Speaker 1: A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Speaker 1: star one on one three. It's Marcus back with second
Speaker 1: Date update, literally trying to help you find love. The
Speaker 1: more I talk to people about dating, the more treacherous
Speaker 1: I hear that it is. So we're here to help.
Speaker 1: If you go on a first date and let's say
Speaker 1: you're date ghosts, we will call them with you on
Speaker 1: the line to try to figure things out, see why
Speaker 1: they might have ghosted you. You know, sometimes it works
Speaker 1: out in a second date. Let's se if we can
Speaker 1: get that done for our guy him. Are you there?
Speaker 1: I am, Hey, Hey, so I want to hear all
Speaker 1: about this date. Tell me about Eli. How'd you guys meet?
Speaker 1: And then what'd you guys do for your first date?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: Well, we we met on grinder, okay, but it wasn't
Speaker 2: an immediate meet we like, it wasn't like a right away.
Speaker 2: We talked for a little bit and then we met
Speaker 2: a couple of days later for tacos and margaritos.
Speaker 1: Okay, because it's currently if I'm wrong with like, Grinder
Speaker 1: can be immediate, right, it can be like sitting ten
Speaker 1: feet to your left. Let's go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much that's what grinder grinder usually is.
Speaker 3: Okay, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: We we got to chat him, and we decided that
Speaker 2: we wanted to see if it would be more than
Speaker 2: just kind.
Speaker 4: Of a.
Speaker 1: Grinder slow play. How often does this happen? Not very Okay, So,
Speaker 1: how was the d.
Speaker 2: I mean it was really it was really awesome when
Speaker 2: we both love musical theater and we both we both
Speaker 2: cry at the last ten.
Speaker 1: Minutes of so go. I mean, who doesn't, right, Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, I thought he was really sweet and funny and
Speaker 2: like he was really honest. We we really we really
Speaker 2: had a lot to talk about.
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, and he just ghosted, just gone.
Speaker 2: He just ghosted. I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 1: Huh. All right, let's call him. I mean, that's why
Speaker 1: we're here. We're gonna call him. We're gonna have you
Speaker 1: on the line. Have you been on second update before? No,
Speaker 1: I have not. This is exciting. Okay, all right, hang
Speaker 1: on the line. We're gonna play a song. Let's regroup.
Speaker 1: You've got him on the phone. He was telling me
Speaker 1: about his date with Eli. They met on on grinder
Speaker 1: and connected for an actual date a couple of days later.
Speaker 1: I mean, we were laughing, because like grinder is typically immediate,
Speaker 1: it's typically like a like a homing device almost it is.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 2: It's more like a hey, what are you into.
Speaker 1: Right now in the moment, I'm on your left something
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm on your left. Here, here's a picture of
Speaker 2: my junk.
Speaker 1: All right, Well you know what we're breaking dround. You
Speaker 1: guys went out. It was tacos. It was in Oakland,
Speaker 1: and you guys both love musical theater. I wrote it down,
Speaker 1: you said, the conversation felt honest. The problem is Eli
Speaker 1: has ghosted, So let's call him and try to figure
Speaker 1: some things out. Okay, go ahead and mut your phone.
Speaker 1: Here we go.
Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hello, May I speak to Eli?
Speaker 1: Please? This is him Eli. This is Marcus from Star
Speaker 1: one on one three iHeartRadio.
Speaker 3: Okay, what is there?
Speaker 4: Did I win our conscious with him?
Speaker 1: You don't listen to the morning show?
Speaker 4: Do you heavy down there? But not like often?
Speaker 1: Not religiously. Okay, we're doing second date update right now?
Speaker 1: Does that mean anything to you?
Speaker 4: It does not?
Speaker 1: Okay, So I got a call from a gentleman that
Speaker 1: you went out with not too long ago, went out
Speaker 1: with for for tacos and his name's Hyman. He's saying
Speaker 1: that you ghosted him, and I'm just calling kind of
Speaker 1: on his behalf to try to figure out why if
Speaker 1: you ghosted A and B, what happened? Did you ghost?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I did?
Speaker 1: Okay, did he do something wrong?
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I'll say that the date was fun, but.
Speaker 1: Because so so here's what he told me. He told
Speaker 1: me that, like and I wrote it again. He told
Speaker 1: me that the date felt really honest.
Speaker 4: So that's the problem.
Speaker 5: It was too honest, Like but he was literally he
Speaker 5: was talking about like.
Speaker 4: Planning ahead, like his few games. He gave me his five.
Speaker 5: Year plan, and it was like when he meets the
Speaker 5: right guy, he wants to get married, he wants to
Speaker 5: have like a house in Berkeley, he wants two.
Speaker 6: Dogs, a share closet. Like he was telling me all
Speaker 6: that before we ordered Cato, and then he reached over
Speaker 6: and like touched my wrists and said, I can tell
Speaker 6: you fall in love quickly as well. And I'm like, no,
Speaker 6: I don't. Like I mean, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 5: He was a nice guy. He's attractive. Like the conversation
Speaker 5: was good, but like it was just intense, like really intense.
Speaker 5: He kept correcting my spanness. Like when I was ordering something,
Speaker 5: he would like correct me, which I thought was kind
Speaker 5: of annoying.
Speaker 1: Oh I wasn't ask you if annoying? All right?
Speaker 5: The first time was cute, but the second time I
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, I get it. Spanish isn't my first language.
Speaker 5: Like this is getting kind of a bit much.
Speaker 1: Right, okay, So basically like he was too fast, too furious, kind.
Speaker 5: Of yeah, like he was telling me about like what
Speaker 5: the dog's names would be just a.
Speaker 1: Lot, sure hear. The thing about it is is that
Speaker 1: time is actually listening right now. We'll try to use
Speaker 1: this as a teachable moment. Sorry, I'd love to bring
Speaker 1: him on, if that's okay, sure him? Are you there?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey, Hi, so, uh you can see how this might
Speaker 1: be a little bit accelerated.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I mean, I mean I was joking kind of.
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, as I said, grinder is usually
Speaker 2: wham bam, but since we were actually going on dates,
Speaker 2: I figured it would be funny to joke about, Hey,
Speaker 2: we've done the whole get grinder, immediacly, and now we're
Speaker 2: clearly ready for a future together.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm gonna be honest with you it didn't
Speaker 4: seem jokingly to me, Like it seemed like you were
Speaker 4: just genuinely looking for like something more and I'm just
Speaker 4: trying to have fun. I'm not looking at that road
Speaker 4: on the road. I'm not looking for relationship or dating
Speaker 4: or a boyfriend or anything like you're on like a
Speaker 4: whole other level. And I respect that you're honest about
Speaker 4: whatever you're looking for, but I am not, in any way,
Speaker 4: shape or form, I'm looking for any type of commitment
Speaker 4: or anything like that at all.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think that's too bad because I thought,
Speaker 2: you know, if we were actually meeting up and having
Speaker 2: a conversation instead of getting right to make and stuff.
Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes I just want to get dinner, but
Speaker 4: like I don't want to, but you were really just
Speaker 4: pushing it.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 5: It just seems like you're really looking.
Speaker 4: For that guy, and I hope you find it, but
Speaker 4: it's just I can't be that guy.
Speaker 1: All right? Hang on you two? Yeah, going nowhere? Second date?
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