WEBVTT - Second Date Update: CPAP Frank

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do a second date update right now on

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<v Speaker 2>Mojo in the morning. Why you're not getting a call back,

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<v Speaker 2>Frank's not getting a call back? Hi, Frank, how you doing, buddy? Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing Okay, Frank? Tell us about the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, Well, we met on Facebook. Okay, date, had had

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty good time.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually stayed over, stayed the night, so okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So was it was it a one time and then

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<v Speaker 2>you had her stay the night or was it that

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<v Speaker 2>you went out a couple of times leading up to

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<v Speaker 2>it or talked for a little bit before him.

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<v Speaker 3>No, one time, like we met on Facebook. One date,

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<v Speaker 3>went it, went out, had a great time, she stayed over.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know, and now it's not calling back. No,

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<v Speaker 1>and she stayed over, like okay, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you did things happen when you when she stayed over?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm assuming the way you said that, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the intention that she would spend the night or

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<v Speaker 2>did you guys drink a little bit too much and

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<v Speaker 2>you just didn't want her or she didn't want to drive.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think it was a combination.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we did have a little bit to drink, but

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<v Speaker 3>we kind of had a good time and everything kind

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<v Speaker 3>of went well.

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<v Speaker 2>So she stays, all right, you know, I want you

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<v Speaker 2>to do me a favor and say hello to Carrie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, thank Hi, Hi, Hi Carrie. How you doing. I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing okay, doing fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>So Carrie, Frank contacted us wanting to know if he

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<v Speaker 2>could ask you on another date because he said that

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<v Speaker 2>he's been trying to get in contact with you and

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<v Speaker 2>you just haven't been returning his calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Is everything good with you?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I'm fine. I just yeah, I haven't returned

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<v Speaker 5>his calls because I don't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 5>him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, why not? I mean been nice to let me know.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know. It was just easier just not

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<v Speaker 5>to respond. But I don't know. I just don't think

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<v Speaker 5>I can.

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<v Speaker 1>Let get it down. Frank, what did you Frank? What

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<v Speaker 1>did you did you want to say to her?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you just you should be an adult and

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<v Speaker 3>get in touch with people, unless you're like three years

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<v Speaker 3>old like at it. But you're an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>But whatever, all right, let's let her talk.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just I just don't think for a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of reasons that this would work long term, So I

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<v Speaker 5>don't really see the point in calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it that was not interesting about Frank? To you?

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<v Speaker 2>You spent the night at his house, so you obviously

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<v Speaker 2>were interested enough to go back and stay the night

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<v Speaker 2>at his house. Were you not interested leading up to

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<v Speaker 2>that point? Or was it what happened at his house? No?

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<v Speaker 5>So, like everything was fine pretty much, you know, and

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<v Speaker 5>we did spend the night together. But uh, he sleeps

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<v Speaker 5>with some kind of weird machine and I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>it just I don't know what it is, but it

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<v Speaker 5>just breaks me out. No, No, it's like a he

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<v Speaker 5>like puts it on his face.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so Frank, he needs that to breathe. Frank, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a seatpat machine? Yeah? Man, you sleep like you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but you brought a first date over and you

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<v Speaker 6>put your seatpat machine helps it?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just that would throw me off to I think

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<v Speaker 4>first time meeting some I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you were dating somebody, you would not be

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<v Speaker 1>interested in a guy that I put this on.

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<v Speaker 4>I could see where it would just it would be weird,

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<v Speaker 4>for sure, I understand. I totally my stepmom has a seatpet.

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<v Speaker 4>I get that people need it. I just think after

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<v Speaker 4>you have this like romantic first, did you hook up

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<v Speaker 4>for the first time? And then he throws the mask

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<v Speaker 4>kind of space of fall.

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<v Speaker 2>Sleep, But you don't know you didn't put it on

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<v Speaker 2>when you guys were falling around, did you? Or while

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<v Speaker 2>you were just laying there in bed next to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you wait until she went to bed or what

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<v Speaker 2>did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were like sunking off, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>starting to fall asleep. So I just put it on

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<v Speaker 1>and then she woke up next to Darth Vader.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, you look like an elephant with the thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a seatpath once. I need a seatpap machine. I

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<v Speaker 2>really do, like I need to get one because it's

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<v Speaker 2>not good for your heart to not have it if

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<v Speaker 2>you have been diagnosed.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't do it, Frank, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I give you credit because I felt like the moment

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<v Speaker 2>I put that thing on was the last moment my

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<v Speaker 2>wife ever touched my privates, like you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>and so so I kind of had this moment like

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<v Speaker 2>you're having right now with Carrie. So I get I

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<v Speaker 2>get her kind of feelings towards it. But I also

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<v Speaker 2>get yours because you need it, right, It makes you

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<v Speaker 2>feel better, you sleep better, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, at this point, just I'm so used to it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like I didn't even think anything of it,

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<v Speaker 3>but I guess I probably should have baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So so Gary, you fall asleep, you wake up and

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<v Speaker 2>you see that thing and it's on his face, and

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<v Speaker 2>you look at it. You're thinking yourself, I can't lay

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<v Speaker 2>next to this guy for the rest of my life,

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<v Speaker 2>or I'm not even gonna give him a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was just weird. I don't know. It grows

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<v Speaker 5>to me out and well, it's just really loud and

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<v Speaker 5>it makes a lot of noise. I can't sleep that way.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't sleep with that right next to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of feel bad for the poor guy, but

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<v Speaker 2>I also, I mean, I get it to each his own.

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<v Speaker 1>Montana, what's up? You wanted to comment on Frank in

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<v Speaker 1>his cepat machine.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I want to know why she being judgmental because

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<v Speaker 7>my baby used one of those because she got sleep happening.

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<v Speaker 7>She almost died because she has sleep happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh jeez, when you say your baby, you're you're not

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<v Speaker 2>talking about your your your guy or your.

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<v Speaker 7>Girl or no, she'll be hands this year, can have.

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<v Speaker 1>A sea pat machine. Really, yeah, she was boring wild.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not know that.

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<v Speaker 4>I really did not know.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea that that either. Yeah, yeah, she was.

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<v Speaker 7>She was born with sleep apnea and she stopped breathing

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<v Speaker 7>in her sleep. Okay, no, thirty six times at birth?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Jods, Mitchel, he probably didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, but that's an extreme case. I did not

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<v Speaker 2>know that that a child could have a seapath machine,

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<v Speaker 2>uh and have sleep abnea. Thank you for letting us

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<v Speaker 2>know that. What's up, Tina, you wanted to comment on this?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>She means, you know, she means to grow up a little.

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<v Speaker 7>My husband has a sea pat machine, and on our

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<v Speaker 7>first sleepover, he did not bring it. I think for

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<v Speaker 7>the same reason, maybe a little afraid of how someone's

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<v Speaker 7>going to react to that. And I was up all

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<v Speaker 7>night staring at him because she stops breathing, and so

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<v Speaker 7>you're just staring at this man, and then.

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<v Speaker 6>You take them, you take them, I think to your

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<v Speaker 6>point though, no, obviously nothing wrong with having a seapap

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<v Speaker 6>I just think that maybe it would have been good

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<v Speaker 6>for them.

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<v Speaker 4>To get to know each other a little bit before

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<v Speaker 4>that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Tina, I got a quick question for you.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Tina, you put on that beautiful sexy thing that

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<v Speaker 2>you go to bed in every night.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is, but whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>you put it on. Neglige A little negligent.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, and you were neglige a. I haven't heard that

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<v Speaker 2>word forever. So you put on your neglige a and

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<v Speaker 2>you lay next to your man and he goes, are

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<v Speaker 2>you Actually?

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<v Speaker 7>It's very quiet?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys make love with him with a seatpap

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<v Speaker 2>machine on? Or does he take it off and only

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<v Speaker 2>put it on when you guys are.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no, he doesn't wear it. Well, we're making love.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 7>We look great. We both are flipping on the bike guards.

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea puts this mask thing on at night and I

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<v Speaker 1>look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got like this this like piece of like looks

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<v Speaker 2>like silverant ran wrap plastic or something.

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<v Speaker 4>A red light mask, and West calls me Darth Vader.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just do you wear your you have neglig What's

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<v Speaker 2>going on, Casey? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi? I just said that it was a first date,

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<v Speaker 4>so she's allowed to be as picky as she would like.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, good point, Carrie.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people texting in right now saying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>on a first date, maybe he can go without it

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<v Speaker 2>for one night? Can you go without it for one night, Frank?

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<v Speaker 2>Or are you gonna die if you go without it

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<v Speaker 2>for one night?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I probably could, but we were home at my house.

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<v Speaker 3>We like it was time to sleep, so I just

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<v Speaker 3>put it on.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you should even go without it. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just maybe not a sleepover right off the bat, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>what's up, Melissa high?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like maybe if she would have not with

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<v Speaker 5>him on the first.

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<v Speaker 7>Date, that would have been something to would have learned

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<v Speaker 7>about him, maybe over some time, and it wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 7>been so shocking.

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<v Speaker 5>But when you go home with someone the first night

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<v Speaker 5>you meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, let's not judge.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sure, you know what. I knew that that was

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<v Speaker 2>going to happen to the first date efforts. What's going on, Bethany?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>And you just said her name? Yeah, I said, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Was saying if I was just saying, if he was

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<v Speaker 7>still single?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, are you interested?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, why not?

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<v Speaker 7>A seatpat Machine's pretty much like a fan and I

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<v Speaker 7>sleep with the fan every night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you know what would be great is if you

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<v Speaker 2>were so good with him he had to put his

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<v Speaker 2>seatpat machine on ten to give him more oxygen.

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<v Speaker 1>After whatever you guys do.

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<v Speaker 2>Bethany, Oh tell me more, Frank, would you like Bethany's number.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually a little scared, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I like this anytime that we are able the fine

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<v Speaker 2>love for men with seed pat machines. We are the

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<v Speaker 2>show for you, Bethany. Hold on the line. We'll get

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