1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys, Tampa Bay's number one 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: and only hit music channel ninety three three f l Z. 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: It is the Joe Show. You know, there's two things 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: that I really want to get to. Well, let's play 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: topic roulette. Joe found out at a funeral? Or would 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: you quit your job for love? I like the second one? 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: What do you ladies think? 9 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: Second one? 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? Second one? Okay, what do you think? 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: Joe? 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't care? 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: Come on you? 14 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: So you want to get to do which? Okay? All right, Ashley, 15 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: this is something going on in your your friend's life. 16 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: So or would we not allowed to say that? 17 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can say, I'm just not going to say 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 2: your name obviously. 19 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: Eight hundred four own Na ninety three, ninety three. If 20 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: you have quit your job for love, talk about what's 21 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: going on. 22 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 3: So. 23 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 4: I have a friend who is really attracted to a 24 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 4: guy at her job, and you can see that they 25 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 4: like each other. They go to lunch, they spend their 26 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 4: lunch time together, they text after work. He's interested in 27 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 4: being more than just coworkers and friends. But she has 28 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 4: this strict rule where she does not date coworkers, and 29 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 4: I'm just like, clearly this might be your person, Like, 30 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 4: can you just you know, make it work. 31 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 2: She's like no, So I said, well, what did you 32 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 2: tell him? 33 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,199 Speaker 4: She said, I straight up told him you gotta quit 34 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 4: or we can't be together. And he's as joab because 35 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 4: he feels like she is his her person or his person. 36 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 4: And I was just like, oh wow, I don't think 37 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 4: I have dated multiple women, and I can tell you 38 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: I've always put. 39 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 2: My career first. I am so sorry that will always 40 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 2: just be me. Love don't pay the bills, baby. 41 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: I was always taught by my mom that you can't 42 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: like put your job to the side for love, because 43 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: all it will do is end up leading towards resentment. 44 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: M true or false? I agree eight hundred and four 45 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: on the ninety three ninety three Sean used to work 46 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: Yes for iHeart for FLZ. Did you guys date while 47 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: he worked there? 48 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 5: Yes, for a little bit, but then he ended up 49 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 5: quitting to pursue their interests. But I think it worked 50 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 5: out for the best, because you know what I'm saying, like, 51 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 5: I don't know if I co sign working with your 52 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 5: significant other. I mean, I don't know how anyone else 53 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 5: thinks about this. I know, I think it's good to 54 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 5: have like space separation, and he was you know you 55 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 5: wouldn't want Yeah, he wanted to do something else anyway, So. 56 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: Did he want to do something else or did he 57 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: leave because of that? Was that a factor? Yes? Was 58 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: it a factor? 59 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: Though? 60 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 5: I think maybe it would have been a factor if 61 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 5: it continued going. 62 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: But would you would to say, hey, maybe you might 63 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: want to quit, like you get out of here. 64 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: Because there is a part of me, like if Alyssa 65 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: worked here. 66 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 6: Like if she worked in sales. 67 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, we could like make out in the studio. 68 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 4: No, I want don't you want to come home different 69 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 4: stories about your works life. You won't believe what happened 70 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: in a department And Tammy was just making me upset. 71 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,399 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't like her no more. 72 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: No, I want to make this clear. I have no 73 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: interest in being romantic with and I'm obviously Now let's 74 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: talk about hypotheticals if I was single, I think that 75 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: that's super messy. And truthfully, when we moved here, Tommy 76 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: sat me down and gave me a talk about how 77 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: you're the host of morning show and you're not allowed 78 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: to hook up with anyone in here, because that's how 79 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: you get hr involved and then you'll get fired. But 80 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: that being said, like Alyssa and I went to the 81 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: studio I think over this weekend or last week, and 82 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: I had to record a commercial. I was like, you 83 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: want to make out? She's like no. And I was like, 84 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, you want to get naughty, you want. 85 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 6: To like a little small studios, just turn you board. 86 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 6: You want to like a mouth hug in the studio, 87 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 6: not a mouth hug. Yeah, And you know what she said? 88 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 4: No, No, smart woman, smart woman, absolutely not. 89 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: I said, okay, well that's still a fantasy of mine. 90 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: Maybe one day. Do you know I asked her out 91 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: in the old studios? 92 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: Oh did you really? 93 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? We were Uh what did I have to do? 94 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: I wasn't there clearly a night. Yeah, why would you? 95 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 2: Oh I got you brought it here just to do that. No, 96 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: it's such a romantic. 97 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: I think I had to do another commercial or something. 98 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: Like interrupted my weekends just half on the air. 99 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: Oh I didn't ask her out on the air. Oh 100 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: my god. I would never do that. 101 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 6: No. 102 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: I like we were in the studio. I think we're 103 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: like drinking wine or something like that. And I was like, Hey, 104 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: why aren't we just like officially dating. She's like, Okay, 105 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: that happened in the old studio. That's a true story. 106 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: Happened on a weekend, and I don't do weekend eight 107 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 1: ninety three, ninety three, Lauren, you say put your career 108 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: over love? 109 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, I love my career. I I think it's 110 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 3: definitely something that drives me, motivates me. You know, it's 111 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,599 Speaker 3: something that I've worked really hard towards my entire life, 112 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 3: so you know it it gives me purpose, and you know, 113 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 3: you get that sort of ratification from going to work 114 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 3: every day and you get to talk to people and 115 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 3: meet with people. So it's definitely I feel like it's 116 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: definitely more important. 117 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:31,119 Speaker 1: I gotta be honest. You know. My hesitation with doing 118 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: this topic was I don't think anyone would put love 119 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: over their career. I think when we actually, like really 120 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: come down to like the brass tacks of it, everyone's 121 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: gonna logically say, well, you can't do that. But that 122 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: being said, I wonder what the real number would be 123 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: like if you put them to the test. Because now, 124 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: granted she wouldn't do this, and this is part of 125 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: the reason why I absolutely love her, but we play 126 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: on hypothetic on the show. Hypothetically letcha Alyssa comes to 127 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: me and says, you got to quit. I can't have 128 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: you doing this anymore. Tough decision. The resentment might be there, 129 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: but I can't lose her, like I don't want to 130 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: live my life without her. So what do I do? 131 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. 132 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 1: That is tough. 133 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's very complicated, my goodness. 134 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Lauren. The reason why we're talking about 135 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: this is Ashley's friend really quickly reset this because Jessica 136 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: has a question. 137 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so one of my friends, she is really 138 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 4: attracted to a guy at our workplace. They've been out 139 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 4: on lunch together. He wants to take it further, but 140 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 4: she's like out on day coworkers. So you have to 141 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 4: quit in order for us to be together. 142 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: Jessica, what's your question? 143 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 7: How long have they been working together or has this 144 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 7: guy been working at the company. 145 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: So he's been working there longer than her. She's been 146 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 4: there for a year now, so she has to quit then? 147 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, shootout. 148 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, she just got there. 149 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: And it's her dream, but he's been there. 150 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 4: Listening a job getting out now, but she has it's 151 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 4: her dream job, and she said she is not willing 152 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 4: to uh to leave. 153 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 2: So I mean, if he really likes her, he'll quit. 154 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: Well. 155 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: Line of work this is accounting. 156 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 7: Oh, I respect that. I respect that. 157 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: It's like trees, they're all over the place. 158 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 4: Man, it's hard to get into accounting in the positions 159 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 4: she's in, is it it is? 160 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? With your sex, I'd only hire women accountants, right, Jessica. 161 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: But Jessica, he should quit, shouldn't you? 162 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 6: Oh? 163 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 7: I would? 164 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: I don't think he should quit. I think she. 165 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 2: Should, Jessica. He should quit, shouldn't he? 166 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: No? No, he was their first. 167 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 7: If he if he sees himself with her for the 168 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 7: rest of his life and he sees it as a 169 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 7: cop event, he would quit. 170 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: I think so too. It doesn't matter how long he's 171 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: been there. 172 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you know what happens if things don't 173 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: work out the moment that they broke up and then 174 00:07:55,560 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: he's unemployed. That's what happen, weapons Jessica. 175 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 7: You get it, you get it lined up, you get 176 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 7: a new job lined up. 177 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 2: Okay, I want to make this work. 178 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: I don't think so. Thank you, Jessica, I love you 179 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: so much. Madeline, You choose love over career. That's what 180 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: I want to hear. 181 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, yes, I did. 182 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: What did you do? 183 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 7: We actually we actually met at work, and I was 184 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 7: like the original caller, I said, I was Ashley's friend. 185 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 7: I said, I was never going to date a co worker, 186 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 7: but something just kept telling me to go after it. 187 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 7: So we we dated for a little bit at work, 188 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 7: and we kept it a secret, and I eventually left 189 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,599 Speaker 7: work and found a new job, and we're going to 190 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 7: get engaged soon. 191 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 4: So it's going to work out, baby, It is going 192 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 4: to work after you. 193 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 7: I loved what I did in my job, but I 194 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 7: didn't necessarily like the company, so it was kind of 195 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 7: it all kind of worked out at the end. 196 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 1: Good for you. See, thank you. Things do work out. 197 00:08:58,960 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 7: Thank you. 198 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: Now hear his audio, you say, you guys are gonna 199 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 1: get married. What's taken him so long to get engaged. 200 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 7: Well, he's just trying to plan the right moment. Hopefully 201 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 7: it'll be in the next month or two, is what 202 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 7: he's been telling me. So I'm just anxiously waiting, Madeline. 203 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: If he does not have a ring yet, slide this 204 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: by himself. I'm going to say I'll take in the 205 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 1: international Diamond Center and he can be my personal guest. 206 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 7: You can give him a little pop talk. 207 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: Once he you tell him to call in right now. 208 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: You you can't listen, You're not allowed to listen. But 209 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: if you tell him to call in, I'll give him 210 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: one hell of a peptopha once he does. Pop the 211 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: question though, Madeline, make sure you call in so we 212 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 1: can celebrate you. And then I'll take you guys into 213 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: IDC and we can look at wedding bands. 214 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 7: Okay, thank you, I love you, guys, love. 215 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: Best of luck. Tell him to hurry the hell up. 216 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: Though he's got to hurry up. He's got to hurry up, 217 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 1: all right, Well, then this song is dedicated to Magdeleine 218 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: Enter soon to be fiance. This portion of the Joe 219 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: Show podcast is powered by Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys,