Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. It's time for everybody's favorite
Speaker 1: rehook up segment. I think that's what I'm calling this, Griffin,
Speaker 1: Are you there? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 1: Good?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: I say re hookup segment because you've already connected with Ella,
Speaker 1: but she's ghosted. We're going to try to reconnect.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what happened.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about your date because we want to figure
Speaker 1: out why Ella ghosted. I'm assuming she ghosted. I think
Speaker 1: it's cute. I love the fact that you guys went
Speaker 1: out to happen in Bay on your date, so please
Speaker 1: lay it out for me.
Speaker 2: So she lives in Milbray and I look at San Mateos.
Speaker 2: So we just decided to meet on the coast side
Speaker 2: and romantic vibes and all that stuff, and we grabbed
Speaker 2: dinner as if it's spot in the harbor, and then
Speaker 2: afterwards she had like a short walk along the harbor trail, yes,
Speaker 2: with the water and everything, and it was beautiful and
Speaker 2: it was a really good talk. You know, there was
Speaker 2: a kiss at the end of the night. Vibes were there, man,
Speaker 2: and I just don't know why she just stopped answering
Speaker 2: my messages, like all my texts and calls and I
Speaker 2: trying not to be a mania call her too much,
Speaker 2: but like you know, she's just not answering.
Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1: You didn't Catfisher in any way? He performed Did you
Speaker 1: like you are here? You say you are?
Speaker 2: I am totally me all the time?
Speaker 1: Okay, no ten year old profile pick on Tinder or something.
Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm just going through all the boxes. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm fairly certain I didn't do anything. I talked to
Speaker 2: my best friend and he's like, you just say anything, stupid.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, did you say it? Your guy knows you,
Speaker 1: He knows you, all right, Yeah, he does. Well, this
Speaker 1: is this is great, man. I literally live right across
Speaker 1: the highway, like you could have parked at my house
Speaker 1: next time. Let's help, let's hope, let's hope this works out.
Speaker 1: Can you hang on the line and then we'll call
Speaker 1: Ella after this song?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Sure, all right, It's Marcus in the morning. We are
Speaker 1: doing second date update and I've got my guy Griffin
Speaker 1: on the phone. This is so cute. You and Ella
Speaker 1: went to the Happen Bay Harbor for your date what
Speaker 1: a great idea.
Speaker 2: It was awesome, and she's like, I mean, I didn't
Speaker 2: get to say it before, but like she's just I mean,
Speaker 2: she's awesome. She's like tucking her hair behind her ear
Speaker 2: when she's listening to me, and like, you know, as
Speaker 2: soon as she does that or the smell curved, her
Speaker 2: fume came off, like it's just she's I'm in right.
Speaker 1: Okay, my poor guy. We're gonna try to figure this
Speaker 1: out because I realize she's ghosted. Let's give her a
Speaker 1: call and see if we can. I'd love to get
Speaker 1: you a second date. This sound like, this was pretty dreamy,
Speaker 1: So let's do this. Go ahead and meet your phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call it right now. You can listen to Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Ella.
Speaker 3: This is Ella Ella.
Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. How
Speaker 1: are you good? Good morning?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show every day? Okay? I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Do you have a minute? Are you working right now?
Speaker 2: No? I'm good. What's up?
Speaker 1: We're doing second date update right now?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 1: Oh no, you're the star of the show. Are you
Speaker 1: kidding me? Have you ghosted on a date recently?
Speaker 3: Yep? Okay, is Griffin listening in right?
Speaker 1: Is okay? Hey?
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1: I'd love it when everybody knows what's going on. This
Speaker 1: makes my job so much easier. So ella, welcome to secondary.
Speaker 1: Oh Jez Griffin said he had a great time. Did
Speaker 1: something did he do? So his best friend wants to
Speaker 1: know if he did something stupid? Why did you mean?
Speaker 3: Yeah, there were like two things that happened that kind
Speaker 3: of threw me. And you know the Dan age, it's
Speaker 3: easier to ghost than to talk to people about things
Speaker 3: because you don't know what the reaction is going to
Speaker 3: be when you barely know someone you know. But basically
Speaker 3: at dinner, Griffin takes photos of his food. It's like
Speaker 3: from multiple angles, like not just a quick shot, but
Speaker 3: like full repositioning, like moving my wine glass quarter inch
Speaker 3: for symmetry, you know. And it kept happening. So I like,
Speaker 3: at a certain point, I was like, am I on
Speaker 3: a date? Or am I assisting in like a CONTATCHO?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: I got it? Okay, okay?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: Sure?
Speaker 2: Okay? The only thing was that the only thing was
Speaker 2: that it was the lighting in that place at the place,
Speaker 2: a really really good lighting, and I figured that I
Speaker 2: didn't want to waste it. I like to take photographs sometimes,
Speaker 2: so I'm sorry it was a lot. I didn't mean
Speaker 2: to do so much, but I mean with the lighting
Speaker 2: like that, you can't really waste that.
Speaker 1: I figured, Griffin, you literally sound like you're taking group
Speaker 1: selfies during girls not out. Oh my god, girl, I mean.
Speaker 3: Listen, and Griffin like one photo wouldn't have bothered me,
Speaker 3: but I like five, you know, hit at a point
Speaker 3: of like it was too I just appreciate aesthetics.
Speaker 1: I just all right, stop talking. The lady's not done yet.
Speaker 1: I bet sorry, I'm getting the vibe she's not done.
Speaker 1: So Ella, was there something else? Yeah?
Speaker 3: The other thing maybe me overthinking it a little bit.
Speaker 3: But when we we like after dinner, we went to
Speaker 3: just like kind of do a walk on the harbor
Speaker 3: and Griffin we're just like talking about stuff, and he
Speaker 3: brings up that he plays with a white noise machine
Speaker 3: and a fan and a podcast like all playing at
Speaker 3: the same time, and that you know, silence makes his
Speaker 3: brain get loud, so he layers the sound. And when
Speaker 3: he told me that, I literally like just stopped walking
Speaker 3: and I was like, all three to go to sleep
Speaker 3: and you know, I just I need quiet to sleep,
Speaker 3: like you know quiet. Yeah, It's one of those things,
Speaker 3: is like it's not a big deal, but like if
Speaker 3: I'm thinking about like a future with someone that includes
Speaker 3: like sleepover, so like if it feels like we're not
Speaker 3: even sleep compatible, like from the start, it's just like
Speaker 3: it's too much noise. You know.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Griffin, are you ever anticipating a sleepover?
Speaker 2: Because Okay, here's the thing. It's been a while since
Speaker 2: somebody like slept next to me, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So the sound thing it developed after ahead of breakup,
Speaker 2: and then it just became like a habit and you know,
Speaker 2: if someone's there. I don't need all of it.
Speaker 3: I really don't.
Speaker 1: What do you need need one of them? Okay?
Speaker 3: Which will.
Speaker 1: Pause? Pause? Okay? Ella? Can we can? You guys are cute,
Speaker 1: so can we work through this somehow? Ella, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go bad. I'm gonna defer to you. I mean, can
Speaker 1: you work with you?
Speaker 3: I feel like if we we can compromise on the podcast,
Speaker 3: maybe I can negotiate the fan, but like we got
Speaker 3: to kill the white noise, so okay, And then as
Speaker 3: far as food pictures go, let's just be aware of
Speaker 3: how long the photo shoot goes on for it. You know,
Speaker 3: like I can live with a photo or two, but like,
Speaker 3: if it goes on too long, I'm gonna be blinking
Speaker 3: aggressively at you. Okay, you know I'm over it.
Speaker 2: How about two maps? That's it, Max.
Speaker 1: So we're good here, wik So like, hold on, are
Speaker 1: we getting a second date?
Speaker 3: Ella?
Speaker 2: Hey, I'd love to take you out on the second
Speaker 2: date if you'd be up for it.
Speaker 3: I think we have a great time. The harbor walk
Speaker 3: was actually nice, So I'm down for a second day.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys, stand by for the cow bell of destiny.
Speaker 1: We did it.
Speaker 3: Dang dong, baby, we did it.
Speaker 1: Second day.
Speaker 2: I'll call you right after this, Okay, yes, okay, so cute.