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Speaker 1: Rich Good morning, Madison, Hi, your morning. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I just feel like people need to stop being so sensitive,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I told my mom not

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Speaker 2: to kiss my baby, and somehow this has turned into

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Speaker 2: how I'm so dramatic, Mike, you know, like I've first

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Speaker 2: seen she she nodded, she agreed, Okay, I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to do it, and then I turn around and she's

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Speaker 2: kissing my baby anyway.

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Speaker 1: Your mom?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why is that don because germs?

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Speaker 2: Oh really that's actually yes, Oh my gosh. Children can

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Speaker 2: get so sick, like RSP and all these things.

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Speaker 1: Bodies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well no, I mean you really have to be

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Speaker 2: careful when they're newborn.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like kissing the baby on the lips.

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Speaker 2: Close enough, you know. When I said something, she's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: are you being serious? I'm like, yeah, I am. You know,

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Speaker 2: this isn't about feeling. It's about, you know, respecting a

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Speaker 2: boundary that I'm setting about my child.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: I can see your point of view, but I find

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Speaker 1: it troublesome that my is this your first baby?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my niece just had a baby, and she's almost

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Speaker 1: identical to what you're saying. She came over. I think

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Speaker 1: it was Christmas when she had the baby, right before Christmas,

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Speaker 1: and she came over and nobody was allowed touch it.

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Speaker 1: No one's allowed to get next to it. She's the

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Speaker 1: only one as far as I know, so far, she's

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Speaker 1: still the only one that's held the baby. And I

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Speaker 1: remember that when we had our first child, we were

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Speaker 1: very we see, we let everybody hold our baby, but

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Speaker 1: you have you're kind of freaked out about it. Then

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Speaker 1: we had a second child and we're like and then

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Speaker 1: the third child, you're like whatever, it's like a free

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Speaker 1: for all, right, roll around the floor, they're play with

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Speaker 1: lights like it, go right ahead.

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Speaker 4: She do get extremely protected.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It makes me wonder though, Madison, like, what's your relationship

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Speaker 5: with your mom? Because I feel like I would like

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Speaker 5: let my mom do whatever, But this seems like maybe,

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Speaker 5: you guys, maybe she's cross boundaries before and that's why

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Speaker 5: you're like red flag or what.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I think it's about, like, you know, knowing that the

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Speaker 2: Folue season is so crazy. I mean, my mom and

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Speaker 2: I are close, you know, It's not it's not about that.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't let anybody hold my baby without washing her hands.

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Speaker 2: And I just don't want anyone kissing them.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure, Mom. I know I keep on saying

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Speaker 3: the same thing, but she don't care. I think that's

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Speaker 3: probably okay. If it's your mom, she's probably gonna help

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Speaker 3: you take care of the baby. When when you get

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Speaker 3: home she wants to kiss a grand baby, I let

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Speaker 3: her kiss a grand baby.

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Speaker 2: I just it's, you know, it's a boundary. It's like

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Speaker 2: a clear boundary that I've set. And I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You guys are making me feel crazy too. I guess

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Speaker 2: like maybe I'm crazy. I don't know, But like now

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Speaker 2: she's not talking to me. She's supposed to watch my daughter,

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Speaker 2: you know, while I take my husband out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: It's his birthday tonight, And now she's not talking to me.

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Speaker 2: And I just feel like I'm actually being a good

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Speaker 2: parent here.

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Speaker 1: So when she watches your daughter, is she allowed to

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Speaker 1: kiss the baby?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: I don't want anyone kissing my baby.

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Speaker 1: There's something about holding a baby, just get up right

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Speaker 1: in their cheeks.

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Speaker 3: And isn't there some research too, like babies that are

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Speaker 3: held them stuff that that have much more a better

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Speaker 3: life if they're held and loved.

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Speaker 4: I don't think she's saying her mom can't hold her.

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Speaker 4: I think she just doesn't want her to kiss her, right,

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Speaker 4: Is that correct?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Exactly. Have you seen like the videos of the kids

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Speaker 2: who end up in the hospital with RSP and things

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Speaker 2: because they were kissed by other people.

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Speaker 4: I think they do freak you out with that kind

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Speaker 4: of stuff. They are being protective and it is a

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Speaker 4: boundary your mom will probably end up respecting. But it's

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Speaker 4: almost like it is like if there's one person that

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Speaker 4: can like maybe bend the rules for I would think

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Speaker 4: it would be your mom, But I mean it's your kid.

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Speaker 2: I yeah, I don't really care who it is. I

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Speaker 2: don't want anybody kissing my baby.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, so you're calling us to tell us that,

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Speaker 1: or do you want us to call your mom and

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Speaker 1: talk to her? Like? What do you are you just

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Speaker 1: calling the event?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: People are too serious.

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Speaker 1: She raised you, so she must understand. I would assume.

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Speaker 2: Well, I hope people weren't just kissing me on the mouth.

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Speaker 3: I think you or one of those people that had

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Speaker 3: to take the parenting classes before you have your first kid.

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Speaker 3: I had to take those two, and they scare you

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Speaker 3: so much about so many things, and for the most part,

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Speaker 3: you know, we're all going to be just fine.

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Speaker 2: I hope so, my Lord.

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Speaker 3: I'd loosen up the boundaries, but that's just me.

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Speaker 1: I'm probably alone on an island, all right, Madison, thanks

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Speaker 1: for calling in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Bye bye, bye bye