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Speaker 1: So Find the Florida Man eight ten coming up, real, real, real,

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Speaker 1: real soon. Can't wait to play it with you. Crazy headlines.

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Speaker 1: We read two of them. You tell us which one

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Speaker 1: happened in Florida. This was a headline. It's not gonna

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Speaker 1: make Find the Florida Man because it's not about criminals.

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Speaker 1: But when I read it, it had me thinking about

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Speaker 1: my wedding day and my relationship and I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Couple waited until their wedding to have their first kiss.

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Speaker 1: You hear about waiting for other things, obviously, but first kiss.

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Speaker 1: How old do you think this couple is? They had

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Speaker 1: their first kiss at the altar. They waited nineteen months

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Speaker 1: to do this.

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Speaker 3: They'll be divorce in a month, you think, So, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you got to be compatible when it comes to you know,

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Speaker 3: the bedroom. What if you done?

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Speaker 2: Like you kiss, We're gonna kiss?

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Speaker 1: Their kiss does kind of seem like it seems like

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Speaker 1: they definitely were kissing other people probably mumm see no practicing.

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Speaker 1: It's the peck eight hundred and four O nine ninety

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Speaker 1: three ninety three. What did did you wait? And it

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Speaker 1: could be more than.

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Speaker 3: Just the kiss my friend did And this is right,

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Speaker 3: out of college, him and his gues no baking cookies,

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Speaker 3: mind you. In high school, this guy with baked cookies

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Speaker 3: all the time, he was the first one to lose

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Speaker 3: his virginity. So when he went to college, he met

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Speaker 3: his wife and he said that they were waiting until marriage.

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Speaker 3: We went to the wedding and he was so excited

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Speaker 3: to get back to the whole town. I'm like, of

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Speaker 3: course you are. You have been baking cookies. But she

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Speaker 3: was a version this whole time, saving herself or her husband.

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Speaker 3: And I'm also thinking, what happens if you don't like it,

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Speaker 3: You're well.

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Speaker 4: You're you're stuff.

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Speaker 2: It's very important you can teach him.

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Speaker 1: I believe that it is very, very important in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I definitely think my love language love language is physical touch.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I mean, you really want to

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Speaker 1: like sit and wait around and then literally have it

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Speaker 1: stink in the next.

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Speaker 3: You're like, oh my god, we've been together for two

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Speaker 3: years and.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it. Also for two years, what are

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Speaker 2: you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I just want to make out.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: I literally I'll like text listen, I'll be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to make out?

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Speaker 2: When you get home.

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Speaker 1: She's like, what sure. Yeah, she's like, that's weird that

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Speaker 1: you're even asking. But I get excited, need something.

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Speaker 2: I'll look forward.

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Speaker 4: But if you would have wanted to wait, would you help?

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Speaker 4: That was click.

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Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't wait, honestly, I mean some people will,

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Speaker 3: some people want.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad you're honest. I alive.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, here every reason why we should

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Speaker 1: and here's a couple why we should not.

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Speaker 2: Here's not.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll say this so I respect people who save

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Speaker 5: themselves from marriage, and part of me does kind of

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Speaker 5: wish that. I I do wait it because it's a

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Speaker 5: it's a spiritual reality in a relition. Just think for me, however,

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Speaker 5: if you're out baking cookies with other guys before me,

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Speaker 5: and then all of a sudden you're like, I'm saving

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Speaker 5: myself for marriage. But it's true though, you can't be

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Speaker 5: a born you can't be a born again.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you can't. You can't, you can't you can be

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Speaker 4: cell No.

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Speaker 2: No, the entrance is are.

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Speaker 4: Then you don't respect it. You don't respect her.

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Speaker 2: Well, she doesn't respect herself.

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Speaker 4: She does. She doesn't want to give herself to another body.

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Speaker 5: So now so now all of a sudden, it's rules

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Speaker 5: for the not for me because I have to wait

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Speaker 5: even though you didn't wait previously. No, I don't understand,

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Speaker 5: but I'm just saying, take its out of it. You

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Speaker 5: and now all of a sudden, you're gonna put up

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Speaker 5: the guardrails for me and make me wait until marriage.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: You can't be mad at a woman so not wanting

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Speaker 5: But if I'm gonna be the person that you marry,

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Speaker 5: and then it's gonna be like, no, I'm gonna wait

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Speaker 3: It's total double We can't respect someone money to not

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Speaker 3: certain time.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you're an actual virgin for sure.

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Speaker 4: Way just trying for two years.

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Speaker 1: Jed's just trying to kill off anyone who could potentially

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Speaker 1: listen to our show right now. It's beautiful as women

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Speaker 1: are the most important thing to our show.

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Speaker 2: I understand. Now you're going against guys, I think No.

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Speaker 5: I think it's the same thing that applies for guys though, too,

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Speaker 5: because if they were like, oh, I'm gonna be.

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Speaker 3: I think I think women will look at him differently too.

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Speaker 3: She'd be like, Okay, like I respect that he wants

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Speaker 3: to get to know me more and actually learn about

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Speaker 3: me before actually get into my pants.

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Speaker 2: At want to kiss? You want?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a little lip action. Hey, Christian, your wife is

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Speaker 1: pregnant six months into the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Good job waiting, Yeah she was.

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Speaker 6: We did not wait six months together pregnant with our

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Speaker 6: first kid, and here we are and a half years.

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Speaker 2: Later and we have four Jed's disgusting. No, I'm not disgusting.

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Speaker 4: I set my point.

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Speaker 2: That's not Again, these two aren't listening. Christian.

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Speaker 5: My point with it was if you are with somebody

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Speaker 5: who is previously baked cookies and all of a sudden

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Speaker 5: they get with you and they put the guardrails up,

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Speaker 5: it makes no sense. Pandora's boxes.

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Speaker 3: I need you also to realize it's not They didn't

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Speaker 3: put it just because of you.

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Speaker 4: They put it.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, what was that? Christian?

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Speaker 6: I agree with you, it doesn't make sense. How are

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Speaker 6: you going to bake cookies for how long you've been

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Speaker 6: making cookies since high school? And then all of a

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Speaker 6: sudden you're just gonna stop? And you know, like you said,

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Speaker 6: be celibate until we get married.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if that is so wild to me that you

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Speaker 3: guys are literally telling it a woman that, Hey, I

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Speaker 3: don't care if you had a pass and you were

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Speaker 3: baking cookies in high school at the baked cookies with me.

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Speaker 2: Now, they don't respect women.

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Speaker 3: They don't, I am just expect themselves either. Wow, I'm shocked.

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Speaker 3: I hope your girlfriend isn't listening to this. I hope

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Speaker 3: I have, and so you you're doing.

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Speaker 5: I don't judge women for being celibate. I think it's

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Speaker 5: actually great to stay celebate. I just said myself that

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Speaker 5: I wish I did.

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Speaker 3: You happen to get with a woman she's celibate and

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Speaker 3: you guys are dating, and she's like, hey, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to be celibent too we actually get married, and that's

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Speaker 3: gonna be a problem for you.

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Speaker 4: She's been selling her whole Year's not you.

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Speaker 2: This is her whole life.

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Speaker 1: Hey, can I raise my hand real quick? Just because

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Speaker 1: people are talking and I'm kind of taken the back seat.

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Speaker 1: The man's voice that you hear talking and saying all

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Speaker 1: these things, his name is Jed Shilling. It's not Joe Carballo.

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Speaker 1: That ain't me talking, Jed, say something real quick, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is.

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Speaker 5: Jed shilling and I hear it for myself and I

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Speaker 5: don't speak for anybody else on The Joe Show where

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Speaker 5: ninety three three fl z.

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Speaker 2: My opinion is mine and mine own.

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Speaker 1: And I am not talking in this right now because

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Speaker 1: I think it's important to give the leader of the show,

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Speaker 1: the woman of our show, the right to speak for

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Speaker 1: herself and other women. I'm not gonna say I'm a man.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna speak for women. Now, you too, go

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Speaker 1: back to whatever.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I raise my hand real quick, Joe Zero, I'm a

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Speaker 5: woman and I agree with I.

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Speaker 3: Was like, call, I want you to text in. I

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Speaker 3: want to hear her perspective. If it's a woman that agrees,

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's not a woman or a man thing.

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Speaker 4: I just feel as ow.

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Speaker 1: We want to push back the news and continue to

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Speaker 1: have this conversation. Let's continue this kind.

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Speaker 5: Don't play this song though this is PTSD from this

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Speaker 5: early I love this song.

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Speaker 2: This is this is a great we've got.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I keep saying it this morning, which would make

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Speaker 1: me really happy, because I don't think I realized how

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Speaker 1: great of the music is right now the music is

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Speaker 1: actually pretty damn good on FLZ. We love to hear that,

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Speaker 1: and child right now will continue whatever the hell this

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Speaker 1: conversation is. I'll have Ashley re said it, and then

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Speaker 1: I'm sure Jed will go. Now we'll see what happens

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