1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: Don't be flowny. Here on seven hundred wlw's schools across 2 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: America locking up, snatching up kids cell phones like their 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: hot Contra band. So you got bell de Belle bands, 4 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: you got the big mad Night of pousage. You got 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: confiscation policies. Ohio, Kentucky, Indiana all requires school districts to 6 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: implement policies banning those phones during instructional class time. And 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 1: each state's so a little bit different than that every 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: but largely most states have this conon policy. But here's 9 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: the question. 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 2: You're ready for the question. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: Here's the question no one's asking us. So new studies 12 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: come out, and not just new, but preceding studies have 13 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: come out. The shows teachers spend somewhere between twenty five 14 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: and thirty something percent of their day, so between a 15 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: quarter and a third of their instructional day trying to 16 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: get kids to listen despite strict cell phone bands. 17 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: That hasn't changed. 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: So our phones the core problem or is it just 19 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: a scapegoat? 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 2: On that? 21 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: Christine Miles, she's a psychologist and works with school systems 22 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: across the country. Founder of the Listening Past. Christine, welcome, 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:01,959 Speaker 1: how are you? 24 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: I'm great I'm so glad we're talking about this, so 25 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 2: thanks for having me on. 26 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I was thinking about this before a conversation, 27 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: and you know I was not. I don't know about you, 28 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: but I was not part of the cell phone generation. Obviously. 29 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: I had my mobile now and had it for a 30 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: look for twenty thirty years. But I look back and go, wow, 31 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: we didn't have this problem when I was a kid. 32 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: As most parents and grandparents certainly say, things are different. 33 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: Of course they're supposed to be different. That's how the 34 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: world this is, That's how America's designed. I guess this 35 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: would be like what if I in school, if I 36 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: were allowed to bring my TV with a cable on 37 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: it and I could watch MTV. What that would do 38 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: for my ability to learn? It's the same thing, right 39 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: it really. 40 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: That's that's beautifully said. That's exactly what it is. We 41 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: don't need it. We just don't need the cord. 42 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 43 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: So so, but I so appreciate the question because it 44 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 2: is a big it is a big, big problem, and 45 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,919 Speaker 2: I'm so glad the school's are fine. We're taking a step. 46 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 2: I mean, we know better, we do better. I mean, 47 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: I remember I grew up when smoking was allowed in 48 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: most places, but then we realized it was harmful for 49 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 2: your health, so we took it outside and we made 50 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 2: smoking areas and things like that. So setting some limits 51 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 2: is similar to that, because I think this is like 52 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 2: that the ships sailed before we knew what the repercussions were. 53 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 2: And I don't think it's the root cause. It's just 54 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: that in gasoline to the already raging fire. In terms 55 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: of the problem of kids struggling to listen, there's also 56 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 2: some rebound effects here. So you take the phones out 57 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: of the schools, and attention spans are still harder to 58 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: come by because when if they're on their phones and 59 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: on devices, which the numbers are kind of staggering. You know, 60 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: these are spending nine hours plus a day outside of 61 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 2: school work. That's a lot of time. So it's not 62 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: like your brain's going to recover just because you don't 63 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 2: have it in school. But again we're still it's still 64 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 2: not the root cause, in my opinion, is that we're told, 65 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: not taught, and this is a problem since the documents 66 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: since the nineteen fifties. 67 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was making that case and this kind of 68 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: a theme show today on this I had earlier we're 69 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: talking about the social media liability trial. It's about to 70 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: happen that social media and TikTok and snapchat and instant 71 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: all those platforms are addictive by design and will ruin 72 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: your kid's life. Yeah, if they go uncheck, if they're 73 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,119 Speaker 1: completely fear al online with no roadblocks up. But that's 74 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: on the parent. I don't think that's on the company. 75 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: Also made the case that the social is not the problem. 76 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: The phone itself is the problem. It is like literal, 77 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's like bringing it's a handheld Damn 78 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: casino is what it is. Right, It's like I've got 79 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: everything out there. It's not social. It's I can message, 80 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: I can look at videos, i can watch porn, I 81 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: can check sports, I can bet online, I can I 82 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: can do all of these things in the problem in 83 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: my hand. That's really it's not social. It's the phone. 84 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 2: Well, it's it's all the things that are coming. It's 85 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: the world coming at kids, not the world, you know, 86 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: not kids exploring the world and what's finding them. You know. Again, 87 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: there's could be a lot of debate about algorithms and 88 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: how we're targeting, just because we could have debates our 89 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: cigarette companies targeting the brain and making things addictive. So 90 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: there's there's It's a very complex issue, and I think yes, 91 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 2: parental control is important. Schools taking these steps is important 92 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: when again, when we know better, we do better, and 93 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 2: we still need. One of the things taking this time 94 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: away in schools is that it forces us to do 95 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 2: something else. So you know, I've I've talked with parents 96 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: as you know, a family therapist and one time a 97 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 2: parents said to me, what if my child won't eat anything, 98 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 2: drink anything but soda? And I said, well, if you 99 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: take soda away in the house, they'll get thirsty eventually. 100 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 2: So you know they'll eventually drink water if water is 101 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 2: all there is. So what will happen is kids will 102 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 2: start to reacclimate towards socializing with each other more than 103 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: they will to the phones when the phones aren't in 104 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: front of them. But it's two attempting. So we need 105 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 2: to remove those barriers. But then we also got to 106 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 2: give them the skills. I mean, we've been telling we've 107 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 2: been telling people to listen kids starting with kids from 108 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: like I said, this is a problem documented back to 109 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 2: the nineteen fifties where we don't have formal listening, education 110 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: and classrooms. So we tell them expecting the ears to 111 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: do the work instead of building this as a skill, 112 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 2: which is what it is. 113 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I saw we should be addressing 114 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: in stool. She's a schools that's Christine Mouse, psychologist. Let's 115 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: back up a little bit. What goes on in the 116 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:35,239 Speaker 1: adolescent brain from a developmental psychology perspective, what's actually happening 117 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: when their kids are always on their phone and you 118 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: met you know, nine, ten, twelve or more hours a day. 119 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: Well, so I will say that I can talk about 120 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: this from the This is not my core expertise on 121 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: a system's family therapist, but what I do know and 122 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: what the research is, it's just it's a dopamine hit. 123 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: It's a constant dopamine hit. It is. It is asking 124 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 2: like a drug. Now we can talk about that from 125 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: an adult perspective, and we know how difficult that is. 126 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 2: You talked about family, you talked about form. These are 127 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 2: things for adults that they struggle with in terms of 128 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 2: the time on the phone. When your brains developing, we're 129 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 2: in a whole different round here, So we were not 130 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: forming the pathways that need to be formed in early 131 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: childhood and in adolescence, which is really why it's so dangerous, 132 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 2: because we're changing those neual pathways we're getting they're having 133 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: a hard time self soothing, They're having a hard time 134 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: you know. This is why we know the mental health 135 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 2: issues are spiking, not just the attention issues. This is 136 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: very well documented now in the in the literature. 137 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: Okay, but there's also a separation factor here. I guess, 138 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: for lack of a better word, we're seeing some students 139 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: are you know, they're experiencing genuine anxiety and panic attacks 140 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: when they're separated from their phones during these bands. Is 141 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: that a clinical concern we should take seriously or is 142 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: that a warning for everyone else? 143 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 2: Well, I think it's a withdrawal issue. I think this 144 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: is exactly you know what, Let's go back to something simple. 145 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: You know, we give kids a pacifier because it helps 146 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: them sue themselves. When when it's time, when the parents go, okay, 147 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: it's time to now wean off of that. There's some 148 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 2: fears that when we have to say goodbye to something 149 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: that was helping us south just because it helps us 150 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: suit doesn't mean it's good for us. This is not 151 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: how we want we want kids to regulates through a 152 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 2: device and through having to have constant you know, attention 153 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: coming at us, so that our constant stimulus. So we're 154 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 2: we're not thinking, feeling, or even operating in the present, 155 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 2: and that's the danger zone. So this is where but 156 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: we've got to fill that gap so that they're not 157 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: as anxious. Again, this is where the socialization is the answer. 158 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 2: It's not just take it away. It's the only way 159 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 2: to stop the behavior to start a new one. So 160 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,239 Speaker 2: you take the phones away, now you have to replace 161 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 2: it with more socialization. We're skill building around listening, which 162 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: is why again teachers have been telling kids to listen 163 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: in the classrooms for you know, decades, and this is 164 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 2: a constant battle because it's hard to pay attention for 165 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 2: eight hours a day, especially if you don't have the skill. 166 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: If I said, you go run a marathon, that you 167 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: know how to run, but get into the get to 168 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: the end of the race, you got to train, you 169 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: gotta build the muscle. And so this is our opportunity 170 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 2: is to finally solve this problem, which is what I'm 171 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 2: committed to doing, is to is to provide education from 172 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: elementary classrooms to corporations because it doesn't matter what age 173 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 2: you are. You only, you know, a very small percentage, 174 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: less than two percent have any formal listening trading. 175 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, she is Christine Miles. She's a psychologist of what 176 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: it's cost to you not to listen to the founder 177 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: of the listening path or talking about school cell phone 178 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: and then we have that in Ohio, Kentucky, Indiana to 179 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: a large degree. But the question nobody's asking that I'm 180 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: bringing in this morning is their studies are coming out 181 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: and they're showing that teachers still spend a corner or 182 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: more of their workday, of their instruction day, just trying 183 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: to get kids to listen. Then that was before and 184 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: now after cell phone bands. So our cell phone is 185 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: really the problem. They really wreck kids lives. I've also 186 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 1: seen studies that pointed out earlier said that, you know, 187 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 1: the extreme is if you spend all your time on 188 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: the phone, it's really really bad for you. I mean, 189 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: it's horrible for your development, all these things we're talking about. 190 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: That's absolutely true. But kids who do aren't on social 191 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: or don't have phones, who don't use them aren't allowed 192 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: to tend to also suffer some of those same symptoms. 193 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: Maybe not the extreme we're talking about with over usage, 194 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: but under usage. There's a sweet spot right in the middle. 195 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: And when I hear that, I go, Okay, kids if 196 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: they're exposed a little social media and able to congregate 197 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: online with friends, because that's how kids socialized today. I 198 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: was a kid where we'd socialized at the mall or 199 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: the arcade, and kids today do it digitally. So we 200 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: have to lean into that. Is this just a lesson 201 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,079 Speaker 1: that we are woefully behind how we educate kids in 202 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: America still today because we're teaching them like we did 203 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: a couple hundred years ago. There's a you know, maybe 204 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: it's instead of a blackboard, it's a whiteboard or a smartboard, 205 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: but you're still at rote memorization. It's all these things 206 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: we've taught kids largely the same way. If phones and 207 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: social media, Christine are changing kids' brains, shouldn't we be 208 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: adopting the school curricula to meet the way kids learn 209 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: now as opposed to how they did a couple hundred 210 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: years ago. 211 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: Well, you're this is such a good point. I mean, 212 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 2: we we know that just what we know about the 213 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: neurodivergency and the way kids learn that. Look, we're you 214 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 2: know you and I could go back and say, well, 215 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 2: you know, if somebody was this lessacker, had genuinely had 216 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 2: a d D or things like that, this wasn't necessarily 217 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 2: talked about or diagnosed to the same degree. We once 218 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: could argue that, you know, not everybody has add that, 219 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 2: but it is real. It is a real thing. So 220 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 2: we just know that teachers have a lot of divergent 221 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 2: learning needs and so it's really about meeting kids where 222 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: they are, which is part of why the listening is 223 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: hard too, because kids needs are different. Yes, which is 224 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 2: why this is a this you're the point you're making 225 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 2: is I think, which is where my heart and soul 226 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 2: is is this is a systemic problem. We're not going 227 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: to fix this with one thing. Again, we know that 228 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: phones that what we're trying to prevent is is keeping 229 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 2: them off of engaging with each other, engaging with the future, 230 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 2: and engaging with the with the core curriculum. Like you said, 231 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 2: take the TV out of the classroom, that's just common sense. 232 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: Right then, we have the issue of what we do 233 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: at home and how we limit time. We know that 234 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: past the screen time, the scrolling, the doom scrolling, that's 235 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 2: not super productive, and that can get that's very addictive. Well, 236 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 2: you know, then there's some socialization. How can you mitigate 237 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 2: that with socialization? And then you get to the But 238 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 2: you take all that and you cure all that, you 239 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: still have this learning problem and you still have this 240 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 2: listening problem to systemic communication problem. We focus on speaking, telling, knowing, 241 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 2: and test scores versus how we're learning. And that's what AI, 242 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 2: in my opinion, is going to come in and change. 243 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 2: You know, we had the calculator. Now we have something 244 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 2: that could do the formulators, but that formulas, But how 245 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 2: can you explain it? How can you make sense out 246 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 2: of it? How can you show up as a person 247 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 2: that knows how to collaborate? And these are all the 248 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: skills that are at the core of what's going to 249 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: make somebody successful in the future. Starting we got to 250 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: start teaching that at a very early age, as early 251 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 2: as first grade, so that they're ready. And this is 252 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 2: where we have to fix this systemically, so that we're 253 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,599 Speaker 2: teaching the skills so everybody is a common language. Is 254 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 2: how you listen so they can understand. 255 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: So there's another factor here in my mind that this 256 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 1: whole thing and I get it, there's a lot of 257 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: talk about phones descrying attention spans, and the argument is 258 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: whether the phone is the cause or just the most 259 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: convenient delivery system for a culture that's already dopamine driven 260 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: and overstimulate. I mean, you know, parents are were upset 261 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: with the cell phone bands because they want to be 262 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: able to get a hold of their kid instantly at 263 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: any time during an emergency. But as an excuse to go, 264 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 1: I can text you during class because parents are also 265 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: anxious all the time. Well, and it trickles down that 266 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: we're all anxiously all the time. But I think it's interesting, 267 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: is that. So the way to beat this whole thing 268 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: is to simply use AI and use the algorithms for 269 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: good as opposed to evil. If you want to call 270 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 1: social media evil, and that is educators and the system 271 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: should be creating platforms much like TikTok and snapchat and 272 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 1: install that feed that that feeds a student a steady 273 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: diet of what they're interested in to learn that continues 274 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: to push stuff towards them and challenge them and learn 275 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: what their likes and dislikes are and try and strengthen 276 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: those dislikes and make everything better. Use use the technology 277 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: for good instead of social media. But the problem with 278 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: that is now you're going to replace all of these 279 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: teachers and all these administrators in the schools with something 280 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 1: that's digital. That means now that threatens the teachers unions, 281 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: that threatens the administrators and the whole construct of schools 282 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: in general, because guess what if I can do this 283 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: with my phone, much like we've seen you know, broadcast TV, 284 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: go away radio, everything else, newspaper press for example. Because 285 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: of the digital age, that now threatens the livelihood of 286 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: the education class. And we can't have that in America. 287 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: And so what winds up happening is this distonect between 288 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: the kids in the classroom. Am I wrong? 289 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 2: Well, here's what I think. I so, you know, I yes. Again, 290 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 2: the it's just like we could be saying the same 291 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 2: thing about corporate America, the road. The road things can 292 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 2: be replaced, well, can't be replaced by the human skills. 293 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 2: And that's one of the things that I think teachers 294 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: are getting away from, and not by the doing because 295 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 2: there's so much pressure to teach to these core ideas 296 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 2: and curriculum and the standards, is that they're getting away 297 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: from the human part of the job, which is really 298 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: how we develop kids, how we nurture kids, and so 299 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: this is going to be the heart of what happens 300 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: in the school and what teachers love to do and 301 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: why most teachers get into the work. So I think 302 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: it's not that they'll be replaced as to what the 303 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: emphasis is that needs to change. And that's the same 304 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: thing that I see on the corporate side that if 305 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 2: you want to you have to drive that value as 306 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: a what in your job because some of the redundancies 307 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 2: can be replaced. And so the answer isn't more time 308 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 2: on screen. The answer is more connection in terms of 309 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: how we raise the kids and how we teach them 310 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: and how we help them connect through language and through interaction, 311 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: so that everything they learn in this kind of this 312 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 2: fast paced digital world and what's coming at them, they 313 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: can manage their emotions, They can manage the emotions of others, 314 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 2: they can develop empathy. They have the things that the 315 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 2: AI and the machines don't have. And that's the risk 316 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: is that we're tipping over into too much of the 317 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 2: screen time. 318 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: Right. She is Christine Miles psychologist. Her book is What 319 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: Is Costing You Not to Listen? Founder of the Listening Past, 320 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: Christine miles. Thanks of the time. 321 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 2: I appreciate it, appreciate the conversation. It's really really helpful. 322 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: I think I just made the case here teachers can 323 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: be replaced. This is not believe me, this is like, 324 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: this is dangerous territory. If you could come up with 325 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: an algorithm, and it's easy to do because we've seen 326 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: this replicated Tom and Tom again, that would teach kids 327 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: on their level, meaning it feeds them a steady die. 328 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: The algorithm feeds them a steady die of things they're 329 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: interested in and expands their knowledge base in learning and 330 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: kind of sort of tricks them into learning where it 331 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: becomes fun and engaging on a personal level, just like 332 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: social media is. And now they're hooked on this, and 333 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: you put that in the classroom and ban the phone 334 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: and give them a device that is the alternate to 335 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: social media and all the stuff coming at you. And 336 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: that's how kids learn today. They learn on social media, 337 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: they learn through digital interaction. If you do that in 338 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: the classroom, kids now become smarter, more engaged, more learned. 339 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: But what happens to the educational system the computer replaces 340 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: the teacher. Can't have that in America? 341 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 2: Can we? 342 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: Because of what's at stake? There's also the is she 343 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 1: mentioned important too? The social interaction thing? But is this 344 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: like the it's like clickbait right, This is what the 345 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 1: educational system doesn't want you to know, This one weird 346 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 1: old trick for saving us a lot of money and 347 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: getting a better student Thoughts afternoons here Scontzerland continues on 348 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: seven hundred ww