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Speaker 1: We're back with second date update.

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Speaker 2: It really needs no introduction other than we're trying to

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Speaker 2: put people together after a first date that somebody botched

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Speaker 2: because you call in, you've been ghosted, and we just

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Speaker 2: try to figure some things out here in real time together.

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Speaker 1: Let's say good morning to Kyle. Kyle, how are you

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Speaker 1: are you there?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Yeah, no Kyle here, good one.

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Speaker 1: And guys, hey, man, you got it. You got it.

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Speaker 2: So we want to talk about Renee. I understand you

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Speaker 2: guys had dinner in San Mateo after meeting online, very

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Speaker 2: very basic dating in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: How was the date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we met up for dinner. Honestly, like dinner, I

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Speaker 3: mean it was great, Like I honestly thought it was

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Speaker 3: a really awesome first date. Like she's really funny, she's

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Speaker 3: super thoughtful, but like what God to me was man,

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Speaker 3: she was just so down to our earth and like relaxed.

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Speaker 3: It was just one of those first dates that just

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Speaker 3: went really well in my opinion.

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Speaker 1: The laugh Did she ghost?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I have, Like I've texted her a couple of times,

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Speaker 3: tried to like set up another date, and she just

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Speaker 3: hasn't messaged me back. And I don't know, I feel

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Speaker 3: like I'm being ghosted right now and I just want

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Speaker 3: to know why.

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Speaker 1: Sure, uh, all right, well we'll call her. You know this.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna put you actually not even gonna put you

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Speaker 2: on hold. We'll have you mute your phone. You can

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Speaker 2: listen in. Okay, we're gonna call her after this song?

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Speaker 1: Is that good?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 1: All right? But we'll do it next Second Date update

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Speaker 1: Star one O one three. We're doing Second Date update.

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Speaker 1: We're chatting with Kyle about his date with Renee. We

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Speaker 1: liked the fact.

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Speaker 2: Let me see what my notes say that she just

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Speaker 2: had a really good energy about her And Kyle, did

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Speaker 2: you feel like you could be yourself?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Like were you too much yourself? I guess that's the question.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what that means to be.

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Speaker 2: A weirdo at hard like I have to tell I

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Speaker 2: have to remind my wife on a regular basis.

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Speaker 1: You know you married a weirdo, right like I do think?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, no, I'm definitely. I mean if my

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Speaker 3: little quirks, I'm definitely a little weird. I got little

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Speaker 3: things that I do. Absolutely, I mean we're all humans.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well call her and try to figure some things out.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead and meet your phone. I'm gonna give her

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Speaker 2: a shout.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Renee. This

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Speaker 1: is Renee, Renee. This is Marcus in the morning. Start

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Speaker 1: one on one three. How are you?

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Speaker 3: Hi? Hi? I'm good.

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Do you listen?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I listen to you guys all the time.

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Speaker 1: Excellent.

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Speaker 2: Well we're doing second date update right now? Does that

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Speaker 2: mean anything to you?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes it does excellent.

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Speaker 3: I yes it does.

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Speaker 1: Been on a date anytime?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I have ghosted, and I think Kyle knows

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Speaker 4: exactly what he did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, Kyle, are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 2: I'm figuring she already knows you're on the phone. So

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Speaker 2: let's just all do this together, if you don't mind. Renee, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: Kyle Renee. So, Hi Kyle, Renee. You know why we're calling.

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Speaker 2: How was the date?

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Speaker 4: The date started off fine?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: And because like the restaurant, it was basically empty, So

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Speaker 4: like the restaurant felt relaxed and the date felt low pressure.

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Speaker 2: May I ask a question, man, It's just because I

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Speaker 2: feel like I have a bet in my heart.

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Speaker 1: Did did Kyle get too comfortable? Because he said you

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Speaker 1: were super cool.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's very nice. Yeah, I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 4: how to word this. He got comfortable in interesting ways.

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Speaker 4: I don't Okay, the restaurant was empty, and so Kyle

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Speaker 4: kind of he took his face to Okay.

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Speaker 1: When it needs you to elaborate, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to go ahead, Sorry, no.

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Speaker 4: It's okay. Well this is confusing, right. So the first

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Speaker 4: thing Kyle did was he stacked all the dishes, like

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Speaker 4: on the table really neatly for the server.

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Speaker 1: You mean, when you guys were Yeah, when.

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Speaker 4: We were done, he stacked all the dishes very neatly,

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Speaker 4: which was a considerate thing to do. So I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna say that it was a bad thing. But it

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Speaker 4: got a little weird when he actually stopped the server

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Speaker 4: and he kind of like gently corrected her on how

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Speaker 4: to carry the plate so that they wouldn't clink.

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Speaker 1: How did she take that?

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Speaker 4: The server just kind of stared at him for a

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Speaker 3: Sure, so that was kind of weird.

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Speaker 1: So he was so, well, hold on, just so I

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Speaker 1: have it straight. He was man'splating plate carrying correct.

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Speaker 4: Okay, no, no, there's more. So I went to the

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Speaker 4: bathroom at one point, and when I came back, Kyle hadn't.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't just sitting there waiting for me. He had

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Speaker 4: actually moved our table, not like super dramatically, just like

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Speaker 4: a few inches. But then he also moved another table,

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Speaker 4: and then he adjusted two chairs. And when I asked

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Speaker 4: him about it, he said he was fixing the functuay

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Speaker 4: of the restaurant because it felt off balance.

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Speaker 1: So he rearranged the restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he rearranged the tables and the chairs, and he

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Speaker 4: kind of explained to me that, you know, with the

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Speaker 4: place being so empty, that the energy wasn't flowing properly

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Speaker 4: and the tables needed to be more symmetrical.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 4: So it just kind of looked like he was quietly redecorating.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Kyle, you're hearing all this, right, Yeah, no, I'm here,

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm listening.

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Speaker 2: You could see how this transcends quirky and just gets

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Speaker 2: a little strange.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the way.

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Speaker 3: She's describing it makes it seem a lot worse than

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Speaker 3: what it actually is. Okay, Like I wasn't man explaining

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Speaker 3: how to carry dishes. She was carrying like seven plates

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Speaker 3: of ours, and I wanted to make sure that she

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Speaker 3: didn't sit there and fall, her trip or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: And that was just for safety purposes, okay. Like, also,

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Speaker 3: it is considerate to stack your your dishes and stuff

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Speaker 3: like that. I was a server for a long time.

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Speaker 3: Whenever anybody did that for me, I always thought, oh,

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Speaker 3: this is actually a good person, so I want to

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Speaker 3: do that for other people, right, And like, yeah, I've

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Speaker 3: seen plenty of people, Like I worked in the restaurant

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Speaker 3: people fall trip. There's accidents, slips, feel can get hurt.

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Speaker 3: So obviously, like I'm just trying to help this person.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't meant to be man splaining or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: I'm not degenerate like that. It's just me trying to

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Speaker 3: be helpful. And then yeah, don't get me wrong, I

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Speaker 3: moved some of the things around because look, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be honest with you. If you saw this restaurant and

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Speaker 3: how it was laid out, it was a disaster, okay,

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Speaker 3: Like there was no functioning throughout the restaurant. There was

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Speaker 3: weird corners that shouldn't have been there. Honestly, I don't

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Speaker 3: think I did a favor by helping and moving that

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Speaker 3: stuff around. Uh huh. It made it a much more

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Speaker 3: free flowing area. And honestly, I think everybody in the restaurant,

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Speaker 3: including the servers, felt it was a lot better than

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Speaker 3: what it was when I first walked in.

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Speaker 1: Oh huh, Renee, was it better than when you walked in?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't actually know. I guess it was fine.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't better or worse.

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Speaker 4: If it makes them feel happy, that's great. I guess

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Speaker 4: I really don't have strong thoughts on that. At the

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Speaker 4: end of the day, I just want to be on

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Speaker 4: a date with someone who feels like, you know, they're

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Speaker 4: focused on me instead of being you know, suddenly fixing

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Speaker 4: the room or creating their version of Func Shue.

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Speaker 1: Right, So no second date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's going to be a note for me.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Kyle, all right, hang on, Yes a lot.

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Speaker 2: Second date update back tomorrow morning after seven o'clock. We'll

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Speaker 2: do it again at nine o'clock and then, of course

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Speaker 2: you've got the podcast on the iHeartRadio app look for

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Speaker 2: Marcus in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update