Speaker 1: Now the financial information that just might change your life.
Speaker 1: This is the Bloomberg Money Minute on seven hundred WLW.
Speaker 2: Alrighty, we check in with Genie Cervetti from our Bloomberg
Speaker 2: newsroom in New York City. Wireless companies are spending a
Speaker 2: ton of cash these days on promotions there every other commercial.
Speaker 2: But apparently one major carrier just reported that it lost
Speaker 2: customers last quarter.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've probably noticed the ads, don maybe even switched companies.
Speaker 3: But Verizon maybe losing a step here. The nation's largest
Speaker 3: mobile service provider lost wireless phone subscribers in the recent
Speaker 3: three month period. Now, all three of the major carriers
Speaker 3: have been using costly promotions and incentives to tempt us
Speaker 3: to switch networks, but AT and T and T Mobile
Speaker 3: added a lot of customers in their latest quarters. However,
Speaker 3: we are seeing Verizon shares hire this morning. The company
Speaker 3: beat on estimates when it comes to FiOS internet signups
Speaker 3: and also its earnings per share tom.
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, craft Times results point to ongoing consumer weakness.
Speaker 3: Yes, the maker of craft at Mac and Cheese and
Speaker 3: its famous ketchup is preparing to split into two. But
Speaker 3: Kraft Hinds just lowered its sales outlook, and it's struggling
Speaker 3: to sell investors on these plans to split the company
Speaker 3: into two businesses at a time when consumers have been
Speaker 3: broadly moving away from processed foods. Anyway, Tom, all.
Speaker 2: Right, Gina, and a big day to day. The futures
Speaker 2: are right now.
Speaker 3: Yes, we have the FED wrapping up a meeting, We've
Speaker 3: got some big tech earnings, and right now the futures
Speaker 3: look good. Dow future's up fifty eight, SMP futures up nineteen,
Speaker 3: Nasdaq futures are up one hundred and eighteen from Bloomberg.
Speaker 3: Gina Cervetti on news Radio seven hundred WLWS.
Speaker 2: Almost apropos this tune from Genesis misunderstanding because there seems
Speaker 2: to be I don't know if misunderstanding is the right
Speaker 2: word in this case, but a lot of sort of
Speaker 2: gray area and what to understand and what not to understand,
Speaker 2: specifically about this whole sale of th drinks and intoxicating
Speaker 2: hemp products which a Hamilton County judge extended a temporary
Speaker 2: block against the emergency ban of those, and kind of
Speaker 2: enough to join us, and he's got interest in this
Speaker 2: whole thing. There's no two ways about it. But there's
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that. Everybody does in some form or fashion.
Speaker 2: He was kind enough to send me a message on
Speaker 2: x yesterday, and that's Scotty Hunter, co founder of Urban
Speaker 2: Artifact Beer and coach Aloe Hemp. Scotty, good morning. Thanks
Speaker 2: for the message yesterday and thanks for your time today.
Speaker 2: How's everything for you?
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm doing great, Tom, Thanks for having me on
Speaker 4: the program.
Speaker 2: Absolutely all right, Look, let's start with what you know
Speaker 2: most about in this thing. I don't want to necessarily
Speaker 2: get into the whole marijuana dispensary. The taxpayers voted for
Speaker 2: that in Ohio a couple of years ago. But there
Speaker 2: is a distinct difference between the amount of THC inside
Speaker 2: of a hemp product compared to something you might buy
Speaker 2: at a marijuana dispensary. Correct, let's start with that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's absolutely correct. You know these are low levels
Speaker 5: of THHC. And really this all came about through the
Speaker 5: twenty eighteen Farm Bill, So hemp has a federal legal
Speaker 5: classification here in the United States, where marijuana still does
Speaker 5: not currently.
Speaker 2: Okay, so we start with that, now, correct me if
Speaker 2: I'm wrong here. My understanding in Governor de Wines wanting
Speaker 2: to stop the sale of some of this or at
Speaker 2: least move it into marijuana dispensaries. Had to do with
Speaker 2: some of the packaging. Let's just start with some of
Speaker 2: the hemp products. Not the alcohol, I mean, not the
Speaker 2: beer part of it with THC in it. But as
Speaker 2: far as some of the packaging is concerned that it
Speaker 2: might be trying to appeal to kids as though it's candy, Well,
Speaker 2: would you agree with him on at least that part
Speaker 2: of this, that that's a fair argument.
Speaker 4: Oh? Absolutely, Tom.
Speaker 5: You know, the entire hemp industry, not only beverage where
Speaker 5: I reside, advocates for sensible, responsible regulation. These items should
Speaker 5: not be targeted at children. They should have clear labeling
Speaker 5: standards and requirements. And we've seen a lot of states
Speaker 5: across the country adopt such rules already in the last
Speaker 5: few years, and we expect more and more to follow
Speaker 5: suit in the coming year.
Speaker 4: So, you know, I think.
Speaker 5: With what the House passed here last week and that
Speaker 5: we expect to kind of go to Conference committy next week,
Speaker 5: is Ohio was starting to move in the right direction
Speaker 5: to get some of those guardrails in place.
Speaker 4: So I do want to go ahead.
Speaker 6: No, no, no, please finish. I want to hear what you
Speaker 6: have to say, not me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I was going to say.
Speaker 5: I think I want to really hit on the fact
Speaker 5: that it's a misnomer that this is a completely unregulated market.
Speaker 4: You know, the state of.
Speaker 5: Ohio has cultivation and processing rules in place. We obtained
Speaker 5: the HAMP processing license through the State of Ohio. We're
Speaker 5: viewed and inspected by the State of Ohio. The litany
Speaker 5: of protocols and tests that we have to go through
Speaker 5: to produce our HAMP beverages, frankly, far exceeds the requirements
Speaker 5: in terms of testing that we have to do for
Speaker 5: our beer. You know, we're testing for pesticides, heavy metals, micotoxins,
Speaker 5: all kinds of other microbial contaminants and those all have
Speaker 5: to pass before we can release and sell that product
Speaker 5: into the market.
Speaker 4: And this is the case in a lot of states.
Speaker 2: Okay, now help me with this part of it. The
Speaker 2: THC drinks. Okay, and you have some of this in
Speaker 2: your urban Artifact beer. Talk to me about regulation in
Speaker 2: that regard. Okay. Look, everybody knows you can walk into
Speaker 2: a bar. Unfortunately it happens way too often.
Speaker 6: We know this. You can walk into a bar. You
Speaker 6: have one or two too many beers.
Speaker 2: The next thing you know, there are some people getting
Speaker 2: behind the wheel of a car and off they go.
Speaker 6: They shouldn't be driving.
Speaker 2: Talk to me about is there regulation Are we able
Speaker 2: to tell if somebody has had too much THC inside
Speaker 2: of a beer?
Speaker 5: Well, in real quick clarification, Tom, we have clear separation
Speaker 5: between our beer which contains alcohol, and then have products
Speaker 5: which contains low.
Speaker 4: Amount of page. We can't intermingle those and we don't.
Speaker 5: So I think the other thing that people don't necessari
Speaker 5: understand when they're unfamiliar with this category is because it
Speaker 5: is still pretty new overall in the grand scheme of things,
Speaker 5: is that there's in terms of beverage specifically, there's a
Speaker 5: similar type of feedback.
Speaker 4: From your body when you consume one of these low
Speaker 4: dose beverages.
Speaker 5: So you get that relax calming feeling when you consume
Speaker 5: one of these beverage in a similar time brain that
Speaker 5: if you drank a beer or cocktail. So in that way,
Speaker 5: you know, individuals can sell regulate, which I think we're
Speaker 5: all a fan of, but also bartenders and staff if
Speaker 5: we're talking about a bar restaurant, can observe the behavior
Speaker 5: of the patron similar to what they would with an
Speaker 5: alcoholic beverage and determine, Hey, that's you've had enough, right
Speaker 5: we give that trust to our servers already for adult
Speaker 5: use adult products, and the same thing goes with that products.
Speaker 2: Why would give me the argument, if you wouldn't mind,
Speaker 2: Scottie Hunter, give me the argument of why hemp products
Speaker 2: should not be sold inside of marijuana dispensaries if they
Speaker 2: have any THC even though it's considerably less than normal
Speaker 2: marijuana products you'd buy in a dispensary.
Speaker 5: Yeah, these are products that dispensaries don't want.
Speaker 4: The cards they're not they don't make.
Speaker 5: Sense for the space a setup there. You know, if
Speaker 5: you look at national data the whole you know, a
Speaker 5: THHD beverage, whether it's hemp baseed or you know, traditional
Speaker 5: marijuana base it's less than one percent of dispensary sales.
Speaker 5: So these products are you know, servicing a market that
Speaker 5: doesn't get served under a lot of the state and
Speaker 5: you know, regulated marijuana programs.
Speaker 6: Is with with with marijuana?
Speaker 2: We read so much about how there would be more
Speaker 2: money that flowed back into supporting X, Y and Z,
Speaker 2: whether it's local municipalities, mucual towns, whether it's our tax
Speaker 2: base in general. Is there anything like that in the
Speaker 2: hemp industry, Scott.
Speaker 5: So, And this has kind of been more state by
Speaker 5: state basis, but as you put, had states passed regulation
Speaker 5: on the distribution and retail sale of hemp products, there
Speaker 5: have been tasses that have put into place. So in
Speaker 5: the in the bill that passed the House here in
Speaker 5: the state of Ohio, on the beverage side, it has
Speaker 5: an excise taxmilar to you know, beer, winder spirits, and
Speaker 5: I believe on the other categories of products, it's a
Speaker 5: retail tax that's similar to the recreational adult youth program.
Speaker 5: Again not speaking and with the expertise on that piece specifically.
Speaker 4: And so there there, there's that aspect of it.
Speaker 5: And we've we've seen other neighboring states pass similar legislation
Speaker 5: with with tax income. You know, Kana tuck To is
Speaker 5: one for example, it's had a program for a number
Speaker 5: of years. They did make some updates earlier this year
Speaker 5: to their program. West Virginia has had one for a number.
Speaker 4: Of years as well.
Speaker 5: Those those states have already overseen had taxes in place
Speaker 5: for the distribution sale of products in their state.
Speaker 4: Well, I would just haven't gotten to that.
Speaker 5: Point, and I think we're gonna we're gonna get there
Speaker 5: here before the end.
Speaker 6: Of the year.
Speaker 2: Okay, at the end of the day, it seems to
Speaker 2: me and Scotty Hunter, you tell me if I'm right
Speaker 2: or wrong on this. The bottom line is is that
Speaker 2: people who are selling these in wherever it is that
Speaker 2: they're selling Okay, the owner of a business could be
Speaker 2: a gas station, could be whatever it might be, they
Speaker 2: have to hold up there into the bargain to not
Speaker 2: give you guys a bad name by just simply charting people.
Speaker 6: Is that accurate? Is that fair?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: No, that's absolutely fair. And that's you know, that's what
Speaker 5: we're asking tom right. You know what, we produce our
Speaker 5: products that are nets for people that are twenty one plus.
Speaker 5: We treat them the same as our beers when they
Speaker 5: come into our tap room. And then when we do
Speaker 5: sell into retail accounts, we asked we ask the same event.
Speaker 6: Well, it's great, Scotty.
Speaker 2: I can't thank you enough for reaching out and for
Speaker 2: clearing up some of this stuff out there, because I
Speaker 2: got to be honest with you. I mean, I have
Speaker 2: a hard time breaking it down. I think a lot
Speaker 2: of other people out there have a hard time really
Speaker 2: being able to understand some of the intricacies which you
Speaker 2: have been kind enough to clear up today. So Scottie
Speaker 2: Hunter can't thank you enough for your time. Hope you
Speaker 2: have a great weekend ahead.
Speaker 4: Thanks Tom. Yeah, I appreciate the time.
Speaker 5: And you know we'll have to get you some samples
Speaker 5: here before too long and you can get that first
Speaker 5: hand experience, you know.
Speaker 2: All I need my daughter beating me over the head
Speaker 2: about drinking it. All right, Scottie Hunter, thank you very much.
Speaker 2: It's eight nineteen. We've got a lot of rain today.
Speaker 2: We've got some missues on the roads, Chuck. Are they
Speaker 2: getting any better from our last check?
Speaker 7: Not?
Speaker 6: In some spots No.
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Speaker 8: ten degrees below our norm this time of the year.
Speaker 8: Normally we're at sixty one for a high. But by
Speaker 8: the time Thursday night rolls around, clouds will start to
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Speaker 8: inch of brain says Jennifer Ketchmark. And then it's going
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Speaker 2: On that sounds like a good deal. It is eight
Speaker 2: twenty one. We have the news coming up. Then at
Speaker 2: eight thirty eight we'll visit with Pastor Chad Hooven and
Speaker 2: we're going to talk about parenting, slash coaching the role
Speaker 2: of emotional closeness and structure. This is seven hundred WLW, Cincinnati.
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Speaker 3: The Conference Board reports that US consumer confidence fell this
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Speaker 6: Good morning, sir, how are you today?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I'm doing great? How about yourself?
Speaker 6: Doing all right?
Speaker 7: Little rainy day, but I had some wonderful, crisp fall
Speaker 7: day coming up. Doesn't get nights last couple of.
Speaker 2: Weeks, absolutely, and it looks like we're gonna have some
Speaker 2: good ones over the weekend after some rain today and
Speaker 2: tomorrow and clearing up apparently tomorrow night. You know, in
Speaker 2: the news a lot lately, and there was a big
Speaker 2: story that's on going up in Waynesville, Ohio about a
Speaker 2: man who's been an administrator there, a coach for forty
Speaker 2: seven years, or an athletic director, and now all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, people sort of I guess, for lack of
Speaker 2: a better term, coming out of the woodwork some thirty
Speaker 2: plus years later about inappropriate behavior. Whether it's true or not,
Speaker 2: we don't know. But it is an ongoing, big story
Speaker 2: in Waynesville, and it brings to mind the role of
Speaker 2: not only coaches, but also parents. And you know, let's
Speaker 2: start with parents, because I heard a lengthy, well what's
Speaker 2: a word, a sermon for lack of a better term,
Speaker 2: I think it was from Chip Ingram the other day
Speaker 2: talking about, you know, structure in the household and closeness.
Speaker 6: So let's start with parents.
Speaker 2: It seems to me a lot of the parents that
Speaker 2: I'm around right now Chad Hoban want to be a
Speaker 2: friend of their kids, can be friends of their young kids.
Speaker 7: Well, I guess it depends on how you define friendship.
Speaker 7: I mean when I first had my kids, when I
Speaker 7: were first born, my vision statement for my parenting was
Speaker 7: a fifty year friendship with my kids. However, that doesn't
Speaker 7: mean every stage you're accommodating to them or acting like
Speaker 7: they are moral equal. But my goal is to raise
Speaker 7: kids who would be you know, responsible adults, would have
Speaker 7: the tools they need for that and have the emotional
Speaker 7: closeness so that we would have a fifty year friendship.
Speaker 7: So I'm not sure it's either or, But if you
Speaker 7: define friendship as a lack of structure, a lack of discipline,
Speaker 7: that I'd say you're missing out. It was a study
Speaker 7: in Minister years ago called the Minnesota Study, and they
Speaker 7: raided on an X and Y axis what's needed for parenting,
Speaker 7: for coaching, for mentoring in any relationship, and that was
Speaker 7: structure on the Y axis, and it was emotional closeness
Speaker 7: on the X axis. And strangely, they found that parents
Speaker 7: and coaches who had high emotional closeness I care about you,
Speaker 7: I love you, I appreciate you. They had all emotional closeness,
Speaker 7: but no structure, no discipline, no calling to account, no accountability. Strangely,
Speaker 7: the parents who had the most emotional closeness but the
Speaker 7: least amount of structure without any at all. On the
Speaker 7: other side, they raised the most insecure kids, which you
Speaker 7: think would be the object.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 7: The other contrast was those who had high discipline. I'm
Speaker 7: not listening to your perspective. Your voice hasn't heard. I'm
Speaker 7: not trying to understand the whole side, but just disciplined discipline, discipline.
Speaker 7: I'm the authoritarian. I make the rules and you obey it.
Speaker 7: Those parents raised the most rebellious children because they had
Speaker 7: all that structure. But the minute that structure was gone, there,
Speaker 7: out of there. And it's actually a little verse in
Speaker 7: the Bible that says, where the law increases, send increases
Speaker 7: even more. You've probab see in your own life, you're
Speaker 7: walking along on a path. Suddenly you see a sign
Speaker 7: that says stay off the grass. I wasn't even thinking
Speaker 7: about stepping on the ground. Show that I see design.
Speaker 7: I'm like, well, maybe I want to. So Really the
Speaker 7: key is not rules for rule's sake, but how do
Speaker 7: you teach principles? I would say all the time, I
Speaker 7: got a little inner rebel in me. I've never found
Speaker 7: a rule I didn't want to break, but a principle
Speaker 7: I don't want to love. So part of coaching and
Speaker 7: part of parenting is trying to teach this principle behind
Speaker 7: this application is so important. It's important to your life.
Speaker 7: It's going to serve you well. And so what we
Speaker 7: want to do is we want to combine emotional closeness
Speaker 7: and the structure and discipline, because those who actually combine
Speaker 7: both of those raise the most secure children. And same thing.
Speaker 7: In a boss situation, you say, Wow, my boss really
Speaker 7: loves me, but man, this place is run an incompetent way.
Speaker 7: People getting away with murder around here, and there's no accountability.
Speaker 7: What you're calling for is some degree of structure increase.
Speaker 7: Other times you have a boss or situation where it's like, man,
Speaker 7: you know this place is run well, but I think
Speaker 7: I'm a cog in the wheel, and no one cares
Speaker 7: about me. No one asks about me, no one ever
Speaker 7: says anything nice about my contribution except the once a
Speaker 7: year when I do an annual review. So how do
Speaker 7: we combine both those things. And I think if you
Speaker 7: are a person who's been coached, you realize the benefit
Speaker 7: of coaching. You know, whether your parent did well or
Speaker 7: coached well, or the other side, you weren't coached well,
Speaker 7: or you weren't parented well, you felt a deficit of that. Man,
Speaker 7: you know what I want to do better than what
Speaker 7: was trusted to me. That's really what a coach does.
Speaker 7: It creates a whole environment in a family, whole environment
Speaker 7: in an area of your company. Who can't control the
Speaker 7: whole environment in your department, you see, I want to
Speaker 7: coach people who can coach people to coach people. I
Speaker 7: think about like a parenting. I want to coach my
Speaker 7: kids so they end up being able to coach my grandkids,
Speaker 7: so they can coach my great grandkids. It's a culture
Speaker 7: of humility, it's a culture of teachability. I mean, I've
Speaker 7: been a public speaker now for I don't know, forty
Speaker 7: five years if you take the time back when I
Speaker 7: was on stage and doing plays and stuff. To be
Speaker 7: a professional communicator, and every week I have six people
Speaker 7: critique me because I know I watch my videos every
Speaker 7: single week because I want to be communicating and doing
Speaker 7: my best work next week, next month, next year, not
Speaker 7: last week, last month. But that requires humility. It's not well,
Speaker 7: you know, I've got a covered bob. You know I've
Speaker 7: learned a lot, but other people are going to see
Speaker 7: things I don't see. Doesn't mean I always jump at
Speaker 7: all the feedback on hundred percent, but I want to
Speaker 7: be open to feedback. I want to be open to
Speaker 7: other perspectives so that I can be my best. By
Speaker 7: having the proverbs in the Bible, sysm sharpens iron. We
Speaker 7: need other people to sharpen us unless we get dult.
Speaker 2: You know, one word, and I've read that Minnesota study,
Speaker 2: one word that seemed to creep into the conversation quite
Speaker 2: a bit. That seemed to be, if not the most
Speaker 2: important word in all of that. Now, I'm going to
Speaker 2: talk specifically for a second and ask you about parenting
Speaker 2: has to do with the word obedience and how you know, Look,
Speaker 2: you're trying to raise your kids, and look, whether you're
Speaker 2: a deeply spiritual person or not, is to get them
Speaker 2: to understand. And this is where we see in society
Speaker 2: so frequently now where either parents aren't doing it, parents
Speaker 2: aren't around, and all of a sudden, kids just don't
Speaker 2: understand the importance of obedience as they are growing up,
Speaker 2: and then perhaps from a more spiritual standpoint, then obedience
Speaker 2: to how they live.
Speaker 6: Is that fair?
Speaker 7: I think it's very fair. In fact, I always say,
Speaker 7: you don't break God's laws, you discover them. You want hey,
Speaker 7: in the same way, it's not just spiritual things. But
Speaker 7: you don't break the law of gravity. You discover the
Speaker 7: law of gravity when you think a step off of
Speaker 7: a building. And so the same way. If a child
Speaker 7: doesn't learn that there is structure and there's truth, and
Speaker 7: there are things that you need to submit, subordinate yourself too,
Speaker 7: then you're gonna be in trouble because, hey, I finally
Speaker 7: got rid of mom and dad. Well, you still got
Speaker 7: a landlord. I've covered my landlord. Well, I guests, but
Speaker 7: you still have roommates, you still have a boss, you
Speaker 7: still have These are principles that apply in every area
Speaker 7: of life. And if you think you can circumvent reality,
Speaker 7: like the hang glider can temporarily circumvent gravity, but you're
Speaker 7: eventually going to go down. And so you want to say,
Speaker 7: I'm teaching my children how to deal with life. Part
Speaker 7: dealing with life is dealing with truth. The part dealing
Speaker 7: with truth is understanding. I need to subordinate, subordinate myself
Speaker 7: to the truth here. And so as a parent, you
Speaker 7: want to teach first time obedience. Yes, there's a place
Speaker 7: for negotiation. Yes there's a place for appealing, and what
Speaker 7: we can talk about that to as a parent, But
Speaker 7: we need to start with if dad or mom tells
Speaker 7: you to do this, I want your first thing you
Speaker 7: say is I'm gonna do it. I'm going to call
Speaker 7: you to first time obedience. Now, of course, none of
Speaker 7: us are really good at the head, and that's why
Speaker 7: as a parent, you're a teacher. And I think a
Speaker 7: lot of people think of themselves as you know, generals
Speaker 7: or drill sergeants's parents. But the primary role you want
Speaker 7: to see yourself as a teacher. So if your child
Speaker 7: is not giving first time obedience, how can I teach
Speaker 7: them that? How can I show what the consequences that
Speaker 7: they don't but also lovingly teach what it looks like.
Speaker 7: Then also say, now, when you're characterized by first time obedience,
Speaker 7: there is a place to respectfully disagree, But we don't
Speaker 7: teach that either. How what does it look like to
Speaker 7: respectfully disagree? Well, after you say, dad, I'll do it. It's okay.
Speaker 7: The next day an hour later to come up and say,
Speaker 7: can I talk to you about something dead? Or even
Speaker 7: in the phrases we taught our kids is can I appeal?
Speaker 7: Sometimes answer is no, you can't, that's not on this one.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Other times it's yes, you can appeal. On this one,
Speaker 7: I'm willing to listen. I'll give it a second listen.
Speaker 7: And many times I came back and changed my mind.
Speaker 7: I came back and apologized by the way I handled
Speaker 7: it because I wanted to demonstrate to my kids not
Speaker 7: only do I want them to be teachable, but I
Speaker 7: want to be teachable, and so I think you can
Speaker 7: combine both those things. The question you want to ask
Speaker 7: yourself as a parent, to coach a boss is am
Speaker 7: I living an imitatable life? Like when people see how
Speaker 7: I'm leading, how I'm acting, how I'm parenting, would your
Speaker 7: kids say, you know, Dad's not perfect, but he owns
Speaker 7: it when he's not. That's an imitatable life and that's
Speaker 7: what a coach does.
Speaker 6: All Right.
Speaker 2: Before I let you go, though, I want to ask
Speaker 2: you. You know we get into vicious cycles, right, you know,
Speaker 2: over and over. Okay, let's assume for a second that
Speaker 2: you were a kid who didn't grow up with a
Speaker 2: lot of these things. Maybe you didn't get a lot
Speaker 2: of love, Maybe you didn't have a lot of structure.
Speaker 2: How do you change that so when you become a
Speaker 2: parent it's different.
Speaker 7: Well, you know, I just read a great story the
Speaker 7: other day about the movie Maverick with Jodie Foster and
Speaker 7: Mel Gibson, and mel Gibson kind of lost his temper
Speaker 7: on set and and Jody tooka this good chemistry. After
Speaker 7: you saw Maverick, it was pretty cool. A little movie
Speaker 7: with James Gardner, and he gets all upset, and you know,
Speaker 7: he comes back to the next shot and he knew
Speaker 7: he'd stepped in it, and he bought her some flowers
Speaker 7: and he wrote her a note and he said, I
Speaker 7: was raised by a man who taught me to fight first,
Speaker 7: but I'm trying to be a better man. I'm sorry
Speaker 7: there's somebody who acknowledges I didn't come with all the
Speaker 7: tools I needed, and certainly mal gives them got the
Speaker 7: whole train wreck of bad decisions. But he's trying to
Speaker 7: make progress. And I think that's what you want to
Speaker 7: do as a parent, to say it's not perfection. I'm
Speaker 7: pursuing progress, and I tell you that grace goes a
Speaker 7: long way. When you come back and your kids for
Speaker 7: the first time in a long time here you say,
Speaker 7: you know what, I could have handled that better. So like, oh,
Speaker 7: my goodness, the kluephone is going off and my dad's
Speaker 7: answering it. The kluephone is breaking in my mind. Answer
Speaker 7: this same thing you think with your kids. You're like, yeah,
Speaker 7: my goodness, the son the klophone has been ringing for
Speaker 7: like six months. It's founding on your door and it's
Speaker 7: going to be painful if you'll pick it up. So again,
Speaker 7: you want to model the same thing. It's okay to
Speaker 7: say I'm not good at this. Guys, you know I'm
Speaker 7: not good at this. You watch me every day. But
Speaker 7: I want to at least be better at this. And
Speaker 7: you'd be amazed at the forgiveness and grace people give
Speaker 7: each other when they realize you're at least trying to
Speaker 7: aim in the right direction.
Speaker 2: Great stuff, as always, Pastor Chad Hoven can't thank you
Speaker 2: enough for your time and hope you have a great
Speaker 2: rest of your week.
Speaker 6: And uh and thanks as always, sir. Great talking to you.
Speaker 7: Sounds good.
Speaker 2: Talking Pastor Chad Hooven, always great talking with him, always
Speaker 2: incredible wisdom.
Speaker 6: Every single week. We call it plain glass, stained glass.
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Speaker 2: Northbound seventy five is that spots low out of Florence
Speaker 2: into downtown where there is an accident near Ezerd Charles.
Speaker 2: The left three lanes are currently blocked off. Cruise are
Speaker 2: also working with a wreck on westbound Fort Washington Ways
Speaker 2: ramp to the sixth Street Viaduct. Further north on seventy five,
Speaker 2: a wreck above Mitchell and at Town Street one on
Speaker 2: the left, one on the right, and east bound two
Speaker 2: seventy five, a record seventy five in Sharonville's backing traffic
Speaker 2: past seven forty seven.
Speaker 6: Chuck Ingram, News Radio seven hundred w WELW.
Speaker 2: Alrighty our WCPO nine first Warning forecast resented by Jennifer
Speaker 2: ketch Mark. It's a whole lot of rain, up to
Speaker 2: an inch total by the time we get through roughly
Speaker 2: tomorrow night. Supposed to rain most of the day today,
Speaker 2: most of the night to night night, most of the
Speaker 2: day tomorrow. Our high's only at fifty one degrees, which
Speaker 2: is ten degrees below our October average on a yearly basis.
Speaker 2: By tomorrow night, we're getting down to thirty nine, but
Speaker 2: the clouds will begin to break up, the rain will
Speaker 2: get out of here. We're going to dry up by
Speaker 2: the time we reach Halloween Day, and it looks like
Speaker 2: Halloween night is going to be quite pleasant. And that
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