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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. It's back on the weekend.

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Speaker 1: This is second date update. Let's bring on. Jocelyn. Hi, Jocelyn.

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Speaker 2: Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm doing all right. How are you holding up? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing okay. I mean I'm a little confused,

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Speaker 2: but I'm doing okay.

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Speaker 1: Sure, let's help out. So I understand you went on

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Speaker 1: a date with Everett and then he is ghosted. Why

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Speaker 1: don't we run through how that date went? What'd you

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Speaker 1: guys do?

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Speaker 2: We went to dinner like an Italian restaurant. It was

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Speaker 2: one of those family style kind of places, so we

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Speaker 2: shared a bunch of items, which was fun. We had wine.

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Speaker 2: I thought he was really easy to talk to. He

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Speaker 2: was funny. He wasn't really trying too hard to be funny,

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Speaker 2: but he was funny and very present, which honestly is

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Speaker 2: like a rarity and men no offense. But you know,

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Speaker 2: sometimes it's hard to like connect with somebody and get it.

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Speaker 1: I'm on my phone right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, but it seems like he was really

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Speaker 2: paying attention. And then we went for a little walk

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Speaker 2: after dinner, and we ended up getting another drink somewhere

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Speaker 2: else and I guess I really felt the chemistry between

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Speaker 2: the two of us. We were staying really close to

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Speaker 2: each other, you know, you find those little things to

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Speaker 2: like touch each other's arm or you know, brush hands,

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Speaker 2: And when we said good night, he actually kissed me

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Speaker 2: and it was really nice. It was a really great kiss.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't awkward, it wasn't rushed, it was just very comfortable.

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Speaker 2: And after that, I just kind of felt like, okay,

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Speaker 2: like we're going to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, when in the world happened? Okay? Was there

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Speaker 1: any follow up at all?

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Speaker 2: So he did text me saying that he had a

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Speaker 2: great time. He texted me later that night okay, And

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Speaker 2: then the next morning we texted a little kind of

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Speaker 2: joking about something that we had talked about. So I

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Speaker 2: was sort of thinking, still, okay, this is heading somewhere,

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Speaker 2: and then I kind of just started to try to

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Speaker 2: lock down date number two. Yeah, and that's sort of

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Speaker 2: when it kind of started to shift. It was a

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Speaker 2: couple of excuses, like, you know, this week's really crazy

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Speaker 2: with work, and then I'll know a little bit more

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Speaker 2: after a couple of days, and then I text it

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Speaker 2: again and then I never heard anything. He just completely

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Speaker 2: ghosted me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it's kind of like that meme where Homer's

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Speaker 1: going into the bushes like a slow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's try to figure this out. Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: mutual phone. I'm gonna call him right now. Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hi? Is this ever?

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Speaker 1: What's this? Everett? It's Marcus calling from Star one on

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Speaker 1: one three. Good morning, Good morning? What is this? Do

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Speaker 1: you listen to my show?

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Speaker 3: I do so.

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Speaker 1: I do a radio show on Star one oh one

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Speaker 1: three in the morning.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry, man, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's fine. So I wonder if you I might have

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Speaker 1: a second to be on the air with us. We

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Speaker 1: do a segment called second Date Update. And I got

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Speaker 1: your phone number from a woman who says she went

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Speaker 1: on a date with you and she really enjoyed herself

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Speaker 1: and she'd love to go out again, but she's feeling

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Speaker 1: like your face. I'm not going to necessarily call the ghost,

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Speaker 1: but like, would you mind talking about your date with Jocelyn?

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Speaker 1: Because she like she really liked you and she felt

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Speaker 1: like you really liked her too.

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Speaker 3: And this is about Jocelyn.

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Speaker 1: Yes, did something happen? Because I heard there was a

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Speaker 1: kiss at the end of the day, which I mean,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? How did it go for you?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: Uh, yeah, Jocelyn is great, just right, what wonderful time

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Speaker 3: we genuinely had had had a great timely Sack.

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Speaker 1: Felt that way.

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Speaker 3: I hope she felt that way.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I after the date, I texted a picture.

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Speaker 3: Of us to my brother, okay, and you know, my

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Speaker 3: brother recognized her. And how turns out they had dated

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Speaker 3: a little bit last year.

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Speaker 1: Really same girl?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, same girl.

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Speaker 1: How does this not come up? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't. I don't know how how this

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Speaker 3: happened necessarily, but yeah, uh, same girl dated And I

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Speaker 3: mean there was nothing that hipped me off during the

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Speaker 3: date that it was the same person, but just exited

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Speaker 3: a picture of my brother. He recognized her, and he

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Speaker 3: was very upset with her last year because she left

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Speaker 3: him in the lurch. He liked her more than she

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Speaker 3: liked him, so the thing was called off a little

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Speaker 3: early for his taste. And once that came to light

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Speaker 3: for me, I just I didn't know what.

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Speaker 1: To do about that. Sure, Okay, Well, the other part

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Speaker 1: of this is that the Jocelyn is actually listening right now.

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Speaker 1: I've got her on. Oh good, great, I'd love to

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Speaker 1: bring her up. Jocelyn. Are you there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of making sense now in a weird way

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Speaker 1: kind of sucks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it makes sense. Uh, you guys don't

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Speaker 2: look alike it all if your brother is who I

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Speaker 2: think you're talking about, So I don't know how I

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Speaker 2: would have ever known any of that, honestly.

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Speaker 3: No, it's it's it's it's not something I cannot understate

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Speaker 3: how how much I'm not mad, Like, it's not like

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Speaker 3: it's a it's a crazy, one in a million situation

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Speaker 3: that neither of us could have caused, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean obviously, Yeah, I mean it's disappointing because like I

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Speaker 2: think we could still go out, Like I really enjoyed

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Speaker 2: hanging out with you, but it doesn't seem like you

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Speaker 2: want to.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I I don't want to. Look, I think

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Speaker 3: you're really cool. But please don't take this as like

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Speaker 3: a negative on you. This is just I don't want

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Speaker 3: to date someone that my brother was upset with and

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Speaker 3: you know obviously still has feelings for or or is

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Speaker 3: not over yet.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I get it.

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Speaker 1: I guess all right, hang on, you guys hang on, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that might get weird at family reunions. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Second date update