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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell You My Doves.

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Speaker 1: What's going on over there? All right?

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Speaker 2: So I love office drama and this and this woman

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Speaker 2: works in an office with a guy who has expressed

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Speaker 2: interest in her, and he's been making very subtle and

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Speaker 2: maybe not so subtle like moves towards her, including like

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Speaker 2: winking at her and then staring at her intensely.

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Speaker 3: That's creepy. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So the woman is a widow, but the guy is

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Speaker 2: married with two kids. And the kicker is he is

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Speaker 2: twenty one years younger than she is.

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Speaker 4: That's my favorite part.

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Speaker 3: You're kidding me? No, ouch, you don't.

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Speaker 4: Have to smack your microphone. He's quite shocked.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she's.

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Speaker 4: She's twenty one years older.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get it, girl.

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Speaker 2: And so she doesn't want to be a home record,

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Speaker 2: but she has thought about this guy and being with

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Speaker 2: him and suspects that the two of them would have

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Speaker 2: a good life together.

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Speaker 1: So she kind of is like, how do I I

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Speaker 1: gotta ask the question, she's twenty one years older?

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Speaker 3: Is she hot?

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Speaker 4: She's gotta be a babe, right, Like, she's gotta be

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Speaker 4: a total babe. Let's assume she is, because twenty one

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Speaker 4: years older.

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Speaker 3: She's got to be a babe. What's the question. Here's

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Speaker 3: here's what matters here.

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Speaker 2: She wants some advice on what to do and how

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Speaker 2: should she approach going when he tries to give.

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Speaker 4: You Listen, queen Mary, listen. Don't let the intrusive thoughts win.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's hot to I don't know, maybe you'd be

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Speaker 4: hot together, but it's not right. He's married, he's a creep.

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Speaker 4: Don't do it.

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Speaker 3: Tell his wife, seriously. I think it's talking back on

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Speaker 3: the iHeartRadio. W app Am I wrong? And I know

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Speaker 3: I don't like to like, do you know this stuff?

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Speaker 3: The stuff I have family history of this kind of scene.

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Speaker 4: Of course, be honest and be good, be true. Don't

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Speaker 4: get involved with somebody's mess over there. Don't do it.

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Speaker 4: There's other fish in the sea that are not attached,

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Speaker 4: not married, don't have that baggage.

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Speaker 2: Don't do it.

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Speaker 1: Some of the fish aren't quite as hot though, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, So like sometimes, yeah, just throw

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Speaker 1: that out there. I'm not to be a devil's advocate

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Speaker 1: against myself because I'm not for this whatsoever.

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Speaker 4: But we'll swim around for a minute.

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Speaker 3: You'll bump into all. She's an old grouper is what

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Speaker 3: she is. I mean, she's not like you know, we

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Speaker 3: don't know that she's that old years old than he is.

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Speaker 3: He might just be that young.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: But again, good for her, get a girl, but also

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Speaker 4: don't get it with that guy. He does not sound

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Speaker 4: like the kind of person you want to associate with.

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Speaker 4: But I will say she is probably in a tricky

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Speaker 4: position because being in I don't know, having like someone

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Speaker 4: coming on to.

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Speaker 3: You at work.

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Speaker 4: It sucks because if you're the person that speaks up

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Speaker 4: and tries to do something against that person or at

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Speaker 4: least maybe go to HR like, hey, this is making

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Speaker 4: me uncomfortable. Unfortunately, sometimes when you're the person that speaks up,

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Speaker 4: you can get a target turned on you because how

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Speaker 4: easy for is it for him to be like, WHOA,

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Speaker 4: I did not do that?

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Speaker 1: You totally needs to be investigated. If it's bothersome you

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Speaker 1: don't you don't just you don't walk away from it

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Speaker 1: because of that, right, you know what I mean? Because

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Speaker 1: otherwise that's that's nasty. That does happen in a lot

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Speaker 1: of workplaces.

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Speaker 4: But I agree with you, but I know.

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Speaker 1: You got to bring it up at least have a

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Speaker 1: fair investigation on it and talk to people about it.

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Speaker 4: I do agree. I just think that it is a

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Speaker 4: tough spot to be in because you don't want to

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Speaker 4: lose your job over some other loser who is making

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Speaker 4: you uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Michayla used to smack me on the butt occasionally. She

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Speaker 1: did huh hr laughed. It happened right in front of him,

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Speaker 1: because well, we had that kind of I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: that it's justified. And my wife even laughed at it.

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Speaker 1: I told her about it. She'd forgotten who she was around.

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Speaker 3: It was me.

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Speaker 1: She just we have that weird we have that brother

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Speaker 1: sister like, well, brothers and sisters don't swat each other

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Speaker 1: on the button.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that relationship to do. It was weird.

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Speaker 1: She gave it a little whack and then uh, and

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Speaker 1: that happened once and then she, oh, my gosh, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were mad. Really don't get anything like Matt.

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Speaker 3: I think it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Just we have that weird relationship. Now, I never swatted

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Speaker 1: her on the on the rear. I would never do

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Speaker 1: anything like that. I never even was even tempted. So

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Speaker 1: I don't totally get it. But if you have to

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Speaker 1: know her. I'm not saying it's justified, but that wasn't

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Speaker 1: gonna go to hr with it. She's Mikaela. She talked

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Speaker 1: about it on the air. I'm not you know, I

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Speaker 1: can call her right now and put her on. She'd say, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I remember that I did that a few times. You

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Speaker 1: deserved it.

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Speaker 4: It's one of those things where it's like muscle memory.

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Speaker 4: She just saw a mail butt in front of her

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Speaker 4: and just had to swat at it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess I glad it was my butt. Otherwise

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Speaker 1: let me speaking soprano right now. She was a hard

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Speaker 1: whack man. I'm still going talk back in the Iheartradiot.

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Speaker 1: Okay one too. If she wants to stop, if she

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Speaker 1: catches him, you know, winking at.

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Speaker 5: Her, simply could talk to dude.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's gonna be awkward, but there's to be a

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Speaker 4: lot simpler than any other method.

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Speaker 1: And if she does want it, she is the home wrecker,

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Speaker 1: not her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you what? By the way, what do

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Speaker 3: you what do you talk to him about? I mean,

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Speaker 3: what do you say? Notice it? She's staying at me

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Speaker 3: when I'm at the printer.

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Speaker 4: Hey, y psychopath, why don't you stop? I keep your

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Speaker 4: eye over there.

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Speaker 3: My eyes are up here. Do you ask him all that? Like,

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Speaker 3: what's your income? Before I consider this? I mean, what's

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Speaker 3: your credit score?

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Speaker 5: Okay, clearly we're missing the critical information.

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Speaker 3: Is he hot? I mean, if he's hot, hell, have fun, girl. Okay, no,

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Speaker 3: that's not that's not what we're doing here.

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Speaker 6: Twenty one years Wow, this guy got himself. That's not

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Speaker 6: even a mill. That's a guilt. A grandma would like

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Speaker 6: to know. But uh, I've never really been a fan of, uh,

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Speaker 6: someone being married, even though I have been a part

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Speaker 6: of it. But the husband asked me to be a

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Speaker 6: part of it. So that's a whole other topic and subject.

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Speaker 6: But at the same time, it's like I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, like, but it's just not right,

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Speaker 6: like break up with your wife or something. I don't know. Okay,

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Speaker 6: what was that country? I love you guys? You guys

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Speaker 6: piss I love it.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever saying yet? Break up with your wife

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Speaker 3: is my country? I told you some people are into that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So what if the guy has an open marriage,

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Speaker 5: or the and the husband have you know, a trufle

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Speaker 5: and they're looking for the third person to participate.

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Speaker 1: Just saying okay, yeah, we're really going down the road here.

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Speaker 1: I'll take one more on this. And it's the guy

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Speaker 1: that's asking a woman out. She's twenty one years older,

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Speaker 1: he's married with kids, and she doesn't know what to do.

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Speaker 4: You say no, let's be clear though. He isn't even

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Speaker 4: asking her out. He's like eyeballing her in some weird way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she kind of creepy.

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Speaker 1: Ye reminds me of what Doves does to me every

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Speaker 1: day in here, staring at me all the time.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she should call top Dog wokind a great day, guys.

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Speaker 3: Forget to my country.

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