WEBVTT - She Threw Up in Zack's Bed 

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's Mojo in the morning. Look who's in

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<v Speaker 1>studio with us. Zach is our director of audio, the

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<v Speaker 1>executive audio director of the show. Yes, sir, Zach's been

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<v Speaker 1>dating this girl for a while. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what her name is.

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<v Speaker 2>There's actually a lot that you guys don't know that

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<v Speaker 2>that has happened in the last month. Can I just

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<v Speaker 2>get right into it, please, So my apartment flooded one

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<v Speaker 2>last time, and then they finally moved me the last month,

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<v Speaker 2>I moved into a new apartment, right amen. During that time,

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<v Speaker 2>I have been talking to a girl. I don't call

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<v Speaker 2>her my girlfriend because I'm looking for a partner. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm more mature than like.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever, wait her for longer than a month? No, no, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 3>you said this time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so this is the topic. When did you

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<v Speaker 2>finally feel like this is serious? So during this time

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<v Speaker 2>in this new place, she she got sick and I

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<v Speaker 2>was wearing headphones, and I thought my new apartment started

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<v Speaker 2>flooding again, But actually she was throwing up on the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of freaking out, instead of like kicking her to

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<v Speaker 2>the curb, I actually I took care of it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I felt bad held her hair. I think that was

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<v Speaker 2>like the time where I was like, I'm actually like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in deep for her.

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<v Speaker 1>I like her a lot. All I hear was I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was flooding in my apartment like.

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<v Speaker 2>Legit, uh, food poisoning at a Eastern Markets restaurant which shall.

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<v Speaker 4>Not be.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a second, so let's talk about this. Zach is

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<v Speaker 1>official off the market because she threw up in his

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<v Speaker 1>apartment and he didn't say, get the f out of

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. I think that was how many girls have

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<v Speaker 1>thrown up in your apart you've gotten upset about not

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<v Speaker 1>in my apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>But I did have one other girl like in college.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you know it's you know that you are

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<v Speaker 2>probably smitten submitten as I used to say. Uh, I

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<v Speaker 2>never said that, but you know that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are like literally, I don't want to say love, but

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<v Speaker 1>do you say love like possibly? You know that when

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<v Speaker 1>you can take care of them through an illness like

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<v Speaker 1>a food sickness like this, Yeah, that's amazing. Was she

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<v Speaker 1>willing to accept your help? Because if I was puking,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would want my man right there.

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<v Speaker 2>She was really embarrassed, and that's when, like I was like, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>everything's okay, Like I'm here, like, yeah, here's a bucket,

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<v Speaker 2>like take a nap.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put some more headphones.

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<v Speaker 2>On in case he gets sick, just text me or

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<v Speaker 2>so you have a hard time with hair and sickness, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get sick. But also I was

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<v Speaker 2>working on my music, Like you can take a nap.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do my own things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cute though, So so she's let me ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>did you have her like brush your teeth? I mean, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how wonderful is that though, that you can tell

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<v Speaker 1>that Zach has a girl, he's got his official.

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<v Speaker 5>That is actually a really good point though, to like

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<v Speaker 5>test how much you like somebody, because bodily fluids or

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<v Speaker 5>noises are a tough one to push through if you

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<v Speaker 5>don't actually really have feeling for somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there are girls that don't like to get sick

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<v Speaker 1>in front of their Like if Chelsea's throwing up, she

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<v Speaker 1>does not want me in the bathroom while she's throwing up,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I want to be there and rubb her back

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. She's like, don't touch me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's probably the same way. But like she just

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<v Speaker 2>didn't make it to the bathroom. Unfortunately. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>one of those moments.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have Do you have stains anywhere now? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I threw out.

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<v Speaker 2>The sheets and everything and everything's clean, like I mopped

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<v Speaker 2>it and everything. Yeah, you have a mom I do

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<v Speaker 2>because my apartment flooded, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I I was actually just you have a mop.

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<v Speaker 1>That is, by the way, interesting though she threw.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you be like like she was getting up on

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<v Speaker 2>the corner of the bed just and then mostly on

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<v Speaker 2>the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I love you, but you can like a

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<v Speaker 1>little faster. Does she feel bad about it?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, not now? But did you have to pay you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't buy your sheets though, right, she didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>by she did? Yeah, she ended up getting me sheets.

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<v Speaker 1>This girl winter? How much? How many uh times did

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<v Speaker 1>you have to ask her to do this topic? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I know you you're so fair? Probably like five times?

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, have you actually been seeing this girl that

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<v Speaker 3>you've been keeping a secret from us?

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<v Speaker 1>Like legit?

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<v Speaker 2>Like probably since my birthday? I guess maybe like a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks after when's your birthday? Remember sometime in February?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Okay, but like we've.

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<v Speaker 2>Been talking like way longer than in August of last year.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy for you. Why do you look scared when

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking? Yeah, No, I'm not scared. I just feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't have the discussion yet about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I told her, you've got a hard lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Who she is?

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<v Speaker 2>He said her name?

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<v Speaker 1>She did? Why did I not think her name was?

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<v Speaker 3>How you met?

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<v Speaker 1>We should call her? You don't have a different topic, Shelley,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? It is Mojoe in the morning strip club?

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, good morning everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you hey? By the way, real quick, Shelley,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to say I'm just joking.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm just joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like that, because you got to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna can you hear me? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Well I'm driving in Nashville.

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<v Speaker 7>I just want to say, Zach, because.

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<v Speaker 6>Anybody deserves a really good woman and to be loved deeply.

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<v Speaker 8>It is you, young man.

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<v Speaker 3>You are.

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<v Speaker 6>Old enough to be your mom. But I tell you,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just so proud of you. You are such a

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<v Speaker 6>great kid, and I'm so so happy for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Beautiful looking, Yeah, that's the guy everybody reads for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, can we bring this up as a topic, Shelley,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to bring this up as a topic. When

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<v Speaker 1>did you know that you guys were officially like dating?

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<v Speaker 1>For Zach, she threw up in his bed. When did

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<v Speaker 1>you officially know that this was a relationship and more

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<v Speaker 1>than just a hookup partner? Because you know, he said

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<v Speaker 1>she threw up in his bed, and he wasn't worried

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<v Speaker 1>about his bed, he was more worried about her. That's

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<v Speaker 1>when you know that that's a good relationship, that's something

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<v Speaker 1>that's solid. When did you know? Listen, it's been so

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<v Speaker 1>long ago. I think I might have been. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think. Oh, you know what it was

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<v Speaker 1>for me?

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<v Speaker 9>Was I slide when I pushed her on the swing

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<v Speaker 9>and she could get out of the little kiddy one

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<v Speaker 9>and be on.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you know what for me was I had a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new car I went out and bought. It was

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<v Speaker 1>my first brand new car I ever bought. And Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>had like a little used Honda Civic and she her

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<v Speaker 1>car was not a great car, didn't have air conditioning.

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<v Speaker 1>We were living in Arizona, and I gave her my

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<v Speaker 1>car to drive and I drove I drove her car.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when I realized. I was like, man, I must

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<v Speaker 1>love her as I'm sweating my fat in the car.

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<v Speaker 6>When I realized about my ex husband, Yeah, we had

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<v Speaker 6>such a great thing. And he had a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Buck.

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<v Speaker 6>He was a beautiful golden retriever. He made Buck stop

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<v Speaker 6>sleep start sleeping on the floor because I was tired

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<v Speaker 6>of dog here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, does hate you still? Thank you appreciate what was

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<v Speaker 1>your Shannon? You remember?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly And this is so like cliche, but the first

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<v Speaker 3>time I saw Wes interact with my kids and that

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<v Speaker 3>was like that was a lot of months into our relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>but that's when I was like, Okay, solidified this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a really great guy. That's cool. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>neat to know that, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 1>that they're not looking at them as anything other than

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<v Speaker 1>like their children, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like they like I was invisible and he was so

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<v Speaker 3>focused on them and Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you with hold on a second? And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going through now I feel I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>the pd Pablo song. Pet Pablo frequently, Zach, have you

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<v Speaker 1>farted in front of each other yet? Yeah? So that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I got Hemorrhi, it's the first time holding it

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<v Speaker 1>in because I was holding it in.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she got me like the following week she

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<v Speaker 2>got me a care package that said, hanging with you

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't has been anything but spitty, And then she got

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<v Speaker 2>me like pooperri and like that's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny like her. Yeah, we like her. She's cool, she's great.

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<v Speaker 1>So question when you first met at her did you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys just hanging buddies for a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>or did you ask her out on a date?

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<v Speaker 2>And that's it first went on a date. It was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hanging buddies, but it was more like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you doing tomorrow? Like I met her one

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<v Speaker 2>day and then it was the next day, asked her

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<v Speaker 2>out right the first I was like, let's drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know more about you. Wow, did you

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<v Speaker 1>when do you know when to go in for like

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<v Speaker 1>kisses and stuff like that like with somebody. Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>took me like probably like three dates after So you

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<v Speaker 1>did not on that first date of going out for drinks? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Now did you give her a hug like yeah, just

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<v Speaker 1>like a goodbye like type hug. Did you feel her

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<v Speaker 1>movies and stuff? Like it was amazing, you know, against

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing. See what that's all about. I will

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that I agree with Was it Sandy who

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<v Speaker 1>was the first caller that we just had? Was it Sandy?

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<v Speaker 1>It was Marshy? Hold on, it wasn't Jamal Shelley, So Shelley.

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<v Speaker 1>So Shelley is right. I want nothing but Zach's love

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<v Speaker 1>it like I want him to have like the I

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<v Speaker 1>want you. I want if there's anybody that I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see when a lottery, it would be you. If

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<v Speaker 1>there's any if there's anybody, yeah, over you, If there's

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<v Speaker 1>anybody that I want to see have like a happy

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<v Speaker 1>like like I'm telling you, like seriously, like the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of us can be miserable, but you spread it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>He deserves it. Man, the guy, the guy has had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not the easiest of lives. But also the

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<v Speaker 1>other thing too is he doesn't let that hold him back.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's such a ray of sunshine. Thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 1>When are we meeting her? Party of Mojo's? Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you have a plus one this Friday? You should

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<v Speaker 1>bring her somebody like? Okay? So I I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>think I might have met her, but I don't. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>said that I have, So I didn't know what she

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<v Speaker 1>looks like. So I looked up a picture of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I be honest with you? Yeah, you have way

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<v Speaker 1>out kicked your coverage, like she is really like I

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<v Speaker 1>look at I'm like, wow, zach Man, she must have

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<v Speaker 1>a long dong long dung silver all trades over here.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that this hasn't gotten any calls from

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else. No, but I know, but this is such

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<v Speaker 1>a good topic of when did you realize that your

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<v Speaker 1>relationship was like really official, like official official, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>there are It's not the moments of we went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, you know or whatever. It's like those moments

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<v Speaker 1>like Zach had that are like the instrumental moments in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Or like sometimes getting lost on a vacation. That's when

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like okay, I need my passenger princess to

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<v Speaker 2>get the f out of her phone and look at

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<v Speaker 2>a map like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You, Mojo life, hold on, I got one. Here we go, Colleen.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Colleen? Is Mojo in the morning? Hi?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, About twelve years ago, I was on vacation. What's

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<v Speaker 7>my then husband? I mean boyfriend now hasband, and I

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<v Speaker 7>couldn't sleep. There was a skylight above our bade letting

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<v Speaker 7>in all this light, and he found a black sock

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<v Speaker 7>of his and I head band of mine and made

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<v Speaker 7>me like a dy sleep mask.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Using his sock sleep mass of fall asleep. It's an

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<v Speaker 1>awe moment. Ah, so beautiful, Colleen. I love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that it is dirty frigging sock. Now she's got a

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<v Speaker 1>foot fungus on her face, Jamal, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 8>It was going on? So the day that I knew

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<v Speaker 8>I was very serious about marrying my wife was the

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<v Speaker 8>day that we went to her her sister's birthday party.

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<v Speaker 8>And this day was just full of just like drinks

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<v Speaker 8>and partying and everything. I already knew that I was

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<v Speaker 8>going to talk to her, her dad and her brother

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<v Speaker 8>about her hand in marriage. But coincidentally, she ended up

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<v Speaker 8>getting like super drunk that day. She literally couldn't remember anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we finally got.

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<v Speaker 8>Got home, she couldn't even she couldn't even understand where

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<v Speaker 8>she actually was. She actually thought that she was at

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<v Speaker 8>the store and she was sitting on my mom's couch

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<v Speaker 8>and the whole time she kept saying, Yeah, Jamal's going

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<v Speaker 8>to take me home. We're going to be home soon.

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<v Speaker 8>And then probably like a couple of minutes later, she

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<v Speaker 8>started throwing up.

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<v Speaker 2>Real bad, and that moment.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I had to put a bucket next to the bed.

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<v Speaker 8>And I actually told her the next day like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>I actually your your dad and your brother for your

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<v Speaker 8>hand in marriage. And I really knew that I wanted

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<v Speaker 8>to marry her when she uh, you know, when I

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<v Speaker 8>had her at her drunkest moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, at least at least it wasn't that she said, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she sobered up the next day and you told her that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But I think I think what he's getting around

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<v Speaker 1>to is that she got sick and he realized exactly

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't trying to do a bill cosby there. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like what's going on, John, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, guys, that's the what are you doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>We're so happy you heard the news? Zach cleaned up,

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<v Speaker 1>throw up? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 4>That's hey, I've been there, done that. But with uh,

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<v Speaker 4>when I realized that I was gonna stay with my

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<v Speaker 4>wife forever? Was she met me when I was at

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<v Speaker 4>my lowest, and I mean absolutely, I had no license.

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<v Speaker 4>I was on the brink of losing my apartment. I

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<v Speaker 4>mean I was losing everything. She stayed with me even

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<v Speaker 4>though her family told her not to stay with me

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<v Speaker 4>because I was not worth it. She's the one that

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<v Speaker 4>got me to build myself back up, to get a job,

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<v Speaker 4>to push me to do these things. She helped me

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<v Speaker 4>pay my insurance thing off because I got into an accident,

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<v Speaker 4>and she helped me with that. She helped me through everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Now we have a kid, a house, I worked, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a mailman, and I have everything to Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. And her parents and family love you now.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh Oh, they absolutely love me. I got out with

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<v Speaker 4>her dad all the time, and it's it's great. Like

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of her immediate family, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>like her outside family just did not believe in me.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, that's great. And see that. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody can love you through the lowest of lows,

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<v Speaker 1>they can really be there. Yeah, to be there for

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<v Speaker 1>the highest eighes. What's up, Kelly.

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<v Speaker 10>I was dating this guy for a while. I didn't

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<v Speaker 10>even really know.

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<v Speaker 4>We were dating.

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<v Speaker 10>We were just kind of talking. I had two kids,

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<v Speaker 10>from a previous marriage, and I didn't really know how

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<v Speaker 10>he was going to freak out about it. He knew

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<v Speaker 10>I had him, but he never met him or anything

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<v Speaker 10>like that. While I was talking in conversation, I was like,

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<v Speaker 10>I have to find a place because my types fro

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<v Speaker 10>was over at my apartment and it was like, well,

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<v Speaker 10>just come stay with me and you could just bring

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<v Speaker 10>your kids. And I was shocked and per Since then,

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<v Speaker 10>I've never left and he has been there for me

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<v Speaker 10>through everything. He's raised two kids that aren't even his

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<v Speaker 10>too sleepy.

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<v Speaker 4>So oh yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 10>That she seems like a keeper. If you can pick

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<v Speaker 10>up her, grow.

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<v Speaker 1>Up, appreciate that's incredible. All these stories now are incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes me happy. This is good, good stuff. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on, Jenny there?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>So I knew that my man was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>my man.

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<v Speaker 8>When we were in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a big pony till and it was gettn tight.

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<v Speaker 7>It was early morning and I was trying to take

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<v Speaker 7>it out while he was driving and it was getting stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>So he reached over and helped.

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<v Speaker 3>Me take my rubber band and weave out, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>He started massaging my scalp.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, oh yeah, you mine, because what man is

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<v Speaker 6>gonna help me take some weave out?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing ain't the last. Jenniko is out of a sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>nice story and you got that God even grabbing hair

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<v Speaker 1>ever since wow I ever did