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Speaker 1: All right, kids, here we go with today's Minnesota Goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Let's start up with an email that says I'm following

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Speaker 1: up on last week's audio books versus physical reading discussion,

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Speaker 1: because we had a discussion last week. Bailey said, listening

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Speaker 1: to an audiobook count as reading, and some people say

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Speaker 1: yes and some people say no, and that either one

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Speaker 1: is fine. It doesn't make you a lesser person because

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Speaker 1: you've listened to an audio book. But here's what he said.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to ask for some advice. I loved learning,

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Speaker 1: but I've always struggled to read books, likely due to

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Speaker 1: ADHD and difficulty focusing with all the distractions from phones

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Speaker 1: and streaming. Reading often gets pushed aside. Even though I

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Speaker 1: own a bunch of books, I've only read a small

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Speaker 1: fraction of them. I think that's very common to own

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Speaker 1: a bunch of books and have only read a small fraction.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those things where there it sits waiting

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Speaker 1: for you whenever you're ready. Yeah, I'm curious if you

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Speaker 1: hear listeners have tips for getting more engaged in reading.

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Speaker 1: One thing that's helped me is using both the physical

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Speaker 1: book and the audiobook of the same time, reading along

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Speaker 1: while listening through headphones. It helps keep my mind from

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Speaker 1: wandering and blocks out distractions. Thanks, I'd love to hear

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Speaker 1: your thoughts. I would say, read a page or two

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Speaker 1: at a time. Sit down to read for like three

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Speaker 1: minutes while you're waiting for your laundry to be done

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Speaker 1: or or your or your microwave to go off, and

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Speaker 1: you'll probably end up reading a little bit more than

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Speaker 1: you expected. I'm reading a book right now, and I

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Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time, but I'll sit down

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Speaker 1: and read, like I'm gonna sit down and read this thing,

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Speaker 1: and twenty pages later, I'll be like, oh, I've read

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Speaker 1: some of my book.

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Speaker 2: I think reading before bed is always helpful to do it,

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Speaker 2: like because it kind of gets you ready for bed.

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Speaker 2: But also, I guess my question is maybe they just

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Speaker 2: said this and I missed it. But why do you

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Speaker 2: want to make yourself read if you don't seem to

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Speaker 2: enjoy it that much? Like I don't know. There's things

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Speaker 2: that I do that I'm like, yeah, I don't need

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Speaker 3: I think there's like joy in reading, and it's it's

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Speaker 3: not that they don't enjoy reading, it's that they wish

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Speaker 3: that they could read more, but the ADHD is making

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Speaker 3: it hard for them to read, okay, And so I

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Speaker 3: mean I always tell people if you're struggling to read

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Speaker 3: books that audiobooks is the way to read books, because

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Speaker 3: I counted as reading. In my humble opinion, it is reading.

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Speaker 3: I'm still consuming the information that was in the book.

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Speaker 3: And if I didn't have audiobooks, like, there's so much

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't have read. Like I take so long to

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Speaker 3: physically read a book because I'm a slow reader, and

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Speaker 3: I have started to fall asleep when I read, so like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I could read before bed, I would read one page

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Speaker 3: audiobooks because I can technically be reading while I'm driving

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Speaker 3: and like hearing all of the same stories and being

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Speaker 3: able to talk about all the same stuff as someone

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Speaker 3: who read it physically. But I also really like there's

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Speaker 3: this Silent book club that I've gone to handful of times.

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Speaker 3: It's really fun, and they have them like all over

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Speaker 3: the state now, So I would just like google Silent

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Speaker 3: either Minneapolis or whatever. And that's kind of like when

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Speaker 3: you would have silent reading time in class, like in school,

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Speaker 3: next to and talk about the book that you're reading.

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Speaker 3: And it's so fun and so cute, and there's usually

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Speaker 2: Okay. My question for that though, is are you hearing

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Speaker 2: the ambiance noise from the rest of the brewery that

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But it's you're usually in a different room. You're not

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Speaker 3: That's how I read physical books the only way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. Next one, this is from Nicole. I got

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Speaker 1: a couple of things to comment on from recent episodes

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Speaker 1: and one random stir. Number one, dirty office floors. I

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Speaker 1: but yeah, gross. Who Next one references. I just had

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Speaker 1: Uh. Next one, it's kind of cute, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: it's a little bit long. My grandma passed away. My

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what you're talking about, and gave

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Speaker 1: other words, they'd be like hello, or a happy graduation,

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Speaker 1: or have a great summer from your fellow dash dash

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Speaker 2: How many dashes were there?

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Speaker 1: Four? So it could have been fuck club, dick club,

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Speaker 1: premarital sex was probably a very rare thing. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: guess I don't know what, but it you know, they

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Speaker 2: Do you think it only has to do with sex

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Speaker 2: or could it have done with partying?

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Speaker 1: It could be your former beer club member.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, yeah, beer club? Who knows? But

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Speaker 3: I like that it's a it's a mystery, like how

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Speaker 2: Like dart lick club member, dark.

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Speaker 1: Your former an club member? Yes? Okay? Uh Kate writes

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Speaker 1: in Hello, a dumb question for the Minnesota Goodbye. Does

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Speaker 1: your jaw ever hurt from talking so much? Mine literally

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Speaker 1: hurts After a busy day at work on meetings all day.

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Speaker 1: How do you guys not have lockjaw or something? No, not,

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Speaker 3: I don't think my jaw hurts. But if I talk

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Speaker 1: I would say, same, yeahs it when we go out

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Speaker 2: So I think the other thing that happens to me

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to describe what happens in my ears,

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Speaker 2: but it is like I'm like, turn that music down.

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Speaker 2: I'm the old lady.

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Speaker 3: Now, Hey, that's too loud.

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Speaker 1: Now another one. We're ripping through these. Last week, Jenny,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Dave, I'm listening to the podcast and

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Speaker 1: Love that Clark listens in Alabama. It started very recently,

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Speaker 3: Today's episode? I was going to do the Dash Dash

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