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Speaker 1: It's a star one on one three, it's Marcus in

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Speaker 1: the morning, we're doing second date update.

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Speaker 2: It's back. Uh. Basically, you go on a first date.

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Speaker 1: If you get ghosted, you call me and then we

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Speaker 1: will call your date and see what's up. Because people

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Speaker 1: should not be getting ghosted. And I gotta be honest.

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Speaker 3: But am I right? Mark?

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Speaker 2: I mean it kind of sucks. You know, let's get

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Speaker 2: right into it. Let's talk about Julia.

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Speaker 1: So you guys met online and then dinner and Point Richmond,

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Speaker 1: which is a part of the Bay that not a

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Speaker 1: lot of people get to.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be honest, let's talk about it. How to go?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I thought it went pretty solid. We had a

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Speaker 3: drinks dinner by the water, we got to see all

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Speaker 3: the boats going by. It was just very what's the

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Speaker 3: word cozy. It was like a very comfy, cozy vibe.

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Speaker 2: I went.

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Speaker 1: I took the family out there to see one of

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Speaker 1: the museums and we're like, oh my god, these restaurants

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Speaker 1: are so cute, a great place for for a first date.

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Speaker 2: That well, that feels pretty solid.

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Speaker 1: So and in your mind and your estimation, like, you

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Speaker 1: didn't do anything we weird, nothing really went wrong.

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Speaker 3: No, like she was smart. She was very you know

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Speaker 3: how dates.

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Speaker 2: Can be very chaotic, right, huh. I'm not worried about her.

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Speaker 2: I'm worried about you. Did you do anyone? I haven't

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Speaker 2: done anything.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't think I did anything. It was it

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Speaker 3: was we talked about our favorite restaurants, our workout routine,

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Speaker 3: just our lives in general. I felt like the conversation

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Speaker 3: never wavered and it was a solid date. I saw

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Speaker 3: nothing wrong, so I was confused. I didn't hear from her.

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Speaker 1: Let's call her. It's Marcus in the morning. We're doing

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Speaker 1: second date update right now. Got our guy Mark on

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Speaker 1: the phone, and he and Julia went to dinner on

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Speaker 1: the water in Port Richmond, which not a lot of

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Speaker 1: people get to but super cute out to be honest

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Speaker 1: with you. Nice like to your point, marking, nice, quiet,

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Speaker 1: tucked away, good vibes, and she is ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, go ahead and meet your phone. Let's give

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Speaker 2: her a shout here we go. Hello, Hi is this Julia?

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Speaker 3: This is her, Julia.

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Speaker 2: This is Marcus.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from Star one oh one three, which is

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Speaker 1: where it's a radio station in San Francisco, and I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering if you have a minute to be on the air.

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Speaker 2: I know it's early, and I'm sorry, are you busy?

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Speaker 3: What's this about?

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Speaker 4: It's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So we do a segment on the show called

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and I was flowing to your phone

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Speaker 1: number by a gentleman who took you out recently to dinner,

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Speaker 1: and he's feeling like, maybe you ghosted. We're just trying

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Speaker 1: to get to the bottom of it. I'm wondering if

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Speaker 1: he did something dumb. Would you mind talking about your

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Speaker 1: date with Mark on the air? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Sure, thank you. How'd it go? Did you ghost?

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Speaker 4: Well? Here's the thing. He the day started out great,

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Speaker 4: and then I just started noticing something weird that kept happening,

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Speaker 4: like every time he lowered his voice. He actually did

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Speaker 4: it several times through the night, and I was just like,

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Speaker 4: why does he keep whispering? There was not a lot

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Speaker 4: of people around us, so that's why I thought it

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Speaker 4: was on. And he would just whisper something that seemed

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Speaker 4: like it would be really important or personal, like saying, oh,

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Speaker 4: I don't usually tell people this, But then he would

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Speaker 4: tell me his favorite color, and I'm like, why are

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Speaker 4: you being secretive about that? That it just felt like

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Speaker 4: he was trying to be I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Like unnecessary.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like unnecessary. And then it was just

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Speaker 4: like our normal conversations just kept feeling overly dramatic, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, am I being filmed? Like what's happening?

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Speaker 4: And then what really made me like check out was

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Speaker 4: he was telling me about his preferences about where he

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Speaker 4: I thought he was ok because he doesn't like to

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Speaker 4: sit with his back turn to the water because he

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Speaker 4: likes to know what's coming. And I said, what that's weird,

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Speaker 4: I guess, or like a shark, I don't know. I

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Speaker 4: was like, what would be coming from the water? And

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Speaker 4: so I just thought it was just, you know, after

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Speaker 4: all of that, I just didn't want to date someone

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Speaker 4: that was like felt like he was always like in

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Speaker 4: a conspiracy theory and then like having to always watch

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Speaker 4: his back.

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Speaker 1: I see, Okay, so part of this is that Mark

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Speaker 1: is actually listening in.

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Speaker 2: He's on the phone. Mark, you can unmute. Are you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I'm here?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what was with the weird tones?

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Speaker 3: I just take personal stuff seriously. I just feel like

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Speaker 3: you don't need to be saying it out loud for

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Speaker 3: everyone to hear. It's like you're feeling color, yeah, that

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Speaker 3: you might be trying to steal my information. You know

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Speaker 3: how easy it is for people to take your information nowadays.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, no, what I just felt like I

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Speaker 4: was always being on a security breeze and I already

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Speaker 4: have like a stressful job. Like I every time he

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Speaker 4: like was Okay, this is what's happening, and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: what's happening? I just felt like I was on pins

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Speaker 4: and needles the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I sort of understand the seating arrangement

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Speaker 1: thing in a weird way. Market feels like maybe you

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Speaker 1: were a little over the top on it, a little

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Speaker 1: too secret service. Now.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were comfortable, So I was just trying

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Speaker 3: to be comfortable about it. I like awareness, I like

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Speaker 3: to know what's coming, got it, That would be one thing.

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Speaker 4: But it was just the secretiveness voice, the tone, and

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Speaker 4: so I just felt like I was in a spy

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Speaker 4: movie the whole time, and so I just didn't like

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Speaker 4: the vibe after that.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I thought that was just being protective. Isn't that

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Speaker 3: what most women would like?

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Speaker 4: I don't need to be protected. I can take care

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Speaker 4: of myself, all right? Are we?

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Speaker 2: Are we doing no second date here?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: All right, I guess not.

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Speaker 2: Hang Hang on, you guys, Hang on. That wasn't going

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Speaker 2: to go for sure. A second date update