WEBVTT - Ella Ghosted Griffin on the Coast

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning. It's time for everybody's favorite

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<v Speaker 1>rehook up segment. I think that's what I'm calling this, Griffin,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Good?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I say re hookup segment because you've already connected with Ella,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's ghosted. We're going to try to reconnect.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about your date because we want to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why Ella ghosted. I'm assuming she ghosted. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's cute. I love the fact that you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out to happen in Bay on your date, so please

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<v Speaker 1>lay it out for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So she lives in Milbray and I look at San Mateos.

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<v Speaker 2>So we just decided to meet on the coast side

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<v Speaker 2>and romantic vibes and all that stuff, and we grabbed

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<v Speaker 2>dinner as if it's spot in the harbor, and then

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<v Speaker 2>afterwards she had like a short walk along the harbor trail, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>with the water and everything, and it was beautiful and

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<v Speaker 2>it was a really good talk. You know, there was

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<v Speaker 2>a kiss at the end of the night. Vibes were there, man,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just don't know why she just stopped answering

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<v Speaker 2>my messages, like all my texts and calls and I

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<v Speaker 2>trying not to be a mania call her too much,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you know, she's just not answering.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't Catfisher in any way? He performed Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like you are here? You say you are?

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<v Speaker 2>I am totally me all the time?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, no ten year old profile pick on Tinder or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I'm just going through all the boxes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fairly certain I didn't do anything. I talked to

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<v Speaker 2>my best friend and he's like, you just say anything, stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, did you say it? Your guy knows you,

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<v Speaker 1>He knows you, all right, Yeah, he does. Well, this

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<v Speaker 1>is this is great, man. I literally live right across

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<v Speaker 1>the highway, like you could have parked at my house

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<v Speaker 1>next time. Let's help, let's hope, let's hope this works out.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you hang on the line and then we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Ella after this song?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, all right, It's Marcus in the morning. We are

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<v Speaker 1>doing second date update and I've got my guy Griffin

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. This is so cute. You and Ella

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<v Speaker 1>went to the Happen Bay Harbor for your date what

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<v Speaker 1>a great idea.

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<v Speaker 2>It was awesome, and she's like, I mean, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get to say it before, but like she's just I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>she's awesome. She's like tucking her hair behind her ear

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<v Speaker 2>when she's listening to me, and like, you know, as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as she does that or the smell curved, her

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<v Speaker 2>fume came off, like it's just she's I'm in right.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my poor guy. We're gonna try to figure this

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<v Speaker 1>out because I realize she's ghosted. Let's give her a

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<v Speaker 1>call and see if we can. I'd love to get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. This sound like, this was pretty dreamy,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's do this. Go ahead and meet your phone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call it right now. You can listen to Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Ella.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Ella Ella.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you good? Good morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you listen to the show every day? Okay? I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a minute? Are you working right now?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I'm good. What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing second date update right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, you're the star of the show. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>kidding me? Have you ghosted on a date recently?

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<v Speaker 3>Yep? Okay, is Griffin listening in right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is okay? Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love it when everybody knows what's going on. This

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<v Speaker 1>makes my job so much easier. So ella, welcome to secondary.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Jez Griffin said he had a great time. Did

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<v Speaker 1>something did he do? So his best friend wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know if he did something stupid? Why did you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there were like two things that happened that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of threw me. And you know the Dan age, it's

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<v Speaker 3>easier to ghost than to talk to people about things

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<v Speaker 3>because you don't know what the reaction is going to

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<v Speaker 3>be when you barely know someone you know. But basically

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<v Speaker 3>at dinner, Griffin takes photos of his food. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>from multiple angles, like not just a quick shot, but

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<v Speaker 3>like full repositioning, like moving my wine glass quarter inch

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<v Speaker 3>for symmetry, you know. And it kept happening. So I like,

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<v Speaker 3>at a certain point, I was like, am I on

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<v Speaker 3>a date? Or am I assisting in like a CONTATCHO?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I got it? Okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? The only thing was that the only thing was

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<v Speaker 2>that it was the lighting in that place at the place,

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<v Speaker 2>a really really good lighting, and I figured that I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to waste it. I like to take photographs sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm sorry it was a lot. I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 2>to do so much, but I mean with the lighting

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<v Speaker 2>like that, you can't really waste that.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured, Griffin, you literally sound like you're taking group

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<v Speaker 1>selfies during girls not out. Oh my god, girl, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, and Griffin like one photo wouldn't have bothered me,

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<v Speaker 3>but I like five, you know, hit at a point

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<v Speaker 3>of like it was too I just appreciate aesthetics.

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<v Speaker 1>I just all right, stop talking. The lady's not done yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet sorry, I'm getting the vibe she's not done.

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<v Speaker 1>So Ella, was there something else? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>The other thing maybe me overthinking it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>But when we we like after dinner, we went to

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<v Speaker 3>just like kind of do a walk on the harbor

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<v Speaker 3>and Griffin we're just like talking about stuff, and he

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<v Speaker 3>brings up that he plays with a white noise machine

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<v Speaker 3>and a fan and a podcast like all playing at

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<v Speaker 3>the same time, and that you know, silence makes his

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<v Speaker 3>brain get loud, so he layers the sound. And when

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<v Speaker 3>he told me that, I literally like just stopped walking

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, all three to go to sleep

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, I just I need quiet to sleep,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know quiet. Yeah, It's one of those things,

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<v Speaker 3>is like it's not a big deal, but like if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking about like a future with someone that includes

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<v Speaker 3>like sleepover, so like if it feels like we're not

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<v Speaker 3>even sleep compatible, like from the start, it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>it's too much noise. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Griffin, are you ever anticipating a sleepover?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Okay, here's the thing. It's been a while since

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<v Speaker 2>somebody like slept next to me, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So the sound thing it developed after ahead of breakup,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it just became like a habit and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if someone's there. I don't need all of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you need need one of them? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Which will.

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<v Speaker 1>Pause? Pause? Okay? Ella? Can we can? You guys are cute,

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<v Speaker 1>so can we work through this somehow? Ella, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go bad. I'm gonna defer to you. I mean, can

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<v Speaker 1>you work with you?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like if we we can compromise on the podcast,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I can negotiate the fan, but like we got

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<v Speaker 3>to kill the white noise, so okay, And then as

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<v Speaker 3>far as food pictures go, let's just be aware of

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<v Speaker 3>how long the photo shoot goes on for it. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>like I can live with a photo or two, but like,

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<v Speaker 3>if it goes on too long, I'm gonna be blinking

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<v Speaker 3>aggressively at you. Okay, you know I'm over it.

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<v Speaker 2>How about two maps? That's it, Max.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're good here, wik So like, hold on, are

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<v Speaker 1>we getting a second date?

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<v Speaker 3>Ella?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I'd love to take you out on the second

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<v Speaker 2>date if you'd be up for it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we have a great time. The harbor walk

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<v Speaker 3>was actually nice, So I'm down for a second day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you guys, stand by for the cow bell of destiny.

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<v Speaker 1>We did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Dang dong, baby, we did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Second day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll call you right after this, Okay, yes, okay, so cute.