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Speaker 1: It's Star one on one three, it's Marcus back with

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Speaker 1: second date update. So for a win this morning, let's

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Speaker 1: bring our guy on. Kyle, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Yeah, I'm here, Hey man, good morning. So just

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Speaker 2: a quick explainer on second date update.

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Speaker 1: Kyle and I are going to call his date Natalie

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Speaker 1: because she has ghosted since their first date, and we're

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Speaker 1: going to try to figure out if we can get

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Speaker 1: him a second date or if something went sideways.

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Speaker 3: Figure this out.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna figure this out together. We'll have you on

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Speaker 1: the line, we'll mute you out, but let's set the scene.

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Speaker 1: So tell me about Natalie. I understand you guys met online.

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Speaker 1: How did the dinner go?

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Speaker 3: You know, I think the dinner went great. And she

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Speaker 3: was stunning, Like right off the bat, she was sharp.

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Speaker 3: She had an awesome dry sense of humor that I love, Okay,

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Speaker 3: and we just we got along great. We talked about

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Speaker 3: like different travel mishaps and our favorite dive bars, and

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Speaker 3: we really, honestly we bonded a lot over having siblings, okay,

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Speaker 3: and we called them chaos goblins, and I legitimately thought

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Speaker 3: we had an awesome night. But now here we are

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Speaker 3: calling you guys because I Yeah, the whole ghost thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: What's it like not being the problem children and meeting

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Speaker 2: the other non problem child.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's amazing.

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Speaker 2: I love it. But it was a good night.

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Speaker 3: Huh yeah, all around good night. I had no complaints,

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Speaker 3: no red flags, no nothing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's call her.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna we'll play a song, we'll regroup a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and we will give Natalie a shout and see what

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Speaker 1: she thought of the date. Okay, it's Marcus and we're

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Speaker 1: in the middle of second date update, chatting with our

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Speaker 1: guy Kyle. He and Natalie went to dinner in Hayes

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Speaker 1: Valley in San Francisco, which is a fantastic few blocks

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Speaker 1: of restaurants if you think it about a date night

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Speaker 1: or whatever. Now, Kyle, you were telling him about the

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Speaker 1: food off there, and that was pretty good. Conversation was good.

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Speaker 1: But she has ghosted. So are you ready to make.

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Speaker 2: This phone call?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready, all right, do it?

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Speaker 2: Deep breath, Here we go, go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm gonna try to figure out how

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Speaker 2: the date went from her perspective. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I was looking for Natalie.

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Speaker 1: Please Hi, Natalie It's Marcus from Star one on one three.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 4: Good?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Good morning. Do you listen to us in the morning?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you familiar with second date update at all?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I am great. Do you want to be on it?

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Speaker 4: Looks like I don't have a choice, do I?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Kina, I mean, unless you're not cool. All

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Speaker 2: the cool kids are doing it. I'm just.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Oh great, it is Kyle on the phone. Hey, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here, Dick, all right.

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Speaker 2: Let's do this, you guys. So Natalie Kyle had fun

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Speaker 2: on your date? Would like to go out again?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Did you ghost? That's my first question?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I may have. I may have ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did something happen? Did he do something? She's not

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Speaker 2: feeling it?

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Speaker 4: You know, within the first few minutes of the date.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh, it just got.

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Speaker 5: Really medical, you know, like he started talking about his

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Speaker 5: sleep apnea, this like earwax situation that he has a

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Speaker 5: mold he's keeping an eye on.

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Speaker 4: And you know, I came from pasta not a health update.

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Speaker 2: I see.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Kyle, did you overshare your medical issues?

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Speaker 3: I mean I talked about some things I don' don't

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Speaker 3: think I over shared. It was just conversation going back

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Speaker 3: and forth.

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Speaker 4: No, I feel like it.

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Speaker 5: Was a definite overshare. I don't know how many people

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Speaker 5: talk about ear wax on the first date, you know

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Speaker 5: what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 4: And then halfway through, yeah, he asked if I wanted,

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Speaker 4: like if I was interested in partnering with him for

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Speaker 4: a couple's cleanse. He wants to try.

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Speaker 2: What does that even mean? Like a dual enema?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 2: What is that?

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't sound like hot stone massage to me.

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Speaker 5: That sounds invasive when I already know about that I

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Speaker 5: waxing the mall, So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, that's like you. You you keep each other accountable

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Speaker 3: for doing just like a cleanse, like I've had friends

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Speaker 3: do it with their boyfriends and girlfriends to like.

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Speaker 2: Like a juice cleanse. Yeah yeah, yeah, Oh I went

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Speaker 2: elsewhere with that. Okay, No, like honestly, like.

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Speaker 3: They almost told me like it, like they told me

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Speaker 3: like it builds trust, Like you learn a lot about

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Speaker 3: someone when you're when your systems are in sync and

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Speaker 3: you're doing the thing like dietary things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're talking about just like an accountability partner,

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Speaker 1: not a full on and I'm a buddy.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I mean you never know you, Kyle. I

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Speaker 2: don't know. All of a sudden, I'm learning more about Kyle.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, just a lot. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: There are certain things you don't talk about when you

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Speaker 5: meet somebody right off the bat, and you know, politics, religion,

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Speaker 5: and I think medical records need to be added to

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Speaker 5: that list.

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Speaker 1: Sure, so, uh let me ask the question, though, I

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Speaker 1: feel like he likes you a lot, Natalie. Could we

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Speaker 1: try a second date now that we've got some self awareness?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I want to sink anything up

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Speaker 1: With him, all right, I thought i'd ask second date

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Speaker 1: update start one O one three