WEBVTT - Did Mojo Do the Right Thing

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<v Speaker 1>Friday, got faced with a little dilemma. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>moral dilemma, and I want to ask the listeners, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you have done if you were me? Okay, let

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<v Speaker 1>me explain this situation, and you tell me what your

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts are on this. So this weekend, Chelsea and I

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<v Speaker 1>were going to go to Chicago to visit our son

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<v Speaker 1>Jacob and his boyfriend Chris, and we were taking them

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<v Speaker 1>as part of their Christmas gift to go see the

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<v Speaker 1>Broadway musical Six, which I've heard it so good. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what it was about until I went

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<v Speaker 1>in there, and then I was there and I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>I sang so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually kind of liked it. I'll explain that in

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<v Speaker 2>a second.

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<v Speaker 1>So Chelsea and Jacob had been wanting to go see it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was something that they both wanted to do together,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they let the two people in the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with them, myself and Chris, be part of it and

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<v Speaker 1>to be part of a Christmas gift, We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do dinner and all this stuff. Well, Friday morning, during

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Chelsea sends me a text message at about

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like six forty five.

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<v Speaker 2>I am hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me read the extual thing here, because it's you

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<v Speaker 1>got to almost hear the hair, the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh. She sends me back.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at this one. Stop texting me. Hold on

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<v Speaker 1>a second, noave me some of these things. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you bother me? Oh no, that's not that one. That

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<v Speaker 1>aren't there? Uh Friday?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's Friday's Friday? Oh? Here you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so sick. I have the worst sore throat,

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<v Speaker 1>horrible headache and body aches. And I said, oh f

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, do you want to cancel? She says,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I got hit by a truck. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so sad. This is all I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>with Jacob, and I do not want to get him sick.

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<v Speaker 1>So she sends me this text and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to do? She doesn't answer me,

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<v Speaker 1>so I call her, and this is where I asked

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<v Speaker 1>the listeners, Okay, I got to be a good husband here.

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<v Speaker 1>I got her very sick wife at home. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also have my son and his boyfriend in a hotel

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<v Speaker 1>room waiting in Chicago. So I say to myself, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna call Jacob and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to see what Jacob's response is to his

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<v Speaker 1>mom's being sick and then say, yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know she feels horrible because Chelsea was like really really sad.

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<v Speaker 1>She could hardly talk. She blames Kevin by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>fast did you text her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I text her. She texts me and asks me, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>when you got sick? What did it start with?

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<v Speaker 4>And I could tell by the lining of questioning the

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<v Speaker 4>reason for it.

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<v Speaker 3>And her symptoms were.

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<v Speaker 4>I think her started with her throw hurting. He started

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<v Speaker 4>with a headache and then it went down nose and

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<v Speaker 4>then throwers.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so h are you guys making out a jingle ball?

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<v Speaker 1>So I called Jacob up and he doesn't answer. I

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<v Speaker 1>text him and said, because he's you know, he's Jacob's

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<v Speaker 1>a psychologist. So he was in with patients. I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>call me when you get a chance. He calls me

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<v Speaker 1>right back. Within like ten or fifteen minutes. He says,

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<v Speaker 1>everything okay, And I said, actually, mom is really really sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything's gonna be okay. She's just got you know, sore

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<v Speaker 1>throat and stuff like that. He's like, oh man, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like you he was bummed, and he said, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just you know, tell her don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever the deal is.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, let me ask you, would you be okay

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<v Speaker 1>if I still came. He got really excited. And Jacob

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<v Speaker 1>and I do not have the relationship that Chelsea and

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<v Speaker 1>Jacob have. Chelsea and Jacob's relationship is like they are

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<v Speaker 1>in you know, what is it a simpectico?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like they are like literally like how Kevin is with Josiah,

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<v Speaker 1>how you are with Lucy, How I am with Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and Luke we kind of you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>have your your kids that you're really close with. And

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<v Speaker 1>he was he seemed really excited. He goes, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be so great. He goes, that would be cool, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will hang with you. And I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was excited about that. But then I hung

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<v Speaker 1>up the phone and I go, I really feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being a dick husband because here she is, she

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<v Speaker 1>just got over being really really sick, and then now

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<v Speaker 1>she's sick with.

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<v Speaker 2>This and I'm leaving her. I'm going out of town.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got to take care of the dogs, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>which the dogs are a holes, you know, why couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>they be sick? You know, and so we're going, so

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<v Speaker 1>going through this whole thing. So I kept asking her,

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<v Speaker 1>Am I okay? Am I okay? And She's like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>go go go, So I go. And then I thought

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<v Speaker 1>to myself the whole weekend, I'm like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she's happy with me, you know, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>you heard I don't think she's happy with me. Was

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<v Speaker 1>I was also calling her every five minutes because I

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<v Speaker 1>had guilt over the fact I was going.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I do wrong by going?

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<v Speaker 1>Or should I have stayed with Chelsea and just ate

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<v Speaker 1>the hotel room for the night and just gave Jacob

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<v Speaker 1>the tickets to go with Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>One of his friends, think you one million percent, without question,

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<v Speaker 5>made the right decision.

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<v Speaker 2>You think so, yes. And by the.

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<v Speaker 5>Way, when you're sick, you want to be by like

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<v Speaker 5>at least me, I want to be by myself because

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<v Speaker 5>all I'm going to do is sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>And you had a great weekend with Jacob.

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<v Speaker 2>I did have a great weekend with Jacob.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you made the right decision. But I do

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<v Speaker 3>know from what I've heard about people in relationships that

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<v Speaker 3>are getting therapy, they keep telling me that you're supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to make your spouse like priority.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, priority, get out of the house so I can

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<v Speaker 5>just rest.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin was shaking his head over there. You guys are answering,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think was Chelsea alone? Chelsea had Luke

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<v Speaker 1>at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>The only reason I say you're not an AO, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's very tough for me to say that, is because

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<v Speaker 4>Jacob really wanted you to go. Yeah, if Jacob had

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<v Speaker 4>to said you know what, Dad, No, it's okay, moms,

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<v Speaker 4>and you were just like, no, I understand this is

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<v Speaker 4>important and you went, I'd be like.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, that's how I felt like. If Jacob would

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<v Speaker 1>have done that, I would have not gone, because honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to drive eight you know, basically, it's

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<v Speaker 1>nine hours of driving, it's four and half hours therefore

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<v Speaker 1>and a half hours back.

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<v Speaker 2>And it ended up being right.

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<v Speaker 1>But I but I will tell you it was really

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<v Speaker 1>fun to be able to just be me and I

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<v Speaker 1>and try to be more present. But also we spent

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<v Speaker 1>the day together on Saturday, just kind of hanging it

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<v Speaker 1>at Jake's uh and Chris's condo that they live in,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't ever get to go over there.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm never really.

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<v Speaker 6>There as a mom like I love.

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<v Speaker 5>I would love the idea of like dad getting to

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<v Speaker 5>spend quality time with one of them.

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<v Speaker 6>And I think that's really really important.

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<v Speaker 1>And I will say this in our relationship, mine and Jacob's,

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<v Speaker 1>it would not be anything if it wasn't for Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 1>When Jacob was younger, saying to me, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>find something that you can have with him, and for

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<v Speaker 1>us it's always been like scary movies. This was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>wild to go see, although Jacob was upset because he

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<v Speaker 1>said I was looking at my phone NonStop.

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<v Speaker 6>During the during the musical.

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<v Speaker 1>During the musical, I didn't I didn't have it on

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that, but I was looking at it

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<v Speaker 1>to see what the time was.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Sarah? How you doing good? How are you good?

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<v Speaker 2>Did I did I do wrong? Or what do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the a hole? As Kevin says, You're not.

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<v Speaker 3>The a whole.

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<v Speaker 7>I think the fact that you feel like you're an

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<v Speaker 7>a hole says enough that you're not an a hole

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<v Speaker 7>and speak to the fact that you're a good husband.

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<v Speaker 7>You asked Chelsea over and over again if it was okay,

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<v Speaker 7>You were considerate of her and the fact that you

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<v Speaker 7>feel so guilty about it, I just think shows that

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<v Speaker 7>you're a good husband, because there's a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 7>that would just go not even I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the fact I feel guilty about it is

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that I've done wrong a lot in this relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like I have not chosen

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea to be the priority in a lot of our relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like this could be considered one of

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<v Speaker 1>those same times, and I, you know, that was like

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest thing. And then the other thing too, is

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it to become Sarah one of those

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<v Speaker 1>things where it was like, oh good, we're not going,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it makes it look like I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>about Jacob, like I wanted to make the effort to

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<v Speaker 1>go so that.

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<v Speaker 8>Do you think.

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<v Speaker 7>Chelsea would speak up and tell you though she was

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<v Speaker 7>upset about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now she would, I think after this whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>But I do really think I think she would have

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<v Speaker 1>told me ahead of time and she didn't want me

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<v Speaker 1>to go. Now, I will say this, she did say

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<v Speaker 1>that the dogs were total.

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<v Speaker 2>Pain in the ass.

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<v Speaker 1>And why with the dogs, Well, I think Chelsea didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want Luke to get sick, so she was staying away

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<v Speaker 1>from Luke. But it is true though Luke should have

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<v Speaker 1>helped you a little bit. I think, Marcia, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>You know what?

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<v Speaker 8>Sometimes things happened. I think your wife got sick only

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<v Speaker 8>so you can spend time with your son and Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>Marcia got thank Marcia, you know what. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>saying that, because honestly, it was a really cool weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>We had really an awesome time.

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<v Speaker 8>Touch Okay, one thing, it would have been great if

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<v Speaker 8>you had got the got them a whole hotel, whatever

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<v Speaker 8>you do with you if.

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<v Speaker 1>I if I euthanized them, I should have euthanized them.

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<v Speaker 2>This would be the reason to put them down. I

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<v Speaker 2>should I should have put them down. What's up, Mike?

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm doing fine?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 7>How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Good? Mike? This has turned into a version of am

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<v Speaker 2>I the a whole? That was just the a whole move?

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<v Speaker 2>But what are you serious? Speak on it? Mike? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you think I'm an a hole for what I did?

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<v Speaker 2>I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta stick with your wife. Sorry, Mike, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>happen to be a guy trying to hit on my wife,

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<v Speaker 2>are you no? Okay? I'm just making sure on that

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<v Speaker 2>one there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I should have stuck with the be home with

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<v Speaker 1>my sick wife, and she's my priority over my.

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<v Speaker 3>Sons in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my wife, she used to be.

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<v Speaker 7>A I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>She's kind of sweetheart. What do you think? Right there

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<v Speaker 2>with you? Let's hear what she says.

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<v Speaker 7>Actually, my wife agrees with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, do you have an imaginary wife? I can't hear anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Where is she at?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Honey, where you at? Sweetheart? Sweetheart? Where you at?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi wife? What did you want to What did you

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<v Speaker 2>want to say? Mike's wife? Which? What's Mike's wife's name?

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<v Speaker 3>Laura? Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>La, Laura? What are you? What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 8>I just think you she's gonna be homesick anyhow. So

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<v Speaker 8>the kid wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 1>So, okay, let me ask you. Is this guy just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to cause problems in my relationship?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think so?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Is he a good guy? Is Mike a good guy?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely, he's the best. All right, that's great. Hold on

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<v Speaker 2>a second, hold on, Kevin wants away? And what did

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<v Speaker 2>you want to say? Kevin, I think Chelsea would be

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<v Speaker 2>just okay, Kevin. Listener, Kevin, that's me, Mike.

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<v Speaker 8>I think I think Chelsea would be just fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah. I say that because my father passed

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<v Speaker 2>away few years ago. So for me, I would die

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<v Speaker 2>for my dad called me one last time and help me.

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<v Speaker 1>So that I'm telling you, you never know when the

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<v Speaker 1>last moment you're going to have a time to spend

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<v Speaker 1>time with your kid.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to make make every moment good. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>made a good.

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<v Speaker 1>And thank god, I came home and Chelsea was was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, alive and everything was good.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Joni? How you doing good? How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe you know that reference that's crazy? What's

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<v Speaker 2>going on? Jonny? I have a quick question for you, Mojoe.

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<v Speaker 8>Why do you think you were the a whole for

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<v Speaker 8>doing what you did?

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<v Speaker 1>Because because in the past my relationship with my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>I have not made her the priority and and I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like it was another one of those moments where

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<v Speaker 1>in the past it's been worse moments. And in that

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<v Speaker 1>I started thinking about that as I was driving, as

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<v Speaker 1>I got to zeb Rhodes exit Therenarian RB, I'm like God,

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't I should just turn around. And then I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Jacob was so excited when I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him, And Jacob does not seem like the type

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<v Speaker 1>that would not tell me the truth of the excitement level,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like that was the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why I felt that way, Okay, all.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, as a mother of three boys, and if I

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<v Speaker 7>were ill and I would be so thankful that my

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<v Speaker 7>husband did that for.

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<v Speaker 8>My son because of how you say your relationship is

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<v Speaker 8>with the.

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<v Speaker 6>Other two and not him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for you, that was amazing that you did that

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<v Speaker 2>for him and his boyfriend. I think that's a beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>thing that you did. So we had a great time.

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<v Speaker 8>You did absolutely the right thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time, and I love Chris and

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<v Speaker 1>it was so much fun getting a chance to hang

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<v Speaker 1>with those guys. It was wild. I will tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I have one thing though, I'm going to bring it

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<v Speaker 1>up as a topic this week. I think I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm allergic to my uh my grand dog.

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<v Speaker 1>They have a dog together, and that dog dog made

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<v Speaker 1>me itch and scratch. It's I don't even know it

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<v Speaker 1>like it looks like a mutt, you don't like any dogs. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but I started itching and scratching. I had hair all

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<v Speaker 1>over me. I was like, what the but I was there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was taking it like a champ. I was sneezing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought I was getting sick from Chelsea's only.

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<v Speaker 2>Know. Their house is clean. Believe it or not. Their

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<v Speaker 2>house is clean.

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<v Speaker 1>They've got a little couple too many figurines and things

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like they have. They have like they have

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy stuff all over the place. Talk about Joe

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<v Speaker 1>and his Star Wars stuff. These guys, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like crazy. But but they're cute. They're they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're two good, good guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I love them.