1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. It's time for everybody's favorite 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: rehook up segment. I think that's what I'm calling this, Griffin, 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: Are you there? Yeah? 4 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing? 5 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: Good? 6 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 3: Man? 7 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: I say re hookup segment because you've already connected with Ella, 8 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: but she's ghosted. We're going to try to reconnect. 9 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what happened. 10 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: Let's talk about your date because we want to figure 11 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: out why Ella ghosted. I'm assuming she ghosted. I think 12 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: it's cute. I love the fact that you guys went 13 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: out to happen in Bay on your date, so please 14 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: lay it out for me. 15 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: So she lives in Milbray and I look at San Mateos. 16 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: So we just decided to meet on the coast side 17 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: and romantic vibes and all that stuff, and we grabbed 18 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,639 Speaker 2: dinner as if it's spot in the harbor, and then 19 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 2: afterwards she had like a short walk along the harbor trail, yes, 20 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: with the water and everything, and it was beautiful and 21 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 2: it was a really good talk. You know, there was 22 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 2: a kiss at the end of the night. Vibes were there, man, 23 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: and I just don't know why she just stopped answering 24 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: my messages, like all my texts and calls and I 25 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: trying not to be a mania call her too much, 26 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 2: but like you know, she's just not answering. 27 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on. 28 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: You didn't Catfisher in any way? He performed Did you 29 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: like you are here? You say you are? 30 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: I am totally me all the time? 31 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: Okay, no ten year old profile pick on Tinder or something. 32 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm just going through all the boxes. Okay, 33 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,199 Speaker 1: that's okay. 34 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: I'm fairly certain I didn't do anything. I talked to 35 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 2: my best friend and he's like, you just say anything, stupid. 36 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, did you say it? Your guy knows you, 37 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: He knows you, all right, Yeah, he does. Well, this 38 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: is this is great, man. I literally live right across 39 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: the highway, like you could have parked at my house 40 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: next time. Let's help, let's hope, let's hope this works out. 41 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: Can you hang on the line and then we'll call 42 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: Ella after this song? 43 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 44 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: Sure, all right, It's Marcus in the morning. We are 45 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: doing second date update and I've got my guy Griffin 46 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 1: on the phone. This is so cute. You and Ella 47 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: went to the Happen Bay Harbor for your date what 48 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: a great idea. 49 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: It was awesome, and she's like, I mean, I didn't 50 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: get to say it before, but like she's just I mean, 51 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: she's awesome. She's like tucking her hair behind her ear 52 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: when she's listening to me, and like, you know, as 53 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: soon as she does that or the smell curved, her 54 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: fume came off, like it's just she's I'm in right. 55 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: Okay, my poor guy. We're gonna try to figure this 56 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: out because I realize she's ghosted. Let's give her a 57 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: call and see if we can. I'd love to get 58 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: you a second date. This sound like, this was pretty dreamy, 59 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: So let's do this. Go ahead and meet your phone. Okay, 60 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna call it right now. You can listen to Hello, Hi, 61 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: I'm looking for Ella. 62 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 3: This is Ella Ella. 63 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. How 64 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: are you good? Good morning? 65 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: Hi? 66 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show every day? Okay? I'm sorry. 67 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 1: Do you have a minute? Are you working right now? 68 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 2: No? I'm good. What's up? 69 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: We're doing second date update right now? 70 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 3: Hey? 71 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: Oh no, you're the star of the show. Are you 72 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: kidding me? Have you ghosted on a date recently? 73 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: Yep? Okay, is Griffin listening in right? 74 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: Is okay? Hey? 75 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right. 76 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I'd love it when everybody knows what's going on. This 77 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: makes my job so much easier. So ella, welcome to secondary. 78 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: Oh Jez Griffin said he had a great time. Did 79 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: something did he do? So his best friend wants to 80 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: know if he did something stupid? Why did you mean? 81 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, there were like two things that happened that kind 82 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 3: of threw me. And you know the Dan age, it's 83 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 3: easier to ghost than to talk to people about things 84 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 3: because you don't know what the reaction is going to 85 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: be when you barely know someone you know. But basically 86 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 3: at dinner, Griffin takes photos of his food. It's like 87 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 3: from multiple angles, like not just a quick shot, but 88 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 3: like full repositioning, like moving my wine glass quarter inch 89 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 3: for symmetry, you know. And it kept happening. So I like, 90 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: at a certain point, I was like, am I on 91 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: a date? Or am I assisting in like a CONTATCHO? 92 00:03:58,880 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: You know? 93 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: I got it? Okay, okay? 94 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: Is it? 95 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: Okay? 96 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: Sure? 97 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: Okay? The only thing was that the only thing was 98 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: that it was the lighting in that place at the place, 99 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: a really really good lighting, and I figured that I 100 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: didn't want to waste it. I like to take photographs sometimes, 101 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: so I'm sorry it was a lot. I didn't mean 102 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 2: to do so much, but I mean with the lighting 103 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: like that, you can't really waste that. 104 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: I figured, Griffin, you literally sound like you're taking group 105 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: selfies during girls not out. Oh my god, girl, I mean. 106 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: Listen, and Griffin like one photo wouldn't have bothered me, 107 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: but I like five, you know, hit at a point 108 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 3: of like it was too I just appreciate aesthetics. 109 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: I just all right, stop talking. The lady's not done yet. 110 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,679 Speaker 1: I bet sorry, I'm getting the vibe she's not done. 111 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: So Ella, was there something else? Yeah? 112 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: The other thing maybe me overthinking it a little bit. 113 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 3: But when we we like after dinner, we went to 114 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: just like kind of do a walk on the harbor 115 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: and Griffin we're just like talking about stuff, and he 116 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 3: brings up that he plays with a white noise machine 117 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 3: and a fan and a podcast like all playing at 118 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 3: the same time, and that you know, silence makes his 119 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 3: brain get loud, so he layers the sound. And when 120 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 3: he told me that, I literally like just stopped walking 121 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 3: and I was like, all three to go to sleep 122 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 3: and you know, I just I need quiet to sleep, 123 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 3: like you know quiet. Yeah, It's one of those things, 124 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: is like it's not a big deal, but like if 125 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 3: I'm thinking about like a future with someone that includes 126 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: like sleepover, so like if it feels like we're not 127 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 3: even sleep compatible, like from the start, it's just like 128 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 3: it's too much noise. You know. 129 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, Griffin, are you ever anticipating a sleepover? 130 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 2: Because Okay, here's the thing. It's been a while since 131 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: somebody like slept next to me, you know what I mean. 132 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 2: So the sound thing it developed after ahead of breakup, 133 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: and then it just became like a habit and you know, 134 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 2: if someone's there. I don't need all of it. 135 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 3: I really don't. 136 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: What do you need need one of them? Okay? 137 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: Which will. 138 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: Pause? Pause? Okay? Ella? Can we can? You guys are cute, 139 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: so can we work through this somehow? Ella, I'm gonna 140 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: go bad. I'm gonna defer to you. I mean, can 141 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: you work with you? 142 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 3: I feel like if we we can compromise on the podcast, 143 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: maybe I can negotiate the fan, but like we got 144 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 3: to kill the white noise, so okay, And then as 145 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: far as food pictures go, let's just be aware of 146 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 3: how long the photo shoot goes on for it. You know, 147 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: like I can live with a photo or two, but like, 148 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: if it goes on too long, I'm gonna be blinking 149 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 3: aggressively at you. Okay, you know I'm over it. 150 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: How about two maps? That's it, Max. 151 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: So we're good here, wik So like, hold on, are 152 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: we getting a second date? 153 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 3: Ella? 154 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 2: Hey, I'd love to take you out on the second 155 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: date if you'd be up for it. 156 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 3: I think we have a great time. The harbor walk 157 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 3: was actually nice, So I'm down for a second day. 158 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: Oh you guys, stand by for the cow bell of destiny. 159 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: We did it. 160 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 3: Dang dong, baby, we did it. 161 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: Second day. 162 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: I'll call you right after this, Okay, yes, okay, so cute.