1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Johntay and rich our phone number eight seven seven nine 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: three seven one oh four seven the tax line text JJR. 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Whatever you want to say to nine six eight and 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: nine three, you gotta put jj R in front of it. 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: Listen to this relationships man, how about them? 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 3: Uh? 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm married. Yeah, I got the wife. It got 8 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: the wife. 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 10 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: And she complains to me, and I think you guys 11 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: heard parts of it about my calendar. 12 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 3: I complained to you about your calendar. 13 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 4: Because you don't use a calendar in the way that 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 4: normal people use a calendar. 15 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 3: You're right, I don't. It doesn't use anything like people 16 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 3: use anything. 17 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: I will put down on my calendar. Let's say, at 18 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: nine am, I will put down I'm taping the podcast today. 19 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 2: Three. I put that on that. 20 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 3: Why would you put that at nine and not just try. 21 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: I'll see you that nine. I canna look at it. Three. 22 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 2: So I kind of have my own way of doing. 23 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: Or I'll put something down on Monday that I know 24 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do on Friday, so it works in my 25 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: head somehow. And then my wife and I we have 26 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: an assistant pen that I don't really haven't talked about much, 27 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: but Penny created an email account for our calendar so 28 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: that Blake can see my calendar and I can see 29 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: her calendar. But nobody knows the password anymore, so our 30 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: calendars aren't sync. So Blake wants to sit down sometimes 31 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: and go over our calendars. And she gets so mad 32 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: at me when I book something and it's the same 33 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: time we have somebody else coming over, we have another appointment. 34 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: I get it. 35 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 5: She gets so mad because you're really making something kind 36 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 5: of easy, extremely complicated. 37 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: So the other day, you know, and my son played 38 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: basketball in Hawaii, and Arizona and Hawaii are on the 39 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: same time zone. 40 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: They never change. 41 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: But sometimes he comes to California to play, and my 42 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: wife goes to California and then I'll go on. 43 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 2: The weekends and we'll watch him play. 44 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:40,199 Speaker 3: Right, yep. 45 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: So she's in California a couple weeks ago and she's 46 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: making all these plans for stuff. She's putting them in 47 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: her calendar, and she says to me, Hey, I've got this, this, 48 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: and this happening, can you put in your calendar? I said, 49 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: no problem. Yesterday I tried to be a good guy. 50 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: She seemed a little stressed, and we had to take 51 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: the dog one of our dogs to the vet to 52 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: get vaccinated for something. She said, the appointments at two ten. 53 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: I go there at ten, I'll take the dog. You relax, 54 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: I take the dog two ten. They say to me, 55 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: your appointment's not till three ten. And my wife told 56 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: me too ten because it's a three ten, Like what 57 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: the heck? So earlier day before, I was getting an 58 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: IV drip, Blake says, I can get an IV drip. 59 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: I go, they're coming to till forty five. She goes, great, 60 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: and she goes, but the people we might get a 61 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: new roof We need a new roof us. The roofers 62 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: are coming at one and I go, well, you told 63 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: me you go twelve forty five. She will the roofers, understand. 64 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: So guess what when she made all these plans in California, 65 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: they're an hour behind you. So all hell broke loose 66 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: because of. 67 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: Her love throw. 68 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 5: This is you saying that your calendar system works better 69 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 5: even though you're not putting things into the time that 70 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 5: they're happening. 71 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 6: Her. 72 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I put them at the time they were happening. 73 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: In my brain. 74 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: They work out for really in my brain, But for her, 75 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: her little calendar and I would think that that would 76 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: change traveling. 77 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 2: I don't think they've worked that glitch out, have they? 78 00:02:58,400 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 3: I guess not? 79 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 5: But I mean you've the same wacka do system that 80 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 5: my wife Stacy has with her to do list. I 81 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 5: think it to do list like I've got, you know, 82 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 5: like pick up this thing, pick up that thing. Stacy 83 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 5: does not have that. She writes down the first letter 84 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 5: of the thing she needs to remember and makes a 85 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 5: word out of it. So it might be cars in 86 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 5: the C and the cars might stand for well, I 87 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 5: need to go, you know, talk to a coach about something. 88 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 5: The A might stand for you know, something else with 89 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 5: an A, But she makes a word game out of it. 90 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 5: But then she'll come to me and she's like, I 91 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 5: can't remember what the letter are was for? 92 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 3: And I know it's very very important. 93 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: See. I think that's the difference between her and me 94 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: is intelligence. 95 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: I feel like, wow, hers, it seems very high IQ, 96 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 3: but very maybe maybe. 97 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 2: You could remember it. 98 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: But when you don't remember it, it does not mean 99 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 3: my IQ. It just becomes a puzzle for all of 100 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: us to start. 101 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: I wonder if people have different calendar systems like that, 102 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: like for me, also, my alarm clock, my alarm clock 103 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: is set for I set my clock fifteen minutes fast 104 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: so that when I wake up and by the time 105 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: I make it into the bathroom, I feel like I'm 106 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: ahead of the game. 107 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 3: But doctor already know, like in your head that you 108 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: said it fifteen minutes earlier. I would just go back 109 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 3: to bed for another time. 110 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: But I don't. 111 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 7: I can relate to that because I have I have 112 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 7: two clocks by where I get ready, one literally right 113 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 7: next to me, and that is anywhere from twenty to 114 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 7: forty five minutes too fast. 115 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. I purposely don't know because I'm like, 116 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 4: I just know it's too fast, but I think it's 117 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 4: actually way too fast. When I look at it, I'm like, 118 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 4: plenty of time, So. 119 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: You do you do it? But then you're like, I 120 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: got plenty of time. Whereas I do it. I get up, 121 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: I'm already up, and I look, oh wow, I have 122 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: plenty of time. Like I came in this morning, Rich 123 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: and I said, man, I don't get it. I woke 124 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: up so early this morning. I can't believe I'm coming 125 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: in at the time I'm coming in. He's like, go, 126 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: what'd you do? I was like, well, it wasn't the 127 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: hot tubble lot longer than normal because it was so 128 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,679 Speaker 1: comfortable and I knew I had plenty of time, right. 129 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 3: Right, So you just kind of sabotaging yourself. 130 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: I am, I am, But anyway, I had such I 131 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: don't know what's the word I'm looking for. Although calender joy, 132 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: calendar joy, so much calendar joy. But I also she 133 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: was so frustrated that I felt bad. I couldn't really 134 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: have total right. 135 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 3: Was it calendar joy or was it the joy of 136 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 3: being right. 137 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: That one? 138 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? To think about it, well. 139 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't right. I wasn't right. I was just more 140 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: like satisfied that her system didn't work. 141 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 5: Persistent like you, because she's going off on you for 142 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 5: your really kind of crazy system. Yours is crazy, but 143 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 5: it's efficient for me. You're not late for me stuff. 144 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 6: I mean, I think I can check you tell you, 145 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 6: But I got going on my calendar tomorrow. It makes 146 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 6: no sense anybody else. I have a pot. I had 147 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 6: a podcast schedule for today. Yeah, I'm taping it three, 148 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 6: but I had it down for Sunday. But I know it. 149 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 2: Sense, I know, but it was no sense. 150 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 3: Your poor wife. 151 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: That's that's how we're good for oh, I have a 152 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: lunch today and tomorrow at the exact same time, at 153 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: the exact same place, two days in a row. 154 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,239 Speaker 2: I'm pretty excited about that because I like the food. Anyway. 155 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: That's just the way my little system works. 156 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: If you've got a crazy calendar system that works for you, 157 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: call us at eight seven seven nine three seven one 158 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: oh four seven, or text us text JJR and your 159 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: system and we'll call you and get you on there 160 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: to hear about it. Or maybe it's an alarm clock system, 161 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: or maybe it's a really bizarre system like Rich's wife. 162 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 2: That's great.