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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. We're live on ninety

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Speaker 1: three three FLZ Ashley Katie Jad. Sorry for your loss

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Speaker 1: a couple of years ago. Oh I know, so eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and four O nine ninety three ninety three if

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Speaker 1: anyone else gets something like this, because that is kind

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Speaker 1: of it's kind of a bummer that this keeps happening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I was having a good morning until

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Speaker 2: I got this email, and I was just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I feel so email.

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Speaker 3: Now what happened a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 2: So I moved down to Florida by myself, and I

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Speaker 2: had my two chihuahuas like they were my support puppy shadow,

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Speaker 2: and they have had very long, good lives, but they

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Speaker 2: have since passed. You know, they lived to be like

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Speaker 2: sixteen and seventeen. But I still get emails from the

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Speaker 2: vet on their birthday. So I just got an email

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Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Ernie, and I'm like, leal, Ernie brown Dog

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Speaker 2: crossed the rainbow like three years ago.

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Speaker 4: But thanks for the reminders.

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Speaker 3: Why why not just unsubscribe? I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Let's can subscribes for so many things, and it's still

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Speaker 3: hits you with an email.

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Speaker 1: You're absolutely right, Ash, But now that we talk about it,

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Speaker 1: I wonder are you not unsubscribing because you don't want

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Speaker 1: to let go Ernie?

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Speaker 3: Am I the problem? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I think so. I think as much as you

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Speaker 1: are sad right now, you can't let go of that.

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Speaker 4: Let's leave the room. This is therapist jae session with.

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Speaker 3: I think that is. Maybe it's gotta.

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Speaker 4: Be, because then you have good memories and do.

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Speaker 3: You get anything? Do you get anything else? Sorry to

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Speaker 3: cut you off, No.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Well with Chewy, they send birthday cards for Napoleon, who

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Speaker 2: also has since passed, and then I don't throw them away.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Joe, maybe you're onto something. You keep

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Speaker 2: the ones even like this past year. Yeah, because I

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Speaker 2: have in my house where they were cremated, so there

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Speaker 2: and you'll notice the next time they're over because there's

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Speaker 2: like a little picture and they're little like boxes. And

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Speaker 2: then like when people when they when they died or whatever,

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Speaker 2: people had sent really nice cards or like my friends

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Speaker 2: sent flowers.

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Speaker 4: So I have like a little box and their collars

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Speaker 4: are in there. I'm sorry. A drawer and then I

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Speaker 4: put the cards in there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't let them go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm unpacking so much like that.

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Speaker 3: That's definitely what it is. Whose birthday is next? Well,

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Speaker 3: I guess Napoleon. Well, Ernie would be today.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Ernie's today, and then Chewie will send me a

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Speaker 4: birthday card in March.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Chewie will send me a birthday card in March.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. There's anything wrong with that?

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Speaker 4: That sounds silly, though, is it?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think i'd do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I kind of had a not an emotional because I

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Speaker 1: didn't cry. I was very frustrated with my family to

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Speaker 1: find out I had a dog named Lily, and I

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Speaker 1: didn't have like the most comfortable like middle school. In

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Speaker 1: high school, I ended up having to change schools, Like

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Speaker 1: it just wasn't that great. So, like my freshman year,

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Speaker 1: I tasked myself with not saying a word during school.

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Speaker 1: I completed that tab. I'll never forget a girl that

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Speaker 1: I had crush on in middle school and we were

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Speaker 1: friends with and then we didn't talk ever again. She

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Speaker 1: walked up to me on one of the last days

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Speaker 1: of school and she's like, oh my god, I didn't

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Speaker 1: even know that you went to school here like that.

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Speaker 3: And I ended up transferring after that.

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Speaker 1: But every single day I'd go home and Lily would

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Speaker 1: lay on my stomach, and I like every picture I

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Speaker 1: have when I was in school, like it was Lily

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Speaker 1: laying in my stomach.

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Speaker 3: She ended up dying when.

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Speaker 1: I was in college, your stomach, and I ate her,

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Speaker 1: so she's in my stomach.

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I found out that my brothers who Luke knew Lily

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Speaker 1: for a cup of coffee. Luke is like ten years

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Speaker 1: younger than me. I don't think you've met Luke yet,

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Speaker 1: that you will. He's an asshead. Luke got something, Jacob

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Speaker 1: got something, My dad has something, my mom has something.

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Speaker 1: My mom on her key chain has Lily's collar like

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Speaker 1: the key tag.

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Speaker 3: D Yeah, I didn't get anything.

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Speaker 4: The memories.

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Speaker 3: I like to hold onto things like that.

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Speaker 2: It's in your heart, yeah, well no, in my pocket,

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Speaker 2: that's not Yeah, they got paused, They got a whole alyssa.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they felt you were too close and it would

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Speaker 2: have been like they were like, yeah, he doesn't want anything,

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Speaker 2: but that's not fair.

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Speaker 3: But to hold on, that's totally not fair. Wife's not fair.

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Speaker 3: Joe You're not fair. Do you keep anything from chief?

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Speaker 3: I do? I had. It's not fair.

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Speaker 5: He's not fair because I don't have anything. Well, Joe,

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Speaker 5: why weren't you more proactive in the process and tell

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Speaker 5: your mom.

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Speaker 3: In Chicago? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well no, That's the thing is if your dog really

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Speaker 5: meant that much to you, Ashley, right, wouldn't you be like,

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Speaker 5: you know what, Mom? Is there anything I could do?

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Speaker 3: Can we do something to commemorate?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: He's usually like that, but it was different.

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Speaker 1: I went to school in Chicago, Illinois, when Lily had

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Speaker 1: passed away. It was a very traumatic moment for me.

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Speaker 1: April twenty first. It happened April twenty first, and the

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Speaker 1: Cubs were playing a day game against the Cincinnati Reds.

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Speaker 1: I was so sad that my dad said, listen, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna make you happy. I'm gonna get you to I

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Speaker 1: went to a lot of Cubs games. So I went

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Speaker 1: and I sat in the bleachers. When I would go

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Speaker 1: to Cubs games, I wouldn't go with anyone.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: I really am alone, and I would put headphones on

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Speaker 1: and I would listen to other baseball games.

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Speaker 3: Vin Scully on the call for the Dodgers.

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Speaker 1: Vin Scully said, I hope you're having a beautiful day,

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Speaker 1: and if not, I hope baseball can be that escape

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Speaker 1: that you need. If I remember that, I obviously was

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Speaker 1: going through a jed, but you might have.

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Speaker 3: He didn't ask for anything.

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Speaker 5: You should have been like, Mom, go to the vet.

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Speaker 5: Get like because for Chief, my dog who passed away

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Speaker 5: couple of years ago, you got his paw. I got

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Speaker 5: his paw. Why the hell didn't she tell your mom?

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Speaker 3: Listen, Mom, this is what I want paw print like.

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Speaker 3: It's like a rabbit sweat.

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Speaker 4: Clarify.

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Speaker 5: Keep it on top of my bedroom dresser, look at

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Speaker 5: it every morning.

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Speaker 3: Well, Katie, don't get rid of any of those. Happy

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Speaker 3: birthday or anybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, happy birthday, Ernie.

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Speaker 3: A twenty one growl salute for Ernie starting to sell.

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Speaker 3: They don't twenty one girl salute. You can't don't laugh.

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Speaker 3: Oh nine three flz.

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Speaker 2: No one knows what's at the center of a black

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Speaker 2: hole except us.

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Speaker 1: We ran the numbers.

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