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: podcasts are one of mine. Dart Lick, Oh right, that's 290 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: from Crystal. 291 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 292 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: We had a big discussion the other day about the 293 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: amazing thing that is falling in love because you not 294 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: only have to find somebody that you love, but miraculously 295 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 1: they love you back. What are the chances of finding 296 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 1: that person that you love and they love you back 297 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 1: and they become your best friend? And I was talking 298 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: about how there's nobody in this entire building that I 299 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: could fall in love with. I like almost everybody here, 300 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: but there's nobody who would fall in love with me, 301 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: and I wouldn't fall in love with anybody. But somewhere 302 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: out there there's somebody that you will. And it's not 303 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: rare to fall in love. Okay, I'm not getting much 304 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: out of that one. 305 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 4: No, I mean I think I'm listening to I want 306 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 4: you to answer the question both Yah, You're like. 307 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 2: Go ahead, So we're moving on to the next one. 308 00:13:58,760 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 2: That do we have time? 309 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 4: If you can do it in sixty seconds, I. 310 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: Don't think I can. I don't think I can. 311 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: So we will wrap up the Minnesota goodbye for this time, 312 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: and just say have a good weekend. Send your emails 313 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: in to ryan'show at KDWB dot com.