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Speaker 1: Second date Update is back from the weekend. We've got

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Speaker 1: our guy David on the phone. David, good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: At this point, everybody kind of knows how second date

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Speaker 1: update works. You went on a date. The lady's name

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Speaker 1: is Claire, and she ghosted, So we like to figure

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Speaker 1: out what happened. Specifically, I want to get you a

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Speaker 1: second date. But let's fort square one, like, how did

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Speaker 1: you guys meet and then and then what did you

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Speaker 1: do for your date?

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Speaker 2: So Claire and I met online and we did ramen

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Speaker 2: and cocktails at a place in San Mateo. And she

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Speaker 2: was amazing, smart, funny, total catch. We talked about everything

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Speaker 2: our dogs or jobs and the best places and travel solo.

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Speaker 2: We had really good energy. Okay, and yeah, unfortunately she ghosted.

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Speaker 1: Okay, as I know you've replayed the date in your

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Speaker 1: head eighty seven times, you can't think of anything that

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Speaker 1: might have gone wrong.

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Speaker 2: No, no, sir, Okay, don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if we can figure it out. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: we'll have you muted so you can listen, but we'll

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Speaker 1: give Claire a call. Okay, Okay, crossing fingers for a

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Speaker 1: second date. Hang on the line. It's Marcus and we're

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Speaker 1: doing Second Date Update. As always. We've got our caller

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Speaker 1: David and he was talking about his date with Claire

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Speaker 1: and I do love Ramen, especially with the weather as

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Speaker 1: it is right now. David, good call plus cocktails. That's

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Speaker 1: a total win. But she's ghosted, that's correct, unfortunately. Okay.

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Speaker 1: What I do like about this is then again, according

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Speaker 1: to you, you guys had real energy. So let's try

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Speaker 1: to figure this out. Go ahead and mut your phone.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna give her a call.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: Hello is this Claire?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: This is she hy Claire. It's Marcus from Star one

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Speaker 1: one three? How are you?

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Speaker 3: Why not?

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Speaker 1: What? There's that? There's always that momentary lull while I

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Speaker 1: try to figure out if you like my shit or not.

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Speaker 3: I love your show.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing. Do you listen to Second You listened to

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Speaker 1: Second Ight Update? By chance?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 1: Okay, have you been dating? Have you ghosted anybody recently?

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Speaker 1: I have so many questions?

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Speaker 3: Well, you're calling me, so you already know the answer

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Speaker 3: to that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So David is on the line, and we would

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Speaker 1: like to know what happened, because David, are you there?

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Speaker 2: I'm here?

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Speaker 1: I mean spoiler alert Claire. He really likes you. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to back my guy up here. He said, I

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Speaker 1: wrote it down. He said you had real energy. So

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Speaker 1: is that is that in his head? Or is that

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Speaker 1: for real?

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Speaker 3: Did he really say real energy? That sounds like something

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Speaker 3: a girl like, that's like Barbie movie lingo. Okay, you

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Speaker 3: know what, I did have real energy.

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Speaker 1: But there were just like.

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Speaker 3: A few things. And David, you're not an idiot, like

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you're You're gonna know what I'm going to say.

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Speaker 3: Maybe not, I don't know, but well you are because

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Speaker 3: I pointed one thing out. First of all, he came

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Speaker 3: in wearing his earbuds, his bluetooth earpiece on the state okay,

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Speaker 3: and it was blinking blue the whole darn time. And

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Speaker 3: I did say something to him about it, and he

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'm sorry, I just need to keep

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Speaker 3: it in in case work calls. They always call me

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Speaker 3: after hours. I just have to be on standby or whatever.

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Speaker 3: But it literally kept blinking.

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Speaker 1: Like you could.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, literally, And then at one point I was like, wait,

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Speaker 3: did I just have a stroke? Like what's happening? Like

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Speaker 3: he started talking about himself in the first person.

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Speaker 1: Give me an example.

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Speaker 3: We went for ramen. So at one point we're eating

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Speaker 3: ramen and he just starts saying, David loves a good

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Speaker 3: bra and I'm like, does he can he take up the.

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Speaker 2: Relation?

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Speaker 3: That is really okay? That was like super weird. Sure,

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Speaker 3: and I just felt like I was maybe hung up

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Speaker 1: Okay, he just.

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Speaker 3: Seemed kind of strange, even though he was kind of strange.

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Speaker 1: Is a good looking guy, though, I'm trying to see

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Speaker 1: if your dashing good looks will help you play through David.

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Speaker 1: But let's let's talk about this my type for sure.

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Speaker 1: Let's unfold this a little bit. David, you do realize

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Speaker 1: you don't want to be you don't want to be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I honestly forgot that it was even on,

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Speaker 2: and I could see how that would be annoying with

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Speaker 2: the flashing.

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Speaker 1: What about literally referring to yourself in the third person

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Speaker 1: in actual conversation. That seems very strange to me.

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Speaker 2: I was being funny. She didn't get my sense of humor.

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Speaker 1: I guess, okay, what what is happening? So okay, let

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Speaker 1: me back it all the way up because I've heard

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Speaker 1: the word energy and chemistry and Claire, what if now

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Speaker 1: that we have some self awareness, we can give my

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Speaker 1: guy a second shot. David, can you be less? I

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Speaker 1: don't even know, Claire, where are you at?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: The chemistry was there, so when these things started happening,

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Speaker 3: it was like, oh man, you're low quirky David, but

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Speaker 3: you're cute to Hell. I mean, well, thank Can you

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Speaker 3: leave the earpiece at home on our next day and

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Speaker 3: not negotiate the bill, just like, maybe, don't even look

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Speaker 3: at it, just put your card down.

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Speaker 2: I will have zero flashing lights on my person. Perfect.

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Speaker 1: That's all anybody wants to hear. So Claire, Yes on

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Speaker 1: the second date.

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Speaker 3: Yes on the second date.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you guys, we haven't rang the cow bell in

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Speaker 1: so long it hurts my heart. The cowbell of destiny

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Speaker 1: has been wrung. We have a second date. Thank you, David,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Claire made my whole week and it hasn't

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Speaker 1: even barely started. You guys are adorable. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: put you on hold. Have you talk amongst yourselves? Okay,

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Speaker 1: David loves it? Stop Hey hey god, hey god adorable?

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Speaker 1: All right. Second date update right after seven o'clock weekdays.

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Speaker 1: We do it again after nine o'clock. It's got a

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Speaker 1: podcast that gets updated daily by noon. You can go

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Speaker 1: look for Marcus in the Morning second date update. It's

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Speaker 1: Marcus in the Morning. It's Tuesday. Joined in the studio

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Speaker 1: by producer Taylor. Good morning, Good morning. I'm on a

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Speaker 1: self help kick this morning. It being after the first

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Speaker 1: of the year and all. I like this a lot

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Speaker 1: lifestyle tweaks to keep your mind sharp as you age.

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Speaker 1: Number one on the list, Learn something new. I just

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Speaker 1: picked up tight chi. Okay, it's fascinating to me and

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Speaker 1: it feels like it works. My buddy was like, it

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Speaker 1: really helped my back, and so I started doing it

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Speaker 1: to get your body going, and my back does feel better. Okay,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's fake, I don't know, but I got my

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Speaker 1: lymphatic system moving. God, this is such old guy talking

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter, So learn something new. This obviously stimulates, gets

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Speaker 1: your cylinders all fire. It's important for brain health. Change

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Speaker 1: your diet to include more color with your veggies and

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Speaker 1: your fruits. Are you fruits and veggies person? I do

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Speaker 1: love my fruits and veggiees. Okay, I'm not so that's

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Speaker 1: why I hide them in soups and sauces and the

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Speaker 1: chili has tomato sauce in it. I'm good. Okay. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Exercise Are you an exerciser? I like to go for walks, okay,

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Speaker 1: like a lot. Did you do it? Did you do

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Speaker 1: one yesterday it was raining? Did you do one the

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Speaker 1: day before rain? So? No? No. And then this is

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Speaker 1: a big one. Prioritize your friends and social connections in

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Speaker 1: a world where we all just stare at screens. And

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Speaker 1: I do a lot of research in what are called

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Speaker 1: the blue zones. Don't know if you know about these,

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Speaker 1: but this it's where the people live the longest. They've

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Speaker 1: they've nailed down like five or six different areas in

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Speaker 1: the world, one of them being Okainawa, Japan. And you

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Speaker 1: would think there's a lady there who is she's like

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Speaker 1: eighty plus. She's very active, and you would think she

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Speaker 1: lives that long because maybe they eat a lot of

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Speaker 1: seafoods good for your ring. No, she eats. She survives

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Speaker 1: on spam, that's what she eats. The secret is she

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Speaker 1: gets a lot of exercise and she DJs a club

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Speaker 1: night once a week and goes to karaoke with the friends.

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Speaker 1: So she's eighty years old. DJ's a club on Tuesdays,

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Speaker 1: goes to karaoke on Fridays. I'm Gonna live to be

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Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty six apparently. Oh yeah, I love

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Speaker 1: that anyway. How to keep your mind sharp as you're

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Speaker 1: aging There you go