1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: All right, for the first time ever, we're recording the 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye here in the new studio. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 2: Way, check and make sure it's recording. 4 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm looking right now at the waveform and I 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: do see a wave from there. Got it. It's kind 6 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: of funny because you know, I know it doesn't make 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: any difference to you as you listen, and I totally 8 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: try to keep that in mind instead of making it 9 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: all about our perspective. But it is. It's just like 10 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: everything is new. It's kind of moving into a new house. Yeah, 11 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: and you got to get used to it, like, you know, oh, 12 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: we got an upgraded microwave, or we have an upgraded stove, 13 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: or we've got a furnace system that works, you know, 14 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: like what. So it's all new and it's cool, but 15 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: we're still kind of feeling our way around it. 16 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: My biggest hitch this morning was the fact that the 17 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: mouse that they got me for my system is when 18 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: you hit the little scrolly thing, it was the opposite 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: of what I'm used to. So when I was scrolling down, 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: it was scrolling up, and when I was scrolling up, 21 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: it was scrolling down. So luckily, we've got a bunch 22 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: of really smart engineers that have helped us throughout all 23 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: of this, and the guy fixer right away. 24 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: From yeah, because I go you can go into your 25 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: settings and change that. Yeah, it's like, oh, I don't 26 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: like this. Let's get into the emails. We're going to 27 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: start off with the fact that Juanita, I am so sorry. 28 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: I don't know how to play your rant through our 29 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: system right now, so we'll figure it out. Of Yeah, 30 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: give me a couple of days and I will figure 31 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: that out. But I do not know how to feed 32 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: your rant from this computer to the recording computers, so 33 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: that's going to have to wait for a little while. 34 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Love you, Juanita, and we will get back to you. Assume. 35 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: Next one says please don't say my name. Thanks for 36 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: putting that up front because I usually do. 37 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 2: Uh. 38 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: Am I justified? Or am I being unreasonable? My fiance 39 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: and I are engaged to be married in the fall. 40 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: Our best friends just got engaged this past weekend and 41 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: want to have their wedding this fall too, the weekend 42 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: before hours. They asked our honest thoughts, and we told 43 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: them it would bother us, especially because the guest lists 44 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: of family and friends are going to be so similar. 45 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: They're not pregnant, they're not old. No reason to squeeze 46 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: it in this fall other than that they want to 47 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts. I think they were great to ask, 48 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: and I think you were great to say. Yes, it 49 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: bothers us because nobody wants to go to a wedding 50 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: two weekends in a row. 51 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: No, not if you're like crossing a bunch of friend 52 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 2: groups into one to the next. No way, because then 53 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: it's like, especially because I don't know, if I was 54 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: having a big wedding and I would think the whole 55 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: time about wanting everyone to have the best time ever, 56 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: and it'd be the best wedding they ever attended, And 57 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: then I would just be comparing it because I went 58 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: to your wedding the weekend before, and then I'd wash 59 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: everyone's reactions And what if all of sudden, people are 60 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: leaving your wedding early and everyone stayed till midnight at 61 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 2: the other wedding. 62 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good question, because I mean people will 63 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: compare yes, like oh this one had a way better 64 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: dj Oh this one had you know, like way better food, 65 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: or this one they just did it was more fun, 66 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: had a better vibe. Yeah, I think there's something there. Yeah, 67 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: but I would not Weddings are really that takes your 68 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: day because most weddings they probably start in the afternoon 69 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: and they go into the evening, wouldn't you agree, like 70 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: five ish, four ish, and they go till well past 71 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: you know the possibility of going out and doing anything else. 72 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: So do your friends will show up, Your best friends 73 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: will be there, but you'll have a lot more probably absenteeism. Yeah, 74 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: because people need their weekends. I mean you need them 75 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: for getting things done. But you're also your kid's got 76 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: a soccer tournament. Yeah, and your aunt Gladys has a 77 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: birthday party. Yeah. All right, so thank you, good luck 78 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: with that one. Charace writes in she writes occasionally here 79 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: and there, Dave Jenny bay levant is. Charace wanted to 80 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: come in on something I heard on today's Minnesota Goodbye 81 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: Meaning yesterday, the writer wrote in about losing her sex drive. 82 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: I just wanted to add I'm the same age as her, 83 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: forty seven, and my sex drive is still pretty high. 84 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: Me and my boyfriend are very active, and he turns 85 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: me on just by looking at me. I have been 86 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: showing some signs of paramenopause, but my sex drive has 87 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: not been affected, thanks for reading right. A friend of 88 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: mine is about fifty four, and she said that her 89 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: sex drive went from like a hundred to negative one hundred, 90 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: no drive at all. 91 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I can't speak on it because I 92 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 2: am not of that age quite yet. But everyone's built different. 93 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 2: I feel like all men are horny, but women. 94 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: No, no, no, one is true. I know another woman who 95 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: is probably close to my age, and she says she 96 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: hasn't had sex in ten years. And again, I don't 97 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: know why women tell me these things. I think because 98 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 1: they know that they hear me on the radio like 99 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: being very I don't know, respectful and candid or whatever. 100 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 1: But women will tell me these things. And she's like, 101 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: I have no desire. I don't care if I ever 102 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: have sex ever again. And she's like, I used to 103 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: want it all all the time. Yeah, And I think 104 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: sometimes menopause does that. 105 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 106 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: And you kind of feel numb from the waist down, 107 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: like all the hot little buttons and hot little spots, 108 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: they don't feel like anything there is like sexually sensitive 109 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: as your back of your band, yeah, or as your elbow. 110 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: There's just nothing there. Yeah. But at forty seven, yeah, 111 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: you're still I mean, I think you still got it 112 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: at forty seven. 113 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, rats Cheres. She's got a young boyfriend, so I 114 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: know that they so does she. Yeah, younger than her, 115 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: at least, not like super young, but he's younger than her. 116 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: We were talking about Flintstone vitamins on the show yesterday. 117 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: I opened the show by talking about how I was, like, 118 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 1: you know, walking through Target and I saw Flintstone vitamins 119 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: for sale and I'm like, Okay, that's cool. Then I thought, 120 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: do kids even know who the Flintstones are anymore? And 121 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: I asked vont who is twenty four, and he said, yeah, 122 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: I do, but I don't really watch him, don't really 123 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 1: know any thing about him. Is that what you said? 124 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean pretty much. 125 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: So I thought, well, how can they still sell Flintstone 126 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: vitamins for kids when kids don't know who Fred and 127 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: Barney and Wilma and Dino are. So this person, Hannah 128 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: from New Olm Regatar writer writes in and says, speaking 129 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: of Flintstones on the show, we do buy those for 130 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: my kids, but my husband swears that if he drinks 131 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: too much, she'll take a couple to help with the hangover. 132 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: The next morning, so if anybody's looking for a hack, 133 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: there you go. Also, my kids are seven, five, five 134 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: and one. They have watched The Flintstones, not their favorite, 135 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: but they like it. My husband actually has Flintstones's decals 136 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: all over his work truck because Fred and Barney work 137 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: in a quarry. Who do they work for? Miss no, 138 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: mister slate? 139 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 2: Oh okay, good good things. You know I don't remember. 140 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: I didn't expect you to and you guessed it. My 141 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: man works in a quarry. Also, he's got Dino, Fred 142 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: Barney and the Flintstones car. It's a little odd on 143 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 1: a big black work truck, but my kids love it. 144 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: Happy hump Day from Hannah in New Olm. Hi, Bailey, 145 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: everything going, Okay, you just walked in. I know, I'm not. 146 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: I've been scolding you. 147 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: So I'm I. She's yeah. So basically, Dave you are gone. 148 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: Vaunt is gone. Also, our boss Rich is gone. Our 149 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: other backup Zach is also gone, all in the same week, 150 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 2: so it's really yeah. So it's basically Bailey and I 151 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: running everything, like every single iHeartRadio station in this building. 152 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: We're doing all of it for like three days straight. 153 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 2: So Bailey is having to learn some stuff that Vaant 154 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: normally does that Zach would help with that, Rich maybe 155 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: would help with but nobody can help with Yes. 156 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: Well thanks for doing that. Yeah, okay, well we're just 157 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: about I don't know. We got a few more emails 158 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: here on the Minnesota Goodbye. You didn't miss anything incredibly impactful. Yeah, well, 159 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: it was about Flintstone vitamins. And then we talked about paramenopause, 160 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: where Charis is still horny but she's worried about not 161 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: getting as horny. And then we talked about having the wedding. 162 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: The couple's getting married in the fall and their friends 163 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: just got engaged. They want to have their marriage their 164 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: wedding the weekend before, and we said that's a bad idea. 165 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And they said that to the friends, and the 166 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: friends asked like, would you mind, and they were like, eh, 167 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 2: we kind of do mind. 168 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: Right. Next one, Hey, Dave, Jenny Bailey, I'm writing because 169 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: the email from Rachel you read on Monday's Minnesota Goodbye 170 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: really touched my heart. We have a beautiful seven year 171 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: old and I mean so truly when I say his 172 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: birthday was the best day of my life. It was 173 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: always so hard when people would remind me to enjoy 174 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: every moment, as if I wasn't already putting so much 175 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: anxious pressure on myself to do so. I struggled with 176 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: some pretty severe postpartum anxiety and that took years to 177 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: work through. I totally understand the sentiment and that people 178 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: say to enjoy every moment because it comes from a 179 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: place of love. In nostalgia, it's tough to do without balance. Though, 180 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: all these years later, I feel so much healthier and happier, 181 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: and I'm more present moment to moment to actually enjoy 182 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: the little things with my kiddo and husband. It's a 183 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: weird journey, and I just wanted to say to Rachel, 184 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 1: I see you. We are all, or at least most 185 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: of us, doing our best. Thanks for being there for me. 186 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: Love you guys. Mid level staff writer Jessica love that 187 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: she gives herself mid level to staff writer. I think 188 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: that no matter what, when your kids are grown, you'll 189 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: go God. I wish I would have soaked into a 190 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: little bit more. I wish I would have taken a 191 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: little bit more time so knowing that because that's how 192 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: I am. I'm like, look at like Alison, one of 193 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: my big regrets with Alison was when she was about 194 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: twelve or so, she she wanted a guitar, so we 195 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: bought her a guitar for her birthday or whatever, and 196 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: she would try to play, and I'd try to show 197 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: her a little bit. And then she bought me a 198 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: guitar for my birthday so we could learn together. And 199 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: I kind of knew how to play a little bit, 200 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: but her dream, her idea, was for me and her 201 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: to sit together and play guitar. We both had nice 202 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: acoustic guitars, and we never really did. And one of 203 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: the reasons was Number one, I was just lazy or 204 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: preoccupied or a bad father or whatever. But she wouldn't 205 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: clip her fingernails. She wanted long fingernails, and you can't 206 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: really play guitar and finger the fretboard with long fingernails. 207 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: And so one of my regrets is that she bought 208 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: that guitar for us to learn together, and we never 209 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: learned together. So I look back sometimes and I'm like, 210 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: but we did do some fun stuff. I mean, we 211 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: went on trips, and we went camping, and we went 212 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: to Chicago to see Oklahoma together one time, and to 213 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: fancy dinner at McCormick and Schmick, and we went to 214 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: Dallas to see the Beatles' musical Rain, and we went 215 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: on lots of trips and things like that. So do 216 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 1: I wish I'd done more? Yeah, because once you get 217 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: to the other side of being a parent, you wish 218 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: that you would like held onto something a little bit more. 219 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: I've heard people say that, I feel like this is 220 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 3: a little bit comforting when you could easily complain about 221 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 3: your parents, like not doing everything that you wanted them 222 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 3: to do. But it's also their first time living life too. 223 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: They don't have any experience with it. Yeah, we're all 224 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: new with this too, and it's. 225 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 3: Your first time on earth, and like they're. 226 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: Probably unless they're not all of them. Yeah, And there's some. 227 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 3: Life is helpful for me to be like, Oh. 228 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: It's true. I think so much of it is passed 229 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 1: on from generation to generation. I learned from my mind 230 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: and my dad how to show love and teach and 231 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: lessons and things like that. But I was very fortunate, 232 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: And I talked to Susan, my wife, about that occasionally. 233 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: It's like we're both very lucky. We had good parents. 234 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: Were they perfect? No? Were they good parents? Yes? My 235 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 1: Dad took me camping, boy scouts, gun shooting, whatever I 236 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: wanted to do. Dad would be like, well, yeah, sure, 237 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: do you want to learn how to do this? Yeah? Sure, 238 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: do you want to whatever? And mom was very loving 239 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: and so. But there's a lot of people who never 240 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: learned that from their parents. They never learned how to 241 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: be good parents, so they're not making good parents themselves. 242 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 3: If you take a little class before your. 243 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: Top went out, you should be required to. Yeah. Anyway, 244 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: thank you, Jessica, appreciate that one. Here's a short and 245 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: sweet one from Aaron. He says, Hello, Compensated radio Personalities. 246 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: Aaron is a riot. He's a very dry sense of humor. 247 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: Go you've met him before. He's the one who calls 248 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: and he's like, Hi, this is Aaron from Plymouth, Home 249 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: of the Hood, and he's very funny. The other day, 250 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: Dave wondered if any scientists listened to the podcast. Well, 251 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: I have a PhD in electrical engineering and of authored 252 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: articles published in the Journal of Vacuum Science and Technology. Now, 253 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: if your subscription to Glamour or Cosmo ran out and 254 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: you're looking for something to subscribe to, might I suggest 255 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: the Journal of Vacuum Science and Technology. He's also written 256 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: for the Journal of Crystal Growth That's Crystal Growth, the 257 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 1: Journal of Applied Physics, Applied Physics Letters, and the I E. 258 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: E E. Journal of Quantum Electronics. I'm impressed, Aaron. So yes, 259 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 1: there is at least one science listening. Scientists listening. Good 260 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: luck with the new studio Aaron in Plymouth. Wow. 261 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 2: I wonder if he listens to us and thinks you 262 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 2: guys are stupid. 263 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: Probably I listened to us and I think we're stupid. 264 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 2: Like sometimes when we talk about something we have no 265 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 2: right talking about that involves science, and we're all like, 266 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe it's this, maybe it's that. And 267 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 2: then he's over here, I bet you that joke that 268 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: was on no phone screen or Friday the other day. 269 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 2: He got that right away. It was with salted Nah. 270 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 2: I was going to tell you a joke about salt, 271 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:35,479 Speaker 2: but then I thought. 272 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: Nah nah, because that's the sign nah. And we all 273 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: were like, what a dumb joke. And then we're like, wait, stupid, 274 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: All right, that's gonna do it for the Minnesota Goodbye, Juanita. 275 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: We're going to try to get your rant on, but 276 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: give us a couple of days because that might be 277 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: a little bit of a project. But for you, thank 278 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: you for writing to the minute. Oh there's one more, 279 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: and I don't want to miss this one. Love you 280 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: guys so much. I'm gonna share two TV recommendations. Number 281 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: one Landman with Billy Bob Thornton. He's a landman for 282 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: a Texas oil company. Very funny and very thrilling. I've 283 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: watched Land Man. Susan loves it and I like it. 284 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: It is the most sexist show. Another ass, Another paraittes 285 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: show you've ever seen? What was it about? It's Billy 286 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: Bob Thornton works for an oil company and they're trying 287 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: to buy up land that has oil on it. And 288 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: Billy Bob Thornton is married and remarried to a woman 289 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: who can only think about sex and shopping. It's ridiculous. 290 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: They show her ass every chance they get. There's a 291 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: woman who Billy Bob Thornton's dad is an actor that 292 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: you've seen. He's an old, grizzled yet still handsome, eighty 293 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: year old actor and he's got like a twenty two 294 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: year old girlfriend. They show her ass every chance they get. 295 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: And I told Susan, I said, this. The show is 296 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: really kind of annoying because it's so gratuitous, and it's like, 297 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: I don't need to I mean, it's funny, but also 298 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: an eighty year old guy having a twenty two year 299 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: old girlfriend. It's just Sam Elliott. You know exactly who 300 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, but it is a good show. The 301 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 1: other recommendation that she made was Paradise, which we started 302 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: to watch last night. She calls it the end of 303 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: the World, but with a twist the president and an 304 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: underground New city. And so I watched episode one last 305 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: night and it was like, whoa, this really looks good. 306 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: And Susan was kind of the opposite. She's like, that's okay, 307 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like, are you excited for the next episode 308 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: She's like, ah, yeah. 309 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 2: So. 310 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: But I think sometimes when you're a couple you kind 311 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: of compromise a little bit. But I will say if 312 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: there's a show that I don't like, we won't watch it. 313 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: If there's a show I would never sit there and go, 314 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: you know what, we're gonna watch a World War II documentary. 315 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: I would never do that. But if I said let's 316 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 1: do she would. And if she said to me, well, 317 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: let's watch Keeping up with the Kardashians or the latest 318 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: Real Housewives. I'd be like no, but she's like, oh, 319 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: come on watch it with me. I guess I would, 320 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: but we don't expect you know that you are. 321 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 3: No. 322 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: I think I think you missed my point. I don't 323 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: make I don't make her watch the World War II documentaries. 324 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 1: You would be Oh god, no, I would never make 325 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: her do that. Oh god, no, no, I'm not that. 326 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm a dick, but I'm not that big of a dick. 327 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: This one's on the Battle of the Bulge. All right. 328 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: That is it for now, and thank you for listening 329 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: to the Minnesota Goodbye. Here is my regular plea to 330 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: send in more emails to Ryan's show at kadiwb dot 331 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: com because we rely on her emails to make the 332 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: show happen, So thank you in advance.