WEBVTT - Mia Ghosted Devon Over Nachos

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<v Speaker 1>A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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<v Speaker 1>it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing second Date Update. I've got Devin holding and

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<v Speaker 1>he was talking about his date with Mia. Now they

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<v Speaker 1>went on on a Wednesday, which for most of us

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, oh God, are you kidding? But you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you say that you work restaurant. Yes, okay, so Wednesday

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<v Speaker 1>night not that serious. And it was Trivia and Campbell

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<v Speaker 1>on a Wednesday. And she's ghosted, So let's call her

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<v Speaker 1>and try to figure some things out. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>see how the date went from her perspective. Go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and mute your phone. Here we go. Hello, Hi, may

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Mia?

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<v Speaker 2>Please?

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mia.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi. My name is Marcus. I do a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>on Star one oh one three out of San Francisco

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<v Speaker 1>for iHeart. It's a morning show. We're on right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm wondering if you have a moment to chat

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<v Speaker 1>on the air for a sec. I'm secretly hoping you'd listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course I do, and of course I know who

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<v Speaker 3>you are. And I saw like the caller idea what

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<v Speaker 3>everyone was like, what, who's.

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<v Speaker 2>What? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening every morning. Okay, so we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. I don't know if you know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is?

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<v Speaker 2>Good?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course I do, of course is yes, de Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hey, hey, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I am good. I never thought i'd be on on

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<v Speaker 3>this show, but here I am, and you know here

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<v Speaker 3>you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>I am This is delicious?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh so, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, Mia, you know why we're here. Devin enjoyed your date.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd like to take you out again. I'm wondering, did

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<v Speaker 1>you ghost? You sound so kind, you don't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a ghoster. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I Sometimes it's just easier that way, if you know that, like,

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<v Speaker 3>if you just didn't get the right vibe, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>just easier to sort of like, you know, not lead

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<v Speaker 3>them on in any way, then just sort of let

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<v Speaker 3>it go.

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<v Speaker 1>Did something, I mean, did something happen with the vibe?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean everything was going great until Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 3>was a turning point. Basically, we went to a trivia

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<v Speaker 3>night and it actually started out really fun and Devin

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<v Speaker 3>was really like attentive, like right it's from the very beginning,

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<v Speaker 3>and like engaging and super cute, and I loved this

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<v Speaker 3>little thing he did when I showed up at the bar.

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<v Speaker 3>He already had a drink waiting for me, because he

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<v Speaker 3>texted me ahead of time basically confirming, like, what's my

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<v Speaker 3>drink order? And then it was waiting for me when

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<v Speaker 3>I arrived. No one's ever done that that. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>that was so sweet, and he pulled out my chair.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'll sweet. And then it kind of

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<v Speaker 3>turned sideway from there, and during trivia, he kept shouting

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<v Speaker 3>out plot twist like after every wrong answer, and eventually

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<v Speaker 3>admitted to me that he'd secretly been to that trivia

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<v Speaker 3>night several times before and I guess memorized like the

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<v Speaker 3>question so that he could look smart for me. And

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<v Speaker 3>at one point he even whispered that he only dates

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<v Speaker 3>women with main character energy and that I had it,

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote, I just it was. It all seemed like

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<v Speaker 3>some weird fake set up, like not genuine.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Devin, any thoughts on this? I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, man, I'm not going to lie to you

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<v Speaker 1>all at once. This is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll start by saying, I was trying to say a compliment,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm trying to hyper up the main character energy

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<v Speaker 2>compliment and like I gotta have too, like what's wrong

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<v Speaker 2>with the little sandbag? And all the question it came.

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<v Speaker 3>Off performative, like it wasn't your genuine self, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>trying to say, like, dude, like just be yourself, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't need to know about all the homework you

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<v Speaker 3>did to look smart and the whole main character energy

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<v Speaker 3>thing just felt like a line. Like to me, it

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<v Speaker 3>felt like how many girls have you said that to?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you started out started out gangbusters? Am I right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And you're cute and really sweet. Something that I really

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<v Speaker 3>look for is people that are genuine.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that I had to put on something like

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to impress you. If you were to

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<v Speaker 2>give me a second date, I promise you that I

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<v Speaker 2>will dial it back.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just be myself, my god in the field

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Miyah. I feel like we can salvage this.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we give Devin a second chance?

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<v Speaker 2>Here?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, I guess maybe it just was a

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<v Speaker 3>misunderstanding and I read to do it and yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>hear it, and I'm willing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's time to the cow bell of

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<v Speaker 1>destiny because we just got ourselves a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, surprise for today, Devin. You did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we did it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you guys, I'll leave you to yourselves. Hang

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<v Speaker 1>on the line one second.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Star one O one three. It is Marcus. It's Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing second date update. Might as well get right

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<v Speaker 1>into it. So let's say you go on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>you get ghosted, and we will have you on the

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<v Speaker 1>line when we call your date to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong, so you can listen in. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to hear it from me, you can hear it from

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<v Speaker 1>them directly, indirectly. I hope that made sense. We have

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<v Speaker 1>Devin on the phone. Good morning, Devin, Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good? Just tell me I'm making total

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<v Speaker 1>sense this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you're absolutely making total sense this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about your date, man, So Mia right, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>trivia becoming more and more popular. So many like trivia

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<v Speaker 1>first dates. So according to your DM, it was trivia

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<v Speaker 1>in Campbell. Well, you know what I'm getting ahead of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 2>We met online? You know, I've been liking trivia night

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<v Speaker 2>dates just because it's like a good way to be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you an expert on what I can also

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<v Speaker 2>flex a little bit, you know things like that, not

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<v Speaker 2>physically flex, you know, mentally flex, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally get it. We do trivia on this show every

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<v Speaker 1>morning eight oh five. What you know about that? And

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned that there is like there are like trivia

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<v Speaker 1>questions that are cute, and then there are like trivia

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<v Speaker 1>questions like who would actually know that? That's so trivial,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>No, totally totally and that's the kind of stuff personally,

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<v Speaker 2>I pride myself. Yeah, sure, but she was answering a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of those questions too that were like the niche

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<v Speaker 2>like trivia hard questions, and honestly, the whole experience was

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<v Speaker 2>just downright hilarious. Okay, we weren't fully serious about the time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're both restaurant industry workers, you know, being out late

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<v Speaker 2>on a weeknight, No, no, biggie, and yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 2>just joking and connecting the whole evening, like answering the questions,

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<v Speaker 2>sharing nachos like that was the next you know that

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<v Speaker 2>we thought, I don't know, what is seriously like, try

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<v Speaker 2>being attractive while eating nachos, Like, come on, she was

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. I thought this whole thing was a hit man,

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<v Speaker 2>and truly I haven't heard a peep out of her

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<v Speaker 2>since then, Like not a text, no response to and nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well that's why we're here. We'll try to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. So, like I said, we're gonna call her.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have you on the line. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. That's what I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gunning for. Can you hang on the line for a song?

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<v Speaker 2>Totally again?

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<v Speaker 1>Great, Okay, we'll call me in next It's second date

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<v Speaker 1>update Star one oh one three