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Speaker 1: Interns, John and your morning show and Happy Wednesday friends.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Intern John is my name, Sauce

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Speaker 1: Hi Hi Rose. Hello, Hello, good Eric. Back there, Hoodie,

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Speaker 1: so there a whole gang is here. We'd love to

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Speaker 1: have you joined the show. Nine ninety three three eight

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Speaker 1: to text DMS rep An at Wymus Radio. Hoodie has

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Speaker 1: sent me this, Sauce in your estimation, how long does

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Speaker 1: it take to get over a breakup?

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Speaker 2: I guess it depends on how long it is, but.

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Speaker 1: Let's say a year.

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Speaker 2: I'd say you can start resuming your life after a month.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there's that you subscribe to the thought a year

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Speaker 1: or a month for each year?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because even like, uh yeah, I feel like you

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Speaker 2: gotta give yourself some time to like be sad, but

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Speaker 2: then you gotta also give your self time to start

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Speaker 2: piecing back together. I always feel like i'd give myself

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Speaker 2: at least a month, but I haven't been with anybody

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Speaker 2: you know, quite some time, sir.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm wrong, I Rose, how about you?

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Speaker 3: I would probably say like a month or two if

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Speaker 3: it's a year, Yeah, a month or two is I

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Speaker 3: feel like fine?

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Speaker 1: I think that's fair. So hood he sent me this

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Speaker 1: they did study University of Washington. It's say it could

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Speaker 1: take three months to feel better. Yeah, self esteem may

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Speaker 1: take one year to recover, yes, and then four years

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Speaker 1: until they're just someone you used to know. I think

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Speaker 1: that to me seems yeah that I've never had four

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Speaker 1: years after a breakup.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Usually it's beIN a couple of months of like it's

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Speaker 1: a distant memory, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It depends on how like are you guys on contact

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Speaker 2: are still talking? That's uh, because I start the breakup

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Speaker 2: grieving process when I cut everything off, when we're done

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Speaker 2: with the whole, like, okay, so this is seriously over. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I got myself okay, and then once I get my

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Speaker 2: stuff back, if I left anything there, then that's when

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Speaker 2: I start.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So a study for the University of Illinois found

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Speaker 1: the average person takes four point one years for the

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Speaker 1: attachment bonds to fade away. What's coming. That's a long time. Maybe,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's like if the most small thing reminds

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Speaker 1: you of them, Maybe that's kind of like when when

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Speaker 1: those things stop popping up. Maybe that's probably fair, I

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Speaker 1: guess would love your thoughts over text nine ninety three

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Speaker 1: three eight it's intern Johnny Marty chef.

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