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Speaker 1: Are you back again?

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Speaker 2: But we do a little bit of a different show

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Speaker 2: on Saturday night. We focus primarily on relationships, and you know,

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Speaker 2: they are the most important things that matter in your life.

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Speaker 2: Estra Perell says, and I quote her all the time,

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Speaker 2: the quality of your life is determined by the quality

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Speaker 2: of your relationships. Not only the relationships with others, but

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Speaker 2: the relationship with yourself more important.

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Speaker 1: Tonight on the show, I have a true.

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Speaker 2: Healer, a psychic Clara Everything claravoyant yoga instructor, basically certified

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Speaker 2: in everything healing. Vicky Fairchild, Welcome to the show tonight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got your mic gun.

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Speaker 3: Look at your pro Anna. You're awesome. Thanks for asking me.

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Speaker 1: Can I just.

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Speaker 2: Tell you very quickly with the brief moment that we

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Speaker 2: have shared here tonight, and your husband Larry is in

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Speaker 2: the studios while watching the Ohio.

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Speaker 1: State game, which who are winning?

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Speaker 2: By the way, We'll keep you updated on that. But

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Speaker 2: your energy is so light and lovely and open. I mean,

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Speaker 2: there's words that I have to I'm trying to describe

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Speaker 2: your energy. But it's peaceful, it's stillness, it's it's it's

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Speaker 2: a presence that I'm feeling from you do you get

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Speaker 2: that wherever you go.

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Speaker 1: That's just the first thing I have to ask you.

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Speaker 3: That's real sweet, Thanks so much. I've had many things

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Speaker 3: said to me. That's a lovely thing to say. There's

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Speaker 3: a presence that I think one can cultivate when you've

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Speaker 3: had certain experiences and spiritual practices and being in the

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Speaker 3: profession that I've been in, there's a healing field that

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Speaker 3: is created between two people. So it's real easy for

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Speaker 3: me to drop into that space and get still, so

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Speaker 3: that I call it holding sacred space, yep. And being

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Speaker 3: able to be a sacred witness for people's process, us

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Speaker 3: and their voice to be heard. I think we all

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Speaker 3: need to be seen and heard, and the greatest gift

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Speaker 3: we can bring to any situation is our full presence.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Power of Now Eckertley one of my favorite books of

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Speaker 2: all time. So we're going to discuss what you're seeing

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Speaker 2: happen with the collective energy as the human family heading

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Speaker 2: into twenty twenty six, because we've talked a little bit

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Speaker 2: about that and it seems, you know, if you're paying

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Speaker 2: attention on social media, things might look a little crazy.

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Speaker 2: We're divided politically, we're disconnected with others through social media

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Speaker 2: and iPhones, and people are staying home where they work

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Speaker 2: from home. So we're going to talk about the collective

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Speaker 2: energy and what you see happening in twenty twenty six,

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Speaker 2: And we're also going to be taking your calls and

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Speaker 2: answering questions tonight. So Vicky would answer any clear question

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Speaker 2: that you have. Maybe you have been struggling with something

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Speaker 2: of clarity around it. She's going to take calls and

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Speaker 2: we're going to pepper them through the hour. So if

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Speaker 2: you want to call right now five one, three, seven, four, nine, seven, one,

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Speaker 2: eight hundred, the big one.

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Speaker 1: Make sure your question is clear and concise.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything any more specific rules that you have

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Speaker 2: when somebody's calling and they want to know something like

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Speaker 2: am I going to get a new job in twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty six?

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Speaker 1: Where am I going to move? Love?

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Speaker 2: Life is a big one. Is there anything should they

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Speaker 2: ask past present? Or I know you channel past lives

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Speaker 3: I think it's important to stay with the present moment

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Speaker 3: as it pertains to you, not necessarily for anyone else.

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Speaker 3: So I can pick up on the person that's calling.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, So if you are the one that wants

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Speaker 2: and we'll get to you first.

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Speaker 1: Let's start though.

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Speaker 2: With explaining the presence of being, the premise of being

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Speaker 2: a healer, and how you came to this calling, VICKI.

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Speaker 3: I think that I came in this lifetime with a

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Speaker 3: I always wanted to be in the healing profession. I

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Speaker 3: It's movement oriented, I realize that I'm an impath, like

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Speaker 3: An impath to me is somebody that can feel the

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Speaker 3: have a deep knowing about something that's more gnosis. But

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Speaker 3: way I am naturally Energetically, I can read energy fields

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Speaker 2: And so have you always had this healing power? And

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Speaker 2: how long did it take for you to tap into that?

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Speaker 3: One of the things I want to say about being

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Speaker 3: And I've had some absolutely amazing experiences where people been

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Speaker 3: I've noticed that when the person is ready, the healing appears.

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Speaker 2: Of course, when the student is read, when the student

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Speaker 2: Anne and let's answer and see what she has. Anne,

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Speaker 2: do you have a question for Vicky Fairchild?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Am I truly going to be happy?

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Speaker 3: Anne? Do you want to be Do you want to

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Speaker 3: And I feel like happiness is always literally a state

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Speaker 4: Give me an example, so.

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Speaker 3: Well, do you do you notice your thoughts or Anne?

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Speaker 4: I sit and stare at walls because I have no

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Speaker 3: So. And I just like to ask, do you have

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Speaker 3: you like to take walks? Do you call up a friend?

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Speaker 3: And something something that I like to tell people to

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Speaker 1: And that's what I was going to say.

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Speaker 2: These are great questions and a great practice is to journal.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what makes you happy?

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Speaker 3: They're usually vibrant energy, their emotions are raw, they're authentic, right,

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Speaker 2: And and authenticity really is say what you mean and

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Speaker 2: If you start giving conflicting things to the universe, like

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Speaker 1: Sense, And thank you so much for calling. We appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Have a good night. Thank you, Joanne. We're going to

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Speaker 2: Alyssa, you're on with Donna Dee and Vicky Fairchild. Do

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Speaker 8: I have somebody that I'm very close to and I'm

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Speaker 8: I'm really struggling to discern the role that this person

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Speaker 8: a I love this person very.

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Speaker 9: Dearly and I am I I just don't know who

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Speaker 8: This darkest phase has been since Midsummer.

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Speaker 1: Alissa, thank you. We're up against the wall.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry we got to take a break, but no,

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Speaker 1: You got this. You'll know, you'll know what to do.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for the call, Joey, And we're

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Speaker 2: five one, three, seven, four, nine, seven thousand. Do you

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Speaker 2: We're with Vicky Fairchild tonight. She's a psychic medium, healer

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Speaker 2: Ohio State, Larry, are they winning ten something that's now?

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Speaker 2: It's done a d Saturday Night, seven hundred WLW tonight.

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Speaker 2: My guest a very spiritual healer. I can feel her

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for waiting.

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Speaker 11: I did have a question, but if she does mediumship,

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Speaker 10: I had several.

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Speaker 3: Joanne. Hi, Yes, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, dear. Did you have a particular question that

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Speaker 3: And what is his name?

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Speaker 11: By the way, his name was Richard. There really isn't

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Speaker 11: Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 3: The message I get is more more about his daughter

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Speaker 12: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Was that helpful, Joanne?

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for holding so long, and

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 11: Okay, thank you, share you You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: Five one three seven four ninety seven thousand. Do you

447
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Speaker 2: have a question for Vicky Fairchild. It's got to be specific, right,

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Speaker 2: it's it's I'm sure you're gonna ask clarifying questions, but

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Speaker 2: if it's something that you have been wanting clarity on,

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Speaker 2: wanting some some advice, or not being able to figure

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Speaker 2: this out, and you need a little bit of help,

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Speaker 2: give us a call. Five one three seven eight hundred

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Speaker 2: The big one, Vicky, let's talk about because we were

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Speaker 2: really getting into the energy, the collective energy of the

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Speaker 2: human experience. It seems like we've been very divided with politics,

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Speaker 2: and you know, we're not connected because we're working from

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Speaker 2: home and we have cell phones, and you know, social

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Speaker 2: media is really challenging on all of us. What do

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Speaker 2: you see happening in twenty twenty six in the new

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Speaker 2: year of of of of our human energy.

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Speaker 1: Is it going to get worse? Is it going to

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Speaker 1: get better? Are we enlightening or you know what's happening?

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Speaker 3: I think we're undergoing an evolution of consciousness at a

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Speaker 3: point where humanity has never had before. And I doubt that.

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Speaker 3: My guides tell me all the time that there are

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Speaker 3: finally enough people on this planet that are conscious, aware, awake, positive,

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Speaker 3: and wanting to complete the mission that they came to do.

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Speaker 3: Some people might call them light workers, but we're all

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Speaker 3: here to do something and we have a deep knowing

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Speaker 3: at a soul level. I feel that the darkness has

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Speaker 3: had its time. I think it's going to put up

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Speaker 3: a really good fight, and that the forces of the light,

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Speaker 3: if you will. I mean it sounds like Star Wars,

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Speaker 3: but it really is kind of like that. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I've always wanted to be a Jedi. Who doesn't want

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Speaker 3: to be a Jedi, you know exactly? So I just

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Speaker 3: feel like those of us that keep the most important

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Speaker 3: thing is that we keep our heart open, that we

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Speaker 3: do some really self analysis and self contemplation to bring

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Speaker 3: forth that which we came to do. Look at what

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Speaker 3: your gifts are, look at what your strengths are, take

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Speaker 3: time to really put those to use. I feel like

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Speaker 3: there was a time when the big institutions were dependent.

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Speaker 3: Let's just say it this way. Some people have been

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Speaker 3: dependent on institutions. I see that what's going to happen,

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Speaker 3: If something good's going to happen, it's going to come

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Speaker 3: from each one of us. We can't pass the buck anymore.

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Speaker 3: You can't say that somebody in the government or somebody

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Speaker 3: else besides yourself. I think we need to be proactive.

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Speaker 3: We need to be spiritual warriors, and we need to

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Speaker 3: help each other. We need to love each other. We

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Speaker 3: need to see what is more the same in each

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Speaker 3: other and love each other, because you can't live in

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Speaker 3: fear and love at the same time, and so you

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Speaker 3: have to. I think we're being asked to choose, and

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Speaker 3: a judgment is part of that fear, and so we

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Speaker 3: have to let go of the judgment and not even look.

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Speaker 3: When I look at the collective consciousness, which I've been inside,

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Speaker 3: the collective consciousness, it's sticky, it's gooey. It's dense, and

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Speaker 3: it's real, real, real, real, fear based. And what I

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Speaker 3: was told that there are some souls in there that

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Speaker 3: have chosen to stay in that fear based darkness. They're

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Speaker 3: learning something that's their thing. But those of us that

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Speaker 3: want out, we need to choose it. We need to

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Speaker 3: get out. We need to surround ourselves by really goodness

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Speaker 3: and people, and we need to pick something and action

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Speaker 3: that you're really passionate about. For me, it's animal rights

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Speaker 3: and the environment. So I'm always trying to do what

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Speaker 3: I can in that way. But pick something that you're

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Speaker 3: really passionate about and take an action step for it,

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Speaker 3: and keep on your own evolutionary journey. Look at your shadow,

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Speaker 3: because the way that we're going to get out of

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Speaker 3: the darkness is that we keep working on ourselves.

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Speaker 6: Well.

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Speaker 2: I remember Marianne Williamson wrote a speech for Nelson Mandela

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Speaker 2: and she said, we are all more afraid of our

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Speaker 2: light than we are of our darkness. And I think

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Speaker 2: people would rather be unhappy in the in what they're

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Speaker 2: used to and what they know, versus change and grow

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Speaker 2: and go into the unknown, even if they knew it

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Speaker 2: was going to be so exciting and so amazing, and

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Speaker 2: I think it stops a lot of us in growing

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Speaker 2: of like, uh, I mean, you really have to be

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Speaker 2: careful about what you put out into the universe, what

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Speaker 2: you say. If you say I'm never going to succeed

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Speaker 2: or this stuff kind of always happens to me, I'm

527
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Speaker 2: always you know, failing at something, then that's what you're

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Speaker 2: going to get.

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Speaker 1: When you say waking.

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Speaker 2: Up the collective human consciousness or human beings individually are

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Speaker 2: waking up? Do you just mean out of the ego

532
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Speaker 2: or out of the stream of thinking, they're present and

533
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Speaker 2: have purpose?

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Speaker 1: Is that what you mean?

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Speaker 3: I think we're waking up at a global level. I

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Speaker 3: think that internationally we're going to see a lot of

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Speaker 3: movement towards community and helping each other out at a

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Speaker 3: level that we never had before. I mean my generation,

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Speaker 3: I grew up in the seventies and so you know,

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Speaker 3: I grew up we were protesting the war and the

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Speaker 3: killing and watching you know, the body bags come and

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Speaker 3: you know, as a young person, that really affected me

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Speaker 3: and I started thinking, why do we have war? Why

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Speaker 3: are we killing each other? Why are we still doing that?

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Speaker 3: And I feel like we're at the edge where people

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Speaker 3: are waking up. I mean, let's look at some of

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Speaker 3: the situations in the world. You know, it's like, no,

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Speaker 3: it's not okay to wipe out a whole people, It's

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Speaker 3: not okay to hoard money to the point where nobody

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Speaker 3: else has access. We all deserve certain things, and I

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Speaker 3: feel that that's the awakening and that we need to

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Speaker 3: help each other more and more.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting, and I know that.

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Speaker 2: There's a there's a book called Power Versus Force by

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Speaker 2: David R.

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Speaker 1: Hawkins. He's a doctor.

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Speaker 2: It's a great book on the energy scale of humans

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Speaker 2: and where shame is at the absolute bottom.

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Speaker 1: That's like registers at a twenty percent.

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Speaker 2: That's where you know people contemplate ending things for themselves

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Speaker 2: and stuff on the top. On the absolute reverse scale

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Speaker 2: of shame, which is the lowest, forgiveness, love, compassion, those

563
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Speaker 2: are up there in the five six hundred range.

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Speaker 1: That's the stuff that you see people.

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Speaker 2: We still talk about Jesus and walk the earth in

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Speaker 2: the forgiveness type of energy. How do people shift their

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Speaker 2: energy and their awakenings personally? You think it's a personal thing.

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Speaker 2: It's not going to be an institution doing this. It's

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Speaker 2: going to be on an individual basis that is happening.

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Speaker 2: I do my work, You do your work. Larry, your

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Speaker 2: husband here does his work. What is the work that

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Speaker 2: needs to be done so that we can all move

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Speaker 2: into the longest journey we'll ever take? Gary Zukov says,

574
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Speaker 2: is from our head to our heart. How can we

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Speaker 2: get to that loving place which feels so connected and

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Speaker 2: so good within ourselves and others?

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Speaker 3: I think you need to live a real heart centered life,

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Speaker 3: and I think a lot of us have learned to

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Speaker 3: shut it down because of different things that were said,

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Speaker 3: maybe even as a child, but as we grow as

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Speaker 3: an adult, I think we need to be aware of

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Speaker 3: the inner child that has been wounded and pay attention

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Speaker 3: to those feelings and get some help with it. You know,

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Speaker 3: there's different psychological ways to do regressions and stuff like that,

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Speaker 3: and I talked about EMDR. But from a spiritual standpoint,

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Speaker 3: I find that there's different types of meditation that works

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Speaker 3: with people. You can do just a mindfulness practice, you

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Speaker 3: can do a breath practice. Nature works for me more

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Speaker 3: than anything I can tell you.

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Speaker 1: And animals.

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Speaker 2: You talked about animal I don't know how anybody can

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Speaker 2: survive without meditating to be honest. It's only because if

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Speaker 2: I go two days without meditating, I feel off. I

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Speaker 2: feel there's there's like a sense of irritability or I'm

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Speaker 2: not as peaceful. No, nowhere near. Let's go to the phones.

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Speaker 2: We're going to get Nancy. Nancy from Cincinnati. Thank you

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Speaker 2: for calling. Do you have a question for Vicky Fairchild?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 14: I'm currently going through a medical issue and I was

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Speaker 14: wondering if my treatment will continue the same as it

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Speaker 14: is now?

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Speaker 3: The same as it is now, like from a medical

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Speaker 3: standpoint is me? Are you talking about your medical treatment?

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Speaker 12: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And are you talking about like having any kind of

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Speaker 3: integrative practice with it as well? Are you going allopathic medicine?

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Speaker 3: Is that what we're talking about?

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Speaker 14: No, No, I was just wondering if the current treatment

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Speaker 14: that I am on will continue.

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Speaker 3: Tell me a little bit more about where you feel

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Speaker 3: it in your body, what's the symptoms that you feel

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Speaker 3: in your body.

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Speaker 14: I feel that things are going fine and that they

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Speaker 14: probably will continue.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever done like a body scan and did

617
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Speaker 3: some full body breath work and start talking to your

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Speaker 3: body intelligence? It's really an amazing practice. If you if

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Speaker 3: you yoga and meditation and the kind of body work

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Speaker 3: and the healing work that I do, But I try

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Speaker 3: to help people go inside and we literally work with

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Speaker 3: the intelligence of the body. And that's what I would

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Speaker 3: recommend for you, Like you have your treatment that has

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Speaker 3: has happened medically, but work on your lifestyle and work

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Speaker 3: with your own body intelligence.

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Speaker 1: Like what would she say to her body? And what

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Speaker 1: do you need? Seconds?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you body? What do you need? What

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Speaker 3: does healing look like to you? And what can I

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Speaker 3: do to support you to continue to experience vibrant health

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Speaker 3: and well being?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Nancy? Does that help? I even say to my body.

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Speaker 2: I always talk to my body because I think the

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Speaker 2: more that you are aware of your body, the better

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Speaker 2: you're going to do. And I always say thank you

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Speaker 2: for being so strong and healthy, thank you for always

637
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Speaker 2: carrying me around and getting me to the places I

638
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Speaker 2: need to go and the things that I need to do.

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Speaker 2: I honestly feel like body awareness and body conversation is

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Speaker 2: really really important.

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Speaker 11: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I wish you lucky. I wish you lucky your medical journey.

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Speaker 2: Thank you Nancy for calling. Appreciate it. All Right, we're

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Speaker 2: going to come back. We're going to talk about the

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Speaker 2: things that you can control the energy that you that

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Speaker 2: you're walking with and how you can raise your energy level.

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Speaker 2: Coming back with Vicky Fairchild after this break. It is

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Speaker 2: Donna d on seven hundred WLW, Cincinnati, Saturday Night, seven

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Speaker 2: hundred WLW, First of All.

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Speaker 1: Ohio State up ten six.

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Speaker 2: It's they're getting ready to start this again. Good they're

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Speaker 2: playing in Indiana. That's fun to watch tonight. But tonight

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Speaker 2: we have a special guest. She's a healer, she's a clairvoyant,

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Speaker 2: she's a medium, she does all kinds of work, a

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Speaker 2: psychic and you have been so great to have on

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Speaker 2: the show. Vicky Fairchild, thank you for being here tonight.

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Speaker 2: We've had so many calls. And by the way, if

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Speaker 2: you feel like calling in seven five one three seven

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Speaker 2: nine seven thousand, if you have a specific question for

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Speaker 2: Vicky Fairchild. She has been answering some tough questions about

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Speaker 2: moving and of course we all have these crazy questions

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Speaker 2: about love and are we ever going to find find it?

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Speaker 2: Or should we stay with this person that's in a

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Speaker 2: dark period. You've had some tough questions tonight, give us

665
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: a call five one three seven for ninety seven thousand.

666
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 2: Now when we talk about some of the things maybe

667
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: people haven't quite heard of, like being living in the

668
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 2: collective consciousness and it's mushy and spongy in dense, and

669
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 2: I mean, I've never even heard of that stuff either.

670
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: And then body talk.

671
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 2: We had somebody that was not you know, she was

672
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: in a healing journey, and you said to talk to

673
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: her body. Can you go over and Dea I see you,

674
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: and Steven Moore and Dick I see you. We'll get

675
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: to you in just a minute. Can you talk about

676
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 2: what it means? Because I know that you have been

677
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: a physical therapist and you get a lot of energy

678
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: from people just touching their bodies and stuff.

679
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 1: What do you mean by body talk?

680
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: I'm going to give you an example, personal example. So,

681
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 3: I had a disc injury in my low back that

682
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,439
Speaker 3: gave me some satica, some severe pain down my leg.

683
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 3: I did everything I know to do to help it,

684
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: all the treatments, all the spiritual work, all the physical work,

685
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 3: and one day I just got real quiet. I went

686
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 3: to my back and I said, what do you need?

687
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 3: And I heard a voice literally inside myself, go, You've

688
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: got to get this off of me. You've got to

689
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 3: have the surgery.

690
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: Wow.

691
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: Because the nerve is getting weak, and so the disc

692
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 3: was was herniated, it was compressing the sidic nerve. So

693
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 3: I still even have a little tat of numbness from

694
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 3: that and a little weakness from that. But that was

695
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 3: like a voice. It was like, you've got to get

696
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 3: this off of me. And sometimes it's like when you

697
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 3: get real tired. I always call it the two by

698
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 3: four technique, when you're run and real fatigued. You know,

699
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 3: one day your body'll just say I've had enough, and

700
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 3: that's when you get sick. That's when you get a cold.

701
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 3: That's when you have to call off work. So it

702
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 3: could be as simple as that. Your body starts to

703
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 3: run down, it starts to get fatigued. Pain is a

704
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 3: really big factor. I think that that we can that

705
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 3: we can listen to and.

706
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: Ask questions about asking.

707
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: When you say I got real quiet, what does that mean,

708
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: I mean I stilled my mind.

709
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: I want to talk to the listeners about the mind

710
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 3: for a moment. Okay, there's different aspect of the mind.

711
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 3: There's the chit chat that we have, like you know,

712
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 3: and we call it the monkey mind. But that's the

713
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 3: that's the most superficial part of the mind. The other

714
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 3: part of the mind is the unconscious mind, and that's

715
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 3: like having a glacier so that there's more of the

716
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 3: ice is below the surface than what you see above it.

717
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 3: That's your unconscious mind, and there's techniques to get to

718
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 3: that that therapists have used for years. But there's also

719
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 3: what I would call a bigger consciousness, the great mind.

720
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 3: There are many names for that. And when I talked

721
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 3: about the collective consciousness, we're very influenced about our surroundings,

722
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 3: our culture are whatever beliefs we were brought up with.

723
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about in the collective mindset. And

724
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 3: we're evolving. So the individual we evolve on our own

725
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 3: kind of spiral and timing. But as a collective as humanity,

726
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 3: think about to the dark ages? Are we better than

727
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 3: the dark ages? Do we have more information and how

728
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 3: to work with it? I mean, we had look at

729
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 3: the things that humanity has been through, from you know,

730
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 3: burning witches at this quote witches at the stake, to

731
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 3: all the things that as humanity we have done. So

732
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 3: some of us are wanting to have a better world,

733
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 3: and I feel like the mind is where it starts.

734
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to Steve from Batavia and Dia

735
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 2: and Dick on the way. Steve, do a question for Vicky,

736
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 2: and I think you It says something about you had

737
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 2: an experience with some spirit?

738
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: Is that right?

739
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 6: Is there?

740
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 12: Okay?

741
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve, can you hear me?

742
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 9: Yes?

743
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: Okay? What's your question for Vicky?

744
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 6: Well? I was one asked, well, I'm a Christian everything,

745
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 6: and I believe in the Bible. I'm just a basic Christian,

746
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 6: you know, and everything. So I stayed in a hotel

747
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 6: days in hotel down on Beachmont Avenue, and I stayed

748
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 6: there for thirty days, and there was something about that

749
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 6: room that was so heavy. I couldnot even be in

750
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 6: that room. I would have to stay outside that room,

751
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 6: like something very bad happened in that room.

752
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: And you never you'd never fell to anything like this prior.

753
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 6: Never ever in my life, like pressure, like something really

754
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 6: happened bad at that in that hotel room. I've never

755
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 6: felt that in my life. It was like total pressure,

756
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 6: like I was being suffocated. I would have to leave

757
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 6: the room and then it would leave.

758
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: Wow, that's interesting.

759
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 3: What was your question about that? Steve?

760
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 6: Bould you believe in demons?

761
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 3: I would say that there are darker forces that we

762
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: are that coexist here with us. I have seen dark attachments.

763
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 6: Something happened in that room, like like a murder or

764
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 6: a rapist or a ediphile or something really weird happened.

765
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 6: Does that spirit hang around because it just felt like

766
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 6: something was heavy.

767
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 3: I think that what energetically things do linger in spaces.

768
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 3: So sometimes I've had people see apparitions, Like I had

769
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 3: a client that had somebody hang themselves, you know, like

770
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 3: in their house, right, So she kept seeing this. It

771
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 3: was an apparition. She kept seeing that happen, and I

772
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 3: actually went to her house and helped clear the energy

773
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 3: from it.

774
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask.

775
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: This was a hotel room, so I mean, Steve has

776
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 2: already been you know, long gone from there, but haven't

777
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 2: you walked in Because Steve, I've walked into rooms before

778
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: where I have felt like there was a really weird

779
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 2: vibe and I had to get out of there. So

780
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,479
Speaker 2: I really know what you're talking about. And I don't

781
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 2: know what it is. I don't know where the energy

782
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 2: is coming from. But all of a sudden, and especially

783
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 2: when you said suffocating, because there are times where I

784
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: was like, whooh, I'm having difficulty breathing in this space.

785
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 2: So yeah, I know exactly what you mean, Steve. Thank

786
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 2: you so much for the call. I appreciate it. Thank you.

787
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 14: You know.

788
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: I mean there's times where there are people feel energy

789
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 2: out of the blue. I mean, Steve said he's never

790
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 2: had any of this stuff. The more you work on

791
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: yourself and the more that you are aware of your

792
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 2: own energy, I feel like that really supports an awareness

793
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: of not only your environment but other people when you walk.

794
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously the first I started this show tonight

795
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 2: telling you how your energy has affected me. And it's

796
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: light and it's still, and it's calm, and it's quiet

797
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 2: and it's present.

798
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: But there's people that I feel.

799
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 2: Are who have a lot going on in their plate

800
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 2: and I want to just wish them well from afar.

801
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 3: You got it done. And it's like there's I think

802
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 3: there's different kinds of feelings that we have. You know,

803
00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 3: that gut feeling and then there's that intuitive feeling, and

804
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 3: then there's that heart feeling. So we have we were

805
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 3: born with what we need to be able to feel things.

806
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 3: That's survival. When you walk into a place and you

807
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,399
Speaker 3: go something to wrong here, I've got to get out

808
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 3: of here. Yeah, that's instinct and that we're given that

809
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 3: I think to reason.

810
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also like, wow, I'm to be aware of

811
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 2: the body even I can. I'm feeling the tingling now

812
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 2: of of what Steve was talking about, because that's happened

813
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 2: to me before. Let's get to dia Ida from Glenn Dale.

814
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: Do you have a question?

815
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: Is this my buddy dia Yes, it is Hi.

816
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 2: Hi.

817
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: Do you have a question for VICKI It's good.

818
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 7: I do well, So I was.

819
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 15: I've been giving this more thought lately because of just

820
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 15: some new family members have three little grandchildren now, and

821
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 15: so I've been with my same company or in my

822
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 15: same career for the past thirty years, and it's an

823
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 15: exceptional career that I get to teach group fitness and

824
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 15: I get to sell tennis memberships, and I see a

825
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 15: lot of retired people that are able to come to

826
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 15: the morning classes play more tennis. And so I'm wondering

827
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 15: if you have any prediction or when I should retire,

828
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 15: because I work in a place that people come to

829
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 15: when they retire, and is my time more valuable to

830
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 15: spend with those, you know, grandchildren and family members who

831
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 15: may not be around or much longer, and is my

832
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 15: time more valuable? So I'm getting to the point I've

833
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 15: got a few more years before the official age of retirement.

834
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 15: But I'm just being tugged in a few directions that

835
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,760
Speaker 15: I've never been really tugged before.

836
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: Take this one real quick. You're not going anywhere to

837
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: that's the first thing retiring. That's my take on it.

838
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 2: But now I will give it to the professional across

839
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 2: the board here.

840
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: What do you think?

841
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: Because actually this is a very big topic, and we're

842
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 2: going to have a friend of mine, Lisa with with

843
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 2: some counselors on for retirement on the next Saturday show,

844
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: So Dia, you're going to want to tune into that.

845
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 2: But let's hear what Vicky has to say about this.

846
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 3: Well, I think retirement as an old phrase in our culture.

847
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 3: You know, there was a set time that we were

848
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: supposed to quote retire. Well then, what so if you're

849
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 3: somebody Dia that has loved what you've done, You've been

850
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 3: in the fitness, it's brought you joy, You've met all

851
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 3: these wonderful people, I would project yourself out in the future.

852
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 3: So what does it feel like not doing what you're doing?

853
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 3: You know? I would like live your life, like just

854
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 3: take some time, like do that little visioning and say, well,

855
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 3: what's it going to feel like when I quote stop?

856
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 3: And how long? How much longer do I do I

857
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 3: have here? And I always tell people start planning what

858
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 3: you're going to do afterwards, because there's going to be

859
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 3: a big gap there, especially if you had a routine

860
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 3: and you had a community. I think it's important that

861
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 3: you have something else that you know you are going

862
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 3: to want to do after that. And anything that we

863
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 3: spend our time on isn't really a waste. We're always learning,

864
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 3: we're always growing, and there's always something to be had

865
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 3: for it. I'll tell you a story. I had to

866
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 3: move my practice. I almost quit my practice, and I

867
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 3: kept putting myself in the future about is it time

868
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 3: to go? Is it time? Is it time? Is it time?

869
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 3: And then I had to just sit with my heart

870
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 3: and I imagined not seeing those people anymore, and I

871
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 3: got real emotional because they're like, you know, I've been

872
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 3: in practice for forty eight years. Some of these people

873
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 3: come back to me after thirty years. They become like family.

874
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 3: Have these people become like family to you?

875
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 6: Oh?

876
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 9: Absolutely?

877
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, So that I'd feel into I'd feel into that,

878
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 3: you know, right.

879
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 15: Okay, that's really good advice because I think my four

880
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 15: year old little granddaughter kind of knows me as Dedie

881
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 15: at the tennis club, and that would kind of you know,

882
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 15: I think she relates to and will benefit from being

883
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,760
Speaker 15: around where I work as well. So I think that's

884
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 15: it just helped me. I want to make sure I

885
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 15: may make the right decision because you can't take it back,

886
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 15: and I you know, I want to make sure. And

887
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 15: it's really good to hear your opinion and get Donna's

888
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 15: take on.

889
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: It as well. Well.

890
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 2: You know you already said your not going anywhere, So

891
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 2: make sure to listen next Saturday because it's going to

892
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 2: be on retirement. It is a big perfect It is

893
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 2: a huge question that so many people have when should

894
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 2: I retire? I'm more aligned with Willie Nelson, who said,

895
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 2: what am I retiring from? Going to playing music with

896
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 2: my friends. I'm always going to teach yoga, I'm always

897
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 2: going to do some radio. I'll always have you know,

898
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 2: these jobs that I that I absolutely love it and

899
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 2: have passion for. So what am I actually retiring?

900
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 3: And you've been a role model for your grandchildren.

901
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 15: Yes, exactly, exactly, Okay, I know what I'm gonna do.

902
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: Na, thank you.

903
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm so glad we helped you out. I'll see you

904
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,799
Speaker 2: tomorrow in class.

905
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 15: Okay, perfect.

906
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 2: So, Vicky, just a quick question on me, like, can

907
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: you read? Can you give me some advice? I'm surprised

908
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 2: I'm even going to ask you this, but because Dia

909
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 2: called in, so we're going to talk about breakups in

910
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 2: the next segment and then I will reluctantly let you

911
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: and Larry go.

912
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: But as long as Ohio State is.

913
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 2: Winning, I think your husband is good in the studio here.

914
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 2: I this was a big year for breakups and myself included.

915
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 2: And you know I was tough. Breakups are always going

916
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 2: to be hard. They're always going to be hard. What

917
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 2: do you see happening for me and that kind of

918
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 2: love life in twenty twenty six.

919
00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 3: I think you're gonna need a pause and within a

920
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 3: year you'll see some excitement coming up.

921
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 2: I did get a new foster puppy and he's turning

922
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 2: out to be the love.

923
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: Of my life.

924
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 2: Well, I would go with that. Talks are the talks

925
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 2: are the past art thing. Okay, Dick, we're gonna come

926
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,760
Speaker 2: back to you. We got to take a quick break.

927
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 2: We do want to talk about again relationships.

928
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: There was a big year about breakups. There's a whole.

929
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 2: Paper on this, and I wrote it down and for

930
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: some reason, oh, here it is. There was an article

931
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 2: written about it. And the article was talking about how

932
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 2: so many myself and many of my friends had breakups

933
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five, and what's happening in twenty twenty six.

934
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read what I read and I am very

935
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: interested to see if you agree with it or not.

936
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 2: So when we come back, we're going to talk about

937
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: breakups and what is going to happen in twenty twenty

938
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 2: six in terms of the energy shift for all of us.

939
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: You'll either agree or not. And Dick, hang on, hang on,

940
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 2: We're gonna get to you in just a moment. Uh,

941
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 2: Donna D Saturday Night OSU is still winning. Oh no,

942
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Oh okay, that's a bummer. We'll be back

943
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 2: with an update on it is thirteen to ten. Sorry, Larry,

944
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 2: Indiana is ahead for the first time in the game.

945
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 1: That's a bummer. We'll be back.

946
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 2: Dona D seven hundred WLW Cincinnati amazing guest Vicky Fairchild,

947
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 2: a medium, a psychic, claravoyant, overall healer. It's been so

948
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 2: great having you on the show. This is our last segment.

949
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 2: If you have anything that you want to talk to

950
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 2: Vicky about a specific question that you have five one, three, seven, four, nine,

951
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: seven thousand, one, eight hundred, the big one. If you've

952
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 2: been stuck somewhere or you need clarity on something. She

953
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 2: has been given some very good advice and even pulling

954
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: some channels here this uh from tonight, Dick.

955
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: I know you've been waiting for so long.

956
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 2: I want to get to this article though, real quick

957
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 2: because we only have a short amount of time and

958
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 2: one break left. So we talked about why there were

959
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 2: so many breakups in twenty twenty five.

960
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: It was an article written about it.

961
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: I myself had a breakup, some family members had breakups,

962
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 2: some friends had breakups. The title of the article, Vicky

963
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: is why are there so many breakups this year? Relationships

964
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 2: are collapsing, hearts are awakening, and everything is shifting. Twenty

965
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 2: twenty five has been in untangling and a shedding of

966
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 2: love out of fear versus truth, and it says that

967
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 2: twenty twenty six is going to bring movement, clarity and

968
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 2: alignment and truer relationships like more connected out of love

969
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 2: versus fear.

970
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: Do you agree with that?

971
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 3: The worst that come to me when you speak to

972
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 3: that is there's a revolution of truth happening. I think

973
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:59,359
Speaker 3: people are unwilling to settle anymore for anything less than

974
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 3: an off entic, heart based relationship. But isn't it when

975
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 3: you look around, people are demanding more information about truth

976
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 3: and so in relationships. That's the bottom line is that

977
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 3: we have to stand in the center of our truth

978
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:20,839
Speaker 3: if something's not working anymore. The more we become courageous

979
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 3: and strong and intuitive and honest with ourselves, you'll have

980
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 3: to ask yourself, is this still in my highest good?

981
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: There's a real evolution happening on the planet, I think,

982
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 3: and astrologically you could look at it. I have a

983
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:40,280
Speaker 3: lot of friends that are really into that, but there's

984
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 3: been a big shift.

985
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 2: So I'm kind of big on intention. I talk about

986
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 2: it in my yoga classes all the time, and what

987
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 2: I have found out is people have mixed intentions, especially

988
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 2: if you randomly are going through you know, heartache and

989
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 2: things like that. You want to stay together, but you

990
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 2: know that the relationship is over and the stronger intention

991
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 2: always wins out.

992
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: So if if you really.

993
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 2: Want to work it out, but then this other thing

994
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 2: knows that it's never going to happen, that's what's going

995
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: to happen.

996
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: Do you agree? I do?

997
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 3: And I feel like there comes a time and a

998
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 3: relationship where it's run its course and sometimes you just

999
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 3: you don't want that to be. You can still have

1000
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 3: a relationship with somebody, but the nature of the relationship

1001
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 3: changes and sometimes it's just not good for you, and

1002
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 3: you know that and you get the courage to really

1003
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 3: walk away.

1004
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 2: What do you what if you're in a marriage and

1005
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 2: you have young kids and you feel like, wow, we

1006
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 2: really have not been getting along, how do you manage that?

1007
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 2: I mean, I know so many people have. I mean,

1008
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 2: this has always been so challenging. Do you go to therapy?

1009
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: Do you do?

1010
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 2: You start, you know, just doing things kind as loving

1011
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 2: as you possibly can be and giving it everything you

1012
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 2: got and then if it still doesn't work, then it's

1013
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 2: time to leave a relationship.

1014
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?

1015
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 3: I actually asked that question to somebody who I really

1016
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 3: really really respect. Her name is Ama. She's known as

1017
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 3: the Hugging Saints. Amma. Yes, and I've had amazing experiences

1018
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 3: with her. I asked her that question because I was

1019
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 3: at a precipice myself, and her answer to me was,

1020
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 3: you have to give it one hundred percent before you leave.

1021
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 3: So if we know we've given it one hundred percent,

1022
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 3: you know, the kids are a really complicated thing. Having

1023
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 3: grown up, I went to my mother and said, why

1024
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: don't you leave? This is dysfunctional when I got old

1025
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 3: enough to figure it out. Yeah, but little ones, little

1026
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 3: ones are taken in everything. You know. They're taken in

1027
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 3: what you say and what you don't say. They're observing

1028
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 3: and they're actually watching to see how you going to

1029
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 3: handle this? How do you make amends? How do you

1030
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 3: negotiate when there's such differences here? So I think that

1031
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: when there's children involved, you know, there's a lot of course,

1032
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 3: some people don't have the financial security to leave. That

1033
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 3: has been an issue for a lot of people. So

1034
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 3: they we stay because we think we're secure, you know.

1035
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 3: So some people stay because they feel more secure in

1036
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 3: a relationship than out. Some people just have to be

1037
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 3: in a relationship, you know, they just go from one

1038
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 3: person to another. Of the serial relationships. Yeah, I just

1039
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 3: think it's real important to be honest with yourself, but

1040
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 3: you have to really get help and make sure that

1041
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 3: if you leave, that the children have all the support

1042
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 3: that they need and you know, the professional advice that

1043
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 3: helps a family get through those kinds.

1044
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: Do you know you've given one hundred percent? How do

1045
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: you know that there's nothing left in the tank that

1046
00:58:59,360 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 2: is hard?

1047
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: How do you know that?

1048
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 6: For me?

1049
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 3: It was a feeling, you know, because I've been through

1050
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 3: it myself, But it's a feeling. Sometimes it's like the

1051
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 3: it's run its course.

1052
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 13: You know.

1053
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 3: Some people would call it karma, some people would call

1054
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 3: it other things. But I feel like some relationships are karmic.

1055
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 3: Some relationships, if you look at it, if you've heard

1056
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 3: of twin flames or twin rays or soulmates, sometimes you've

1057
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 3: just come to work things out. Sometimes you came to

1058
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 3: have those children and to create a legacy that way.

1059
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 3: You know, it's hard to look so many years down

1060
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 3: the way. Boats we're creating whole lineages and ancestral lines,

1061
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 3: and so sometimes I feel like if we could look back,

1062
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 3: we'd see why things happen, why we stayed, and why

1063
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 3: we chose the timing we did to leave.

1064
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: Do I need to ask this question? Do you believe

1065
00:59:58,360 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 1: in soulmates? Yes?

1066
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: I didn't think I had to. Let's get to Mike

1067
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: real quick. Mike from Richmond, Kentucky. Mike, how are.

1068
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 6: You hi, Donna?

1069
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 16: How are you all?

1070
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm good. Do you have a question for Vicky Well?

1071
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 16: I do, and this is respectful, But you know, eighty

1072
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 16: percent of divorces right now, and of course she'll understand that.

1073
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 16: Gray divorces are the biggest percentage of divorces. But eighty

1074
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 16: percent of divorces are from women. And I don't think

1075
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 16: anybody asks men if they're happy in a marriage and

1076
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 16: give up real fast, but women, if they're not happy,

1077
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 16: they tend to give up pretty quick, and they've already

1078
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 16: found somebody else two years ahead of time. Does that

1079
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 16: make any sense?

1080
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: There's a lot in there of Vicky.

1081
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 3: Well, Mike, I probably ask you if you have any

1082
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 3: experience with that.

1083
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 16: Well, I was married twenty eight years day, they're per seven,

1084
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 16: and I get surprised after Christmas.

1085
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 3: So that's what I forget.

1086
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 16: So now I'm going to fly in your ointment, is

1087
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 16: what I'm doing. And I hate to say that, but

1088
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 16: there is a great divorce and you can look that up.

1089
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: I did, and I know what you're talking about, Mike,

1090
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 2: because seventy's I think it's seventy percent of women do

1091
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 2: ask for the divorce.

1092
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: Why do you think that is, Vicky?

1093
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 3: I wonder sometimes if it's because typically we think that

1094
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 3: women are more in touch with their emotions and their feelings,

1095
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 3: and that what I hear from women a lot. I

1096
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 3: sit in a lot of women's circles, and I've been

1097
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 3: on you know, in healing environments with people, is that women,

1098
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Speaker 3: when we get together, we talk our emotions out and stuff.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes if you can be in a relationship where

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Speaker 3: you're constantly able to be in communication and communicating that

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Speaker 3: way with what's work and what isn't, what your feelings

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Speaker 3: are and stuff. I think I think that we grew

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Speaker 3: up in a culture where men weren't allowed to have that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's different now, but I can tell you

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Speaker 3: that my father was a stoic and that was that

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Speaker 3: generation back in the fifties, you know, And so maybe

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Speaker 3: it's just that we need to give permission for men

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Speaker 3: to have all the emotions and feelings and talk about

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Speaker 3: it and have women give women permission to stay and

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Speaker 3: listen and to be you know, understanding to other sides

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Speaker 3: of it. And I believe in a masculine and feminine

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Speaker 3: qualities within each one of us too.

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Speaker 2: Mike, I'm going to give you permission to be emotional

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Speaker 2: right now and talk about your feelings.

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Speaker 16: No, I think it's just a weird time period in

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Speaker 16: the past, and I'm going to go back ten or

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Speaker 16: twelve years. Things are kind of flip flopped. Women have

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Speaker 16: almost taken the place of men when it comes to promiscuity.

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Speaker 16: It's almost like men and women switch places.

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Speaker 2: This is interesting because I talk to like a lot

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Speaker 2: of the producers around here and my co host Sterling.

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Speaker 2: Guys don't know how to act around women anymore. It's

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Speaker 2: like almost the me too movement stop them from a

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Speaker 2: asking any woman to go out on a date. B.

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Speaker 2: They don't know if they want Do you want me

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01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 2: to pick you up? Do you want me to open

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01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 2: your car door? Do you want me to Mike, am

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Speaker 2: I Is this sounding familiar?

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Speaker 16: Absolutely? Absolutely, they're almost offended. If you go chivalry, you

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01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 16: know that's a weird word.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me just say my thoughts on this, and

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01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 2: then I'm gonna get Vicky's thoughts on it as well.

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01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 2: And if there's any way that we can come back

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Speaker 2: to men being men, because I love men to open

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Speaker 2: my car door.

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Speaker 1: I like men to be chivalrous. I like men to

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Speaker 1: be men.

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Speaker 2: I want I want a strong man in my life,

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Speaker 2: and all.

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Speaker 1: Of my women friends like that too.

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01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 2: I think the me too movement there's an overcorrection that

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01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 2: happens sometimes when when something comes out of the surface

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01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 2: and women were, you know, had all these inappropriate things

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01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 2: happened to them, and they spoke out, but men just

1145
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 2: didn't know what to do, and now all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: the over correction happens, and men don't. Men don't know

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Speaker 2: how how women want to behave and shouldn't they just

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Speaker 2: be who they are? Authentic? If you like opening the

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01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 2: car door for a woman, do it. What do you

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Speaker 2: think about that, VICKI, I want to talk to Mike

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Speaker 2: for a minute.

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Speaker 3: I pick up on you that you're very respectful. Is

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Speaker 3: that right?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely? Yes.

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Speaker 3: So I feel the most important things that we respect

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01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 3: each other and that we express what feels good and not.

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Speaker 3: I I love to be respected and honored and politeness,

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01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 3: and I love a compliment. Who doesn't like a compliment?

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01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 3: I mean it. The pendulum has swung both ways. Now,

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Speaker 3: I can tell you growing up in nineteen eighties, when

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01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 3: I was working at a hospital, I had some situations

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01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 3: there that was a me too kind of incident.

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Speaker 2: I've had me too moments as well that I don't

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Speaker 2: know any woman past the age of thirty.

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01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 3: But I took I took care of it myself. I

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01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 3: confronted the I confronted him myself, you know. And I

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01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 3: think that if we can just keep the lines of

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Speaker 3: communication open and to be honest when you feel hurt,

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Speaker 3: you know, because that's what I feel from that, that

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01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 3: you're hurt. And I wish that we didn't have to

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01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 3: be so generalizing of things like they we then were separate,

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Speaker 3: separating ourselves. Every human being wants the same thing. We

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01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 3: want to be seen, we want to be respected, we

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Speaker 3: want to be loved. That's the that's the bottom line.

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Speaker 3: And if we can do that, I think we have a.

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Speaker 2: Much better Well, and listen, it's not the guys, mic,

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01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 2: it's not your fault either, for any like they grew

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01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 2: up with Animal House, I mean, you know, we grew

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01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 2: up with movies that.

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Speaker 1: Were the craziest.

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Speaker 16: Sounds crazy.

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Speaker 2: I mean you know that that's movies reflect a great

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Speaker 2: deal of what people think is correct.

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Speaker 1: It's exactly the culture.

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Speaker 3: And submission from God. By the way, don't you remember.

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Speaker 2: Right, but guys actually thought, you know, looking at people

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Speaker 2: in girls windows who were changing for bed was actually funny.

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Speaker 1: And it's not so.

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Speaker 2: Like women had to correct that. It took us a

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Speaker 2: long time to get up the.

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Speaker 1: Nerve to do it.

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Speaker 16: Yeah. Well, it's just like women. Women have to have

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Speaker 16: two things in a marriage and a relationship is emotional

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Speaker 16: security and financial security.

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Speaker 1: That not sound right, vickey, that's true.

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Speaker 3: But we all need that, right, I think we all

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Speaker 3: need that.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, but men are a little bit different. That's why

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Speaker 16: we need to I guess my bottom line is we

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Speaker 16: need to respect each other's differences.

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Speaker 1: What do men mean?

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Speaker 10: Love?

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Speaker 16: God? Yeah, you know, love for a guy to open

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Speaker 16: up a door, be a little bit masculine or I

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Speaker 16: mean we're so metro sexual? Is that the word? Or metro? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, And that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you can look nice with a blazer and put

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01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 2: on a cute hat and some funky shoes and look,

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01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 2: that's fine. That that's absolutely fine. You can get dressed up.

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Speaker 2: Women liked But but Mike, you said something interesting. You

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Speaker 2: said two things women want? What do men want?

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Speaker 16: Respect? And you're getting ready to know the other one.

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Speaker 16: Donna and Dicky you both know the second one.

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Speaker 6: Get ready to respect and love?

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Speaker 1: No, I love it. That's what we're here for, be honest.

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Speaker 16: Well, yeah, you're not to appreciate each other's differences and

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Speaker 16: female and male and go back to bear you know. Uh,

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01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 16: we appreciate each other, that's all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I we agree, We agree, Mike, thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for the call. Let me let me just

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Speaker 2: grab Dick real quick. He's been hanging on forever.

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Speaker 1: Dick from Dayton. You got a minute. What do you

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Speaker 1: do you have a question for Vicky?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Vicky, that was really nice what you were talking

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Speaker 5: about tonight, because I experienced. I've lived with my mom

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Speaker 5: and dad for a long time and I had to

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Speaker 5: make an adjustment. I retired, you know, and I had

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Speaker 5: to sell the house and my say friend got sick

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Speaker 5: and I couldn't uh I uh you know, and I

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Speaker 5: found it a little rough, but uh I found some

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Speaker 5: friends to be what you guys had good information tonight.

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Speaker 5: And I still can play my music. I take the

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Speaker 5: bus and everything, but uh I, I just try to

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Speaker 5: be friends with everybody at our our hYP radio. But

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Speaker 5: you guys had some really good points tonight. It was

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Speaker 5: really good.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Dick. I appreciate it awesome.

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Speaker 2: And I know you've been on for a long time

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01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 2: and thanks for being a longtime listener. We really appreciate it. So, Vicky,

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Speaker 2: I hate that we're coming to the end of the

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01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 2: hour here. Tell us about how people can get a

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01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:21,759
Speaker 2: hold of you. And I know you have a really

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01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 2: cool zoom event coming up, so talk about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I just moved my office to Blue ash

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01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 3: So if you go to my website light touch pt

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Speaker 3: dot com at l I g h T T O

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Speaker 3: U c h p T dot com. That's the name

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Speaker 3: that I had from my physical therapy practice for a

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Speaker 3: long time. But it does have my phone number on there,

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Speaker 3: which is five one three seven nine two twenty three hundred.

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01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,719
Speaker 3: You can reach out to me on my email. It's

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Speaker 3: Vick E v E spelled v I c k I

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Speaker 3: E Fairchild f A I R c h I L

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Speaker 3: D at yahoo dot com. And what I'm excited about

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01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:01,200
Speaker 3: is this zoom call that I been doing for about

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01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,719
Speaker 3: four or five years with an intimate group of friends

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01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:07,240
Speaker 3: and I'm going to open it up. This call that

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01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 3: we have had has been amazing transformation for each other.

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01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 3: So if you are interested in that, give me a call.

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01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 3: It'll be about an hour and a half. It'll be

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01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 3: in the evening, and I'll send out a zoom link

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01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:24,799
Speaker 3: and we're going to talk about some high mystical things

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01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:28,240
Speaker 3: and get some vibration really high. I do some guided

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01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 3: imagery and some meditation, and then we have a discussion

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01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 3: afterward and we share our deepest feeling And it's an

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01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:38,800
Speaker 3: evolution I think to be able to come together and

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Speaker 3: be intimate with each other in a way that feels safe.

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01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 3: So I feel like I create a safe, sacred space

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01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 3: for people to enter and that we can ask these

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01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 3: deep spiritual questions and support each other on the journey,

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Speaker 3: and so that as a community we can come together.

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Speaker 2: I love I love it. Thank you so much for

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01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 2: being on the show. Vicky Fairchild. I'm gonna put her

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01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 2: information on my Instagram page. Relationship Radio Donna d thank

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01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 2: you so much. Thank you, Larry. I know you're watching

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01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 2: the game. Yeah, Indiana is still up. We see, we will,

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01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 2: We'll come back. Sterling is going to join me in

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01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 2: the eleven o'clock hour because we had really interesting conversation

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01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 2: on tipping and things like that. So Sterling's going to

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01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 2: come back because we had a ton of calls on

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01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 2: that and we couldn't get to everything. Donna d Saturday Night,

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Speaker 2: seven hundred WLW, Cincinnati.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Donna.

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Speaker 2: Tonight overnight Cold Blow of twenty four, Tomorrow High of

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01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,000
Speaker 2: thirty four, Big game tomorrow Bills and.

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01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: Bengals and Go Bengals.

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Speaker 2: So today it was on three to six doing a

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01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 2: doubleheader today and I asked my co host Sterling to

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01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 2: jump on with me because we had a really interesting

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01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 2: topic that we did not get to any of the

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01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:00,719
Speaker 2: phone calls barely. Any of the phone calls could have gone,

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01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:02,759
Speaker 2: you know, the whole show with that Sterling.

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01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm good? How are you you watching

1294
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 1: the Ohio State game?

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Speaker 10: It was until I started talking to you and it's

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01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,640
Speaker 10: I mean, you know, it's not going the way i'd like.

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01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 10: That's nothing against the hood. Here's I have many friends

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01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 10: who wonder Indiana freely, and you know, and good for them.

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Speaker 2: We'll just see what happens. We're all watching it. So

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01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 2: so we had this caller in. We started talking about

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Speaker 2: tips because there's two stories in the news of servers

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01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,759
Speaker 2: getting arrested after harassing customers for not tipping.

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01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:31,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's sad and frustrating.

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01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: These poor girls that were waiting on giant tables and

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01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 2: nobody left them a tip or very very small tip

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01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 2: at that got you know, got arrested for harassing these patrons.

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01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 2: But then this guy, James called in this afternoon to

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Speaker 2: talk about taking his friend on a bachelor party.

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01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,839
Speaker 1: Well, Sean, let's play the clip. What's up James?

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Speaker 13: Hey, guys, I'll the gone good love to hear both

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Speaker 13: your voices. So this happened just you know, ten days ago.

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Speaker 13: It was a Saturday after Thanksgiving and our friend was

1313
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 13: getting married for the third time. So we thought, hey, no,

1314
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 13: obviously no bachelor party. That's crazy. But we took them

1315
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 13: to Twin Peaks, which you know, I love Twin Peaks.

1316
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:16,639
Speaker 13: I've got good salmon, good beer.

1317
01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:27,280
Speaker 1: Fine, you're not throwing them bolt party another, but that's

1318
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: not going to do.

1319
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 10: That's not going to get you the side eye when

1320
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 10: you say where you've gone compared to some other places

1321
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 10: where they may or may not wear a cryllic heels.

1322
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:36,960
Speaker 1: Go ahead, I'm sorry, I digress.

1323
01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 13: Well, all right, so I got to continue my story.

1324
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 13: So we didn't go off to Vegas, right, We went

1325
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,720
Speaker 13: to Twin Peaks, which is an awesome place. So then

1326
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 13: some one of the guys there's like, let's go to

1327
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:47,639
Speaker 13: the strip club. Like we're all like, you know, we're

1328
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 13: in our fifties. You know, like this, you know, probably

1329
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 13: doesn't make sense, but bottom line is the entourage went

1330
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,759
Speaker 13: to a strip club. So you get the strip club,

1331
01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,639
Speaker 13: and you know, I mean, at this point in my life,

1332
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 13: I'm kind of uncomfortable as trip clubs.

1333
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 10: But whatever, so.

1334
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 12: We all go and like, all right, the right thing

1335
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 12: to do.

1336
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 16: I guess this could be his third matchup party.

1337
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 12: Let's get him.

1338
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 7: I don't know.

1339
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 13: It's called a private dance, a lap dance and a

1340
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 13: booth or whatever.

1341
01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 2: You I knows, we all know. I am, I know,

1342
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 2: I know, Jay, you go, we'll keep it.

1343
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:26,520
Speaker 1: We won't say anything to anybody.

1344
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 13: So so we pony up the cash and I think

1345
01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 13: Donna you had said, like who carried cash anymore?

1346
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 12: Like good point.

1347
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 13: So but we had some cash and and so.

1348
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:39,800
Speaker 12: So they take the guy in.

1349
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 10: The woman takes the guy.

1350
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 13: Into the booth, and and it was you know again

1351
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 13: two days after Thanksgiving for approaching the Christmas season, and

1352
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 13: and so they get done, he gets done whatever, and

1353
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 13: she's like, hey, how about a tip. He's like, I

1354
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 13: thought my my friends paid for this. He's like, yeah,

1355
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 13: but they didn't leave me at tips. Like she's like,

1356
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 13: I don't have any cash and she's like, but it's

1357
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 13: the holidays. He even come on, man, so it's like

1358
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:09,559
Speaker 13: begging for money. And so like I think an assistant

1359
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 13: manager came out like, now, I mean, we paid what

1360
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,680
Speaker 13: you asked for. We're not giving her a tip, you know,

1361
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:18,160
Speaker 13: for for for the holidays.

1362
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: Not gonna happen.

1363
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,679
Speaker 2: So, James, that's a that's an interesting story. I love

1364
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 2: this story because he's right, you pay for a service,

1365
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 2: and then you know, you think, you think that that's it.

1366
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 2: You know, she's negotiated the price, they paid it.

1367
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:41,720
Speaker 10: And she didn't have like a swipe to pay. I

1368
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 10: think that's what's coming like a bar on our wrist.

1369
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 16: Actually said she said, I taken.

1370
01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 10: Venmo the phones where I mean, there's so many questions.

1371
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,040
Speaker 2: Well, I will say I will say this, that is

1372
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 2: a tricky situation. And when that happens, it just makes

1373
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 2: everybody feel uncomfortable. So I think so because tipping is

1374
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 2: optional and like I like I said, I have been

1375
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 2: a bartender for years and years and years and a

1376
01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 2: server and I worked for tips for many, many years,

1377
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:18,759
Speaker 2: and it's important to tip, and I am a huge tipper.

1378
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 2: But if somebody doesn't automatically give it to you or

1379
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 2: wants you to have something, you don't need to go

1380
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 2: and ask for it, you really puts everybody in a

1381
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:29,599
Speaker 2: real uncomfortable position.

1382
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 10: James appreciate the call. Man's hard to start that dangerous.

1383
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 10: Let me just say this, that whole not that I

1384
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 10: know much about. I've had friends in that business right

1385
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,519
Speaker 10: on the pole and in the DJ booth and running

1386
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 10: club or two here or there. I will say it

1387
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:46,080
Speaker 10: is based on tips.

1388
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:52,599
Speaker 2: So Sterling, it was a long call and we talked

1389
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 2: about it a lot. Should people tip even if they

1390
01:16:57,720 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 2: don't want to write?

1391
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 1: He clearly didn't on to the girl didn't get the tip?

1392
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 1: Is it begging? Is it begging? For five?

1393
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 2: One, three, seven, four ninety seven thousand? We had a

1394
01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:11,679
Speaker 2: lot of calls on this earlier. What are your thoughts, Sterling?

1395
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,320
Speaker 10: Well, I'm not going to say it was her first

1396
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 10: of all, you know, tips are supposed to ensure prompt service.

1397
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 10: I think that's the acronym rate. So the prompt service

1398
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 10: in that endeavors a whole other animal altogether when it

1399
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:30,799
Speaker 10: comes to the entertainment with a private room kind of scenario,

1400
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 10: I guess on it in general, though I don't anyone like,

1401
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:38,200
Speaker 10: you know, tips are appreciated or in your grill about it.

1402
01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 10: I mean, but you're also in his case, he's in

1403
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 10: a strip club, so it's kind of it's kind of

1404
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 10: you know where you're at, you got to know, well,

1405
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:50,000
Speaker 10: we always talk about, you know, know the room you're

1406
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 10: you know, and who you're talking to. Yeah, so I

1407
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 10: mean she's there taking it and shaking it for cash.

1408
01:17:56,439 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 10: Come up with some cash, right, But the right thing

1409
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,759
Speaker 10: to do. You paid the man who let you into

1410
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 10: the room. You did not pay her.

1411
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 1: Oh okay. I didn't understand that part.

1412
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:12,799
Speaker 10: That's the impression that I've gotten and how that works.

1413
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 10: I don't know all of that business overall, but I

1414
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:19,439
Speaker 10: just don't like the side eye and the aggressive nature

1415
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 10: that some of the tipping thing has gotten into. And

1416
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 10: I think a lot of people are in that place.

1417
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 1: Right, we talked about this today.

1418
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 2: Everybody has, you know, some sort of a tip function.

1419
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:33,639
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's you know, going to get

1420
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:37,000
Speaker 2: a coffee, going to get a smoothie, going, you know,

1421
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:37,679
Speaker 2: going to get.

1422
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 1: Your hair cut.

1423
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 2: I mean everybody is now is now you know, very

1424
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:46,200
Speaker 2: tip oriented, and we're all used to it. But some

1425
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 2: of us, you know, I do give tips. I do

1426
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,559
Speaker 2: you know, I've worked for tips. Like we've said, some

1427
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 2: of it is getting to the point of extreme.

1428
01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:00,760
Speaker 10: Yeah. Sure, have you ever paid to have someone leave

1429
01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 10: you alone or to go away aside from the person

1430
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:04,240
Speaker 10: who's requesting the tip?

1431
01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:04,719
Speaker 6: I mean.

1432
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:10,640
Speaker 10: No, I mean here, here's why I asked. Okay, I

1433
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 10: can go back before Times Square turned into Disneyland and

1434
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 10: more wholesome, which of course is right in my wheelhouse

1435
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:18,679
Speaker 10: because I'm naive of the ways of the world.

1436
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:18,920
Speaker 3: Done.

1437
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 10: Yes, I was in New York for a business thing

1438
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:25,679
Speaker 10: and it was before everything got super gentrified in Times Square,

1439
01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:28,639
Speaker 10: and it was late and we had gone from bar

1440
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 10: to bar beer and shot beer and shot a lot

1441
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 10: of Irish pubs, bars, whatever, and then we ended up

1442
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 10: in an establishment where they shook it for cash. You know,

1443
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 10: I had to. I was just with the group and

1444
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 10: it usually you'd say, you know, the you know, the

1445
01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 10: next girl on the stage or whatever. Now coming to

1446
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 10: the stage and it's a girl. This was this was

1447
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:52,679
Speaker 10: a woman, and she was working very hard and doing

1448
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:56,400
Speaker 10: things that it was. It was beyond just on the

1449
01:19:56,479 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 10: pole and being social. It was disturbing and I actually

1450
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:03,640
Speaker 10: gave her money to go away. Everyone was very disturbed.

1451
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,960
Speaker 10: She was very aggressive and she was quite scary. It

1452
01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:09,559
Speaker 10: wasn't a girl that you would hope that would come

1453
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:13,440
Speaker 10: over and do that. And I paid her to lead

1454
01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 10: instead of to do more.

1455
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,800
Speaker 1: I mean she got her tips some way, right, Yeah,

1456
01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: I was.

1457
01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:21,960
Speaker 10: Yeah, it was a different type of shakedown. And it's Almo.

1458
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:27,799
Speaker 2: Listen, people, people really need to make money in this world.

1459
01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 2: That's how we all live. And if you're you know,

1460
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 2: in especially in that industry. First of all, you know,

1461
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 2: when you go to a bar like that, a club

1462
01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:39,720
Speaker 2: like that, you got to have cash. You got to

1463
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:43,280
Speaker 2: have money to give, because that's what that's all about,

1464
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 2: that's what making it rain. You know, you have to

1465
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 2: have so you know the fact that none of us

1466
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 2: carry cash anymore because everything is you know, Apple pay

1467
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 2: and everything else.

1468
01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: You have to you have to be mindful of that.

1469
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 2: But the tipping thing is on another level, and seeing

1470
01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 2: these girls. Like the story that that guy read today

1471
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: about the server that was waiting on ten people and

1472
01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 2: it was a big birthday party and she filled all

1473
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 2: the drinks and she cut the cake and they left

1474
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:19,040
Speaker 2: her five to one dollar bills. That's infuriating. That is infuriating.

1475
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 10: Week very weak.

1476
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 2: Well, you you know, you have to understand that even

1477
01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 2: if you don't agree with tips, because that's what those

1478
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:31,760
Speaker 2: people said, we don't agree in tipping, then then you know,

1479
01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 2: don't go out to dinner and in a service place

1480
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 2: like that where you have to you have to tip

1481
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 2: and you have somebody working so hard. That's a big

1482
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,040
Speaker 2: deal for a lot of people. What are your thoughts?

1483
01:21:43,080 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 2: Five one, three, seven, four nite seven eight hundred, the

1484
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:46,880
Speaker 2: Big One.

1485
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 1: We've had a really good show. I don't know if you've.

1486
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:54,800
Speaker 2: Listened to Vicky Fairchild, who just left Sterling on you know,

1487
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 2: the psychic medium that I had on the show.

1488
01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 10: Had you heard any I was hoping that you were

1489
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:02,760
Speaker 10: not much the game, I mean, not the personal and

1490
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:04,600
Speaker 10: we spent time together. You don't hate on me, but

1491
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 10: I had questions and I was a little upset she

1492
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,640
Speaker 10: didn't stay over. Only to know, you know, well, the

1493
01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 10: red signed for. Uh, you know what, will the Bengals

1494
01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:15,960
Speaker 10: beat the Browns? Will they? It will be they make

1495
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,240
Speaker 10: they over the under on that. Well, you know, I

1496
01:22:18,280 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 10: have a lot of questions.

1497
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 1: Well she did.

1498
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:22,679
Speaker 2: She did say that she's picked the Super Bowl winner

1499
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:25,720
Speaker 2: every year since she started, which has been about I

1500
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 2: don't know, she said, five or six years.

1501
01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: And I said, are they How can we prove that?

1502
01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 10: By the way, you know what, I say that too,

1503
01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:32,320
Speaker 10: How does anyone know?

1504
01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: We don't?

1505
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 2: But I did ask her if she saw the Bengals

1506
01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:40,040
Speaker 2: in the Super Bowl, at least in the Super Bowl?

1507
01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:43,200
Speaker 1: What do you think? She said, not this year?

1508
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 2: No, no, no, she said, they're not going to be

1509
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:49,439
Speaker 2: in the super Bowl this year.

1510
01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 10: They were a few a couple of years ago.

1511
01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 2: Right, they made and they made it to Are you

1512
01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 2: talking about playing the Rams?

1513
01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 10: Yea yeah. I mean in this situation, you just got

1514
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:04,160
Speaker 10: to hope that they can string some double us together

1515
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 10: and maybe, you know, a borough can go up there

1516
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 10: and upset Allan and all those Bills fans in the

1517
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 10: in the land where the wind blows across the lake

1518
01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 10: and brings snow if they're expecting tomorrow, and then that's

1519
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:22,800
Speaker 10: all you can do. I mean Blaine chose Toe. Well,

1520
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:25,680
Speaker 10: I mean think about I mean seriously, they got an

1521
01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:28,560
Speaker 10: early start and then they were losing, and then he

1522
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 10: got healthy again, and here we are, So I mean,

1523
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:34,320
Speaker 10: we wanted him to not start out for four or

1524
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 10: oh for three, and then we got it in the

1525
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:39,519
Speaker 10: middle of the whole season there. So I mean it's

1526
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:42,479
Speaker 10: I think with him in there, they've got a chance.

1527
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 10: So we'll see what happened. I have been born and

1528
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:48,839
Speaker 10: bred to live better through lowered expectations, so I'm hoping

1529
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 10: for the best, but prepared for the worst, of course,

1530
01:23:51,560 --> 01:23:53,639
Speaker 10: which is also my relationship situation.

1531
01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:56,120
Speaker 2: But that's a whole See, you could have asked Vicky

1532
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 2: about it, she said, for me, I asked her about

1533
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 2: my relationship because it was the year of breakups. It's

1534
01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 2: the year of shedding. It's the year of people not

1535
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 2: being together just out of fear. People want love.

1536
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:09,160
Speaker 1: And she agreed with that.

1537
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:11,519
Speaker 2: And I said, I broke up with someone this year,

1538
01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:15,240
Speaker 2: what is she see happening? And she said, it's going

1539
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:17,880
Speaker 2: to take about a year before you find somebody new.

1540
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 10: She just break hearts all over the place.

1541
01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:24,600
Speaker 2: Well, this guy, this guy Mike, called in and he

1542
01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 2: was interesting and he was very, very honest.

1543
01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 1: He talked about women, Sterling.

1544
01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:31,439
Speaker 2: You and I have talked about this a ton of

1545
01:24:31,479 --> 01:24:35,639
Speaker 2: times in terms of how men don't know how to

1546
01:24:35,720 --> 01:24:38,880
Speaker 2: act with women anymore. They don't know should they pull

1547
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:41,559
Speaker 2: out their chair at dinner, should they open their card door?

1548
01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 1: What do they want?

1549
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:46,040
Speaker 2: Ever since the Me Too movement, you haven't seen men

1550
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 2: step up and you know, ask women for days. They

1551
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:51,679
Speaker 2: just don't know how to handle women anymore. And we've

1552
01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 2: talked about it. Is there and what Vicky's response was

1553
01:24:56,000 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 2: that I absolutely loved is if you're respectful and you

1554
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 2: like to give respect, then just do what you feel

1555
01:25:04,160 --> 01:25:07,640
Speaker 2: you would want to represent well for yourself.

1556
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:12,000
Speaker 1: If you're respectful, then be respectful, right yeah.

1557
01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:14,160
Speaker 10: I mean, think about it if it was your sister,

1558
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 10: or your mother or your daughter, and how you would

1559
01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 10: hope that they'd be treated. It is a strange world

1560
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 10: to navigate at this point. But you know, I think

1561
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 10: the simple thing is no means no. But it's nice

1562
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 10: to have the woman make the first move and then

1563
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 10: you know, and that would make life better. I guess

1564
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:34,680
Speaker 10: you don't want to be like, hey, I thought we

1565
01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:36,600
Speaker 10: were good and then the next thing, you know, you know,

1566
01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:39,479
Speaker 10: there's a problem. You don't be an idiot, a moron

1567
01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 10: or a molester.

1568
01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:45,799
Speaker 2: Serling, don't you get signals from women on whether or not.

1569
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 1: You they're into you? Because women want to know go ahead.

1570
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 2: Women ultimately like the man for the most part, like

1571
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 2: the man to make the first move, or you know,

1572
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 2: be the man in the relationship.

1573
01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 6: Right.

1574
01:26:03,680 --> 01:26:07,120
Speaker 17: Can I chime in, well, sure, yeah, I wish you would.

1575
01:26:07,240 --> 01:26:10,000
Speaker 17: I just this has been a fun topic to talk about.

1576
01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:15,400
Speaker 17: I think I think it's such a tricky world to navigate,

1577
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:18,479
Speaker 17: like you guys were saying, because speaking from my experience

1578
01:26:18,520 --> 01:26:21,240
Speaker 17: I'm twenty five. For those who don't know, I do

1579
01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:23,920
Speaker 17: agree that it is kind of hard to navigate from

1580
01:26:23,960 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 17: the standpoint of a man because I feel like we

1581
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 17: really don't We don't want to be embarrassed. We don't

1582
01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:31,799
Speaker 17: want to be publicly like shamed because you know, everything

1583
01:26:31,800 --> 01:26:34,240
Speaker 17: goes on the internet these days, or it feels like

1584
01:26:34,320 --> 01:26:36,720
Speaker 17: it will. You know, you don't want a girl to

1585
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:39,599
Speaker 17: call you a creep. That's the biggest thing. So it's

1586
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 17: it's really tricky in that sense, and I don't really

1587
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:44,240
Speaker 17: know what to do either. But I think you guys

1588
01:26:44,240 --> 01:26:46,800
Speaker 17: made a great point that you have to do what

1589
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 17: you would want someone to do to you know, your

1590
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 17: sister or whoever that you know, any any girl that's

1591
01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:55,439
Speaker 17: related to you, and kind of stick to who you are.

1592
01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:01,920
Speaker 10: Yeah, do what you think you should be doing to

1593
01:27:01,960 --> 01:27:02,360
Speaker 10: your sister.

1594
01:27:02,520 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 12: No, no, no, if someone else.

1595
01:27:05,680 --> 01:27:09,040
Speaker 10: I mean, but you basically echoed what I said. But

1596
01:27:09,120 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 10: when I heard you say it, I don't want to

1597
01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 10: think about my sister. I don't even have sister, but

1598
01:27:16,160 --> 01:27:18,280
Speaker 10: I mean it sounded weird, like, yeah, I just want

1599
01:27:18,320 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 10: you to do it to her like you would my sister.

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01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1601
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:26,920
Speaker 12: It was not the best phrasing from my end either.

1602
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:28,719
Speaker 12: I will admit I've.

1603
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:30,880
Speaker 10: Made a career out of saying things in weird ways.

1604
01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:32,880
Speaker 10: We don't worry about it. I was just like, man,

1605
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 10: that's it is challenging. I felt pretty good about it,

1606
01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:36,519
Speaker 10: and then you made me more nervous.

1607
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:39,880
Speaker 2: Sean is the is the worst thing that you could

1608
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,800
Speaker 2: be called creepy by a girl.

1609
01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:45,080
Speaker 17: I think it's a huge blow to a guy's self

1610
01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:48,880
Speaker 17: esteem because I think a lot of the time guys

1611
01:27:49,000 --> 01:27:51,839
Speaker 17: just want to be upfront and honest, and they want

1612
01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:55,679
Speaker 17: direct answers. And when a girl calls you a creep

1613
01:27:55,720 --> 01:27:58,519
Speaker 17: even though you're you might be genuinely trying your best

1614
01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:01,200
Speaker 17: not to be like you are trying to be courteous

1615
01:28:01,720 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 17: because like you guys brought up the whole chivalry thing. Like, yes,

1616
01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:06,960
Speaker 17: a lot of women seem to shame that these days,

1617
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:08,720
Speaker 17: and it's like, what do I do? What's the right

1618
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:12,400
Speaker 17: move here? It's it's incredibly it can be incredibly frustrating.

1619
01:28:12,439 --> 01:28:14,280
Speaker 17: It's not the same for every woman out there. It's

1620
01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 17: not the same for every guy. It's obviously a person

1621
01:28:17,040 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 17: to person experience, but yeah, it is kind of like

1622
01:28:19,240 --> 01:28:21,880
Speaker 17: a minefield nowadays, more so than it's ever been.

1623
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:22,560
Speaker 3: So.

1624
01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:26,639
Speaker 2: Sean McMahon is producing the show and he's twenty five

1625
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:29,600
Speaker 2: years old. It's tough, I know, at this age with

1626
01:28:30,479 --> 01:28:34,680
Speaker 2: iPhones and social media and things like that, can you

1627
01:28:34,800 --> 01:28:37,800
Speaker 2: even tell at a point, Wait, you're on a date

1628
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:43,120
Speaker 2: and you're liking her, can you tell if she likes you?

1629
01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 2: It's all in the body language?

1630
01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 17: Yeah, it is completely in Honestly, the eyes kind of

1631
01:28:49,120 --> 01:28:53,240
Speaker 17: tend to be the dead giveaway. But it's it's really

1632
01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 17: tough sometimes because I've seen examples online of girls who

1633
01:28:57,160 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 17: are like, yeah, if she flicks her hair at you,

1634
01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:02,320
Speaker 17: she likes you. That's a sign I'm supposed to look

1635
01:29:02,360 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 17: for that. What are you talking about that? There's no way,

1636
01:29:05,600 --> 01:29:08,880
Speaker 17: I Donna. You mentioned the whole idea of women want

1637
01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 17: men to make the first move. Yeah, I think there

1638
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:15,440
Speaker 17: has to be a bit of a societal shift. Personally.

1639
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,280
Speaker 17: I think women have to be less afraid to make

1640
01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:20,479
Speaker 17: the first move on a guy, because a lot of

1641
01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 17: the time guys are afraid to make the move nowadays,

1642
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 17: and guys like confident women just as you know, women

1643
01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:30,640
Speaker 17: like confident men. And I feel like that needs to

1644
01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 17: be brought up a lot, and it's not talked about enough.

1645
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 1: Charlie, you agree with what Sean just said.

1646
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, it makes all kinds of sense there, I mean absolutely,

1647
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 10: I mean it. Ever, I mean I like a woman

1648
01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:44,920
Speaker 10: who's like, here, let's go. Yeah, you know I'm digging

1649
01:29:44,960 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 10: you because then, you know, yeah, rather than And I've

1650
01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 10: never even thought about the whole calling me a creepy

1651
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:56,599
Speaker 10: online that never even I've been called so much worse.

1652
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 10: I can't I might be I don't even know.

1653
01:30:02,560 --> 01:30:05,960
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, well, I hope both of you stay around

1654
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:08,960
Speaker 2: for the next segment because we have to continue this. Sean,

1655
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,320
Speaker 2: you're still in the studio, Sterling, can you hang on

1656
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 2: for a minute and stay.

1657
01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:15,200
Speaker 10: Anything else to do, but spend this time with you.

1658
01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, good, all right, we'll be back. We'll continue

1659
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:21,040
Speaker 2: what guys have to do and what they really want

1660
01:30:21,120 --> 01:30:22,719
Speaker 2: for women in this day and age.

1661
01:30:22,920 --> 01:30:25,960
Speaker 1: They want them to make the move. We'll see.

1662
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:31,439
Speaker 2: Welcome back, Donna D seven hundred WLW, Cincinnati, Woo.

1663
01:30:31,479 --> 01:30:34,360
Speaker 1: Our last segment of the night. What a fun night

1664
01:30:34,400 --> 01:30:35,960
Speaker 1: it's been here in the.

1665
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:39,719
Speaker 2: iHeart Studio, seven hundred WLW. I am Dona D talking

1666
01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:43,200
Speaker 2: about relationships. We do it a little bit different on

1667
01:30:43,280 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 2: Saturday nights, and before the break, we started having an

1668
01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:50,880
Speaker 2: interesting conversation. Sterling, my co host is on the line

1669
01:30:50,880 --> 01:30:53,360
Speaker 2: with us right now, and Sean McMahon producing the show.

1670
01:30:53,720 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 2: The three of us started talking about how guys don't

1671
01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:01,360
Speaker 2: really know how to behave around women. And I think

1672
01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:06,080
Speaker 2: it started with the Me Too movement where women were

1673
01:31:06,120 --> 01:31:10,559
Speaker 2: coming out and saying men were, you know, inappropriate here

1674
01:31:10,600 --> 01:31:15,000
Speaker 2: and inappropriate there, and guys just really started to overcorrect and.

1675
01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:15,920
Speaker 1: Said, I'm not doing this.

1676
01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:18,360
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, I'm not giving her a hug,

1677
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 2: I'm not touching her, I'm not in any way. I

1678
01:31:20,479 --> 01:31:25,080
Speaker 2: don't want to be looked at as inappropriate at all, Sterling,

1679
01:31:25,120 --> 01:31:26,000
Speaker 2: do you agree with that?

1680
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,759
Speaker 10: Well, yeah, I don't want to be considered inappropriate at all.

1681
01:31:30,920 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 2: No, but do you feel like we've done an over correction?

1682
01:31:35,360 --> 01:31:37,599
Speaker 2: I mean, and we'll we'll get to Sean here too,

1683
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:40,479
Speaker 2: because he will get to Sean in a minute.

1684
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 1: What do you think, Sterling?

1685
01:31:42,880 --> 01:31:47,559
Speaker 10: Look, I've been sort of dumb my whole life when

1686
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:51,160
Speaker 10: it comes to this. There was a girl that a

1687
01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 10: woman that we had worked together, that not work together,

1688
01:31:54,400 --> 01:31:57,920
Speaker 10: used to hang out. I thought she was not interested.

1689
01:31:57,960 --> 01:32:01,200
Speaker 10: I thought she was incredible and fun and apparent. Then

1690
01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 10: years later we've got together at some sort of reunion

1691
01:32:04,160 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 10: thing and she's like, why did you never ask me out?

1692
01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:09,080
Speaker 10: And I'm like, because I didn't think you were interested.

1693
01:32:09,120 --> 01:32:11,640
Speaker 10: She goes, well, we wasted like five years. I'm like

1694
01:32:11,680 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 10: what and had no clue. And I've talked to so

1695
01:32:15,400 --> 01:32:18,120
Speaker 10: many dudes, and every there there was at least one

1696
01:32:18,160 --> 01:32:20,320
Speaker 10: of those that most of us guys can say, yeah,

1697
01:32:20,680 --> 01:32:23,240
Speaker 10: I've had a situation like that. I don't know that

1698
01:32:23,240 --> 01:32:26,360
Speaker 10: it's a generational thing. I think that we're dense and

1699
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:30,160
Speaker 10: most of us don't want to offend, and sometimes we

1700
01:32:30,200 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 10: get intimidated especially when it's someone that we you know,

1701
01:32:33,040 --> 01:32:36,240
Speaker 10: are really really interested in sometimes but you know that's

1702
01:32:36,280 --> 01:32:37,639
Speaker 10: that's just me. But I like it. One and one

1703
01:32:37,720 --> 01:32:40,080
Speaker 10: tells me let me know. And the do you guys

1704
01:32:40,080 --> 01:32:42,879
Speaker 10: give off the signals? I mean, you know, eye contact,

1705
01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:47,880
Speaker 10: getting clothes, touchy feely, suggesting you get together and do stuff,

1706
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 10: you know, inviting you. That's a telltale sign. Usually, well

1707
01:32:51,320 --> 01:32:52,160
Speaker 10: that's that's.

1708
01:32:52,000 --> 01:32:55,640
Speaker 1: A giant green flag. If a girl is saying, you

1709
01:32:55,680 --> 01:32:56,760
Speaker 1: know all those things that.

1710
01:32:56,720 --> 01:33:00,960
Speaker 2: You just yeah, Sean, you, Sean McMahon, You prefer the

1711
01:33:01,040 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 2: girl at this point to make the first move.

1712
01:33:03,479 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 1: Tell me why.

1713
01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:06,920
Speaker 17: I Well, I wouldn't say I prefer that she make

1714
01:33:07,000 --> 01:33:07,679
Speaker 17: the first move.

1715
01:33:07,760 --> 01:33:09,200
Speaker 12: I would not hate if she did.

1716
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:11,600
Speaker 17: I would I would love if she did because that

1717
01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 17: would make me feel pretty good about myself. And I again,

1718
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,719
Speaker 17: I don't know that I prefer, but if I'm gonna

1719
01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:22,639
Speaker 17: make the first move, she better respond with a with

1720
01:33:22,720 --> 01:33:25,479
Speaker 17: a good amount of energy that I can be like, oh, okay,

1721
01:33:25,560 --> 01:33:29,640
Speaker 17: she liked the way that I approached her. She's responding

1722
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:31,200
Speaker 17: well to this, you know, if it's if I go

1723
01:33:31,360 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 17: up and I'm getting at my best shot. But it's

1724
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:35,920
Speaker 17: not clear that she likes it. Yeah, that's where it

1725
01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:39,240
Speaker 17: gets really tricky. So I think you have to give

1726
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:42,519
Speaker 17: a firm response, like you have to show the other

1727
01:33:42,600 --> 01:33:45,599
Speaker 17: person that you like the attention that you're getting from them,

1728
01:33:45,840 --> 01:33:47,920
Speaker 17: and not just for selfish reasons, but because you are

1729
01:33:47,960 --> 01:33:51,320
Speaker 17: also interested in them and their feelings for you.

1730
01:33:52,120 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 12: So it is a two way street.

1731
01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 17: But yeah, I mean, if a girl came up to

1732
01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:57,960
Speaker 17: me and made the first move, I'm not gonna lie.

1733
01:33:58,040 --> 01:34:00,120
Speaker 17: I'm I'm not gonna turn her away immediately. I'm to

1734
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:01,559
Speaker 17: be like, oh, this is different.

1735
01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:02,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

1736
01:34:02,200 --> 01:34:05,320
Speaker 2: So that's different from the last caller Mike, which he

1737
01:34:05,360 --> 01:34:08,960
Speaker 2: basically said girls have taken on the role of men

1738
01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 2: in this society right now, where they're the aggressors there,

1739
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:16,519
Speaker 2: and he doesn't like that. You haven't witnessed that, Sterling.

1740
01:34:16,600 --> 01:34:17,960
Speaker 2: You haven't witnessed that either.

1741
01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:23,080
Speaker 10: No, women are strong and they are aggressive and all

1742
01:34:23,120 --> 01:34:26,599
Speaker 10: those things. Yeah, I mean, my observation or hallucination, there

1743
01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:29,720
Speaker 10: is a generational thing. You know, I'm a guy in

1744
01:34:29,760 --> 01:34:32,320
Speaker 10: my fifties and you know dat a woman in her

1745
01:34:32,320 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 10: mid thirties to forty, and they are not the same.

1746
01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:38,360
Speaker 10: And that's not a bad thing.

1747
01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:39,479
Speaker 16: You know.

1748
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:41,559
Speaker 10: I might want to be held in coddle and they're

1749
01:34:41,560 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 10: done and leave me at home, and I you know,

1750
01:34:46,200 --> 01:34:48,080
Speaker 10: that's okay. It used to be me that would leave,

1751
01:34:48,120 --> 01:34:50,480
Speaker 10: But there's a whole other story. Now I just feel used.

1752
01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 1: Five seven four nine, seven thousand.

1753
01:34:53,960 --> 01:34:57,240
Speaker 2: Sean McMahon, who is producing this show, went to get

1754
01:34:57,240 --> 01:35:01,160
Speaker 2: a caller who's calling in guys too much. Don Yes,

1755
01:35:01,280 --> 01:35:03,800
Speaker 2: you always share way too much, Sterling.

1756
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:05,320
Speaker 10: I should, I'm sorry.

1757
01:35:05,400 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 1: We want to know. We want to know, guys.

1758
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:11,679
Speaker 2: And add to the add to the opinions of Sterling

1759
01:35:11,760 --> 01:35:14,519
Speaker 2: and our producer Sean McMahon, guys, do you want a

1760
01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:16,040
Speaker 2: woman to make the first move?

1761
01:35:16,280 --> 01:35:17,680
Speaker 1: Is that off putting to you?

1762
01:35:18,040 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 2: Because sometimes, and you know, Sterling, I am a very

1763
01:35:21,479 --> 01:35:24,920
Speaker 2: strong woman, and I have no problem in in in

1764
01:35:25,160 --> 01:35:27,599
Speaker 2: if I really like somebody, I'm going to let them

1765
01:35:27,640 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 2: know that. You really will know whether I like you

1766
01:35:30,680 --> 01:35:33,920
Speaker 2: or not. But I also like the men. The man

1767
01:35:34,080 --> 01:35:35,960
Speaker 2: to make the first move, and that's one of the

1768
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 2: indicators of of me liking them or not. Right sure,

1769
01:35:41,800 --> 01:35:44,840
Speaker 2: it's one of the indicators of a woman. So Sean

1770
01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:47,479
Speaker 2: just said, basically, if I make the first move and

1771
01:35:47,520 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 2: he's using courage to do it, she better be receptive.

1772
01:35:51,000 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 1: But what if you don't know yet?

1773
01:35:52,720 --> 01:35:53,040
Speaker 2: What if?

1774
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:55,759
Speaker 1: What if? What if you think you like Sean?

1775
01:35:55,840 --> 01:35:58,320
Speaker 2: What if I think I like Sean and Sean makes

1776
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:00,679
Speaker 2: the first move and I don't.

1777
01:36:00,800 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm not quite there yet. Is it so alarming to.

1778
01:36:05,160 --> 01:36:10,000
Speaker 2: The guy that it's it hurts It hurts his heart

1779
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:11,960
Speaker 2: and he doesn't want to try From there?

1780
01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 10: You're asking me, Yes.

1781
01:36:16,080 --> 01:36:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm asking you.

1782
01:36:16,720 --> 01:36:20,160
Speaker 2: Sean is answering phone. We've got calls coming up long, okay,

1783
01:36:20,200 --> 01:36:20,519
Speaker 2: all right?

1784
01:36:21,080 --> 01:36:25,599
Speaker 10: Because I can't see you, and normally I can. I mean,

1785
01:36:25,680 --> 01:36:28,840
Speaker 10: it helps to know, and you don't want to necessarily

1786
01:36:28,880 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 10: be in the dark, But you know, I guess the

1787
01:36:31,320 --> 01:36:33,800
Speaker 10: trick is to be able to ask and not be

1788
01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:36,200
Speaker 10: so offended and crushed if they say.

1789
01:36:36,000 --> 01:36:38,720
Speaker 1: No, right right, right exactly.

1790
01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:41,879
Speaker 10: And that's the thing. People have a fear of rejection.

1791
01:36:42,320 --> 01:36:45,200
Speaker 10: But here's the other side. I mean, you're an attractive woman, right,

1792
01:36:45,320 --> 01:36:49,120
Speaker 10: professional woman, smart woman, and all the fun and all

1793
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:52,479
Speaker 10: that other stuff, breaking hearts all over the place. But

1794
01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:55,519
Speaker 10: men come out of the woodwork. How how annoying and

1795
01:36:55,720 --> 01:36:58,280
Speaker 10: testering are we to you?

1796
01:36:58,320 --> 01:36:58,679
Speaker 1: Guys?

1797
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:03,040
Speaker 10: Because why I ask, even if I'm not being flirtacious

1798
01:37:03,120 --> 01:37:06,040
Speaker 10: or hanging around, I get the impression sometimes that younger

1799
01:37:06,120 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 10: woman maybe thinking that you're like being creepy even though

1800
01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:15,280
Speaker 10: you're not. So when where is that line for you? Well,

1801
01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:17,160
Speaker 10: not to turn it around, but I'm turning it around.

1802
01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:19,120
Speaker 1: No, no, no, here's one here.

1803
01:37:19,360 --> 01:37:23,240
Speaker 2: I will I will divulge something because yes, I had

1804
01:37:23,240 --> 01:37:25,760
Speaker 2: a breakup this year. I will talk about it. This

1805
01:37:25,800 --> 01:37:27,719
Speaker 2: is the first time I've ever been on a dating app.

1806
01:37:27,920 --> 01:37:30,839
Speaker 2: So I have gone on a couple of dates lately.

1807
01:37:31,439 --> 01:37:34,320
Speaker 2: And Sandra, we're going to get to you in a minute.

1808
01:37:35,120 --> 01:37:39,360
Speaker 2: When the guy moves so close to me in the chair,

1809
01:37:40,320 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 2: that feels a little uncomfortable. So he'll say, you know,

1810
01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:46,680
Speaker 2: get I want to get a little bit closer to you,

1811
01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:51,200
Speaker 2: and I'm not ready for that. That feels a little uncomfortable.

1812
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:54,280
Speaker 2: Let's get to Sandra from Cleave. Sandra, what do you

1813
01:37:54,320 --> 01:37:57,120
Speaker 2: think about this? Help us figure this out? For uh,

1814
01:37:57,560 --> 01:37:58,800
Speaker 2: this this topic here.

1815
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:01,200
Speaker 1: Well, I'm a great grandmother.

1816
01:38:01,240 --> 01:38:04,799
Speaker 7: But somebody told me that I didn't have enough education

1817
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:07,439
Speaker 7: to be somebody like doctor Ruths. But I've read a

1818
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:10,519
Speaker 7: couple of books of doctor ruth and she said, try

1819
01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:13,800
Speaker 7: a different position. And it seems to me like the

1820
01:38:13,840 --> 01:38:17,000
Speaker 7: golden rule that says do unto others, as you would

1821
01:38:17,040 --> 01:38:20,480
Speaker 7: have them to do unto you. And Solomon, the wisest

1822
01:38:20,479 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 7: man who ever lived, he had seven hundred wives and

1823
01:38:23,920 --> 01:38:27,720
Speaker 7: three hundred concubines. And he didn't ask for that specifically.

1824
01:38:27,920 --> 01:38:29,880
Speaker 7: He asked the Lord to give him with him to

1825
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:32,400
Speaker 7: you know, be the ruler of the people. But along

1826
01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:34,559
Speaker 7: with that, God gave him a lot of extra things.

1827
01:38:34,920 --> 01:38:38,599
Speaker 7: But even having that many wives and concubines get in there,

1828
01:38:38,640 --> 01:38:42,080
Speaker 7: he said, it was all. It was all a vexation.

1829
01:38:43,280 --> 01:38:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's too much. That's too much on anybody's plate. Yeah, sure, Sandra, thank.

1830
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:52,120
Speaker 2: You so much for the call. I appreciate it. Adding

1831
01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:55,080
Speaker 2: a little bit of how did we get this? And

1832
01:38:55,479 --> 01:38:57,759
Speaker 2: there we go, Sterling? Do you Sterling?

1833
01:38:57,800 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 1: Are you there? Oh?

1834
01:38:59,040 --> 01:39:00,120
Speaker 10: I lot you?

1835
01:39:00,160 --> 01:39:00,439
Speaker 1: Okay?

1836
01:39:00,439 --> 01:39:02,160
Speaker 10: God, yeah, you hung up on me for a minute.

1837
01:39:02,840 --> 01:39:03,519
Speaker 10: All I can't.

1838
01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:05,559
Speaker 12: For a second.

1839
01:39:05,560 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 17: That's the technology is full. Well, there he goes. Now

1840
01:39:09,680 --> 01:39:10,639
Speaker 17: he's actually gone.

1841
01:39:12,200 --> 01:39:14,880
Speaker 2: I was trying to hang up on Sandra because we

1842
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:15,759
Speaker 2: were done with the calls.

1843
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:16,840
Speaker 1: Sean, Can you do that for me?

1844
01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:18,280
Speaker 17: Yeah, I got it. I think I'll get him back here.

1845
01:39:18,439 --> 01:39:20,799
Speaker 17: There he is right there, all right, Sterling.

1846
01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:21,519
Speaker 12: Can you hear us?

1847
01:39:22,200 --> 01:39:24,479
Speaker 1: Oh? I can hear you, O, car is good.

1848
01:39:24,920 --> 01:39:27,400
Speaker 10: So so you lost me before you lost me. The

1849
01:39:27,439 --> 01:39:31,120
Speaker 10: first time I heard her say, I bounce back and

1850
01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:34,599
Speaker 10: I hear something about being a concubine. What the hell happened?

1851
01:39:36,200 --> 01:39:40,040
Speaker 17: She was talking about Solomon, the wisest man that ever lived,

1852
01:39:40,120 --> 01:39:45,879
Speaker 17: and how he had She said, hundreds of concubine. Nobody

1853
01:39:45,920 --> 01:39:48,639
Speaker 17: wants that trust me on that ask for wisdom. And

1854
01:39:48,680 --> 01:39:51,120
Speaker 17: she basically her point was due unto others as you

1855
01:39:51,120 --> 01:39:51,920
Speaker 17: would want them to.

1856
01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:54,800
Speaker 12: Do unto you. So basically, treat people the way you

1857
01:39:54,840 --> 01:39:55,200
Speaker 12: want them to.

1858
01:39:55,439 --> 01:39:57,080
Speaker 1: And I think it's very good advice.

1859
01:39:57,160 --> 01:40:00,599
Speaker 2: But Sean Sterling said something while you were answer calls

1860
01:40:00,600 --> 01:40:02,280
Speaker 2: and things like that, when.

1861
01:40:03,640 --> 01:40:05,400
Speaker 1: Because here here's what I heard.

1862
01:40:06,720 --> 01:40:09,160
Speaker 2: When you get the courage to say, hey, I'm gonna

1863
01:40:09,200 --> 01:40:10,719
Speaker 2: I want to move forward with this girl.

1864
01:40:10,760 --> 01:40:11,960
Speaker 1: We've been on a date all night.

1865
01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:14,200
Speaker 2: This is our second maybe it's a second or third date,

1866
01:40:14,560 --> 01:40:16,439
Speaker 2: and you've been dating her and you like her and

1867
01:40:16,520 --> 01:40:21,840
Speaker 2: everything seems mutual, right, But then you go in and

1868
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:24,599
Speaker 2: move a little bit and whatever that means, hold her

1869
01:40:24,640 --> 01:40:27,120
Speaker 2: hand or ask for another date, or do we want

1870
01:40:27,120 --> 01:40:29,599
Speaker 2: to you know, move go to go, you know, sit

1871
01:40:29,840 --> 01:40:34,040
Speaker 2: sit by yourself somewhere and she doesn't respond accordingly.

1872
01:40:34,200 --> 01:40:36,599
Speaker 1: Are you going to be able to not get offended

1873
01:40:36,600 --> 01:40:39,240
Speaker 1: by that? Oh?

1874
01:40:39,280 --> 01:40:42,080
Speaker 17: Man, it's tough, because if you're that far into the

1875
01:40:42,200 --> 01:40:45,320
Speaker 17: dating side of the relationship, if you're two or three

1876
01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:48,320
Speaker 17: in and it seemed like things are going well, it

1877
01:40:48,720 --> 01:40:50,439
Speaker 17: definitely is going to sting.

1878
01:40:51,400 --> 01:40:51,880
Speaker 12: I think.

1879
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:54,320
Speaker 17: I think I'm at the point in my life where, yeah,

1880
01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:57,200
Speaker 17: I can learn to accept that, and I can learn

1881
01:40:57,240 --> 01:40:59,360
Speaker 17: to say, Okay, maybe this isn't going as well as

1882
01:40:59,400 --> 01:41:00,800
Speaker 17: I thought. I'm gonna go home and I'm going to

1883
01:41:00,840 --> 01:41:03,040
Speaker 17: be pretty bummed about it, and it might take me

1884
01:41:03,360 --> 01:41:06,479
Speaker 17: a little bit of time to get over it. In

1885
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:08,240
Speaker 17: the moment, it might be hard not to kind of

1886
01:41:08,240 --> 01:41:10,960
Speaker 17: show that emotion because then things can get pretty awkward

1887
01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:15,160
Speaker 17: after that. I haven't I have, Fortunately, I haven't been

1888
01:41:15,160 --> 01:41:18,599
Speaker 17: in that position yet. Yes, but I cannot. I would

1889
01:41:18,720 --> 01:41:21,000
Speaker 17: like to think that I'm mature enough that I could

1890
01:41:21,040 --> 01:41:22,640
Speaker 17: handle that if that were happened to me.

1891
01:41:23,120 --> 01:41:24,160
Speaker 1: It's hot. It's hard.

1892
01:41:25,040 --> 01:41:28,439
Speaker 2: It's hard to be rejected, Sterling. That's what you were

1893
01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:29,360
Speaker 2: talking about earlier.

1894
01:41:30,280 --> 01:41:33,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, absolutely it is. And that's for anybody. I mean,

1895
01:41:33,680 --> 01:41:35,320
Speaker 10: I don't I don't care where you are, you know,

1896
01:41:35,360 --> 01:41:37,920
Speaker 10: whether you're back in the dating pool after or being

1897
01:41:37,960 --> 01:41:40,680
Speaker 10: you know, in a committed saying married or otherwise for

1898
01:41:40,720 --> 01:41:42,400
Speaker 10: a long period of time. I've never been married, but

1899
01:41:42,439 --> 01:41:46,599
Speaker 10: I'm a serial monogamoust in long term relationships and that's

1900
01:41:46,640 --> 01:41:50,559
Speaker 10: just one of those things you do. But I will say, uh, women,

1901
01:41:50,920 --> 01:41:55,479
Speaker 10: seemingly confident women will just simply tell you. And when

1902
01:41:55,479 --> 01:41:58,519
Speaker 10: they call you or tell you, you know, hey, I

1903
01:41:58,600 --> 01:42:01,200
Speaker 10: want to come over and it's ten or eleven o'clock

1904
01:42:01,240 --> 01:42:03,360
Speaker 10: at night, you kind of pretty much have an idea

1905
01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:07,559
Speaker 10: as to why you're getting together. Yeah you know, and

1906
01:42:07,600 --> 01:42:10,519
Speaker 10: that's but sometimes you don't know. But it's like, let's

1907
01:42:10,600 --> 01:42:12,640
Speaker 10: let's just be honest here. You know, we've been out

1908
01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:14,000
Speaker 10: for a couple of drinks and you ask me over

1909
01:42:14,040 --> 01:42:17,960
Speaker 10: and it's one thirty. Okay, we know why we're here.

1910
01:42:18,240 --> 01:42:18,479
Speaker 12: Yep.

1911
01:42:18,800 --> 01:42:20,719
Speaker 1: Usually I I am okay.

1912
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:24,200
Speaker 17: I've had conversations with with girls that I know who

1913
01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:27,200
Speaker 17: they go on dating apps or they're like, oh, there's

1914
01:42:27,200 --> 01:42:29,639
Speaker 17: a cute guy over there. I'm like, listen, men are

1915
01:42:29,640 --> 01:42:31,760
Speaker 17: incredibly simple. You walk up to a guy, you tell

1916
01:42:31,800 --> 01:42:33,360
Speaker 17: him you like, and you tell him he's cute whatever,

1917
01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:35,240
Speaker 17: He's probably gonna respond pretty well.

1918
01:42:35,280 --> 01:42:35,559
Speaker 6: To that.

1919
01:42:35,640 --> 01:42:37,439
Speaker 17: And I get that women are just as afraid of

1920
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:41,639
Speaker 17: rejection as men are, but I feel like men, more

1921
01:42:41,680 --> 01:42:44,560
Speaker 17: often than not, are probably going to respond pretty positively

1922
01:42:44,640 --> 01:42:47,320
Speaker 17: to a girl walking up to them because we're not

1923
01:42:47,520 --> 01:42:50,840
Speaker 17: used to having to do that, and like I said,

1924
01:42:50,840 --> 01:42:53,160
Speaker 17: we're incredibly simple. A girl walks up says you're cute,

1925
01:42:53,160 --> 01:42:54,880
Speaker 17: I might get a little scared at first, but I'm

1926
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:56,040
Speaker 17: I'm gonna get over that.

1927
01:42:56,320 --> 01:42:59,040
Speaker 12: I'm gonna be way more scared to go up to bear.

1928
01:43:00,200 --> 01:43:02,840
Speaker 17: I'm just saying, man, it's it's scary, but if she

1929
01:43:02,960 --> 01:43:05,040
Speaker 17: comes up to me that that makes me feel a

1930
01:43:05,120 --> 01:43:07,080
Speaker 17: little less intimidated.

1931
01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 2: Okay, what would you like her to say she comes

1932
01:43:09,400 --> 01:43:12,280
Speaker 2: up to you? Because here's the thing, Sean, I don't

1933
01:43:12,320 --> 01:43:15,120
Speaker 2: want you and Sterling to go over correct on this

1934
01:43:15,280 --> 01:43:20,320
Speaker 2: because men women want you to be assertive. It's a

1935
01:43:20,360 --> 01:43:23,160
Speaker 2: sign of confidence, it's a sign of courage.

1936
01:43:23,280 --> 01:43:24,320
Speaker 1: It's a sign of you.

1937
01:43:24,520 --> 01:43:27,839
Speaker 2: Being able to not be offended and get over it quickly,

1938
01:43:28,320 --> 01:43:29,599
Speaker 2: and and and that's all.

1939
01:43:29,640 --> 01:43:31,240
Speaker 1: All of that stuff is appealing.

1940
01:43:31,320 --> 01:43:34,839
Speaker 2: So I don't want you guys to think that women

1941
01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:37,720
Speaker 2: don't want that. But if a girl came up to

1942
01:43:37,760 --> 01:43:40,800
Speaker 2: you in a bar, what would be something if she

1943
01:43:41,000 --> 01:43:43,920
Speaker 2: said to you that that would be appealing.

1944
01:43:43,880 --> 01:43:46,840
Speaker 12: Sterling, you want to go first on this, Hey, what

1945
01:43:46,880 --> 01:43:47,599
Speaker 12: are you doing here?

1946
01:43:47,720 --> 01:43:51,599
Speaker 10: I mean I don't that's all you got.

1947
01:43:51,760 --> 01:43:53,040
Speaker 1: What are you doing here?

1948
01:43:53,320 --> 01:43:53,639
Speaker 2: Sean?

1949
01:43:53,720 --> 01:43:53,960
Speaker 5: You go?

1950
01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:56,280
Speaker 10: So you said what I would want her to say,

1951
01:43:56,439 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 10: or I.

1952
01:43:57,040 --> 01:44:00,759
Speaker 2: Want her to say to you? Sean said, if hello?

1953
01:44:01,160 --> 01:44:02,960
Speaker 10: I mean, I don't know what are you doing later?

1954
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Speaker 10: I mean what I want her to say?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I.

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Speaker 10: Don't have anything in particular that I'm looking for necessarily,

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Speaker 10: but I mean, if she's coming over and engaging in conversation,

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Speaker 10: my guess is she's interested, or she wouldn't be coming

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Speaker 10: over to talk. But I don't I don't necessarily have

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Speaker 10: a menu of ideas that.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to say less and so much.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I mean, Sean, what about you? I mean,

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Speaker 10: do you immediately do you have an idea as to

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Speaker 10: what you want to be hearing from her? I mean,

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Speaker 10: unless you're looking at her already, what.

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Speaker 2: Would be what would be cool for her to say

1967
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Speaker 2: if she walked up to If she walked up to

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Speaker 2: me and she just said, Hey, I saw you across

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Speaker 2: the bar, I thought you were cute.

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Speaker 12: I just wanted to come say hello, and introduce myself.

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Speaker 17: If it was that plain and simple, I'd be like,

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Speaker 17: this is amazing, this is a great start.

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Speaker 12: Because I feel like that's probably what the donna. Can

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Speaker 12: you help me with? Is that what women would want?

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Speaker 12: If I walked up and I said that exactly.

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Speaker 2: I was just going to say the same thing if

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Speaker 2: any guy and I and they used to do it,

1978
01:44:56,120 --> 01:44:58,559
Speaker 2: used to do it, like I used to have guys

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Speaker 2: come up to me as a tender and would say,

1980
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Speaker 2: would say just those things. Hey, I saw you across

1981
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Speaker 2: the room, you're you're really pretty, and I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to come up and talk to you.

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Speaker 1: And that works. It absolutely works.

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Speaker 2: And guys don't do that anymore because of the Me

1985
01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:20,560
Speaker 2: Too movement. They don't ask women out. They don't know

1986
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Speaker 2: how to handle women. But I promise you if you

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Speaker 2: went up to a girl and said that, she would

1988
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Speaker 2: be as receptive as you.

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Speaker 17: Would be Sean. I think also the other thing, too,

1990
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Speaker 17: is this is the setting. You have to be in

1991
01:45:32,479 --> 01:45:35,000
Speaker 17: the right setting to do that, you know, Like I like,

1992
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Speaker 17: one thing that gets brought up in the dating world

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Speaker 17: is like, oh, should you talk to your gym crush?

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Speaker 17: And I've seen videos about this and people will walk

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01:45:43,080 --> 01:45:44,599
Speaker 17: up to girls at the gym and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 17: would you want a guy to ask you out while

1997
01:45:47,360 --> 01:45:48,080
Speaker 17: you're working out?

1998
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Speaker 12: And it's so fifty to fifty? So that's setting? Is

1999
01:45:51,000 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 12: I just avoid that entirely.

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Speaker 1: That is amazing.

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Speaker 2: So if you walked up to a girl in the

2002
01:45:56,080 --> 01:45:58,799
Speaker 2: gym setting and you said, listen, I know this is awkward.

2003
01:45:59,160 --> 01:45:59,839
Speaker 1: This is awkward.

2004
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Speaker 2: I've seen the TikTok videos where it's fifty to fifty,

2005
01:46:03,080 --> 01:46:05,120
Speaker 2: but I have to say, I have to take a

2006
01:46:05,160 --> 01:46:08,200
Speaker 2: shot when I see it, and you are gorgeous? Do

2007
01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:10,320
Speaker 2: you have a boyfriend? Should I leave you alone? Should

2008
01:46:10,320 --> 01:46:11,320
Speaker 2: I never speak to you again?

2009
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Speaker 12: Door spotter?

2010
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Speaker 1: Right? Do you need a spotter? Because I'm available any

2011
01:46:17,560 --> 01:46:20,040
Speaker 1: What time do you come here? I mean, so you

2012
01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 1: can women love comedy too.

2013
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Speaker 2: You can actually joke about it and say, I know

2014
01:46:25,200 --> 01:46:28,920
Speaker 2: this is super absurd and weird and stuff, but like,

2015
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Speaker 2: I don't come across many women that look like you,

2016
01:46:32,880 --> 01:46:34,559
Speaker 2: and I know it's a gym setting and you want

2017
01:46:34,600 --> 01:46:37,840
Speaker 2: to be left alone. But can can Is it okay

2018
01:46:37,880 --> 01:46:40,439
Speaker 2: if I just say that you're pretty? And can we

2019
01:46:40,640 --> 01:46:43,799
Speaker 2: can I get your Instagram? Because even the Instagram, even.

2020
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Speaker 1: The Instagram instead of your phone number is way cooler, right.

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Speaker 12: I don't know.

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Speaker 17: Does that play into the confidence thing, Like if I

2023
01:46:51,760 --> 01:46:53,960
Speaker 17: ask for a girl's phone number, does that make me

2024
01:46:54,000 --> 01:46:56,519
Speaker 17: seem more confident? Or do you think asking for the

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01:46:56,560 --> 01:46:58,240
Speaker 17: Instagram is a bit of a safer play.

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Speaker 2: It's a safer play and it and also if you're

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Speaker 2: in the gym where it's already fifty to fifty and

2028
01:47:02,960 --> 01:47:05,040
Speaker 2: women are like, I'm just here to work out. But

2029
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Speaker 2: if you because Sean, you're a good looking guy, if

2030
01:47:09,040 --> 01:47:13,000
Speaker 2: you walked up to a girl that was your equal

2031
01:47:13,080 --> 01:47:17,479
Speaker 2: in terms of looks and age and everything, and you're

2032
01:47:17,520 --> 01:47:20,040
Speaker 2: both working out, I think you would have a very

2033
01:47:20,080 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 2: good shot of getting her Instagram and then you message,

2034
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Speaker 2: and then you talk a little bit and then you

2035
01:47:25,120 --> 01:47:25,839
Speaker 2: get her number.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, well there is a girl in my gym that

2037
01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:29,000
Speaker 12: is like that, I think.

2038
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Speaker 17: So I don't know. Maybe she's out of my league,

2039
01:47:30,880 --> 01:47:33,200
Speaker 17: but I'm here to help you. I've been debating this

2040
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Speaker 17: for weeks, so maybe I don't know. Maybe I've been

2041
01:47:35,280 --> 01:47:36,840
Speaker 17: getting signs from the universe to tray.

2042
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Speaker 2: There's one for you. There's one for you. You could

2043
01:47:39,720 --> 01:47:42,559
Speaker 2: have asked Vicky, she was here all night. I can't

2044
01:47:42,600 --> 01:47:44,560
Speaker 2: believe it's time to go. You're gonna shoot me in

2045
01:47:44,880 --> 01:47:47,400
Speaker 2: a minute, Sterling. The big what are you doing for

2046
01:47:47,479 --> 01:47:49,760
Speaker 2: the big game tomorrow? Bengals and Bills. It's gonna be

2047
01:47:49,800 --> 01:47:50,200
Speaker 2: a good one.

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Speaker 10: You're gonna sit quietly in the house mine in my

2049
01:47:52,320 --> 01:47:55,080
Speaker 10: own business, just focused at what I'm doing. Here's the

2050
01:47:55,120 --> 01:47:57,720
Speaker 10: one simple thing. If you're out somewhere, though, and if

2051
01:47:57,720 --> 01:47:59,600
Speaker 10: you see a woman and she may or may not

2052
01:47:59,640 --> 01:48:01,800
Speaker 10: be with the guy, let's just say, and she looks

2053
01:48:01,840 --> 01:48:03,559
Speaker 10: like she's not having the best of time to take

2054
01:48:03,760 --> 01:48:05,519
Speaker 10: if you could find like either a napkin or a

2055
01:48:05,560 --> 01:48:08,799
Speaker 10: sugar pack or something like that, you say, drop the zero,

2056
01:48:09,040 --> 01:48:11,080
Speaker 10: get with the hero, and then you give it to

2057
01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:13,599
Speaker 10: her and then you see if she comes back over

2058
01:48:14,600 --> 01:48:17,360
Speaker 10: how that's going. I did do that and it did

2059
01:48:17,400 --> 01:48:18,760
Speaker 10: work out.

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Speaker 2: Or Sean, you can do if you want to come

2061
01:48:22,800 --> 01:48:25,280
Speaker 2: on a date with me and leave that guy behind,

2062
01:48:25,439 --> 01:48:31,160
Speaker 2: check this box yes or no. Gosh, Sterling, you are

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01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:34,240
Speaker 2: the best. Sean McMahon, thank you so much. Have a

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01:48:34,280 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 2: great rest of your night. Is Stanade.

2065
01:48:36,320 --> 01:48:37,240
Speaker 1: I am out of here.

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Speaker 2: Go Bengals, come in for the big win tomorrow and

2067
01:48:41,600 --> 01:48:45,559
Speaker 2: we'll see you next week, right, Sterling, We're on Saturday.

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01:48:45,600 --> 01:48:47,519
Speaker 10: Yeah, Saturday, I think six to nine, and I'll be

2069
01:48:47,560 --> 01:48:49,280
Speaker 10: on Friday night too, or on Monday night.

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Speaker 1: Holy crap, them all over.

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01:48:50,360 --> 01:48:53,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're all over. So my seven hundred WLW. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much. Cincinnati,