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Speaker 1: So apparently this is going to be a very difficult

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Speaker 1: week if you're in a relationship. Oh yeah, you heard

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Speaker 1: Thor already got called out by his wife this morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it could get worse. I hate to break

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Speaker 1: it could get worse for you this week. This week

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Speaker 1: is a very very difficult week for relationships.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yesterday actually holds the title of National Divorce Day.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, because they say it started yesterday and

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Speaker 2: pretty much goes all week long. The first back to

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Speaker 2: work week of January is when divorce lawyers in the

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Speaker 2: US say they get the highest volume of people reaching

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Speaker 2: out to them asking questions about what do I need

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Speaker 2: to do to safely protect myself and divorce my spouse

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Speaker 2: just the beginning of the year, Yes, the beginning.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to do it during the whole days.

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Speaker 3: They want to wait till after maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we got that going on. And then there's

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Speaker 2: also something else that if somebody's not ready to go

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Speaker 2: full on divorce, they say, the adult cheating website elicit encounter. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. If my husband's on listening, you just

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Speaker 2: screamed out my day. I think we all knew what

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Speaker 2: you were alluding to.

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Speaker 1: I am not familiar with this website. No, the big one.

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Speaker 2: Was, yeah, I guess, I guess this is just like

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Speaker 2: Ashley Madison, a cheating site for married people. So you

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Speaker 2: know what you're getting into when you register on that site.

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Speaker 2: Wild Well, they say that Adalystit encounters they know that

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Speaker 2: this is their biggest week of the year, so they

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Speaker 2: actually bring in extra staff this because their memberships jump

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Speaker 2: almost forty percent this week every single year. Because again,

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Speaker 2: people have come to some realizations. According to relationship experts,

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Speaker 2: you guys were like speculating why why this week? Well,

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Speaker 2: this is what relationship experts say. Sixty four percent of

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Speaker 2: people who look into a divorce this week say it

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Speaker 2: was the holiday season that made them realize how unhappy

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Speaker 2: they are in their relationship and how it shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: that way because they see other families not being unhappy.

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Speaker 1: Oh didn't get that good gift? Huh out day.

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Speaker 2: About fifty percent of people in the survey were a

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Speaker 2: bit more blatant and admit that their extra time at

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Speaker 2: home with their partner just made them realize they.

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Speaker 1: Don't like them.

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Speaker 2: Oh might be brutal, I just basically don't like them

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Speaker 2: at all, and.

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Speaker 3: They speaking about you guys during break because like Robert

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Speaker 3: Man goes to work every day, and so it's like

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Speaker 3: and when we're off for a couple of weeks at least,

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Speaker 3: he's going to work and I'm not home with the

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Speaker 3: same person like for two weeks, I feel like that'd

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Speaker 3: be a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you guys, I cherish the time with my family.

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Speaker 1: I love my wife, So I, to be honest, do

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Speaker 1: not feel that way. You know, like because it's Christmas time.

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Speaker 1: If it was two weeks randomly in like summer, I

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Speaker 1: may get over it. But because it's Christmas and there's

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Speaker 1: literally something going on almost every day, uh, and it's

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Speaker 1: all fun stuff for me, I don't feel that way.

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Speaker 1: And so I you know, and then there's other family

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Speaker 1: that I'm doing stuff with and things like that that

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Speaker 1: kind of brings up. Yeah, I went golfing, you know,

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Speaker 1: so I am doing stuff too. I'm not just sitting

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Speaker 1: at the house looking at my wife, you know, going

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Speaker 1: like like like Sky does.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's better when we're on vacation because he like

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Speaker 2: comes to terms that I'm like home and he's kind

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Speaker 2: of like talked out after the first day but yesterday,

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Speaker 2: you know, my first day back to work, returning home again,

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Speaker 2: he's following me around, updating me on what has happened.

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Speaker 2: I just want to read my book and take a bath,

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Speaker 2: and he's standing there.

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Speaker 1: WHOA.

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Speaker 2: So I actually had the realization it was it was

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Speaker 2: better during vacation because.

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Speaker 1: I because he was over you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think he was over me and he was used

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Speaker 2: to me being there the whole time, so I wasn't

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Speaker 2: gone and then coming back for an update every day.

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Speaker 3: Can twenty twenty six the year you tell him to

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Speaker 3: get the hell away from you and give you some

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Speaker 3: for like, give.

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Speaker 1: Me ten bro.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get the wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: One would think that when someone's talking and you put

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Speaker 2: your face in a book that they realized, oh.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter the conversation. I get a little bit

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Speaker 1: of this. I was. I was pretty irritable yesterday. I

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Speaker 1: mean that that three thirty alarm came very abrupt, Yeah, yesterday,

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Speaker 1: And so I was irritable yesterday, and I knew that,

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Speaker 1: and so I tried to avoid any sort of confrontation

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Speaker 1: or anything like that. But I could be watching one

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Speaker 1: of my shows or whatever, and Deborah will come in

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Speaker 1: and have no concept that I'm clearly watching something and

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Speaker 1: just start talking and then I do the over dramatic

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Speaker 1: grab the room up, put it on or put it

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Speaker 1: on pause, and then look up like what sall do that?

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Speaker 1: And so I sort of get that solid I think.

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Speaker 2: They would get when they start talking and we don't

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Speaker 2: turn our heads to engage that that's some sort of

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Speaker 2: symbol to them, one would think, But not you.

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Speaker 1: You being in a bathtub is that's so wild and

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Speaker 1: extreme of like like can I just can I just

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Speaker 1: be in here by myself for a minute.

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Speaker 3: You close the door behind your bathtomb, like in your bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I close the door, but I don't lock the

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Speaker 2: door is coming in.

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Speaker 1: He's picking the lock. Yeah, so wild, so yeah.

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Speaker 2: So when it comes to divorces and cheating on your spouse,

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Speaker 2: they say, yes, the holidays realize you're unhappy. The holidays

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Speaker 2: make you realize you don't like your partner. And then

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Speaker 2: the final cherry on top is New Year's because New

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Speaker 2: Year's is a fresh start when we're told we're supposed

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Speaker 2: to make choices that lead to a better year, and

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Speaker 2: if that better year does not include your spouse, then

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Speaker 2: you may be calling a divorce lawyer this week.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, well, so if you survive this week,

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Speaker 1: you're good. You're good. I don't know. That seems crazy.

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Speaker 1: There you go,