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Speaker 1: Well variety from the two thousands of the nineties, and

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Speaker 1: today it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus in

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Speaker 1: the morning, and we're back with second date update. Let's

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Speaker 1: get Jason on the phone. We want to talk about

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Speaker 1: his date with Kim. Jason, Good morning morning. You can

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Speaker 1: only term this a try Valley romance. It doesn't happen

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Speaker 1: that often, but it must have been really exciting to

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Speaker 1: figure out you guys live in the same general vicinity.

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Speaker 2: That's nice, it's convenient. I think it's a.

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Speaker 3: Good time for sure. Tell me about the date. What

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Speaker 3: did you guys?

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, she's ghosted, right, yes, okay, tell

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Speaker 1: me about the date. Fill me in.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just kind of confused because the signals are

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Speaker 2: kind of mixed in my mind. I'm confused why she disappeared,

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Speaker 2: because it doesn't make any sense to me. We went

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Speaker 2: to dinner and sant her own and you know, like

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Speaker 2: you said, we both live in the Tri Valley area,

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Speaker 2: which is cool, and I thought she was warm and funny,

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Speaker 2: and you know, she's listened to me when I talked.

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Speaker 2: You know, I didn't talk too much, but I mean

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Speaker 2: like she listened, and I feel that's frair because people

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Speaker 2: sometimes when you talk, they don't pay attention. They they

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Speaker 2: look elsewhere. She was paying attention.

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Speaker 1: Now, were you locked in on her at the same time,

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Speaker 1: because this could be a really showed phone call.

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Speaker 2: Otherwise I believe I was okay, you know that was

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Speaker 2: That's the perception that I had. I yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: was that. I was okay.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna hold you to it. So the date ended, well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 2: I basically I don't try to assume, but I kind

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Speaker 2: of assumed there would be a second date because I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know how much better it could go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. I'm going to call her, so we're

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Speaker 1: gonna have you on mute. I'm gonna ask her how

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Speaker 1: she felt about the date. Hopefully get you some matches. Ultimately,

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Speaker 1: I want to get you a second date. Let's cross

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Speaker 1: our fingers on that. But let's see how this plays out.

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Speaker 1: Can you hang on for a song?

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, it's Marcus.

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Speaker 1: In the morning. We're doing second date update. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: coming along for it. We got to say what's up

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Speaker 1: to Jason? Bring him back on?

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Speaker 3: Jason? Are you still there?

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Speaker 2: I'm here.

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Speaker 1: We got to kind of make this thing with Kim

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Speaker 1: work because you guys both live in the Tri Valley.

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Speaker 1: You're what we call geographically desirable. So I want I

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Speaker 1: want to want to see if it can make some

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Speaker 1: magic happen.

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Speaker 3: Let's see if.

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Speaker 1: We can get her on the phone and figure out

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Speaker 1: how she felt about your date and try to figure

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Speaker 1: out why she ghosted. Okay, go ahead and mute, and

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, good morning, I'm looking for Kim.

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Speaker 4: This is she? Who's this?

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Speaker 3: Hi, Kim? It's Marcus calling from from Star one oh

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Speaker 3: one three.

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Speaker 4: It's a billing agency.

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Speaker 1: No, I do a morning radio show, and I don't

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Speaker 1: suppose you listen, do you?

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Speaker 4: I don't. Is this some kind of scam?

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Speaker 3: Not, not exactly.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you have a second just to talk

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Speaker 1: on the radio with me. It's a thing we do

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Speaker 1: called second Date Update. And there is a gentleman who

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Speaker 1: took you on a first date, who really dug you.

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Speaker 1: He sent me your phone number because he's feeling like

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Speaker 1: maybe you ghosted, and we're just trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: why they Basically, what did he do wrong?

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Speaker 4: Did my friend Madison set you up to the like?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know who that is, but she sounds fun. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is a guy by the name of Jason. Would

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Speaker 1: you mind talking on the air about your date with Jason?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I did you guess if I could get tickets.

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Speaker 3: At the Angles?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm here for it, my kind of lady.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he'd like to take you out again. And he's

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Speaker 3: but he's feeling like you ghosted. Okay, did you go?

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, I'll own it. I did ghost Okay,

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Speaker 4: but I mean, my goodness, he's just so, he just

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Speaker 4: has this really unnerving habit that I couldn't ignore, and

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Speaker 4: it just well, Jason is constantly correcting his own sentences.

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Speaker 4: For instance, he would say something similar to, you know,

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Speaker 4: I grew up in the city. I mean in the sunset,

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Speaker 4: so I mean technically the suburbs, well, you know, depending

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Speaker 4: on how you defined the city. And it was like

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Speaker 4: every thought came with a footnote. Every story, every every

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Speaker 4: line got revised in real time, and by dessert, it

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Speaker 4: felt like nothing he said was just allowed to land

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Speaker 4: and let me process, like.

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Speaker 3: Right, I mean, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know, It's just I don't know. And then Jason

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Speaker 4: added this other layer to it because I thought, okay,

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Speaker 4: well he's got that quirk, but then he casually mentioned

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Speaker 4: that he still runs big decisions by his ex partner,

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Speaker 4: because in his words, it was something like, she knows

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Speaker 4: how my brain works. And then he clarified that they

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Speaker 4: they don't hang out, but they check in and and

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Speaker 4: then you know, and then he did his quirky habit

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Speaker 4: with this huge thing that he owned up to, which

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Speaker 4: is that he you know, runs everything by effects. And

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Speaker 4: it's like and he's like, well, we just keep each

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Speaker 4: other honest, and it's like, I don't want to date

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Speaker 4: someone who's being facts checked, crowdsources and life decisions by

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Speaker 4: an ex sure. Oh god, it was so I just

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Speaker 4: I needed to get out of there. I couldn't wait

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Speaker 4: to get out of there. I thought, how old is

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Speaker 4: this guy? Oh god? And no, so yeah, that's okay,

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Speaker 4: but listen, I'm sure he's a nice person for someone else,

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Speaker 4: just not me, really, and I just want someone who

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Speaker 4: lives more in certainty and like it's more self assured.

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Speaker 3: So okay.

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Speaker 1: My part of this is that Jason is actually on

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Speaker 1: the phone and listening, like we're trying to make my

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Speaker 1: trying to make teachable moments.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to bring him on if that's okay, Jason, Now.

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Speaker 4: I'm really getting to okay.

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Speaker 3: I think you figured this all out. Jason. That's a

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Speaker 3: lot of stuff. Do you literally fact check yourself.

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Speaker 2: This isn't I mean, this isn't the first time I've

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Speaker 2: heard this before.

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Speaker 1: And also the sense that is it is the city

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Speaker 1: like anyway, I'm sorry, go ahead, you go ahead.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I mean I just think that I am

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Speaker 2: that like more how would I say it, I value perspective.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I I just think that, you know, I

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Speaker 2: and I just try to get things correct, I guess,

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Speaker 2: so yeah, you know, and and when I get nervous,

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Speaker 2: it kind of amplifies a little bit. It goes a

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Speaker 2: little overboard. I mean that some people find it endearing.

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Speaker 2: I think could break.

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Speaker 3: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: Well better question, Kim, could we figure out a way

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Speaker 1: to try this again?

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Speaker 4: I believe that would be a fast No. No, friends, Jason,

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Speaker 4: I just think that might be better not for somebody else,

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Speaker 4: And I would not want to get in that way, So.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, hang on. Man Quirky is the word of

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Speaker 3: the week. Second data