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Speaker 1: War of the Rosies on intern John in your morning show.

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Speaker 1: You are in what you think is a healthy, healthy, healthy,

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Speaker 1: happy relationship, but some things pop up they'll make you

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Speaker 1: wonder what else is going on? Is there cheating? We

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Speaker 1: try to get right to the bottom of that for you.

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Speaker 1: Let me go, Vanessa, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: So let's walk through this. You and Davis have been

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Speaker 1: together for how long we've been to get up?

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Speaker 2: Two?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And you guys met through friends?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Was it a case where the the friends set you

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Speaker 1: guys up or you happen to be at a mutual

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Speaker 1: spot with people and you click that way?

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Speaker 2: No, we was at a miss spot that Chili's.

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Speaker 1: Actually hell yeah, that's cheese, Paul.

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Speaker 3: Girl, come on, absolutely, yeah, the cheese will costume.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's how long after meeting at the chili's did

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Speaker 1: you guys start a fishctually dating?

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Speaker 2: And uh like about six months and we stayed at

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Speaker 2: dating officially gotcha?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So known each other for about two and a

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Speaker 1: half years, officially dating for two years?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yes, And in your email you mentioned that you guys

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Speaker 1: had the talk about not what are we but like,

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Speaker 1: And yeah, and since that conversation, things have time gone sideway.

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Speaker 1: Is that fair?

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's fair okay.

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Speaker 1: And so how was his reaction when you first brought.

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Speaker 4: Up He seems like, are you down with it? You know,

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Speaker 4: we've been seeing each other, We've been you know, going

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Speaker 4: out and having fun.

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Speaker 2: He seems like he moved down for when we first

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Speaker 2: started talking about it.

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Speaker 1: But was he down for moving in? Down for engagement?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What what does him being?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What was he down for? Besides? Okay, that's what.

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Speaker 2: He made me believe. They wanted to move in.

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Speaker 1: With me, okay, And so he moved into your place.

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Speaker 1: Are you guys to get a new place? Are you

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Speaker 1: moving in with him?

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Speaker 2: No? No, no, he's gonna move into my place, gotcha?

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Speaker 1: Okay. But since that conversation though, that's when you said,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's a shift where it's hard to get

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Speaker 1: ahold of them, send your emails. Sometimes you have like

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Speaker 1: a couple of days not talking.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and that was strange because we're not usually like that.

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Speaker 2: About a month and a half ago, he said it

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Speaker 2: like he was avoiding me for some reason. And we

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Speaker 2: used to talk every day.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I sound. I thought it was more

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Speaker 2: related because he said he have, you know, work a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you want to talk to you, he would

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Speaker 3: reach out.

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Speaker 1: Has anybody in the friend group said anything, like anybody

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Speaker 2: No, okay, they have a good old time with him.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, and that thinks he's cheating because how

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Speaker 2: you have time for your friend but you don't have

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Speaker 2: time for your good Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. The last question I have is as far

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Speaker 1: logistically does it make sense?

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Speaker 2: Yes? It is? Actually yes, So I thought we rolled down.

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Speaker 1: So let's do this. We sauce call from the flower company,

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Speaker 1: off from the roses. They should go to you girlfriend

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Speaker 1: of two years. If they do, we put them on hold.

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Speaker 1: If they go somewhere else, we'll get some answers for you. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I wore the roses in less than three minutes on

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Speaker 1: Intern John in your morning show. So wore the roses

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Speaker 1: on intern John in your morning show, Vanessa, let me

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Speaker 1: recap this. You and Davis met through friends about two

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Speaker 1: and a half years ago, started dating six months after,

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Speaker 1: So do the math. We've been together about two years.

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Speaker 1: Everything was great, although you mentioned that you guys had

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Speaker 1: say since then he's kind of backed off and that

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Speaker 1: you'll sometimes go days without talking to him. Is that fair?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Now, you mentioned that your friend group hasn't noticed anything different.

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Speaker 1: But when you guys first started dating, did the friend

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: How was their reaction to you guys fall in love?

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Speaker 2: No, they was very supportive. Yeah, we all had a

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Speaker 2: good time. We used to go up regularly, like once

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Speaker 2: a week, we all go out, you know, the same

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Speaker 2: way we met and then the rest of the six days,

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Speaker 2: me and Davis, we do our own thing.

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Speaker 1: Until recently, Wait, so is he hanging out with the

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Speaker 3: That's what sounds like. No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, did I know? Okay, No, we've all get together

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Speaker 2: once a week.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha, Okay, that's okay.

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Speaker 3: I thought they're all having fun without.

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Speaker 1: You'd be a whole different thing. Okay, so let's do this.

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Speaker 1: We'll have sauce called Davis from the flower company. From

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Speaker 1: the roses. They should go to you, a chorus girlfriend

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Speaker 1: of two years. If they do, we put you on hold.

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Speaker 1: If they go somewhere else, we'll get some answers for you. Okay, Yes,

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Speaker 1: one second, Davis, Davis, Yes, day.

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Speaker 3: Well, Hi, I'm calling for Davis. Hi Davis. My name

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Speaker 3: is Willow. I'm calling you from a new local flower shop.

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Speaker 3: We're called Wymss Flowers, trying to get ready for the

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Speaker 3: holidays and everything. So we're offering locals once a week

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Speaker 3: of free bouquet of a dozen red roses, and so

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Speaker 3: you're at the top of my list, totally free. Don't

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Speaker 3: in your credit card, infell. Just it's a way to,

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Speaker 3: you know, make yourself look good for someone and maybe

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Speaker 3: you'll love our flowers and come back and use us.

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Speaker 2: This is a flower shop.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm trying out new marketings. My mom and

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Speaker 3: trying to just make it work. Instead of Instagram ads,

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Speaker 3: we want to show you just how gorgeous these bouquets are.

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Speaker 3: And what better way to like make you look great

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Speaker 3: get those gold stars with whoever's special in your life,

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, we don't.

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Speaker 3: We're not gonna take your credit card info. We just

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Speaker 3: hope that you love the flowers and you come back

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Speaker 3: support your local economy if you will. Okay, yeah, yeah, okay, awesome.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna make you like a little profile just

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Speaker 3: so that Davis, if you do come back, we'll be like, Davis,

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Speaker 3: Oh great to see you again, how so and so

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Speaker 3: even though I don't see you right now, but you

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Speaker 3: get it. Okay, cool. So let's just start with the

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Speaker 3: name and then we'll go from there and I'll just

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Speaker 3: go down like the list and we'll fill out everything

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Speaker 3: and then i'll get the address. Is that cool?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm down. It's a little off that I'm down

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Speaker 5: to support a local business.

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Speaker 1: Let's thank you.

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Speaker 3: So much. Okay, So what is the first name of

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Speaker 3: who you're sending them to?

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Speaker 5: Justine?

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Speaker 3: Love it? And then what is she to you? And

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Speaker 3: like your sister, your brother, mom, dad, cousin.

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Speaker 5: We have a we actually have a day. Oh so

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to send return.

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Speaker 3: Is it a first date?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Potential partner while I was.

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Speaker 5: Right down, Yeah, looking forward to it.

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Speaker 3: What do you want the card to stay? Just your

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Speaker 3: typical flower card?

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Speaker 5: Looking word to tonight. I can't wait to see you.

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Speaker 5: I promise it will be a good time, okay, or

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Davis, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't believe miss Justin.

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Speaker 2: And you're going out with them?

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Speaker 1: Jo We can't say those words. But real quick, Davis,

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Speaker 1: my name is intern John. I got sons and Rose

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Speaker 1: here as well. That is your girlfriend Vanessa. We're doing

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Speaker 1: a War of the Roses in the show. Do you

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Speaker 1: let you know that? Does Justine know that you got

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Speaker 1: the girl? You have a first day? I know you

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Speaker 1: have a girlfriend of two years.

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Speaker 2: Remember me, I don't have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Know Justine. Justine doesn't know about her.

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Speaker 3: But you two were moving in together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what about that? We broke.

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Speaker 5: We said we said that, yeah, but we we've broken

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Speaker 1: You and Vanessa are exes?

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Speaker 3: When did you guys.

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Speaker 5: We broke up two months ago?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Why so why do you think you guys are exes?

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Speaker 1: And why does she think you guys are in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I'm so confused.

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Speaker 5: Wow, I told her because I said it wasn't going

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Speaker 5: to work out anymore, and should you know, move on.

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Speaker 2: What you said? Well, you don't think it's going to

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Speaker 2: work out, that doesn't mean it's not. We was trying.

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Speaker 2: I was looking cares that I was changing, and you

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Speaker 2: were still sleeping with me. So it was working out

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Speaker 2: quite fine in the bedroom.

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Speaker 3: When the last time you guys looked up gosh to lights.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so David, you you broke up, but you're still

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Speaker 3: That can do all the time.

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Speaker 5: I made it Listen, I made it clear. I said,

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Speaker 5: we can still look up if you want to, but

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Speaker 5: it's just going to be that nothing more.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, made it clear.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't clear?

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Speaker 4: And who is Justine?

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Speaker 2: What did she come in the picture?

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Speaker 3: And he was idiot too?

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Speaker 5: Do you know?

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Speaker 3: That's like I understand why I'm confused, but like he

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Speaker 3: did use his words.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, listen.

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Speaker 5: I could definitely just lie about it, but I was.

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Speaker 5: I told you, hey, listen, if you if you're fine

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Speaker 5: with this and fine, and you're like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and what did I say? But I didn't say fine?

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Speaker 3: What'd you say?

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Speaker 5: Listen?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So I made it clear.

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Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so let me ask you this. So, h, Vanessa,

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Speaker 4: Well, technically, no, we do have we do have a relationship. No,

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