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Speaker 2: When you've been hurt at work and don't know what

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Speaker 1: Farah and Farah Tampa.

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Speaker 3: Hillary, wouldn't it be nice to be as perfect as

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Speaker 4: I guess, but we could only dream?

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Speaker 3: So Hillary, I did talk to Carson last night, so

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Speaker 3: let's uh, let's bring on Carson, who you know, we

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Speaker 3: can save the awkward hellos and everything. But Carson, you know,

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Speaker 3: when we did talk last night, You're like, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: to her, but from the sounds of it, and you guys,

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Speaker 3: stop me if I'm wrong on this, but you guys

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Speaker 3: were pretty much like dating for about a month.

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Speaker 1: Carson exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, Carson, go ahead, Let's talk to Hillary. And

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Speaker 3: why did you decide to call it quits?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's pretty simple. It's just that she,

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Speaker 2: you know, she lives beyond her means and I can't

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Speaker 1: Do you feel that way, Hillary?

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Speaker 4: I I'm just I'm baffled because you live just as

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not like.

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Speaker 5: It's not like me. I live in an apartment, dude, Like,

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Speaker 5: what do you like? So I have a nice heaven forbid?

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Speaker 4: I give myself nice things, and I am nice to myself.

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Speaker 4: Like come on, You're seriously gonna judge me based on that?

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, look, so here's the rich. Yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: give yourself nice things and that's okay, but if you

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Speaker 2: can afford them. Okay. So here's the thing. I'm a dentist.

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Speaker 2: She's a dental hygienist, so I know how much he makes. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I can afford to give myself nice things. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I live within my mind.

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Speaker 5: Why the hell would you say that? If you love me,

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Speaker 5: you love me like, you don't know all of my circumstances.

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Speaker 5: So maybe my parents help. But I am an only child,

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Speaker 5: and of course, okay, I'm going to accept my parents'

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Speaker 5: love through a car occasionally. But Perston, like, how dare

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Speaker 5: you judge me like that? We have not dated long

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that is it.

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Speaker 2: I think I just learned your true character when we've

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Speaker 2: only been dating for about a month. I don't love you.

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 3: Well here real quick, and this is where always Radio

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Speaker 3: Eight four one ninety three. I'd love for you guys

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Speaker 3: Carson not giving Hillary a call back. He says, you're

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Speaker 3: not living within your means. You're spending a little bit

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Speaker 3: Uh, he says, not the case. I'm perfectly fine. Eight

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Speaker 3: and how they live and make a judgment about that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, Ashley, Katie, ladies, where are you at?

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Speaker 6: So as long as your bills are taking care of me,

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Speaker 6: all this lavish stuff and your and your home isn't

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Speaker 6: Carno late like that's when I had the issue. But no,

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna be pocket watching. That's that's not my problem. Like,

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Speaker 1: You've been in a relationships over people ask you for.

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Speaker 7: That's been the red flag. That's why I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But now, Hillary, you ever asked for money from a guy.

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Speaker 5: I do not have crazy bills like I took care

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Speaker 1: But I also don't try to clock people's checking accounts.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like I said, Joe's red I had been in

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Speaker 6: just like, whoa, whoa wo who just bought Louis bag?

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Speaker 1: So, Carson, what are you so worried about? Then?

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Speaker 3: Are you worried that she will eventually ask you for money?

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Speaker 2: She's not living within her meet. If she was, other

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Speaker 2: in channelside, I know how expensive that is. I just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why aren't you trying to marry into a rich family?

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Speaker 3: YEA?

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Speaker 6: Like, you can't be mad if someone wants to, you know,

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Speaker 6: go and that they love her, and they want to

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 4: My daddy treats me well and were lady.

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Speaker 5: For a man who feels the same way.

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Speaker 6: Some men do get intimidated by the father of the

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Speaker 2: How do you know that he's living with You don't

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Speaker 7: Why you care?

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Speaker 5: Again, when have you met with our financial planner?

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Speaker 3: Dude?

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Speaker 5: How do you even know? You just disappeared before you

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Speaker 2: Because I know I know how much a dental hygienis makes.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I'm not interested. I'm not interested

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Speaker 3: Nikki, Welcome to leftown rad I mean, I know you

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Speaker 3: know how it works, but we've got Hillary and Carson,

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Speaker 3: And Carson doesn't want to date Hillary because he thinks

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Nikki, I'm.

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Speaker 2: On her side. As long as her bills are paid

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Speaker 2: what she does so the extra money is her business.

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Speaker 5: In a relation where they love each other yet, then

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Speaker 5: it shouldn't be his problem.

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Speaker 2: It's not like they're about to get married next month.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wow. You want to get to the point where you're

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm a little proactive when it comes to that.

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Speaker 2: That's their business's not his.

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Speaker 1: She's not asking you normally, and thank you.

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Speaker 7: I think he's intimidated about the things she's buying. And

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Speaker 3: Right, So that's why I've been a little bit quiet.

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Speaker 3: Is I don't know if I can ask this question,

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is there any chance that maybe potentially you want a

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Speaker 3: than able.

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Speaker 1: To buy.

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Speaker 2: Yah?

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Speaker 1: Clock that whatever that means, clock it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna nif that in the bud No, I want

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Speaker 2: a woman who is able to take care of herself

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Speaker 2: and doesn't need me to do it. I want to

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Speaker 1: What do you think.

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Speaker 8: I get where he's coming from if I'm looking at

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 7: No one says she's relying on the help.

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Speaker 6: Though no one says she's relying on the help, she's

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Speaker 7: So to assume that she is just because.

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Speaker 6: She's out buying lavish things for herself, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's ridiculous saying I know how much a

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Speaker 2: dental hygienis makes and the thing she has has do

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Speaker 7: I know people make.

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Speaker 1: Those things.

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Speaker 6: You upset that she's good at managing her money clearly because.

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Speaker 7: She can clearly pay her bills and big money.

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Speaker 6: Yes, that she's met more than he knows how to

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Speaker 6: manage your money. You can't be upset about that.

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Speaker 7: It doesn't matter what.

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Speaker 2: Money you how to handle your doesn't.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't matter how much you're making, as long as

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Speaker 7: I guarantee you can buy whatever the.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want, what you want.

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Speaker 2: Let me calm down, down, and that mentality, that mentality

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Speaker 2: is why so many people are in debt.

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Speaker 7: Now, that's gonna listen.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 7: Matter how much money you make.

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Speaker 2: Yes it does, Yes it does. If the money coming in,

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Speaker 6: Every week Jesus Christ, we will have him on the

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Speaker 6: line every week, you getting left on red.

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Speaker 7: I want to leave them on D right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well you know what, then we can leave it

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Speaker 1: at that. I'm not even gonna ask if we can

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Speaker 1: get another date.

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Speaker 3: Hillary Carson sounds like you're both dodging a bullet of

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Speaker 3: personal preference.

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Speaker 1: When you've been in a crash and your mind's racing

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Speaker 2: You've been hurt at work and don't know what to do.

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Speaker 1: You know who to call, Farah and Farah Tampa