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Speaker 1: Dad, You rich wass up?

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Speaker 2: Gail?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, I didn't advise a lot all the time.

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Speaker 3: Every day on the way to work, and he guys

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Speaker 3: talking about different things, like with exes and weird stuff

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Speaker 3: that's happened, and I had a story to tell.

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Speaker 1: Love to hear it, Gail, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I was living in California at the time

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Speaker 3: and was dating somebody that lived in Oregon and would

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Speaker 3: come up every weekend and whatnot. And after year he proposed,

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Speaker 3: and so I moved everything up here, left a really

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Speaker 3: good job, and it was over before Thanksgiving. We didn't

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Speaker 3: even get married, but we continued to see each other

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Speaker 3: off and on quite a bit. He was going to

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Speaker 3: go scouting with his buddies or something one weekend, which

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Speaker 3: they did a lot, and he came home and I'm

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Speaker 3: sitting in the backyard with his family that I fell

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Speaker 3: in love with as well, and apparently they all knew,

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Speaker 3: but he came back with his new wife. He got

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Speaker 3: married weekend. Right there.

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Speaker 2: You you're like the in the barbecue hanging out with

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Speaker 2: the family and they're all talking to you like you're

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Speaker 2: part of the family.

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Speaker 1: And then he's like, this is my new wife. Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness, right, does what happened?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, with his other sister and his brother

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Speaker 3: in law who went with him. It was crazy weird.

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Speaker 3: And then guess who showed up at my house that night.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure he did.

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Speaker 3: He did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and what do he say?

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Speaker 3: Well, he wanted to did you No?

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean at the barbecue. Aren't you asking for

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Speaker 4: an explanation?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what to say. I didn't know what

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Speaker 3: to do. I just left after a little while.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you and this guy just said, just so,

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Speaker 2: I want to make sure we can determine the relationship.

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Speaker 2: You guys were sexually active. Yeah, and when was the

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Speaker 2: last time you guys did it before?

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Speaker 1: He came home with his new.

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Speaker 3: Wife the friday before he left.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: All the time we went and did things all the time.

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Speaker 3: We went scout and we went fishing, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I thought I had the perfect guy. I was just like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, I mean, how.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, So is he still married to her? Do

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Speaker 1: you know?

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Speaker 3: No, he's not. He married another woman a few years ago.

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Speaker 1: Well, that is definitely a crazy X story, Gail. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad you called in.

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Speaker 2: That's definitely a jaw droppers.

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Speaker 3: Insane. Yeah, absolutely insane.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 3: All right, thanks.

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Speaker 5: Kind of happened to my friend, except for she wasn't

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Speaker 5: like hanging out with her family. She dropped him off

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Speaker 5: at the airport, but didn't know she was dropping him

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Speaker 5: off at the airport to go to Cabo to get married. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you played for the Cardinals. He was such a slime ball.

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Speaker 1: Apparently he played for the Cardinals. Does he still play?

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Speaker 5: No, not anymore.

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Speaker 1: Claudia, Good morning, what's up?

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Speaker 6: Good morning? My ex literally weaponized my Google calendar. How well, okay,

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Speaker 6: so I'm a really scheduled person. Everything in my life

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Speaker 6: goes in. There were Jim Day everything, and after we

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Speaker 6: broke up, I didn't realize it still had access to it,

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Speaker 6: so we like started changing everything. I showed to a

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Speaker 6: meeting an hour early, or I would miss one completely

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Speaker 6: because it just got mooved like suddenly, and I thought

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Speaker 6: I was losing my mind.

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Speaker 3: The worst part he changed.

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Speaker 6: The location for a really important job interview. I had

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Speaker 6: to the wrong office building all the way across town.

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Speaker 6: I'm sitting there in the lobby and I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 6: I'm here for my two PM and they're like, we

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Speaker 6: don't know.

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Speaker 5: Who you are.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And then I checked my email. Oh my god,

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Speaker 6: I checked my email and it was the right address,

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Speaker 6: but in my calendar it was the wrong address. And

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Speaker 6: then it hit me, he was, you know, playing chess

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Speaker 6: with my sanity. I like, yeah, I loos such a

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Speaker 6: dumb dum And now on you.

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Speaker 2: Know, I used to have this. There was this lady

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Speaker 2: named Lorraine. Her name was Lorraine. She was an old lady.

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Speaker 2: She had old gray hair with curly, curly gray hair.

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Speaker 2: And I used to work in the check hashing place

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Speaker 2: with her when I was in college. She was so

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Speaker 2: mean and she smoked and and she was smoked in

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Speaker 2: the check as and I hated it so much. And

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Speaker 2: one day I was at the home office and I

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Speaker 2: saw the schedule. They used to fax the schedule out

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Speaker 2: so you knew when you work, and I took white

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Speaker 2: out and white out out.

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Speaker 1: All her initials. She thought she got fired. It just

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Speaker 1: made me think that I just screwed with her.

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Speaker 2: And then I remember, like I called in by the

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Speaker 2: owner and she was all mad, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: just a joke, just a joke.

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Speaker 1: She was so mean looking and mean, just.

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Speaker 6: Like they're always in the rain.

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Speaker 4: Did that go several days for you before you figured

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Speaker 4: it out? How long was your calendar jacked?

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Speaker 6: I mean it was like a couple of weeks because

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Speaker 6: it was like very gradual. But once once the job

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Speaker 6: interview happened, I was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of work for him though it is,

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Speaker 4: but also get a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: Though, man, like I'm to do my own calendar.

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Speaker 2: Yeah ah. I well, thanks Claudia, thanks for sharing that

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Speaker 2: with us.

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Speaker 1: Caroline, good morning.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 1: I did your ex sabotage you?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: He did. Let me tell you about it. Okay. I

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Speaker 3: had a huge weekend and booked a hair appointment in

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Speaker 3: advance for this event, and my ex knew how excited

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Speaker 3: I was because I never treat myself like that ever,

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Speaker 3: Like I'm so low maintenance. And I know people who

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Speaker 3: say their low maintenance but aren't low maintenance, but I

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Speaker 3: actually am low maintenance. Anyway, I have this big event

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Speaker 3: and the day of I show up and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you called and changed your appointment, and I'm like, no,

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Speaker 3: I didn't, apparently I quote I rescheduled it for three

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Speaker 3: weeks later under a fake careful phone call. I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 3: three weeks. So I was just confused because I didn't

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Speaker 3: cancel or reschedule or whatever. So then I had to

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Speaker 3: go to this event with my backup plan hair, which

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Speaker 3: you don't even want to know what that is. But

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Speaker 3: I had vibes in a prayer and pulled it off.

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Speaker 3: And then later he admitted that he did it because

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Speaker 3: he didn't want me looking too good without him.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Like, are I hope that's still your X?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So I'm like, now I look bad and single.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to be with him anyway.

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Speaker 3: I think that's weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is weird. So anyway, like why would.

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Speaker 3: He know that? Why would he even know that I

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Speaker 3: had a hair appointment?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, he's following you around, he knows your schedule.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he can tell when he sees you and he's

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Speaker 2: spying on you. You can see your roots. It's like, she's

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Speaker 2: probably going to the hair doctor. What call the hair

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Speaker 2: people s silas, petition barber, whoever? I thanks Carol like

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Speaker 2: that to call it in.

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Speaker 5: Thank you