WEBVTT - Refused Service 

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<v Speaker 1>Mojoe in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to go grab lunch and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about this the other day and I didn't get

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<v Speaker 2>a chance, but I'm going to bring it up now.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to go grab lunch after the show one

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<v Speaker 2>day this week, and when I was in the restaurant

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<v Speaker 2>that I was eating at, I was and I'd go

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<v Speaker 2>to this place fairly frequently, and I won't say exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what it is because I don't want to give this

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<v Speaker 2>woman's business away. I overheard the very very nice person

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<v Speaker 2>that was serving working on my table. I overheard her say,

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<v Speaker 2>as a guy was about to walk in, I do

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<v Speaker 2>not want him in my section. Do not put him

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<v Speaker 2>in my section. I will not serve him today. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, I got to hear this story.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess this is one of those ones where I

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<v Speaker 2>intended I was actually going to go in there and

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<v Speaker 2>listen to a podcast while I was eating. Ye I

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<v Speaker 2>had to kill like an hour or so before I

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<v Speaker 2>went to a doctor's appointment and I'm like, hey, real quick,

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<v Speaker 2>can I ask you a question? And she goes, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I go, what the guy do that?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want him in your your section?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you know it's interesting when you say that like

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<v Speaker 2>to other people around there. This guy obviously must have

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<v Speaker 2>a reputation. And I guess this guy is a fairly regular.

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<v Speaker 2>And she said to me, she goes, I will not

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<v Speaker 2>serve him anymore. The last time he was here, he

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<v Speaker 2>was verbally abusive to one of the other girls. I

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<v Speaker 2>had to go over there and say something to him,

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<v Speaker 2>and he comes back. I'm thinking to myself, guy's verbally abusive,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's going.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>And also the other thing too, is a verbally abusive man.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not smart. They're spitting there in your food, verbally

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<v Speaker 2>abusive bastard, Like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>And if it's so bad, why are you coming back?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you really not have that good of a meal

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<v Speaker 2>that you decided that you're gonna come back? Or he's

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<v Speaker 2>just a grumpy a hole, you know. So I laughed

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<v Speaker 2>because I thought to myself, I'm like, God, I wonder

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<v Speaker 2>if there's any people at the places I go to

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<v Speaker 2>that are like I don't want them in my section anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I go to restaurants sometimes, and frequently we go to

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<v Speaker 2>similar places. I get so pissed when we end up

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<v Speaker 2>getting a a person that serves our table.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a horrible server.

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<v Speaker 2>And Chelsea laughs at me so much because I am

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<v Speaker 2>not the person that will speak up and say something,

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<v Speaker 2>but I will just become grumpy during the entire meal. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a place that Chelse and I go to on

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<v Speaker 2>a fairly frequent basis, and there's like two or three

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<v Speaker 2>of the people that work there that we are like

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<v Speaker 2>really close friends with, Like we have become good friends

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<v Speaker 2>with them to the point.

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<v Speaker 1>That we text with them out of workplace and can

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<v Speaker 1>get good friends.

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<v Speaker 2>And if we get one of the people, there's two

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<v Speaker 2>specifically that will be working on our table, I know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have the worst meal ever or the worst

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<v Speaker 2>time ever.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, ah, you know what I mean. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you ever do you ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Get put into a drawing for something at work or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever and they're picking names out of the hat and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like somebody wins something nice and then you get

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<v Speaker 2>the crappy prizing.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to trade with other tables. Here's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask anybody that is in the service industry,

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<v Speaker 2>could be anything. I want to know know what did

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<v Speaker 2>you refuse or why did you refuse to serve somebody

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<v Speaker 2>or why would did you refuse to give them service

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<v Speaker 2>or give you know, let them be part of whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you were doing. We've got some people here that call

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<v Speaker 2>up our station, and Lydia has on your call your

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<v Speaker 2>call screen, because.

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<v Speaker 4>You have a profile, even if you've only called one time,

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<v Speaker 4>you have a profile.

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<v Speaker 2>I see names up here all the time. Yes, do

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<v Speaker 2>not pick up ron you know, do not you know,

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<v Speaker 2>do not pick up Dana, Jennifer, not nice Jennifers, and

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<v Speaker 2>like Mojo picked up Robbie the other day, and Robbie's

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<v Speaker 2>a permanent do not pick up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, he's always behind them.

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<v Speaker 4>But sometimes there's nicknames too, of like you know, rude Ryan.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I want to like pick him up just because

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see exactly what Lydia is getting in

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<v Speaker 2>the other room. Like I trust Lydia, Like there's nobody

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<v Speaker 2>else on this world other than my wife Chelsea, that

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<v Speaker 2>I trust more than Liddy in her judgment towards you

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<v Speaker 2>know this show specifically, I want to know exactly why

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<v Speaker 2>you're a do not pick up or you're not you're

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<v Speaker 2>a do not serve.

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<v Speaker 3>We kind of had one of those situations in our

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<v Speaker 3>senior year of high school when you're coming in as

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<v Speaker 3>a senior. That first day was amazing. It's the first

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<v Speaker 3>day of the last it's our last first day. Everybody

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<v Speaker 3>turned up, everybody excited. We got our class schedules and

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<v Speaker 3>we walked into missus People's class and missus People was

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<v Speaker 3>like the I was about to line and say ap English.

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<v Speaker 3>I went inn ap English at all. She was a

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<v Speaker 3>regular English teacher. It was myself, Kyle Lake, Mike read

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<v Speaker 3>like all the funny ass like wild people. Miss People

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<v Speaker 3>saw everybody in the class. She's like, I'm not teaching

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<v Speaker 3>until we get this together. She made she moved like

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<v Speaker 3>our schedules and like two of us had to get

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<v Speaker 3>out of the class.

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<v Speaker 1>She was not teaching.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder how many teachers don't want a kid in

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<v Speaker 2>their class.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually very strategic at the end of the year when

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<v Speaker 4>they're when they're making those class assignments and placing kids

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<v Speaker 4>with different teachers. Oh yes, there are definitely kids that

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<v Speaker 4>I wondered and.

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<v Speaker 1>My friends.

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<v Speaker 2>When they call it tenure. They call it tenure because

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<v Speaker 2>there's ten kids that they do not want in your class.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, get that out of my class. What's up, Shelby, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>good Shelby. It was such a cool experience to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to be in this beautiful restaurant and see this

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<v Speaker 2>guy from a distance that nobody wanted to give service to.

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<v Speaker 1>You've done this, yes, why.

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<v Speaker 4>He walks in and it's kind of suit your own

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, Hi, you can go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>And sit wherever you want, and right away he goes, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you can sit on my face. Oh. I was like

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<v Speaker 1>so absolutely not. Oh my god, one inch men.

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<v Speaker 2>Men don't say men. That's a jazz guess. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Like at that point my land would.

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<v Speaker 4>Have been going to slap them, pull my hands back.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where I actually used to love Misfit Victor. Misfit

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<v Speaker 2>Victor would kick people out of his out of the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 2>out of LULUs. Like if he if there is a

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<v Speaker 2>guy that talked bad to any of his uh staff, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>he would kick him out. And he'd get it yelled

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<v Speaker 2>at by you know, the family and stuff like his

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<v Speaker 2>you know, his sister in laws and brother in law.

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<v Speaker 2>They would yell at him, and Victors like, I ain't

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<v Speaker 2>letting them treat our people like that. It's still good.

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<v Speaker 2>I still I ordered from there. It's not the same though,

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<v Speaker 2>without Victor. I miss I missed my Victor. What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Tresh him? I'm a first time caller, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm not actually in the service industry, but I

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<v Speaker 5>am a registered nurse and we had a patient that

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<v Speaker 5>has happened numerous times, but that none of us wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to take because every time we would go, he would

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<v Speaker 5>be naked and or you knock on the door and

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<v Speaker 5>he'd say come in, and he'd conveniently be coming out

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<v Speaker 5>of a shower and trott in front of you with

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<v Speaker 5>everything hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he not supposed to be naked? Like he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like just getting naked for his own pleasure. Just yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Or he'll be sitting in a chair when you come

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<v Speaker 5>and he's just sitting there, sprawled out naked, and we'd

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<v Speaker 5>throw a sheet on him and tell him to cover up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So the guy would just be naked all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're a nurse working there and that what is

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<v Speaker 2>it a hospital or something?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's home care visits, just but naked.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you look like? You numerous good hanging all?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't look not to remember. They used to have

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<v Speaker 1>that song do your.

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<v Speaker 5>And so.

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<v Speaker 1>This one did, oh trash. Poor lady. God she's doing

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<v Speaker 1>she's doing a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Of inappropriate things, even in healthcare.

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<v Speaker 2>She's doing her best to make this man's end of

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<v Speaker 2>his life be great. And this guy's trying to show

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<v Speaker 2>off his junk to her spongebath.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Amanda? Good morning everybody. How you doing good?

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about refusing service to somebody. What kind of

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<v Speaker 2>work do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm a server.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm literally getting in my car right now.

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<v Speaker 2>To have there open the store up.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 5>So, a couple of years ago, when I first started working.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh sorry, that's loud.

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<v Speaker 1>When I started working at this place, there's a regular

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<v Speaker 1>that comes in with two of his kids. He's an

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<v Speaker 1>elderly guy. Had him for the first time.

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<v Speaker 5>He tells me something along the lines before they go

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<v Speaker 5>to leave, how beautiful I am that I should be

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<v Speaker 5>a so I can show more skinned.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, what do you say? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm not that that nice.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just kind of looked at him and I said,

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<v Speaker 5>I said something along the lines of that's a really

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<v Speaker 5>weird thing to say.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have a good day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, what kind of food do you serve

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<v Speaker 2>at this restaurant of yours.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a steakhouse, Like, it's a nice steakhouse.

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<v Speaker 2>This guy's coming into your nice steakhouse and telling you

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<v Speaker 2>that you should be a stripper.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he comes in once or twice a week.

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<v Speaker 2>Still, I look at them.

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<v Speaker 5>I smile at his kids, and that is it.

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<v Speaker 1>In front of his kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, by the way, right, kids, guys are sick people.

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<v Speaker 2>None of none of these are women going. You're going

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<v Speaker 2>to the table and the women are doing anything crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, y'all have a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>You take care of yourself. That's awful.

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<v Speaker 2>I would not want to be in the service industry

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<v Speaker 2>for that reason, because you got to put a smile

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<v Speaker 2>on your face and you got to like sit there

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<v Speaker 2>and although you know what you need to do, you

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<v Speaker 2>need to turn into one of those restaurants where the

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<v Speaker 2>people are mean to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, ah, it's all around.

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<v Speaker 1>What'senor Circle in Chicago? Does it?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a couple of places where you go in and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, they do not play like.

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<v Speaker 3>You can work in the food industry though, I'll be

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<v Speaker 3>a fire greeter. Yeah, yeah, absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>You'd be okay if some person's like sexually harassing you, though, Yeah,