1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Let's call this episode fat old bitch. Okay, yeah, oh 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: absolutely we should because we give each other a hard 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 1: time all the time because we know that we're kidding. 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: Like Jenny will say something like, yeah, I know what 5 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: you like to do, Dave, what suck that dick? And 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, and she said that several times. 7 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: Well I say it in a funnier way than that. 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: I'm just say suck that dick. I said, sucking dip. 9 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: Well, see it's funny because it's so inappropriate, but we 10 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: know that we're we do it to make each other laugh. 11 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: And so Jenny was walking out the studio a minute ago, 12 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: and I said, Uh, don't go far, you big fat, 13 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: you fat old bitch, because we get to do the 14 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye. Yeah, and Jenny's like, you know, mocks contempt 15 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: and She's like, who what, I can't believe you called 16 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: me a fat old bitch. 17 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 3: Hey, you so that is. 18 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: I hope that you have that relationship with your coworkers, 19 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: probably not your boss. I would never go up to 20 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: Rich and call him hey, a fat old bitch. 21 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 3: Oh maybe you should try. 22 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, no, but if I saw, like, 23 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: you know, fall in er Colt. I don't know cult 24 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: that well. Honestly, I know he would laugh if I 25 00:00:58,800 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: called him a fat old bitch. 26 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 4: Ye. 27 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: Vont called me a couple of months ago, and it 28 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: was very funny, you Pillsbury dough boy bitch, ye, And 29 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: I think that's funny. 30 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 2: And it's because you were like purposely sticking out your 31 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 2: stomach like the dough boy, and so he was. Then 32 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: he threw that out there. It was one of the 33 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: funniest things he's ever said. 34 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: It was funny, it was indeed. 35 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: So I hope you have that relationship with your people 36 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: at work. So let's move on to the Minnesota goodbye. Okay. 37 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: So the first email is talking about the thank you, 38 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: you know, and I don't want to drive this into 39 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: the ground, so we'll cover it briefly. I have sent 40 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: my grandkid's money. They don't say thank you, so I've 41 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: sent less instead of one hundred dollars. I sent my 42 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: grandson for his birthday the other day, I sent him 43 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: fifty dollars instead of one hundred. Guess who sent me 44 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: a thank you text? Last night? 45 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 3: Oh? 46 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: He did. It was it was a daylight but he 47 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: did send me a little, chatty, little thank you text. 48 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: He's a very friendly kid. Yeah, he's got a big 49 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: personality for being thirteen fourteen years old. But I've been 50 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: annoyed because I don't get thank yous for it. So 51 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: Brook says, Dave, you need to say something about this 52 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: situation to Beth. She is responsible for teaching gratitude and 53 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: thankfulness as the parent is in my as the parent 54 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: in my opinion, is she ever thankful? Is the husband 55 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: like that too? Saying that's just how he is? Is 56 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: the reason why kids in the younger generation take so 57 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: much for granted. Why wouldn't she teach them to call 58 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: or text or whatever to say thank you to their 59 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: grandparents of all people. I think there are many things 60 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: wrong about this and the way these kids will go 61 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: about their life in the future. Stop Stop sending them 62 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 1: shit and then see if they care. Maybe they won't, 63 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: but it'll teach them to not just assume that they're 64 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: entitled to money or gifts on their birthdays or holidays 65 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: without saying thank you. I'm beyond baffled and pissed off. 66 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 1: Do better, Beth, is my conclusion. Happy fucking Friday, says Brook. 67 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: Maybe we should change the name to Happy fucking Friday. No, 68 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: that's fine. So I don't want to keep going back 69 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: to that. But I think a lot of people can relate. 70 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: And I'm never going to say anything to Beth, but 71 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: I might say something to him. 72 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 4: Well, I wonder did if she heard that you were 73 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 4: upset somehow, because that's why her kid texted. 74 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: You, And that's possible. Yeah, I mean it's very possible. 75 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: Beth used to live here. It's possible that she. But 76 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: Beth would have texted me and said, hey, Dad, it 77 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: really upset me that you're talking about this on the 78 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye. So anyway, but I was happy to get 79 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: a thank you, So maybe I'll reach out to him 80 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: and say, hey, you know what it means a lot 81 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: when you say thank you. So when somebody and you know, 82 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: i'm his grandpa, grand I'm his grandpa, so I can 83 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: teach him lessons too. 84 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: Rite Yeah, you're allowed. 85 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: Uh, okay, there's another one, and I want to be respectful. 86 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: That Jillian wrote in while I read it quickly, few 87 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: thoughts on you, Dave, sending gifts and not receiving to 88 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: thank you for your grandkids. Beth's reason is BS if 89 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: I were you, I wouldn't send gifts anymore. It's best 90 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: job to raise your kids to be considerate, respectful to others, 91 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: not saying thank you as a sign of disrespect. In 92 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: my opinion, if she questions why you didn't send a 93 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: gift for Christmas, I'd tell her those gifts are not appreciated. 94 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: So I put up that boundary. Gifts are not an expectation, 95 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: and it's my choice if I want to send people 96 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: gifts or not. Good luck, Dave. It's an internal battle 97 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: being a parent and a grandparent, but sometimes you got 98 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:19,119 Speaker 1: to say fuck it and do what you want from Jillian. Okay, 99 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: let's see if the next one is about something different, 100 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: and here we go, Hello morning show crew. That's us. 101 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if anybody suggested this yet, but maybe 102 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: your family, Dave didn't want you to tag along. Oh, 103 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: this was the other day on her anniversary. Tuesday was 104 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 1: our twenty fifth anniversary and I was driving home not 105 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: you know, no plans for the day. Susan Texan says 106 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: they're going to Mall of America with Carson. They're going 107 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 1: to meet Allison and her littlest girl down there, and 108 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: they spent like three or four hours at the mall 109 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: and probably had a great time. And I picture him 110 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: walking around with cotton candy and a shopping bag, laughing 111 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: and saying, aren't you glad Dad's not here? Well, let's 112 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: get ice cream. Yeah, she says, maybe they didn't want 113 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: you to tag along because they were buying your birthday gifts. Doubtful. 114 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: If Carson's not going to be in town that day, 115 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: Susan may have wanted to do it while he was here. 116 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: Just a thought, not a member of the dart Lick Society. 117 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: But I'm not dead yet, so fingers cross, Okay, and 118 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: that is that one. Let me see. I hate the 119 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: part of the show. Honestly. I hate the part where 120 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: I go, well, let's see. 121 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: Hey, Jenny, you want to hear what I did last night? 122 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 123 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: What did you do? 124 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 4: So? 125 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 3: I matched with this new guy on Hinge. 126 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: I want to hear about this too. 127 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: Okay, great. 128 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 4: So I matched with this other guy on Hinge and 129 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 4: I had to put on my Sherlock Holmes hat because 130 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 4: on his profile all it says is professor at university. 131 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, I got to find out 132 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 4: what university. 133 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 3: So I scrolled through all those pictures and want a picture. 134 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 4: He has like a zip up kind of hoodie thing 135 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 4: on that looks like it has a low go on 136 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 4: the center. 137 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 3: So I zoomed in that picture, found. 138 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 4: The logo for the university, looked up their staff so 139 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 4: I could find out his last name, so I could 140 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 4: find out his Facebook. 141 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 3: So wow, what inspiration from War of the Roses. That sounds. 142 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: I love that. 143 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 3: It's just easy. 144 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 4: And then, like I've said before, like I'll do it, 145 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 4: and then once I find them, it's like I wake 146 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 4: up from a trance where I'm like, oh God, I 147 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 4: just did all of this work trying to find out 148 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 4: information about you. 149 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: Do you feel better about finding out the information? Yeah? Okay, 150 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 3: I just mostly I feel like, look at me. I 151 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: did it. I found out information about him, and I 152 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 3: found like his. 153 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 4: Podcast and his academic papers that he's written and blah 154 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 4: blah blah. 155 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:35,799 Speaker 1: What does he teach? 156 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 4: He's he's like, what like a seminary professor. 157 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,559 Speaker 1: So it like he's a man of God? 158 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 3: Then is a man? 159 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: He's a godly man. What religion? 160 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 3: It's got to be the right religion, it says Christian. 161 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well is that the right religion? I 162 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: guess it depends on your viewpoint. I think that's a 163 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: I think that's a good solid religion. 164 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 3: I don't know a solid one. 165 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 4: I don't know what any of the words mean that 166 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 4: uh he teaches, but it's all like seminary theology, semiotic 167 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 4: blah blah blah blah. 168 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 1: Psalms. Did he mention salms? 169 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Psalms, Moses, Jesus, Jesus. Yeah. 170 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: It sounds like a red flag. Is he going to 171 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: be able to road house? Yeah? I don't know if I. 172 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 4: But he also can't ask me a question about anything 173 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 4: on my profile as of right now. 174 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 3: So that's fun. 175 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 4: Wait, what do you mean as in like, so I've 176 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 4: asked him a handful of questions and he has asked 177 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 4: me questions back about the things that I have asked him, 178 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 4: Like he'll say. 179 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: So, he's not like seeking interest in what might know 180 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 2: your personality. 181 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: Maybe go on my profile and look at what. 182 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, Maybe stalk me like I was stalking you. 183 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: I think that's great. You would like a professor and 184 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: you go to a Christian church, so you would probably 185 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, if you date somebody like you 186 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: date a nice Jewish boy, that's great, but you don't 187 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: know anything about you don't know about Rashishana or yam 188 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: Kapoor Kapoor. Yesterday was the holiest day I believe in 189 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: the Jewish faith, yam Kapoor. And I had a Jewish 190 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: friend and I said, do you say happy yam Kapoor? 191 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: And she was like, no, it's really not a you 192 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: would say happy rash as Shaana or maybe I could 193 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: have that wrong. 194 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 4: If you're Jewish, let is like the one that you 195 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 4: have to like fast for and like say the holiest day. 196 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, anyway, that's. 197 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 3: What's happening in my life. Anyway, did you find any 198 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: more emails? 199 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: I did, Yes, Thanks, though, that's really interesting. I'm really 200 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: glad you brought it up. It's probably more interesting than 201 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: what the what we've what the emails are, but let's 202 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: see what we've got. Hello friends, Hope you're having a 203 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: great start to the week. She wrote this earlier, This 204 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: weather is giving me life listening to the Morning show 205 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: after my morning walk and realizing that the Dave Ryan 206 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: Show has been a part of my life for so 207 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: long it truly is as staple in my life at 208 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: this point. Growing up, we had a radio attached to 209 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: the bottom of our cupboard that my mom would have 210 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: on before I even woke up for school. So every weekday, 211 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: that's how I started my morning and it's followed me 212 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: into adulthood. We had the same radio, and I now 213 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: do the same with my kid. My son actually asked 214 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: questions about you guys, like all the time, is that 215 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: Jenny talking? For example? I think it's so cute and 216 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: a wholesome thing for me knowing it brought me joy 217 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: growing up, and I'm gonna get teary eyed. Yeah, wow, 218 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 1: because I get it because I used to listen to 219 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: the radio growing up too, and it did. Then. I 220 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: think that's why I love it and maybe why I'm 221 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: good at it is because I realized the joy that 222 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: radio can I'm gonna get misty. The joy that radio 223 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: can bring you is kind of hard to describe. It's 224 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: like there's a companion that's in your city that's probably 225 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: a lives a life that's something like yours. You know, 226 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: you're interesting day, that's there every day. 227 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 3: Ye see. 228 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 2: And I loved radio growing up too, but for different 229 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: reasons because I like to win shit. So my sister 230 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: and I were always doing the countdowns where you had 231 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: to call the DJ and be like. 232 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 3: Number five was this and I want a CD. 233 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 2: And so we would literally, like weekly go pick up 234 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 2: cd is from the radios we won. 235 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 1: I love that. I remember winning a couple of records 236 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: and some hockey tickets off the radio when I was 237 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: a kid and go into the radio station and walking 238 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: into Z ninety three to pick up my Rod Stewart album. Yeah, 239 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: and there's the receptionist and you could kind of see 240 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: down the hallway a little bit to where the studios 241 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: must be. And I was like, WHOA, that's so cool. 242 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: I won a There was a rai it was Saint 243 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: Patrick's Day and if you called in with a funny 244 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: limerick you would be entered in a contest where you 245 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: won tickets to a concert in Denver. 246 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 247 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 1: So I still remember my limerick. Do you want to 248 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: hear it? 249 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 3: Yes? 250 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 4: I do. 251 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: So it was a Saint Patrick's Stay limerick and it 252 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: was the radio station was Z ninety three. You want 253 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: to hear my limerick? Here we go. There once was 254 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: a radio station twas one of the best in the nation. 255 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: Friends called it the Z at f M nine ninety 256 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: three and to listen was a rock and sensation. 257 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 3: Wow. 258 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: And I still remember it. I mean I was sixteen 259 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: or fifteen when, and I don't know why I remember it, 260 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: I did not win the trip, and I was kind 261 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: of like glad that I didn't win the trip because 262 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 1: I knew I wouldn't be able to go. 263 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's like you know, I was a kid, right, 264 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: You entered for the fun of entering. 265 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: But radio was such a magical thing, and I'm glad 266 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: that it still is for this family. She continues to say, 267 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: you guys are part of that home feeling like the 268 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,599 Speaker 1: smell of cookies baking on Christmas. Forever grateful for my 269 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 1: favorite morning crew Samantha made my day. Thank you so much. 270 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: Let's check for another one here. This is from Lauren. 271 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: I have not pre read it. You ready for a 272 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: non pre read. I'm ready looking for advice on friendship 273 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: falling out. This past year, I noticed of my closest 274 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: friend from high school in college I'm now in my 275 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: mid thirties, really are not that great of friends to me. 276 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: I pride myself on being a good friend. Checking in 277 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 1: Get Together's attentive listening. I'm trying to come to turn 278 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: with recognizing those people may not be meant to be 279 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: in my life long term. When I thought they would 280 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: always would always be. Now having kids, I'm recognizing they 281 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: don't check in on me. They don't ask about my 282 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: kids or how I'm doing. And even my neighbors who 283 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,719 Speaker 1: I just met in the past few years are more 284 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: caring and intentive than my friend and my best friends 285 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: have been. Rationally, I think why put energy into people 286 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: who don't do the same for me at this age. 287 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm okay with it, and sometimes I'm really sad. 288 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: I know all of you have gone through losing close friends, 289 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,599 Speaker 1: so I'm looking for some words of advice or just 290 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: some solidarity. 291 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 4: Ha. 292 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: Thanks. Jenny will start with you. What are your thoughts 293 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: on this? You're about the same age as her. 294 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've definitely gotten rid of toxic friends 295 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: because they were toxic, not because they weren't necessarily reaching 296 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 2: out to me. But I feel like I just like 297 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 2: know which friends are how they are. For instance, love 298 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: her to death, but Tina is not a like I'm 299 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 2: going to reach out to you kind of person or 300 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,599 Speaker 2: I'm going to make a plan with you. I'm the 301 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 2: one who reaches out to her, and if I need 302 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 2: someone to talk to, I will reach out to her 303 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: and she'll be there for me within a second. But 304 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 2: she's not like the check in kind of friend, okay, 305 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 2: And I'm okay with that because she's still a really 306 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: really great friend to me when I need her and stuff. 307 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 2: So I just feel like, if your friends are not 308 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: there for you through hard times, then yes, that definitely sucks. 309 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 2: But I also am the type of person that, like, 310 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 2: I don't answer texts for a long time, So I 311 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: feel like I'm guilty of being not a great friend 312 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 2: all the time always, but I shall keep my friendships. 313 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 4: Well, the whole thing about like not answering texts and everything. 314 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 4: Vant actually posted about this on his Instagram last night, 315 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 4: like just on his stories or something, where he said like, oh, 316 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 4: I used to get mad all the time when people 317 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 4: wouldn't text me back because what do you mean, Like 318 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 4: I don't matter to you? Things like that, and then 319 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 4: he's like, but I realize they all have their own 320 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 4: lives and it takes me a while to respond to 321 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:57,599 Speaker 4: people too, and wow, my eyes are open now. And 322 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 4: so I feel like similarly to Jenny, where I mean, 323 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 4: sometimes I have to remind myself like, oh, yeah, you're 324 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 4: friends with Kyle. You should reach out to Kyle because 325 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 4: you haven't heard from him in the world. Yeah, and 326 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, crap, I have to talk to Kyle 327 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:15,719 Speaker 4: or whoever. Because I've never like dumped a friend. I've 328 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 4: like slowly like got not taken them out of my life, 329 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 4: but like made them less of a priority, uh, for 330 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 4: different reasons or whatever. But I've never like broken up 331 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 4: with somebody, So I don't have advice there. 332 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 2: I think also you saying your neighbors are there for 333 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 2: you more. Proximity is a huge part of life and 334 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 2: one of my great college friends, she lives thirty minutes 335 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 2: south in the suburbs. Love her to death. If I 336 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 2: were to call her tonight and be like, I need 337 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 2: to come hang out, we would hang out. But have 338 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 2: I seen her in recent months? No, because we just 339 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: like don't live close to each other anyway. 340 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a really good friend Debbie. I married 341 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: her and her husband Joe, and she's one of my 342 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: best friends. We're the same age, we have a lot 343 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: of the same kind of principles and beliefs, and you know, 344 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: we shared the same twisted sense of humor. And she's 345 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: very good about checking in. She'll send me a Marco 346 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: polo if you know what that is about once a 347 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: week or so, and Marco Polo was kind of a 348 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: one way conversation, but you can respond back. But I 349 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: will say that as you go through life, people will 350 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: drop off and it just kind of happens. And it's like, 351 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: I am not the best at stay and I'm going 352 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: to tell you one more thing. Can I We've probably 353 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: talked about this before. You start to get around my age, 354 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: and people, not all of them. They get weird, they change, 355 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: they get cranky, or they just say and do odd things. 356 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: And I think it's just like your brain chemistry, your 357 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: life experience changes. And people would probably say the same 358 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: about me, but I know several people might. Like my 359 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: best friend from middle school on up, Mike. I was 360 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: in his wedding, he was in my wedding. We were 361 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: each other's best man. I love him. He's great, but 362 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: he's so cranky. Everything is like, ah, these people bye, 363 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: baby babe. And he's been kicked off of Facebook multiple times. Really, 364 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: he got kicked out of his daughter's volleyball game because 365 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: he was yelling at the reps and they banned him 366 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: from his daughter's volleyball game. My god, it's like, Mike, 367 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: calm down, He's like, yeah, well they were pissing me off, 368 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: and you're not fun anymore, Mike, And so he loves me. 369 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: And when I'm with him, I can tell he loves 370 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: me and I love him. Yeah, but it's just people. 371 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna warn you you're nowhere near my age. But 372 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: when you get around that age, you're gonna notice people 373 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: start to fucking get a litle Not everybody, but i'd 374 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: say one third of people get me please, Sty'll. 375 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 3: Get like partially weird, at least, like parts of them 376 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 3: will be weird. 377 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: That's Ronda. Is Ronda weird? 378 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 4: She's not weird, I would say, I She's just like 379 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 4: she's always been in my brain. But she gets to 380 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 4: the point now, which she probably has only done within 381 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 4: the last five years, where if she's done, she'll just 382 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 4: like shut down and be quiet. 383 00:16:58,160 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: I feel like I saw that happen to her at 384 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 2: the face she was like definitely done, Like when we 385 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 2: had our long broadcast on that Saturday. 386 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, she just sits quietly. 387 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 4: And then I'm like, you're a really great company right now, 388 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 4: and it's only happening yeat within the last five years, 389 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 4: because usually we have great time. And then at certain 390 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 4: point she just decides she's done and then she stops talking. 391 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: Ronda, Come on, that's funny because Alison is half of 392 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 1: Ronda's age, my daughter, and she does the same thing. 393 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 1: She's very chatty and happy and smiling until like somebody 394 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: throws a switch and she's done. And then she's like, okay, 395 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: well time to go. All right, well, okay, have a 396 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: good night girls, choes on, let's go, and we're like, okay, 397 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 1: all right, and she's not mad, she's just done. You 398 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: reminded me as I found this last night and I 399 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 1: was going to use it for a Minnesota or a 400 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: motivational Monday, but I'm gonna go ahead and read it 401 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 1: now because it's I really like it. Nobody really talks 402 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: about how your personality changes as you get older. You 403 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: stop caring about impressing people. You just want peace, You 404 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: want rap balance, and to stay far away from anything 405 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: or anyone that drains your energy. I think that's true. 406 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: I still, I mean, you guys give me energy, and 407 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,719 Speaker 1: I mean that, I mean sincerely. I love hanging out 408 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: with you guys. And again I'm gonna get choked up. God, 409 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: I must be on my period. 410 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 3: You are Oh you're what no, you're not. 411 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: I keep going so but I love you guys. You 412 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 1: do give me energy. But I think Susan is at 413 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: the point in her life where she doesn't want to 414 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: be bothered. She wants to sit. And we differ on 415 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: that a little bit because I do like to go out, 416 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: and you know, I love I was reading a story 417 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: about Don Shelby, who used to be the big news 418 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: anchor over at Channel four, and I guess they did 419 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: an article in the Star Tribute about Don Shelby's slowing 420 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: down a little bit. He's seventy eight years old, but 421 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: they talked about how he used to go camping in 422 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: the wintertime and the Boundary waters and he climbed Mount Kilimanjaro. 423 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: And I'm making some of this stuff up now, but 424 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: he was a very big adventurer and I love that. 425 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 1: I would love to do that up. But Susan is 426 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: a sit by the pool, play on her phone kind 427 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: of a person. So does anybody want to go climb 428 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: Mountain Killom. 429 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: And Gerald, Yeah, I told you I want to. 430 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: Jenny and I would have been good friends back in 431 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 1: the day. We would never date because gross, but but 432 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: if we were, if we were the same age, Jenny 433 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 1: and I would be off on adventures. We would be 434 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: booking a trip to Everest right now, Yeah, we'd be. 435 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: We'd be carrying our stuff on a yak up to 436 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: base camp. 437 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 3: And I would wave at you from the bottom and 438 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 3: say bye, hail. Fine. You would barely be sipping her 439 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 3: nice warm coffee. 440 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: I can't breathe, Jannita writes in and she's writing this time, 441 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: not ranting. So let's see what one on Juanita has 442 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: to say. I went and visited friends this weekend. They 443 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 1: got