1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell You What. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 2: So she just found out that her boyfriend had six 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: other relationships, including a wife. 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: What do you do there? 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 3: Can you imagine? This is impressive? 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 4: To be honest with you, I don't condone it, don't 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 4: support it, don't like it. But you have to give 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 4: the dude some props because how organized you have to 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 4: be to manage six different relationships including a whole other family. 10 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 4: I just don't even understand. Your man should run a company, 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 4: he should be doing something. 12 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: No, we're not praising him in any way, but this 13 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: guy's got to have a mad set of skills. However, 14 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: he got busted though, because the one woman his last 15 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: one is last fling, found out about and. 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: Found out about all of them. 17 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but it's weird because none of them know 18 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: about each other. No, and she came in as the 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: last relationship and discovered all of them, including a dude, yes, 20 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: and a woman who's married to that he has children. 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 3: Yes, it's diabolical. 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: I only heard about this stuff like in the nineties, 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: but it's for the you know, everything went rampant with 24 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: the Internet and social media and everything else. There's but 25 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: it's amazing how this guy can get away with it 26 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty six, over the last few years since whatever. 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 3: Yes, because you'd think that you get caught, right. 28 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: Because anybody like this, By the way, talk back in 29 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: the iHeart Radio app. 30 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: I do know somebody that. 31 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 4: Ye in Ohio, you do, I do real for real, 32 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: cannot and will not say. 33 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: Is it a guy or gal? 34 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 3: I don't even want to say, Well, you can. 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: Say that, can't you? A guy? 36 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 4: A guy that had a woman do this too? 37 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: Hands? 38 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:45,199 Speaker 4: So the woman was basically something similar kind of and 39 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: this woman would say that she was going off to 40 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 4: work and didn't actually have a job. She was just 41 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 4: managing her other relationships. That's for real. 42 00:01:55,200 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: That's messed up. I know, was that her job's. 43 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: No, that's no. I'm not going to even tell you 44 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 3: what county. 45 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 4: But this is for real. I'm serious. I actually do 46 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 4: know somebody who kind of went through something like that. 47 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: Wild but I do know for him first and foremost, 48 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm taking shots here. That's that's awful. I 49 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: can't imagine what that's like. How many different relationships did 50 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,119 Speaker 2: she have behind his back? 51 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 4: There were a few, and it's just crazy. But I 52 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 4: that person, I would not put under the category of 53 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 4: good time manager, Like this other person was that person 54 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 4: just you know, just got into things that they shouldn't 55 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 4: have gotten into. This person that had six other relationships 56 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 4: with a wife and kids and also a man, just 57 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 4: a lot of different things to manage and keeping it 58 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 4: all hidden for so long. 59 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 3: I just don't even understand. You have to be next 60 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 3: level kind of organized. 61 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 4: Imagine the Google calendar, trying to keep track of all 62 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 4: the anniversaries and the birthdays and all these times. 63 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: Hide your phone all the time, all the time. He's 64 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: got to be rich to have maybe those people. 65 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 4: Or just diabolical. Yeah, imagine if he used his evil 66 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 4: for good. All of the smarts that must come and say. 67 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 2: All of these people kind of are under the assumption 68 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: that this guy was their life partner, right or had 69 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 2: the ability to be. 70 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 3: The life yes was like at least a was a life. 71 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: Partner supposedly to one because they were married, right. Yeah, 72 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 2: How little time do you demand of your life partner, 73 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: like to be in a relationship just because he can't 74 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 2: be around all the time, so you must be so patient, Like, ah, yeah, 75 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: that's my husband, Gary, I only see him four minutes 76 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: a day. 77 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: That's just the way it is. He's really busy, he's 78 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: traveling all the time. It's awful, it's insane. 79 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: I do want him to teach me some time management skills, 80 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: because I feel like you've got some great ones to 81 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: have six people? Yes, well, I will say, Dobbs, there 82 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: may be six people involved. He's available if you want 83 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: his number. I'm sure we could find it. I'm sure 84 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: he might want more than. 85 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: He might do you. 86 00:03:58,880 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 3: It's just crazy. 87 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 4: And then on top of these six different relationships that 88 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 4: this guy had, he was still active on Tinder and Grinder. 89 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 3: How did he have the time and the energy. 90 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 4: I'm exhausted just managing me plus husband plus baby. 91 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: I don't I can't even wrap my little brain. 92 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: Around stories like this. I would never ever do anything 93 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 2: like that. But stories like this make me nervous, and 94 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: I have to pose the question, what would your reaction be? 95 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: Because these people had a reaction right when they found out. 96 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 2: It could be like a Hawthorn, And there's no way 97 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: you could picture Hawthorne ever doing anything like this. Hawthorne's 98 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 2: driving to work right now. He's probably just Chris U 99 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 2: s ob But like in My Wife, My Disney Princess, 100 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: I mean, just think about that feeling. You'd be like, 101 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust anybody, Like if I couldn't trust her 102 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: and you couldn't trust him, there's nobody the amount of 103 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 2: trust and faith I have in my wife, I wouldn't 104 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 2: be I mean, i'd be done with people. I'd be like, 105 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: just couldn't be like I don't say hi, Chris, Yeah right, 106 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: I mean that would be everything that was even said 107 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: to me would be a lie. 108 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 3: I don't know how. 109 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 4: I absolutely agree with you, and I don't know how 110 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 4: I would handle it. I can't even wrap my mind 111 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,119 Speaker 4: around it because and thankfully I. 112 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: Don't think I'll ever have to worry about anything like that. 113 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: But I just don't know how you do go on 114 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 4: and believe in anybody. Hear someone say that they're gonna 115 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 4: go to work and be like, are you really going 116 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 4: to work? 117 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: Can I see your w two? Can I see your schedule? 118 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 3: Can improve it? 119 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: We're gonna go home, put bright lights in our spouse's faces. Here, 120 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 2: we did a story in the end of the day. 121 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: We just want to be certain. Yes, we need three references. Yes, 122 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 2: do you have an alibi for every single day of 123 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 2: your life? 124 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: All right? 125 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: Well, if anybody has any thoughts on that, talk back 126 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 2: on the iHeartRadio app. If you've done something like that, 127 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: or it's been done to you, we would love to 128 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: hear from you as well. If you did it, you 129 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: might want to change your voice when you use talking. 130 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 4: I'd love to hear from someone who has done this. 131 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 4: I know somebody out there is hearing us talk about this. 132 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: That's me. I want to hear from you. 133 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: Oh, here we go. 134 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 5: So I have one to go with the story. 135 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 4: Uh. 136 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 5: I have my first girlfriend. We had kids together, and 137 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 5: she decided that she wanted to play games on the 138 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 5: computer with someone else. And that went from Hey, I'm 139 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 5: gonna go to the store and grab some more formula 140 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 5: milk and came back without the formula milk but jumped 141 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 5: in the shower right after. Sounds suspicions to me, of course, Okay, 142 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 5: one on two, well. 143 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 3: Hold on, just off. 144 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: She may have spilled the formula milk count or bloss 145 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 2: or something and she came in. 146 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: It was kind of smelling, you know what I mean? Right, 147 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: So about this guy with the six relationships? 148 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 2: Have you ever heard the song too Black Cadillacs by 149 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: Kerry Underwood. 150 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 6: I think it would be six black Cadillacs. Sounds like 151 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 6: a good idea to me. 152 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: Boy, somebody's running a steam press while they call top 153 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:01,559 Speaker 1: we're just compressing, dude. 154 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 3: I think I think he's serious. Yeah, it was like she's. 155 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 7: She is related to the multiple relationships, but not really. 156 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 7: But going off of what Sam said about what if 157 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 7: you used. 158 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: You're evil for good? 159 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 7: I think about that so often with people who do 160 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 7: what we think are crazy things or what we think 161 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 7: are bad things, or like straight up criminals that are 162 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 7: like hacking into IT systems and stuff like, Yeah, if 163 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 7: you channeled that for good, imagine what this world would 164 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 7: be like. 165 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, guys, it's so true. 166 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 2: You who just left that talk back, you need to 167 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: go get a job. Books on tape. You would tell 168 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 2: the best story. The way your energy this is the 169 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: way her energy is. I mean, that's awesome. 170 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 8: Good morning Kawano two. Yeah, I know someone like that. 171 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 8: My sister in law's father he had a family in 172 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 8: Ohio and he ran a business in Kentucky that was 173 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 8: like a flea market, was open on weekends, and his 174 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 8: wife and Ohio went out to the mail one morning 175 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 8: and found in order for child for his wife and 176 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 8: four children in Kentucky. 177 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 6: Uh. 178 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 8: If that weren't bad enough, he also had a mistress 179 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 8: dash stashed at his mama's house. 180 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 5: What who? 181 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 3: That kind of cut off? I need to know more 182 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 3: about that guy. 183 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 4: A mistress sash is stashed at his mother's house. 184 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: What's a mister sash? 185 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 2: There's like a whole bunch of mistresses tashed in like 186 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 2: a like a box. 187 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 4: I mean I pictured a singular mistress stashed at the 188 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 4: mother house. 189 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,679 Speaker 2: I thought it was like like a whole nother wing 190 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: of the house, Like that's the mistress stash. 191 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,199 Speaker 1: Don't go in there. Those are where the mistresses are. 192 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 3: Oh no, a wife and four kids? Four kids? How 193 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 3: do you people have the energy? 194 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: I'm real you guys, I mean I talked back and 195 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 2: I'll just take one more here. 196 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 6: Good morning. I know about a guy who has a 197 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 6: wife and six girlfriends and they all know about each other. 198 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 3: He's got like. 199 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 6: Fifty six kids and numerous grandkids, and they all like 200 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 6: he'll trade houses like one night here and one night there. 201 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 6: And I can't trade houses. And this guy ain't even attracted. 202 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 6: I don't know how he got all of them. K 203 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 6: one O two is my country. 204 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 2: I love it when people that's rosy when they leave 205 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: messages and is there at the very end, and. 206 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: They get fifty six kids, And I don't know how 207 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 1: they do it, Kim, one'll choose my country that it 208 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: is branding. 209 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 4: I'm so glad that they all consensually are participating in 210 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 4: that arrangement. But also, how, why, how does he even 211 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 4: want to do that? How do you have the time, energy, 212 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 4: the passion. 213 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: He's gotta have some bucks, fifty six kids or he's 214 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: got nothing. You gotta feel the same lie over and 215 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: over and over and over again. You gotta get good 216 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: at it. 217 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 7: Well. 218 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to this episode of I Tell You What. 219 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 8: Well. 220 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 2: You'll find more in the iHeartRadio app and anywhere you 221 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: get your podcast. Please rate, review, subscribe, download, chair and like. 222 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: Thank you