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Speaker 1: this is the Joe Show's left on Red where we'll

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Speaker 1: Why were you not going to make it?

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Speaker 2: I was on the way to the hospital. Look, I

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Speaker 1: Or to begin with, Leah, what's going on? Why why

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Speaker 3: Because Okay, obviously I'm excited for the date, right I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wouldn't it be weird though, if you've never met

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Speaker 3: If I cared about him and I was trying to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, No, that was crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's such a wild text message to sit there and

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Speaker 2: They have to prove that I'm going to the hospital.

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Speaker 5: Why would you send them your location?

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Speaker 3: I take two hours to get ready, so I completely

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Speaker 1: But maybe like a picture, you know of just like.

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Speaker 1: Tammy, good morning, morning love. What do you think.

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Speaker 2: She's crazy?

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Speaker 3: They haven't even went out on the first date yet

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Speaker 3: he owes her nothing. Even if he was lying, he

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Speaker 1: Go Steve, do you promise you were being honest?

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Speaker 2: I was being one hundred percent honest, one hundred percent honest.

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Speaker 2: I had a thing that happened. It required me to

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Speaker 1: Do you ever think about maybe taking how about on

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they give you.

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Speaker 1: Then when you were growing up, you'd keep those on

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Speaker 2: Hey, uh, Leah, you're in the wrong. There's no reason

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Speaker 2: you'll have even met. That's just crazy.

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Speaker 6: You're asking a lot.

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Speaker 1: But if he lied, what if he liked I'm just

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Speaker 5: I mean, if he did, that's him. But you'll have

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Speaker 5: You'll haven't even met yet, so you're already asking for

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Speaker 2: That kind of sounds kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: Jed, you're single now. He is super attractive, great person,

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to pick up for her, maybe get

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Speaker 4: Defend Leah, and not because I want to go out

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Speaker 4: if Joe on the date Matthew, hold on one second,

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Speaker 4: I'll be done like about that. I would say, what,

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Speaker 4: how weird would it be if he was like, hey,

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Speaker 4: It would be one of those things where you already

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Speaker 1: I don't even.

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Speaker 2: That happens New Year.

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Speaker 1: Can't find the button.

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Speaker 4: Button? No, you should not.

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Speaker 1: I'm done with that now, redesigning everything you can get.

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Speaker 4: My point is you could have just shared your location

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Speaker 4: have just said, get whatever, okay.

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Speaker 1: All right, carry in. You're on with Stephen Leah, Hey,

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Speaker 6: So I do kind of agree with Steve that it's

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Speaker 6: Why do you need someone to prove that they're where

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I appreciate you, you know, carry in. I'm

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Speaker 1: Mental fart, No, not a mental fart. You just can't

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Speaker 6: And I'm a girl's girl one hundred percent. I support

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Speaker 5: A Oh my man, Andy, Yo, my man just gonna

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Speaker 5: Actually do no, I know I do. Okay, listen, I'm

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Speaker 5: You could have gave a little bit of reinsurrements that yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I have to go to the hospital instead

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Speaker 4: Hm, right.

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Speaker 1: There at that, Jules love you man, get some sleep, Steven, Leah,

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming no, uh no other date, Steve yeaut.

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Speaker 2: But like, you don't start off with the location.

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Speaker 1: Thing, Leah, did we learn anything or do you not care?

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Speaker 3: I just feel like everybody was bullying me. Everybody was

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Speaker 3: being so mean, calling me crazy. Obviously they've never been

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Speaker 3: ditched on a date before, but I have, and soil

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Speaker 3: that really triggers me. And so I'm just like, obviously

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Speaker 3: they don't have any compassion or empathy from where I'm

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Speaker 3: coming from.

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Speaker 1: Well, Leah, they're they're big, big dummies. How dare they?

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Speaker 1: Leah will talk to you later, Steve will talk to

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Speaker 1: you later, and listen. I tried to get someone on

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Speaker 1: her side