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Speaker 1: Second date update on intern John your Morning Show. Dating

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Speaker 1: is the worst, especially if the person you are dating

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Speaker 1: with or dating too. Dating in general doesn't communicate. They

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Speaker 1: stopped talking, especially froun this time of the year, the

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Speaker 1: holidays coming up. We chat to figure out exactly what's

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Speaker 1: going on. Christian, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Morning everyone.

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Speaker 1: Hey, so Walker through this, you and Ava matched on

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Speaker 1: hinge About how long ago?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe a little more more than a.

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Speaker 1: Month or so, okay, And what about a of US

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Speaker 1: profile made her stand out to you?

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Speaker 4: She was gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she just had that look my paste.

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Speaker 2: She seems kind of down the earth as well. When

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Speaker 2: we were talking, like it was a good blend, you know,

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Speaker 2: she she wasn't. She looked like she might be, like

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Speaker 2: almost too much out of my league. But then when

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Speaker 2: we started talking she was very you know, it just

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Speaker 2: worked well.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, you guys went to a Caps game.

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Speaker 2: We went to a Caps game, which was also a plus.

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Speaker 5: She said yes to that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean great, absolutely, Okay, how long was the

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Speaker 1: first date after we matched? Like, how long from matching

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Speaker 1: to seeing each other in person?

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe a week and a half right away, But

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Speaker 3: it got you a little quick.

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Speaker 1: See guys to the Caps game. Would you dinner for

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Speaker 1: a second date?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we did the dinner.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, gotcha, Okay, yeah, I only cut you off,

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Speaker 1: but I just want to this is aroun. I'm confused

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Speaker 1: because this all kind of stems from after dinner, which

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Speaker 1: was what two weeks ago roughly. Yeah, she had mentioned

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Speaker 1: that she was going to a friends giving this past

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Speaker 1: weekend and invited you to come with her, right, yes.

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Speaker 2: She's she brought it up, and I was like, I

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Speaker 2: was a little nervous.

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Speaker 3: I don't know many she I never met any of

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Speaker 3: her friends. She talked about them, but I nervous met them,

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Speaker 3: and you know, it's just like a next step kind

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Speaker 3: of thing.

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Speaker 1: I like, but still the friends giving is almost more

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Speaker 1: more important. But like, that's a huge hurdle where I

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Speaker 1: would invite somebody to a friends giving unless I thought

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Speaker 1: there was for sure a chance it was going to

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Speaker 1: work out. Yeah, so she's invites to your friends giving,

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Speaker 1: you say yes, this weekend comes around, you can't get

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Speaker 1: a hold of her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what happened. I texted her didn't

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Speaker 2: want to bother too much that I was getting closer

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Speaker 2: to the date.

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Speaker 3: So I gave her a call and then nothing, and

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Speaker 3: I gave her.

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Speaker 2: Another call nothing again. I left her a voicemail. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: did I misread the situation? Did I say something wrong?

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Speaker 2: Did I not answer quick enough? And I'm nervous?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I liked her.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be assad is she invited you? That's pretty

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Speaker 1: black and white. And you mentioned on her Instagram she

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Speaker 1: was posted stories from the party this weekend, so she

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Speaker 1: for sure is alive.

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Speaker 5: It went to the party.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's active on social media, so I hate when

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Speaker 2: people do this.

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Speaker 1: But that's so, I guess the only question I want

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Speaker 1: to ask you, uh, Christian is one she said, I

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Speaker 1: want you to go right.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like you were like, oh, would be nice

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Speaker 5: if I can come along.

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Speaker 3: It's like she no, I didn't even know there was

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Speaker 3: a friend until she brought it up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair, So let's just let me call her

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Speaker 1: and try and get her on. I love to get

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Speaker 1: her side because it would be different if, like you like,

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Speaker 1: got the sympathy invite. But her idea, that to me

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Speaker 1: is odd because again, that's a huge that's a big step.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, especially friends givings because you're literally dining with them usually.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and you only know her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: In theory, yeah, it would have been a vibe check.

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Speaker 3: You know, they really all out do I pass for friends?

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Speaker 1: I got you, Hello, I call them for Eva please

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Speaker 1: she hey girl, it's internshown. I got Sauce Rose as well.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk to you on the show real quick

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Speaker 1: about something like thirty seconds of your time?

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Speaker 5: Nothing bad? Positive?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, we're doing something called seconded up Day. I

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Speaker 1: got somebody named Christian on the the line. Christian if

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Speaker 1: you want to say hello? Nailed it, and so Eva

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Speaker 1: Christian reached out to us, told us, you, guys, mash

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Speaker 1: On Hinge went to a Caps game, had dinner. You

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Speaker 1: had invited him to friends giving this past weekend, but

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Speaker 1: when it came time for you know, the Purton details,

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Speaker 1: you kind of disappeared. So we're trying to see where

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Speaker 1: your head's at and why the cut off of communication

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Speaker 1: if you will.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, I did invite him to friends giving,

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Speaker 7: and before the friends happened, a friend of mine who actually,

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Speaker 7: by the way, was going to be there at the

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Speaker 7: friends giving. Notice that he's on dating apps.

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Speaker 5: Still okay, So.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm had you guys, and ship.

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't say we are in a relationship, but you know,

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Speaker 7: we went on a couple of dates. So yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't want a guy that i'm dating to still

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Speaker 7: beyond dating apps.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 7: I didn't think I needed to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you how did how does your friend know

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Speaker 1: what Christian looks like?

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Speaker 7: Well, my friend just kind of saw him on there.

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Speaker 5: I mean, but like, how does your friend know what

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Speaker 5: he looks like?

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Speaker 7: Though, well she doesn't, but Christian is not a super

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Speaker 7: common name.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but did you Christian on there? Okay? Have you

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Speaker 5: shown her photos of him?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: You don't even know if it's him?

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Speaker 5: What I don't.

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Speaker 7: Hey, here's a Christian and you know, right right here

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Speaker 7: in our area, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, same age, you know, like, okay, every king?

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Speaker 1: So hold on, you give me a headaches, so you

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Speaker 1: don't know for sure if it's him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm not trying to laugh at you.

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Speaker 5: I just Christian? Are you on? You still had? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Hold on?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't get why it's a problem either way, though,

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Speaker 2: Like I wasn't really active on it. I just I

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Speaker 2: I forgot I still had it. You know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but you guys, you guys aren't boyfriend girlfriend right.

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Speaker 4: No, that's true.

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Speaker 2: You know, I didn't really think anything of it. I

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Speaker 2: thought we were just kind of still beginning stages.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna put you I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: put you guys in hold. I'm I need a rebels

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Speaker 5: a lot. Are you team?

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Speaker 3: Eva?

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Speaker 5: Our team?

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Speaker 1: Christian eight seven seven nine five four six. State went

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Speaker 1: to call nine ninety three three eight attacks second date Updates.

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Speaker 1: I didn't turn Johnny Orange Show second Day Update on

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Speaker 1: ETERN Johnny Morning Show, but he talked to Christian and Eva.

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Speaker 1: They matched about a month ago on Hinge went to

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Speaker 1: a dinner, went to a Cabs game, was supposed to

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Speaker 1: go to her friends giving this weekend. She never gave

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Speaker 1: him the info other than please come. According to her,

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Speaker 1: she was upset to find out he is still on

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Speaker 1: dating apps Your thoughts eight seven seven nine nine five

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Speaker 1: four to six.

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Speaker 5: State went to.

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Speaker 1: Call nine ninety three three eight to text will get

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Speaker 1: you and hold sauce, what are you thinking?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I get that they've gone on a few dates,

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Speaker 6: but that's also not enough for him to delete the

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Speaker 6: appy if he's not he's I mean, he did say

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Speaker 6: he wasn't even really looking at it or anything, but

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Speaker 6: without having the conversation to define the relationship and everything,

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Speaker 6: and then also we don't even know if it was

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Speaker 6: him that was on the app.

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Speaker 1: Can try to say on that note, I think she's lying.

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Speaker 1: I think she still checked her own app and saw

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Speaker 1: he was still on it. Sure, because otherwise that's far

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Speaker 1: more likely than some random person being like, hey, it

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Speaker 1: was so weird. I also happen to see a guy

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Speaker 1: in Christian.

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Speaker 6: And even though then if that's the case, then she

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Speaker 6: still has the app. So I don't know. I think

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Speaker 6: that if they just had a conversation she said hey, uh,

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Speaker 6: but then I mean, I don't understand that, you know,

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Speaker 6: defying the relationship at any time, it's it does cause

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Speaker 6: a lot of anxiety, but you know, just just rip

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Speaker 6: off that band aid. But also it's very soon, so

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Speaker 6: I don't Maybe I'm obviously on his side. I just

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Speaker 6: think that's a lot for right away.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a great specially two dates to then be

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Speaker 1: like delete the apps, and that's not it's.

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Speaker 6: Also just not fair to him to be like, hey,

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Speaker 6: like that's messed up. They're still on this app without

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Speaker 6: even seeing where the relationship is going. It's only been

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Speaker 6: two dates.

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Speaker 1: I'm disagreed one hundred percent. Let me go, Natasha, good morning.

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Speaker 1: What do you want to say of this girl?

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Speaker 8: I'm on Christian side? Because why do need a dating

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Speaker 8: app when I'm not sure if the relationship is going

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Speaker 8: to move forward and recreate and publish all my answers.

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Speaker 2: She's her things.

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Speaker 8: It's really hard to date now, so I don't know

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Speaker 8: why she's making a big bit out of something. She

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Speaker 8: was being disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: This is great, Natasha, thank you for listening. I have

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Speaker 1: a great day. My main Rose, What do you want

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Speaker 1: to say this?

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Speaker 5: I think she is a major red flag.

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Speaker 9: I love my friends, but if I were on a

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Speaker 9: dating app and somebody was like, there's a Christian on

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Speaker 9: the dating app, I'd be like, okay, yeah, send me

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Speaker 9: a screenshot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: If you're concerned that this the guy that I've been

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Speaker 9: on two dates with, is still on dating apps, why.

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Speaker 5: Not take a screenshot and send it to me.

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Speaker 9: She's just blindly believing her friends, which is concerning because

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Speaker 9: then if one of her friends becomes jealous or something

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Speaker 9: and comes up with a rumor about Christian.

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Speaker 5: She's Is she blindly gonna believe that too? Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Like it doesn't make sense to be like, well, I

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Speaker 9: didn't actually see the pair. I don't know if it

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Speaker 9: was really him, but Christian is such an uncommon name.

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Speaker 5: What. Yeah, here's the logic. I still think she's lying. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I really do. Let me go. Wait, thank name, Rachel.

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Speaker 5: You're a dating coach?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: What do you want to say with this?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 4: I want I actually specialized in working with individuals who

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Speaker 4: are narrow deserves.

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Speaker 5: Sure, but.

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Speaker 4: It's true for all populations. The first thing I go

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Speaker 4: over with my clients is the definite like the Webster's

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Speaker 4: Dictionary definition of dating and the Webster's Dictionary definition of relationships,

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Speaker 4: and about how basically, unless it's a mutual decision to

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Speaker 4: see only each other, jearf free to do whatever they want.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, that's fair. You can't force me in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: They can't, Rachel. Can I ask how long you've been

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Speaker 1: listening to this show for?

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Speaker 4: Oh jeez, so the kids?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Well fair?

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Speaker 1: And so you can ask you then, in your professional opinion,

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Speaker 1: what is wrong as a dating coach? What's wrong with me?

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Speaker 1: And what's wrong with sauce? And you can go harder

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Speaker 1: on her, of course, because she can take it. I

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Speaker 1: personally can't.

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Speaker 4: But your thoughts else the something's wrong with you dating?

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Speaker 4: Dating is really hard nowadays. And and my theory is

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Speaker 4: that the app, while convenient, sure kind of destroyed dating

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Speaker 4: in itself for sure. Yeah, for sure, so much Acce,

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Speaker 4: that's just so many different people that there could be

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Speaker 4: something so small in the picture. Yeah, and they always

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Speaker 4: know that someone else coming up, so little left and

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Speaker 4: now and now.

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with sauce? So you say nothing from me,

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Speaker 1: so until ten, So think as much time as new.

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Speaker 4: Thing with you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thank you Rachel, thank you for listening,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you by if you want

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Speaker 1: to do a second the update dmst WYMUS Radio real

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Speaker 1: quick too.

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Speaker 5: I saw this yesterday on line.

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Speaker 1: There's something called the Batman effect that they've been studying,

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Speaker 1: where people behave better in the presence of Batman. So

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Speaker 1: so even I it's somebody in like a man costume

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Speaker 1: like will act better.

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Speaker 5: So they say.

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Speaker 1: Pro social behavior is the act of helping others essential

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Speaker 1: social life, YadA, YadA. The study tested whether and unexpected

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Speaker 1: events such as the presence of a person dress as

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Speaker 1: Batman could increase pro social behavior by disrupting a routine,

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Speaker 6: I can say with my chest on Halloween, I had

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Speaker 6: a Batman yelling at me because I wouldn't date him,

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Speaker 6: and it looked like we were going through a really

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Speaker 5: So now, okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, the experiment took place on the Milan Metro system

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Speaker 1: and found people were roughly thirty percent more likely get

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Speaker 1: up their seat to a stranger when someone dresses Batman

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Speaker 1: was aboard the train car.

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Speaker 5: That's odd, y'all.

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Speaker 1: So in this experiment, yeah, a fake pregnant woman wearing

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Speaker 1: pro sect belly enter the train car in search of

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Speaker 1: a seat in the experimental group. The addition, in addition

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Speaker 1: to a fake pregnant one being on the train, a

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Speaker 1: man dresses Batman also bore a ten feet away uh,

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Speaker 9: Did they have a control group, because I feel like

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Speaker 9: most people would give up their seat for a pregnant woman.

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Speaker 5: They did.

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Speaker 1: They said passengers were like, you offer the seat and

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Speaker 1: Batman was present. Sixty seven percent versus thirty seven percent

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Speaker 1: is kind of crazy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Batman's there.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna do it because I'm gonna be like, hey,

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm young and not pregnant. You can have my seat. Yeah, Like,

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Speaker 6: are you okay? I mean, oh, Batman's you're not a

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Speaker 6: real person, like not real.

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Speaker 5: You don't know. Okay, you don't know. You are a

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Speaker 5: capable human being. Thank you so much. Can stand.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you should one hundred percent of the time give

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Speaker 9: your seat up for a pregnant woman.

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Speaker 5: Not because Batman.

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Speaker 6: I mean a grown man dressed up as Batman makes

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Speaker 6: you want to give up a seat.

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Speaker 5: That's why you want.

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Speaker 9: To intern John in your morning show.

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