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Speaker 1: Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's

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Speaker 1: a star one on one three. It's Marcus in the morning.

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Speaker 1: We're doing second date update and we've got Adam on

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Speaker 1: the phone.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Adam, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: So you went out with a lady named Nicole. This

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Speaker 1: was in Berkeley and she has ghosted. Those are the headlines.

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Speaker 1: So let's let's kind of get into it. What did

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Speaker 1: you guys do for your date?

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Speaker 3: Oh uh, we went. We had coffee. It's a nice

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Speaker 3: coffee date, talked, got to know each other. Is kind

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Speaker 3: of low key. I thought that it was enjoyable. We

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Speaker 3: discussed childhood pets, agreed that mornings for quiet people, and

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Speaker 3: we bonded over both needing at least one cup of

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Speaker 3: coffee before becoming functional humans.

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Speaker 2: Sure, no, we all and I thought it felt.

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Speaker 3: Very promising, Okay, calm natural. I thought it was good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she is just kind of evaporated.

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Speaker 3: She has evaporated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call her. We've been doing it long enough,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna have you on the phone. Mute it out.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna be on hold. You'll be able to

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Speaker 1: hear her. But I'm going to ask her how the

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Speaker 1: date went for her. I would love to get you

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Speaker 1: a second date, but let's see how.

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Speaker 2: This feels up.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We're doing Second Date update

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Speaker 1: right now. Adam has been holding patiently. We were talking

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Speaker 1: about his date with Nicole. Kept it very simple. Just

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Speaker 1: coffee in Berkeley, Easy, peasy, Adam? Are you still there?

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Speaker 1: I want to make sure we're ready to go. We're

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Speaker 1: about to call nic Cole. I know she's ghosted, so

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Speaker 1: let's try to figure some things out. Go ahead and mute.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Clue.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Nicole? Hey Nicole, It's Marcus calling from

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Speaker 2: Star one one three. Oh Hey, what's up? How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm good? I'm a huge fan.

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Speaker 2: Oh I love that about you. Hey you want to

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Speaker 2: be on the show?

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Speaker 4: Of course? I do you have to ask?

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Speaker 2: We're doing second date update right now. Oh yeah, Hi?

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Speaker 2: Are you aware of second date update? Do you know

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Speaker 2: how it works? I am?

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Speaker 4: I definitely know.

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Speaker 3: Is this about Adam?

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Speaker 5: Adam said, Hi, all right, we're here, Adam, Nicole, Adam,

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Speaker 5: he enjoyed your time, he enjoyed the date.

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Speaker 2: He'd like to take you out again. Did you ghost.

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Speaker 4: I did? And I really liked him at first I

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Speaker 4: thought it was going well, but then sort of maybe

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Speaker 4: halfway through the date, I kind of felt like the

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Speaker 4: vibe changed, okay, and I think we're just not really compatible.

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Speaker 2: Where did how did this go sideways?

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Speaker 4: So he kind of just casually said, he was like,

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Speaker 4: I should probably tell you now I don't celebrate birthdays,

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Speaker 4: and like I thought, maybe he just meant he doesn't

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Speaker 4: like to have a party, which is fine because I'm

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Speaker 4: not like a big party person, you know either, But

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Speaker 4: he when I asked, like more, I was like, is

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Speaker 4: it like religious? Like what is this about? And he

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Speaker 4: was like no, I don't celebrate birthdays at all, my

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Speaker 4: own or other people's. And he's like, I just don't

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Speaker 4: get the point, okay, And he said he feels like

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Speaker 4: celebrating them is like so unnecessary.

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Speaker 2: I see, Adam back to you, Is this true?

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Speaker 3: That is true? I think that birthdays are more for children.

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Speaker 3: I think they're a little over commercialized and I don't

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Speaker 3: celebrate them in a big way. But I thought we

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Speaker 3: had a good day.

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Speaker 1: Otherwise, would you wish somebody a happy birthday or like

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to grasp like to what it.

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Speaker 2: Then you don't celebrate.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you acknowledge. With birthday, I might acknowledge. I

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Speaker 3: think it's it could be worth an acknowledgment, but a

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Speaker 3: large party celebration that it seems childish to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't need.

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Speaker 4: Like a huge party or you know, anything like that,

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Speaker 4: but I do like to do something fun and special.

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Speaker 4: And it wasn't just that. I kind of felt like

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Speaker 4: everything that's everything was fun and like a celebration. He

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Speaker 4: just wasn't about like I was talking about a trip

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Speaker 4: that I went on, and he was kind of like

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Speaker 4: travels exhausting. I just want to stay home. And I

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Speaker 4: really like to collect like cute like things for my

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Speaker 4: childhood that like give me happy memories, like I have

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Speaker 4: a poke ball on my cell phone case, and he

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Speaker 4: was just like a nostalgia's so overrated. And I just

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Speaker 4: feel like we wouldn't get along very well because I

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Speaker 4: I'm very sentimental and I love things and souvenirs, and

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to like dwell in the past, but

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Speaker 4: I just feel like if you have cute little things

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Speaker 4: that spark happy memories, then and you're just happier in general.

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Speaker 4: And he was just kind of a downer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got it, so like no, second Date. No, okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Hang on, that was not going to work

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Speaker 2: out ever. Uh.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update. All the calls are right there. Start

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