Speaker 1: Thought was weird, and I actually called it out and
Speaker 1: I asked them about it because I wanted to know
Speaker 1: if I saw what I saw. We were out to dinner.
Speaker 1: We weren't eating with these people, but I saw them
Speaker 1: there and we went and said hi to them, and
Speaker 1: they were sitting there talking to each other. And it's
Speaker 1: a couple, and I won't shout out who they are
Speaker 1: because this is to me something I think people would
Speaker 1: find to be weird. And the woman who is the
Speaker 1: wife in the relationship wanted to show Chelsea something, so
Speaker 1: she grabbed her man's phone. So she grabbed it right
Speaker 1: in front of him, took the phone right in front
Speaker 1: of him, and then did you know you have your
Speaker 1: phone and you can do this and then you swipe
Speaker 1: up and you got the she got the face ID.
Speaker 1: She she had his face ID or his phone with
Speaker 1: her face ID in it, so she could open up.
Speaker 2: The You can have multiple face IDs. Yeah, really, I'm
Speaker 2: pretty sure. Well, yeah, she was able to have her
Speaker 2: face open. The thing I said is, did I just
Speaker 2: see what I thought? It was at your phone or
Speaker 2: his phone? No, that's his phone. She has his phone.
Speaker 2: Just like you have a password. You can actually face ID.
Speaker 1: Or she had the face ID said yeah, part of
Speaker 1: Google is you gonna have a maximum of two face
Speaker 1: ID profiles on iPhone. All right, So here's the reason
Speaker 1: why I bring this up. I bring it up because
Speaker 1: I think that's weird. Like I actually do think that
Speaker 1: that's kind of wild. I think it's kind of wild
Speaker 1: when couples share their passwords. It's going to say it's
Speaker 1: just like that, but I think when you have your
Speaker 1: face it's even weirder. And I want it. I have.
Speaker 1: I wrote questions now because I was I was told
Speaker 1: in Chelsea. I'm like, I'm going to do this as
Speaker 1: a topic tomorrow and Chelsea and Chelsea goes, well, just
Speaker 1: don't say their name, and I said, okay, I want
Speaker 1: to know do or does your partner have access to
Speaker 1: your phone? That's the biggest question. Do they have your
Speaker 1: password or know your password? Do they have your face
Speaker 1: ID or their face ID in your phone? And what
Speaker 1: was the reason why you did this? Because I guarant
Speaker 1: to you that there is maybe a reason that this
Speaker 1: came into play, and some of them could be possibly
Speaker 1: like they didn't trust them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think in previous relationships, I was totally against it,
Speaker 3: and I think I was against it because it felt
Speaker 3: like an invasion of privacy, and then I think I
Speaker 3: had a little something to hide, and then after some
Speaker 3: stuff transpired transpired, I wanted to be fully transparent and
Speaker 3: fully upfront and wanted them to feel comfortable like that
Speaker 3: was my concern. That was my priority more than anything else,
Speaker 3: was their comfortability. So I just made my password like
Speaker 3: her birthday and told her, like, you can do whatever
Speaker 3: you want.
Speaker 1: I think you can set multiple passwords too. What yeah,
Speaker 1: most going on iPhone? I think you can. I double
Speaker 1: check that, but I think you can set numbers, multiple
Speaker 1: numbers if you wanted to. Really, I think I'm almost positively.
Speaker 4: The only reason I'm like, oh wait, yay because there
Speaker 4: is stuff like in the hidden hidden folder, like in photos,
Speaker 4: and it's not necessarily like sexual stuff.
Speaker 1: It's like.
Speaker 4: Photos of like insurance cards and social Security cards like
Speaker 4: stuff like that, but also like Christmas gifts and birthday
Speaker 4: gifts and stuff that I always will keep it in
Speaker 4: there because my kids do go through my phone a
Speaker 4: lot and they do know my passcode. So I'm always like,
Speaker 4: I wish that that hidden had it where you could
Speaker 4: have a different passcode. It's funny do you know what
Speaker 4: I mean. I mean there are also there's also my
Speaker 4: photos from there, but I don't want them to see.
Speaker 1: But I don't use a hidden at all, but but
Speaker 1: I would do it for certain things because I screenshot
Speaker 1: stuff that like people posted that. I'm like, this is
Speaker 1: weird that they posted it, and I've had it before
Speaker 1: where people are looking at my phone and they're like
Speaker 1: why do you have that? And I'm like, that would
Speaker 1: be something I would probably put in there hiding.
Speaker 3: You cannot set up multiple pass cost on locked iPhone,
Speaker 3: but you can have different passcosts to lock individual apps.
Speaker 1: Okay, so say you.
Speaker 3: Did have a side piece on tender, some your tender
Speaker 3: could have pass word that could be locked.
Speaker 5: It's not either of you have the urge to have
Speaker 5: your partners stuff like do you have Chelsea's no but as.
Speaker 1: Code or less. There were times where we were struggling
Speaker 1: where I wish that I but it's all it's only
Speaker 1: because I was the one that was not in a
Speaker 1: good spot or or we were not in a good
Speaker 1: spot and I was like, I wondered who she was
Speaker 1: talking to.
Speaker 4: West and I have each other's like I know his
Speaker 4: past code to his phone.
Speaker 1: But just because you have it doesn't mean you need
Speaker 1: to look. No.
Speaker 4: I mean I I've looked once or twice for sure,
Speaker 4: probably more than that, and he has my past code.
Speaker 1: You thought Chelsea was talking to other people. I didn't.
Speaker 1: We were such a bad place that I didn't know
Speaker 1: what was going on. Were talking spit about him to
Speaker 1: like her girlfriend's Well, can I be honest with you?
Speaker 1: That was probably a bigger part of it was I
Speaker 1: wanted to know what her feelings were towards me, because
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like it was. It was good, Nick,
Speaker 1: what's up? Nick?
Speaker 6: Hey?
Speaker 7: How you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm okay? Nick? Your your girl has your wife has
Speaker 1: your password?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: And my wife sure each other? Ass words everything, do everything.
Speaker 1: What's the reasoning.
Speaker 7: We share locations?
Speaker 3: No reason?
Speaker 6: Just you know, if she's getting to my phone to
Speaker 6: answer my mom or I need to get into her
Speaker 6: phone to answer her father.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: Was there a conversation that happened? Did you propose this? So?
Speaker 1: How did that even start?
Speaker 8: Well, she had a previous relationship that was.
Speaker 1: A little rough. I think that she wanted to share
Speaker 1: locations and that was fine. I didn't care.
Speaker 7: I got nowhere to hide, and eventually just came down to,
Speaker 7: what's your path going? Need to get your phone?
Speaker 1: Are okay here? This is interesting. That's where I wonder it.
Speaker 1: Does it always start because somebody had a bad experience?
Speaker 1: You know, probably would you be offended if your spouse
Speaker 1: was just going in your phone not to answer mom
Speaker 1: or not to answer dad, but was going in because
Speaker 1: she was trying to look over what you were doing.
Speaker 8: There's nothing in there, if anything, you can phone.
Speaker 1: Playing a game.
Speaker 4: I like that you use the word offended though, because
Speaker 4: that has happened in Wes and I's relationship, where I,
Speaker 4: you know, knew that he had gone through my phone,
Speaker 4: and I'm like, there is nothing to hide, you can
Speaker 4: go through my phone. That's why I give you my
Speaker 4: pass code. But it was more like what sparked your
Speaker 4: need to feel like? You went through my phone and
Speaker 4: I was offended by that? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Because he made a comment about something I think. So
Speaker 4: that's that to me is where it gets a little dicey.
Speaker 4: Is like, Wes can go through my phone as much
Speaker 4: as he wants to, and not that this is like
Speaker 4: a regular occurrence for us by any means. But obviously
Speaker 4: it's a topic of conversation right now. But there are
Speaker 4: definitely instances where Wes and I are going through something
Speaker 4: and I'll talk to my like I'll text my friends
Speaker 4: or my sister, and I wouldn't I wouldn't want him
Speaker 4: to see that, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: And so that's where it was, like, you know, so,
Speaker 2: so what do you want him to do?
Speaker 1: Then you want him to say, hey, I'm going through
Speaker 1: your phone and say.
Speaker 4: No, no, I'm just saying it like that has happened
Speaker 4: where he has been in my phone and vice versa
Speaker 4: to be fair, And I'm like, well why, but why
Speaker 4: did you feel the need to do that? Like what
Speaker 4: did I do that made you feel unsafe? That you
Speaker 4: felt like, ooh, I'm curious about this.
Speaker 1: Hi, Lee, what's up? It's Mojoe in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hello, how are you?
Speaker 1: I'm okay?
Speaker 8: Lee?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Do you guys have each other's past codes?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 8: So I had.
Speaker 5: An ex boyfriend who was a cop and he had
Speaker 5: put his faith ID in my phone so that without
Speaker 5: me knowing, so that he could go in there anytime
Speaker 5: he wanted to. He was the one that was cheating
Speaker 5: and he didn't trust because of that.
Speaker 4: Wow, oh, how did you get there was the one
Speaker 4: that was being unfaithful?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: How did you find out?
Speaker 5: He would he would say things that he would ask
Speaker 5: me about things that were in my phone, or about
Speaker 5: conversations I had had, and and I and I and
Speaker 5: I confronted him, I said, how did you get in there?
Speaker 5: And he's like, I put my you know, face idea
Speaker 5: in there and I should be able to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild, man. I thank you for recall Hannah.
Speaker 1: What's up, Hannah?
Speaker 7: So I a.
Speaker 10: Month into dating my boyfriend he asked for my phone password.
Speaker 10: Only a month in and he became obsessed with going.
Speaker 4: Through my phone I'd wake up in the.
Speaker 10: Middle of the night everything. He just was like looking
Speaker 10: through every little thing.
Speaker 4: Did he have a pass relationship where somebody cheated?
Speaker 5: Yes.
Speaker 10: I'd wake up in the middle of the night and
Speaker 10: he would be on my phone like I would just
Speaker 10: turn over and he'd be scrolling through.
Speaker 1: I wonder still eggs boyfriend? Yes, I wonder how many
Speaker 1: people will wake up in the middle of the night
Speaker 1: to look at their partner's phone and put the phone.
Speaker 1: Do you have to have the eyes open? I think
Speaker 1: you do have the eyes open. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: can you put it over your sleeping spouse back when
Speaker 1: he's had a touch print, they grab your finger. That
Speaker 1: was how many we talked about that before you had
Speaker 1: your password and would look through it through the password.
Speaker 10: Huh yeah, I mean I knew I had nothing to hide,
Speaker 10: So I gave him the password and a month we
Speaker 10: got a big He was very insecure.
Speaker 1: Wow, hold on saying hold on, Anna, what's up? Anna? Listener? Anna?
Speaker 7: Hi?
Speaker 1: Hi, what's going on?
Speaker 9: So?
Speaker 10: I was calling about the passcode thing with the phone
Speaker 10: because my first relationship tip.
Speaker 9: When I was in my early twenties, we had shared
Speaker 9: each other's passwords, phone, uh, phone pass codes, all of that,
Speaker 9: and my ex was actually since he had access to
Speaker 9: my accounts, he was actually hiding all of the messages
Speaker 9: from the women that were trying to contact me to
Speaker 9: tell me that he was cheating on me with them.
Speaker 1: Oh whoa.
Speaker 3: Work that is? So how did you finally get through
Speaker 3: and you've seen what was going on? He missed one.
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's basically what happened. Some one of the messages
Speaker 9: came through that he wasn't able to block, basically, and
Speaker 9: that's how I found out that he was cheating on
Speaker 9: me with like multiple women and was actually like in
Speaker 9: a relationship for like three or more months while we
Speaker 9: were together. So yeah, that's how I found out.
Speaker 1: That's wild. It's it's so wild to hear these reasons
Speaker 1: because there's so many people that are calling us up
Speaker 1: and telling us, yeah, my wife's got my access, my
Speaker 1: spouse has my access, you know all the rest of
Speaker 1: this stuff, and it's just for playing games and doing
Speaker 1: all the rest of it. And then you got the
Speaker 1: ones that are like, yeah, right, Courtney or Carter wants
Speaker 1: to say something to you, Shannon, what's up Carter?
Speaker 7: So first of first time, So Shannon, you're a mention
Speaker 7: about like how you you you know, how your things like.
Speaker 8: Your photos album, Yes, in the in the photos settings
Speaker 8: or if you go like settings, you can actually choose
Speaker 8: to show that hidden album or not to where like
Speaker 8: if you go to your your show up at all, Yeah,
Speaker 8: like like if you go to photo settings.
Speaker 7: And then like halfway down the screen, it's an option
Speaker 7: to show hidden album and you could turn that off
Speaker 7: and it won't show that the album on your that's.
Speaker 1: Actually really great, were doing your life.
Speaker 7: Educated? No comment?
Speaker 1: So how do you get into your hidden doesn't show?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 7: So you you would have to there. You would have
Speaker 7: to say you got to go back in the studies
Speaker 7: and turn it back over.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting, Yeah, boy, that's great. You hear that West,
Speaker 1: The more.
Speaker 4: You trust me, you would want nobody to see that
Speaker 4: hidden album?
Speaker 1: Oh really yeahs in there comment. Thanks Carter.
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