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Speaker 1: All right, it is time for the gathering of the nerds.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. It is time to test your knowledge

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Speaker 1: that it is time for nerd Trivia.

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Speaker 2: For some reason, it is gone off the board here.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what happened to it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a bad tim I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's really odd. That's a terrible time nerd know where

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Speaker 2: that went? But that's not that's not you know where

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Speaker 2: that went? No, that's not open at all? Trivia? Can

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Speaker 2: you go in like probos and.

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Speaker 1: Type I think Jamie's looking at that, guys doing, guy's doing.

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Speaker 2: I think somebody loaded I don't know who loaded it,

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Speaker 2: but they may have. The date may have been a

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Speaker 2: cut off date. So it's gone now.

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Speaker 1: Because let's just play the game. I mean, my open.

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Speaker 2: Nailed having to reload the open No, I just heard it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've nailed it like four or five times.

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Speaker 2: Guys, just did it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, guys, what do we need that.

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Speaker 1: Nerd Trivia works? Ladies and gentlemen. I'm going to give

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Speaker 1: you some different category. You gotta get two questions in

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Speaker 1: a row to win, and you can't pick the same category. Now,

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Speaker 1: the prize on the line for Nerd trivia today is

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Speaker 1: Nick Swardsen Tickets, huge comedian who is going to be

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Speaker 1: playing the Magnolia Theater in Alcohol on March twenty ninth.

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Speaker 1: So if you want to win Nick Swardson Tickets, calls

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Speaker 1: right now eight seven seven five seven oh one oh

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Speaker 1: five three to play some nerd trivia. Let's get our

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Speaker 1: first nerd on the line. Let's go to p one Aaron. Aaron,

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Speaker 1: you are first up in nerd trivia? What's going on? Oh?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Aaron? How you doing? Man? I love it?

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Speaker 1: Love it? Are you? Are you a nerdy like me?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Huge, Star Wars nerd myself, Marvel, Star Wars.

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Speaker 1: Love it all, that's what I need. Give it me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll get it, give it to you all. Okay, wait

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Speaker 1: about to give it to you all. Let me go

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Speaker 1: over your categories. Your categories are Star Wars, mc U,

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Speaker 1: Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, or miscellaneous. Now again, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get two in a row and you can't

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Speaker 1: pick the same category. Which category are you gonna start with?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with my default Star Wars. I can't

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Speaker 1: be excited. I can't be excited. Here we go. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna give it to you. Erin, Here is your question, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: what is the name of the creature Luke rides on

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Speaker 1: the ice planet Hath before he was attacked. Erin very confidently,

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Speaker 1: says a Ton Ton and he is correct. Yes, well,

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Speaker 1: I mean that was as easy as you don't have to.

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Speaker 1: I had to tone down my nerds. But luckily Aaron

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Speaker 1: is on my level. It sounds like, now before we win,

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Speaker 1: he's got to get another one correct, and you can't

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Speaker 1: pick the same category. So what are you going with now,

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Speaker 1: Aaron mcu, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones are miscellaneous? Oh,

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Speaker 1: let's he's going with mcu. All right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Here's your question. Aaron, gotta get this one right to win, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: which Burrow is Steve Rogers from? This is easy, he

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Speaker 1: says Brooklyn, and is correct. Well, I didn't know what

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Speaker 1: he talks about him many times. I didn't know obviously

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Speaker 1: the first Avenger and then he, you know, talk to

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Speaker 1: have a back and forth about their burrows and things

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Speaker 1: like that. It's pretty awesome. Okay, so it's it's mentioned

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Speaker 1: several times. Great job. Eron he is a winner. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's get our next player on the line. Let's go

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Speaker 1: to P one Phineas. Phineas, You're next nerd in nerd trivia.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Phineas. I'm doing well. How is it going

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 3: If else, congrats on your iHeart Award.

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Speaker 1: Phineas could be Phineas and Ferb. I'm not sure. Okay, okay, Phineas.

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Speaker 1: You gotta get two in a row, correct, and you

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Phineas. Your question is what

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Speaker 1: did Yoda levitate out of the swamp on Degaba in

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Speaker 1: Empire Strikes Back?

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Speaker 4: It looks swing is correct, So fat and annoyed joker.

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Speaker 1: This is what I want, though, Okaya, I need some

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Speaker 4: Now. I pictured it in my head and I would

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Speaker 4: have said the plane thing with that of Coundar.

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Speaker 1: Okay if you didn't say X wing fighter.

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Speaker 3: Okay, my bad. I knew it was a play.

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Speaker 1: Gave me a break. All right, you gotta get two

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Speaker 1: the Game of Thrones who pushed brand Stark out of

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Speaker 1: the window in season one, says Jamie Lanister, And I'm

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Speaker 1: having the best time. This is fantastic. We really are

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven five seven, Oh what five three? If

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Speaker 1: you would like to play some dirt trevia, All right,

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Speaker 1: let's go to our next nerve. Let's go to P one.

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Speaker 1: Tiger tie, Tiger tie, you were next nerd. What's going on?

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Speaker 1: That's going on? Everyone? What's happening? My friend? All right,

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Speaker 1: here we go. You gotta get two questions in a

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Speaker 1: Your categories are Star Wars, MCU, Lord of the Rings,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go, Tecker tie. What is the

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Speaker 1: name of Tony Stark's father, he says, Howard Stark, and

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Speaker 1: In an endgame, there's a whole scene with Tony and

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Speaker 1: get one more correct to win, and you can't pick

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Speaker 2: As with miscellane.

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Speaker 1: A gamble why because it could be anything? It really

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go, tag attack again. Miscellaneus could

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Speaker 1: The Minecraft game was created by a developer from which country?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Oh see this comic?

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Speaker 2: Uh, let's go with Germany.

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Speaker 1: He goes with Germany.

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Speaker 3: That's a good guess.

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Speaker 2: That is incorrect, Sweden. There different countries. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: was thinking, Sweden, Are you really? I was honestly Germany?

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Speaker 1: Well you were, You would have been right, you would

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so that's I just wasn't thinking.

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Speaker 1: All right, we got time for one more. Let's go

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Speaker 1: to pee. What Alex, Alex, you are a last nerd

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Speaker 1: in Nerd Tribute today. Again. You got to get two

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Speaker 1: Are you there, Alex?

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Speaker 1: All right? Here we go. Your categories are Star Wars, MCU,

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Speaker 1: it's again? Oh, this is awesome.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's one of the choices that you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's real, it's really exciting. All right.

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Speaker 1: Simple question, Alex, how does King Jeoffrey die poison? It

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Speaker 1: was poisoned at his wedding? You are correct, we got him?

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Speaker 1: All right, Here we go, Alex. You got to get

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Speaker 1: Your categories left are Star Wars, m CU, Lord of

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Speaker 1: All right? Your question is in which movie in the

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Speaker 1: m c U did Spider Man make his first appearance?

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Speaker 1: Which MCU movie did Spider Man his first appearance?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come on.

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Speaker 1: Wire considered.

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Speaker 2: Two thousand and one.

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Speaker 1: I don't got it. Well, he is not even in

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Speaker 1: Captain America Civil.

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Speaker 2: War, Civil War, come on during the that's the easiest

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Speaker 2: one you've ever done.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I mean I knew.

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Speaker 1: Well, we had to hear Sky do my open like

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Speaker 2: We can't find I don't know what happened that, right,

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Speaker 2: So last week we were driving to my grandma's she

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Speaker 2: And I asked my wife, how would he know that

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Speaker 1: She won't.

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Speaker 2: She the only time we share she shares her location

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Speaker 5: And so she like goes and makes it happen, like

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Speaker 2: Location, you share like the rest of the day. So

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Speaker 2: And I said, that's ridiculous. And she doesn't want to

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Speaker 4: I just wonder, I like it's too much, like I

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Speaker 2: it's her. Why does she feel the need to share

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Speaker 2: I don't understand it either, Like I don't share my

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Speaker 5: Anybody either, friend thing weird, like I find sharing with

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Speaker 1: Anywhere you go, you're going to share with your mom your.

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Speaker 1: Do you get like afication?

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Speaker 4: No, you just look whenever you're wondering, but you could

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Speaker 4: look at any time and see where Why are you wondering.

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Speaker 5: I don't think they share those with me because I

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Speaker 2: That would never do.

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Speaker 1: Why would they? Why would your mom need to know

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Speaker 5: I don't know, because they like certain people like sharing

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Speaker 2: All kids share that. You could find each other on

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Speaker 1: Do that kind of understandable, Yeah, but I don't understand

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want it with me because she thinks it's

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Speaker 2: We don't trust each other and we're not and it's

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because why not that same vibe with anyone's

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Speaker 2: The like, well, I honestly think she doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: And to her to me, wondering what you're doing and

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Speaker 2: I need to know what you're doing. Even though it's harmless,

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Speaker 1: Well, then it does raise questions and can raise questions

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Speaker 1: of hey, what were you doing in you know lea

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Speaker 1: But it just makes you feel like, oh, for no reason,

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Speaker 1: why do you need to know that? Yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: That if you're used to it.

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Speaker 5: Because yesterday Robert called me and he goes, hey, Griffy's,

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Speaker 2: At Why I ask if you were at CVS because.

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Speaker 5: He couldn't tell if I was at CVS or the

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Speaker 5: he's like, hey, at.

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Speaker 2: CVS and I wasn't. I was at the car wash.

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Speaker 2: But it didn't rub me the wrong way, like why

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Speaker 1: which you don't ever really go to know and hey,

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Speaker 1: That doesn't hit You're not doing anything wrong. You went

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Speaker 5: In tone that you're saying, and it is like a

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Speaker 1: How how would you want me to say it?

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Speaker 5: Like to me the delivery like it was just like

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Speaker 1: I saw that you but you still got to explain it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that doesn't bother me. But if he did it though,

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Speaker 2: he's in ocean side, he's all over you know what

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Speaker 5: No, I understand, And but I don't think that there's

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Speaker 2: I'm curious about your day? Like what were you doing

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Speaker 5: Like not anyway you slice it anyway it comes out

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Speaker 5: but I'm not. You just want to know about like

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Speaker 1: And sure, but my wife is at all times I just.

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Speaker 5: Think it's kind of a convenient, fun thing to be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fun.

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Speaker 2: To me, it's a controlling and I would I need

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Speaker 4: The time, accusatory and like my daughter even told me

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh really, And I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 4: You're just like, oh, okay, cool, they're at home depot

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, you know.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The more I think about it, the more I think

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Speaker 3: Would you ever share with your friends? Would you feel comfortable?

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Speaker 2: No? I don't want to share around nobody? Yeah? Do

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Speaker 3: Way too much effort?

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Speaker 2: How is that way too much effort?

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Speaker 2: So you'd rather spy on me?

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Speaker 1: You are? What are you doing? Mission valid?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: By yourself? That's weird. Really doesn't need to know? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do think it is odd that she'll share it

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Speaker 4: And why the brothers like I can kind of understand

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Speaker 2: I don't get that either, But I don't share my

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Speaker 1: I don't know how.

437
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:55,679
Speaker 2: I don't know how. I don't know how they do it.

438
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if they know what time they're coming

439
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,919
Speaker 2: home for dinner or not, because I don't do locations

440
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 2: that's helpful.

441
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 1: So I have this situation going on with my wife, Deborah,

442
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: and I really don't know what to do about it

443
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: because it's been going on for a really long time.

444
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 1: In fact, I may have even mentioned before it's a

445
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:20,479
Speaker 1: tricky situation because I don't want to upset her. But

446
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 1: I also I'm like, well, this is odd, it doesn't

447
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 1: make much sense, and it all has to do with

448
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 1: getting gifts for each other. So we we kind of

449
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:36,000
Speaker 1: go overboard when it comes to like our birthdays and Christmas. Luckily,

450
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 1: it used to be even crazier where we would like

451
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,160
Speaker 1: every holiday. It got to the point of where we

452
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 1: were like getting each other things, and I was like,

453
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: do we really need to buy each other Halloween presence? Yesterday?

454
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 1: We used to be a thing where we would get

455
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 1: each other Easter stuff, like any holiday we'd get A little.

456
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: Guy buys her daughter a teen basket? Would you and

457
00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 2: your wife to adult baskets? Almost? I mean adult baskets?

458
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: That's weird, it definitely is.

459
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: And so finally we're like, Okay, we got to stop.

460
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: I can't. It's too much pressure, it's too much crap.

461
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 1: It's that stuff we don't need, Like, we got to stop.

462
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

463
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 4: I remember it was a Saint Patrick's Day. You one

464
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 4: time came in. You're like, yeah, and she found all

465
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,879
Speaker 4: this green stuff and and you're like, we got it.

466
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,159
Speaker 1: We gotta stop. I can't handle it. Yeah. So that

467
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 1: was that was it. And now it's gone to the

468
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: whole other level of like even now our anniversary, we

469
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: don't even get each other gifts, which I love. Yeah, Birthday,

470
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: birthdays and Christmas, that's it. That's it. That's it. Well,

471
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: Mother's Day a little bit, you know, yeah, yeah, okay,

472
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: so yeah, I mean, but overall, it's a little overboard

473
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 1: to me. And I tell her every year, you know,

474
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: especially from a birthday, I'm like, you don't have to

475
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: get me a ton of stuff. I don't need it,

476
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: and I don't you don't really want it.

477
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: Is she more of a quantity or a quality or

478
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 4: does it depend on the year, you know what I mean?

479
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 4: Because sometimes people will just buy like a mountain of

480
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 4: stuff just to be like.

481
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: It's always it's always that. Oh, it's always quantity, there

482
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 1: are there is quality in their choice. But for me,

483
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: like I would rather like one really cool gift that

484
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: I really want, yeah, rather than fifty small things that

485
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,919
Speaker 1: are just like okay, that's whatever.

486
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 2: It's almost like more junk kind of.

487
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 1: And I always say, you don't need to do all this, yeah,

488
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 1: and she says, oh no, it's the one time I

489
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: get to spoil you. You don't buy anything for yourself,

490
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: so I want to spoil you. That's nice, Yeah, but

491
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: I don't. It's just it makes me feel weird and

492
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 1: it's like too much and it's whatever. But I let

493
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: her do it. It's fine. So what tends to happen again

494
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: at Christmas and my birthday is that you know, I'll

495
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: get these things and it's kind of like, Okay, well,

496
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell I'm going to do

497
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: with that. I don't really, it's just going to sit there. Yeah,

498
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: probably should just return it. I don't. I don't know,

499
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: I don't need it. But what happened this past my

500
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: birthday was a couple of weeks ago. What happened this

501
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: past birthday was that it was bizarre. She got me

502
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: two things that I already had and one and they

503
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 1: were both like shirts. So she bought me this like

504
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: padres long sleeve like hoodie, lightweight hoodie that I but

505
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: I got it at Christmas. And I'm like, you haven't

506
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: seen me wear this?

507
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 2: Like?

508
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: It was really bizarre. It was from somebody no that

509
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: would be bizarre, but she got me that, and I go,

510
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: I mean, I've warned it a few times since. How

511
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: did you not reckonize? She goes that exact one. I go, yeah,

512
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: that exact one. And then she goes, oh, okay, and

513
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 1: so and then she got me a shirt that I

514
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 1: already had, but it was just in a different color.

515
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: But it's the same shirt, and she goes, oh, well,

516
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 1: maybe you can mix it in. I go, come on,

517
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I have I have like seven five graphic

518
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: T shirts. I don't need to mix another way.

519
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: Ye. No, what you have now is great though.

520
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 1: You give me this story love it.

521
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 2: McDonald's shirt crazy.

522
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 1: This is the crazyest shirt I own.

523
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 2: But it's like it's cool though, but I love it.

524
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: So she got me these things, and from time to

525
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: time I'll get something from her that like doesn't fit

526
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: or whatever, and so we're gonna have to return it.

527
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: So you guys know, the return situation is weird with

528
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: gift givers. Does the person that give you the gift

529
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 1: return it or do I have to return it and

530
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: ask you for the receipt?

531
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 2: If I if I bought you something and I think

532
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 2: this with me it didn't fit, Yeah, it didn't fit,

533
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 2: you give it back to me in our return, right,

534
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 2: That's what That's what I would do. That's how I roll.

535
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: That's how I roll.

536
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: Now when it's your wife, though, and she bought it,

537
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: she has the receipt, she has everything. I'm just gonna

538
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: give it to her. You know where you got it,

539
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: you return it?

540
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah unless you Yeah, I agree, But she bought the gift.

541
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 2: But that's your hassle, Like you bought the gift it's

542
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 2: it's the like, I don't want to be hassled by.

543
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: It's it's my gift. You you bought it. You you

544
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 2: do the hasslever turning again anything.

545
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 1: Right, So that's the key component of this, the hass situation. No,

546
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: the you said you return it and get the new thing.

547
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: So in my life with my wife, who we've been

548
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: together for twenty years now, she'll return it, she'll do

549
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: the hassle the return. Yeah, but I never get anything

550
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: back now again, what doesn't bother me on a level

551
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: where I'm upset about it because it's already too much stuff.

552
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: I don't need it. But it's like, wait a second,

553
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: if you're gonna return it, you know you're gonna handle that,

554
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: why do I never get anything in return? Like she

555
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: returns something she bought the let's say the Padres thing.

556
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,479
Speaker 1: You bought that for me. It was cool. I just

557
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: got it in Christmas. So it's clearly your bad. Okay,

558
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 1: so you're going to return that and don't you Normally

559
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: would say, well, what do.

560
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: You want or get your something else?

561
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: Another Padre thing? That's that would be what I would think.

562
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well maybe a jersey, that says coach on the back.

563
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to coach coach.

564
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, So here we are. You know, two

565
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: weeks after my birthday, not even a peep, no word

566
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: of replacement said for said gifts. And this this has

567
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: This happens every single time I get a present where

568
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: she'll return it, but then nothing comes back.

569
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what it is, and you've never.

570
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: Because you will.

571
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 5: She be upset if you say something to her like

572
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 5: what you know, do I get anything else?

573
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: Boy? I don't know. That's the thing. That's the tricky

574
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: part is like I don't want to make her feel bad,

575
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: because I mean, I don't really care that much. But

576
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: it's also odd. Yes, it's also so I do want

577
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: to say, like, you know what, you return these things?

578
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 1: But then I don't get what's the point of the

579
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: president in the first place? So I really got nothing.

580
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: Do you think that she forgets?

581
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 5: Because I could see myself possibly doing this to my

582
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 5: man Robert and exchanging something that it maybe bought for

583
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 5: him from Amazon and then like kind of.

584
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: Forgetting forgetting you did the return? Yeah, so not what,

585
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: I don't know the money comes back into your account.

586
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 5: Now what it's tricky, It's tricky because I could also

587
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 5: see myself be like, oh, well he didn't want it,

588
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 5: so okay, you.

589
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: Bought me something I already had, which is bizarre. So

590
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: what do I just not?

591
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: You know me, I say something?

592
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: What do you say? How do you say that?

593
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 2: Though I'd like, hey, oh so sweet, hey, so kind,

594
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 2: I think I just say hey, there's the real hey.

595
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: Notice the difference.

596
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: There was quite a difference.

597
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 2: There is a pretty big difference. Yeah, it went from

598
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 2: hey to hey, yeah, I don't know. Hey, am I

599
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 2: going to get a replacement?

600
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: There's you don't think that's like, you don't think that's aggressive.

601
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: Maybe, but I am aggressive. But SKY wouldn't say anything. No, No,

602
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 2: I would just if my wife did this, I would

603
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 2: just say I would say randomly, I'm like, hey, did

604
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: you ever return I'd say did you ever return that?

605
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,239
Speaker 1: And she said, oh yeah I did.

606
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: Oh, so did you get something else? That's how I

607
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 2: would say. Yeah. I'd start off did you return it?

608
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 2: And then I'd say did you get something else? You're

609
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 2: very confused? Yeah, like, oh, this guy plays the confusion card.

610
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 4: I love being oh yeah, yeah, because I'm non confrontational.

611
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 4: So if you're just confused, you're not confronting, You're just

612
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm so sorry. I was so confused

613
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 4: about that. I am guilty of this a little bit.

614
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: Oh, but it's you don't buy him presents on his

615
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 2: actual birthday.

616
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: It's weird because it depends what it is.

617
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 4: So if I get you something specialty, like my husband's

618
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 4: a forty nine ers or a San Francisco Giants guy. Right,

619
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 4: So if I buy him something like that in your scenario,

620
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 4: and he already has it or it doesn't fit, then

621
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna swap it out for something else because it's

622
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 4: like specific. But if I just buy you, like new

623
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 4: T shirts or what's happened in the past. If I

624
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 4: buy you, like a button up, something that's more generic,

625
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 4: and if you claim that doesn't fit or you don't

626
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 4: like the color, then screw you.

627
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 3: Good luck, get your own tea.

628
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 4: I don't know.

629
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 3: Why, but I just go, oh, oh, okay, this brown's

630
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 3: clearly not the right brown. Okay, well then I'm just

631
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 3: gonna return that.

632
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: I get to be honest, Yeah, my god, Like it's.

633
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 4: Just a basic T shirt. If my basic T shirt

634
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 4: isn't good enough for.

635
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: You, if I know I'll never wear it, what's the

636
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: point of having it. I don't know.

637
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 3: Then then on the DL return it for the color

638
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 3: brown you want like, but.

639
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: If so, if it does it go that way with

640
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 2: you though. If he buys you something you don't like,

641
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: like maybe some heels, then are you going to return

642
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 2: them or are or are you gonna wear them out

643
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 2: and about No.

644
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 3: I'm gonna pretend that I love them and they're gonna sit.

645
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: Well, that's crazy because it wasn't he shopping at a

646
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: boutique where you didn't like anything.

647
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 4: Everything fits super odd, where it would be like the

648
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 4: top would like be big on the top part, but

649
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 4: then the sleeves would like be choking me. Like, I

650
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 4: don't know what this boutique was like, it was weird,

651
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 4: the stuff was cute, but nothing ever fit right or

652
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Speaker 4: I felt comfortable hang it in my closet with the

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Speaker 4: tags on, and then five years later donated to Goodwill

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Speaker 4: with the tags one.

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Speaker 3: That's what happened with money. I don't know, that's just

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Speaker 3: where I lived.

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Speaker 1: Something like that. I would feel okay with you going

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Speaker 1: and return something.

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Speaker 4: Because it has the tags on it, Yeah, but an

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Speaker 4: online purchase is tough different.

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Speaker 3: You can't be doing that. Yeah, Like for your birthday, Eddie.

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Speaker 4: I printed because I'm I'm a gift receipt gal. I know,

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Speaker 4: but so like if Eddie wanted, like needed to return it.

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Speaker 4: Prior to this conversation, now things have clearly changed, I

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Speaker 4: would have just I printed out the gift seat I

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Speaker 4: was just handed it to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh so I gotta do the hasset.

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Speaker 2: That's the least surprising thing ever. I mean, there's no,

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Speaker 2: there's nothing that's the least shocking in my life.

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Speaker 1: At least I get at least I get something exactly.

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Speaker 2: It's so easy. It's a QR code. You should do it.

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Speaker 3: But he can pick out the new thing then fun.

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Speaker 2: Oh but that defeats the purpose of a gift.

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Speaker 3: He didn't like the first one, so enjoy.

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Speaker 1: What if you bought me a double?

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Speaker 3: Oh well, that's that's a problem.

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Speaker 5: I don't know listening this morning, because then maybe she's

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Speaker 5: gonna get your new gift.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's I don't know. I'm talking.

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Speaker 2: That's why we're doing this.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not