1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand, van. 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 2: Halen's self titled debut album, released on this day, nineteen 3 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 2: seventy eight, forty eight years ago. I could go for 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: some more of that. What an it tru right? But 5 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: oh man, so good, good, good stuff. That is a 6 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 2: debut album. That is a debut album. Two cover songs. 7 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 2: Remember when every album had to have one cover tune 8 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: on it, And that's the safety right in case nobody 9 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: likes her stuff, then there's always going to be everyone 10 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: wants to sing along to a cover tune. So they 11 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: released the cover tune is the single for safety. They 12 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 2: did that on Van Halen's debut but like the band 13 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: took off. Yeah, that's true. Ice Cream Man was a 14 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: cover two James caps You have a Lasting Man stand 15 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 2: as she now famous, Dancy satisfied? All right? Rock Show's 16 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: over KFI AIMS six forty life everywhere on the iHeartRadio app. 17 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: Young people are not dating any longer. We're in the 18 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 2: midst of a dating recession. Uh. Last year, fifty four 19 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: percent of high school seniors never went out on a date, 20 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 2: not one date. High school seniors not one date. Over 21 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: half of all high school seniors reported to ever go 22 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: out on a date. High school dating has fallen fifty 23 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 2: percent since nineteen eighty, so it's at a forty year 24 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: all time low. And what happens is when high schoolers 25 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 2: don't know how to date, it's a real problem when 26 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 2: you get out of high school because there really is 27 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: no dating in college. There's no need to date in college. 28 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: You're living in a hotel of single women who are drunk. 29 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 2: That's what a dormitory is, so you don't even need 30 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 2: to leave, like dating is going upstairs. That's pretty much 31 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: what dating is in college. That's gonna be good at college. 32 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: But this is a real problem, and I've seen this 33 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: with my own nieces. My brother has five children, and 34 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 2: his two youngest are They were like in their early twenties, 35 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 2: and one of them moved since he's in North Carolina. 36 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 2: The youngest moved to southern California and went to school 37 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 2: in Burbank for a while and stayed with me for 38 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: a little bit of time as well, and we got 39 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: really close and it was great. But she was single 40 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: and trying to be a in Burbank, and I learned 41 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: very quickly that she like and I met a lot 42 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: of her friends, all of her friends, they have absolutely 43 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 2: no idea what a date is. They're in their twenties 44 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: and they don't know what dating is. They have no 45 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: idea what a date is. And I would constantly like 46 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: argue with her, trying to be a good uncle. I'm like, 47 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: a date has a beginning, a middle, and an end, 48 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 2: and there is no obligation to go out with the 49 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: same person again. And you ought to be dating a lot. 50 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: You're a young woman in your twenties and you are 51 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: saying that you ultimately see yourself as a married woman 52 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: with children. You want a family, right, And it's so 53 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 2: funny because you ask young women this all the time. 54 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: You want to have a family. Oh sure, one day, Okay, 55 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: you need to work on that one day right now. 56 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: I don't think women completely understand the timeline. So once 57 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: you're out of high school, when you should be dating 58 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 2: for fun. After high school, you should be dating for life. 59 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: I mean, you can go out with the girls, but 60 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: if you're going out with a boy, there should be 61 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: a purpose to every single date. And you should be 62 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 2: dating many, many boys. And it's very important that all 63 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 2: the boys know you'll be out on a date with 64 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: another boy tomorrow night. Very very important. Women today want 65 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: to hide that. They're like, oh, I'm dating this guy, 66 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 2: but I want to see this other guy, so I'm 67 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: going to turn off my location on my phone. Don't 68 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: turn off the location on your phone. Let the world 69 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 2: know that you're seeing another boy, most especially the boy 70 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: you were with last night. Right, boys need to know 71 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 2: that you're in demand, that you're a hot commodity, you're 72 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: a hot property. A lot of boys want your attention. 73 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: That's very very important. That makes you very valuable. You 74 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: don't have to sleep with every guy, but you know what, 75 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: it's none of anybody's business what you do. So let 76 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 2: let everybody wonder. The reality is everybody wants your attention. 77 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 2: Everybody wants to have you in the next to him, 78 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: in the booth, in the restaurant, or at the in 79 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: and out or sitting in the car. Right, everybody wants her. 80 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 2: That makes you very very attractive and very very valuable. 81 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: And a lot of young people don't know how to date, 82 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: and it's evidence now in this dating recession. So there's 83 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 2: a lot of single women that are headed into Valentine's 84 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 2: say Valentine's Day, by the way, five days away and 85 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: they literally do not know how to date. They don't 86 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: know what a date is. They don't realize. And it's 87 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: not just young women. My sister in law is in 88 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: her forties and she has no idea what a date is. 89 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: We have this argument all the time. Well, we didn't 90 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 2: go out on a date. We just took a walk 91 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 2: down in the harbor. That's a date. Anytime a boy 92 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 2: asks for your attention, that's a date. It doesn't have 93 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: to be at a coffee shop, it doesn't have to 94 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 2: be a dinner, it doesn't have to be anywhere. Particularly, 95 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: it's a concept of time. Boys don't need girls attention. 96 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 2: We have friends. If we're asking a girl to go 97 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: do something, do go see something, to go somewhere, we're 98 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 2: asking for their time and attention. We don't want to 99 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: hang out with girls for no reason. We want to 100 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 2: hang out with girls because we want their attention. And 101 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: girls are like, wow, I mean it really wasn't a date. 102 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 2: Well what was it. Well, we just went for a 103 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 2: walk and we talked. Okay, that's a date. So fascinating. 104 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: So yeah, So now we'll have an entire more than 105 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 2: half of everybody that's graduating high school right now, in 106 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: America will never have been on a date and don't 107 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: even know what it's like to be on a date. 108 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 2: And that will get even more convoluted as we get 109 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 2: into the twenties, when young people in their twenties think 110 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 2: that dating means going steady, and going steady means and 111 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: being a boyfriend is being engaged, and it's all messed up. 112 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: The terms really matter. It doesn't matter so much for 113 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 2: guys because they'll learn the terms along the way, but 114 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,119 Speaker 2: the girls need to define the terms. And remember my rule. 115 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: You should be dating in high school right. People should 116 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 2: ask you to go to a movie, to go out 117 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,239 Speaker 2: for soda, to go to dinner, to go to a diner, 118 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: to go to in and out, to go do something, 119 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: go to the beach. Those are dates. And if you 120 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: have a boy that you're sweet on, he can be 121 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 2: your boyfriend. Cherish those years because they come to an 122 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: end for a young woman under the lou Penrose rules. 123 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: The lou Penrose rule is at the age of twenty one, 124 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: it ends for a single woman, and there is no 125 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: such thing as a boyfriend. After the age of twenty one, 126 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: no such thing exists. Boyfriend is a lyric in a 127 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: nineteen fifties pop tune written for fifteen year old girls. 128 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 2: As a single woman after the age of twenty one, 129 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 2: there are only three things in your life. There is 130 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: an acquaintance, there is a fiance, and there is a husband. 131 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: There are no other people. Now, you may be spending 132 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: a lot of time with an acquaintance of yours. You 133 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: may be sleeping with your acquaintance, but he is an 134 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: acquaintance nothing more until he's a fiance. Then he's something. 135 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 2: He's a fiance, not a boyfriend, and then he's a husband. 136 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 2: So when you come to that realization, you will have 137 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 2: a better understanding of what dating is and how you 138 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 2: should have been doing it when you were in high school. 139 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 140 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, big changes at KFI. The announcement was earlier today 141 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: that the Conway Show goes now six to ten and 142 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: John Cobelt moves to afternoon Drive. So that's a big 143 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: changes in the afternoon and it's interesting. It looks a 144 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 2: lot like the way it did before they made big 145 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 2: changes to KFI. So this is kind of like going 146 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 2: full circle pretty much. And what's fascinating is we pay 147 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: people to provide us that level of consultation. That's what 148 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 2: you ought to do is undo what you did. So 149 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 2: that's great, fantastic and actually really big news for monks 150 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: and merrill to extremely talented Southern California voices who will 151 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 2: now be available to noon to three on kf I 152 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: M six forty. 153 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 3: Luigi, Can you fathom the depth of waste of time 154 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 3: and energy you're giving to this bugs, buddy guy, I mean, 155 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 3: come on, there are so many more important things to 156 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: talk about. 157 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: Oh, I agree with you. 158 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 4: It was forty eight years ago today. 159 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: Listen to that tone. Just unbelievable. Getting that tone in 160 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 2: nineteen seventy eight is astounding to me, it really is. 161 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 2: I mean, the technology was not there to provide that 162 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: level of tone. So really you got to put Eddie 163 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: Van Halen up with Les Paul in the electronics of 164 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 2: the equipment he was using. Yeah, on this day in 165 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: nineteen seventy eight, Warner Brothers Records released Van Halen, and 166 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: you knew exactly where you were first time you heard it. 167 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 3: Sorry, lou it's Christian Vista. 168 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: Thank go listen to Van Halen. 169 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 2: Well, you were not in Vista. 170 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 5: I worked at the age of thirteen I believe engraving 171 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 5: cross pins at a Jeurly store, and then after that 172 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 5: I worked at a bicycle store. There was no paperwork. 173 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 5: He just went and got a job later. 174 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: That's it. It's called gentrification. 175 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 6: They're moving into the barrios because they find it cool. 176 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 2: Nobody's moving into the barrios. People are trying to get 177 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 2: the hell out of the barrios. But I appreciate the 178 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 2: call the the teenager. We're talking about the teenagers here, 179 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: young kids, high school age kids. Fifty four percent of 180 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 2: high school seniors now will say they have never been 181 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: on a date, never been on a date. And we're 182 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 2: getting close to Valentine's Day, and I had to help 183 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 2: single women. Single women are realizing the timeline. This is great. 184 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 2: Here is a woman, she's on social media. This video 185 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 2: went viral and she's thinking out loud about something that 186 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: many of us fully understand. But it's really important for 187 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 2: single women to fully understand this. 188 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 7: Okay, realistically, if I want kids, fib out twenty eight, 189 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 7: but I want to be married for probably two years 190 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 7: before having kids. I need to have a husband and 191 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 7: be married by twenty six. 192 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, see how that works? Like this is exactly the 193 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 2: conversation that I would have with my niece. And she 194 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 2: was living with us for a while and then COVID 195 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 2: hit and she was working at dry bar in Beverly Hills, 196 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: and I don't know if you remember, like the salons 197 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 2: were the last to open up, and even the ones 198 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 2: that opened up, you weren't allowed to use a hair 199 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 2: dryer and dry bar that's all there is. There's no 200 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 2: cutting collar in there. People pay to go just have 201 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 2: my niece blow dry your hair. So she was on 202 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 2: like COVID relief money for the longest time, so she 203 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 2: would just sit in my kitchen and wait for the 204 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: checks to come. I think it was probably the highest 205 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: she's ever made. But so we would have these conversations 206 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: because none of her dates were working out, and she 207 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 2: was one of these young people that like in her 208 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 2: brain at twenty four, she's like, yeah, I want to 209 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 2: be married and have children. All right, how old do 210 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: you think you'll be when you're a mom? I don't know, 211 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: like not now, okay, I'm just like, you want to 212 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: be in your thirties. Oh no, no, I want to 213 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 2: be a young mom. Okay, what like twenty eight? Yeah, okay, 214 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: that and you want to have a baby right away. No, 215 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 2: I want to be married to my husband, enjoy the 216 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: honeymoon year. Like the honeymoon year is a year, right 217 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 2: all right? So now we're down to twenty six okay. 218 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 7: And then I'm going to be engaged for probably about 219 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:02,439 Speaker 7: a year, you know, to plan the wedding and do 220 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 7: all that stuff. So I need to be a fiance. 221 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 7: I need to be engaged by twenty five. 222 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 2: That's right, want to be the engagement should be a year, 223 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 2: don't you want to be celebrated and fed it. You've 224 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 2: got to get photographs. You got to show all your friends. 225 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 2: I mean, you got to show off. You gotta have 226 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: everyone see the ring. That's gonna take some time. What 227 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 2: good is being engaged unless everybody knows you're engaged. That's 228 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 2: the whole fun of being engaged. So what was the 229 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: age then you thought that you'd probably be a mom Oh, 230 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: twenty eight okay, So now back that up to twenty six. 231 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 2: That means that you want to be engaged per year 232 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 2: twenty five for how old are now? Right? So, based 233 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 2: on your own timeline, you should be in the back 234 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 2: half of your engagement year right now. 235 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 7: But then you know, usually before you get engage, you're 236 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 7: probably the person for about two years. I feel like 237 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 7: that's a good mount. 238 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 2: No, actually, eighteen months is the lou Penrose rule. Uh, 239 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: don't go a day over eighteen months. And if you're 240 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: dating somebody, you should be dating other people. I mean 241 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: you literally should be dating other people the weekend you're 242 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: proposed to. Under Lulu Penro's rule, if you expect there 243 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 2: to be a proposal on Valentine's Day, then you should 244 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 2: have been out on a date with another suitor. If 245 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: not the night before, certainly the week before. 246 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 7: But then you know, usually before you get engage, you're 247 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 7: probably dating the person for about two years. I feel 248 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 7: like that's a good mount. That means that I'm going 249 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 7: to have to basically meet this person by twenty three. 250 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's worked, she's she's working the clock backwards very 251 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: very well. This is a very healthy exercise. Uncomfortable as 252 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 2: it is for her, it's a very healthy exercise. 253 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 7: Basically meet this person. Hi, twenty three. You wait a second, 254 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 7: I'm very much single, So how is this gonna work? 255 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 7: I have to have to meet someone tomorrow to have 256 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 7: this be my life. 257 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: That's right. If you want to be married with children, 258 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: by the time you're thirty. You need to meet the 259 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 2: person that is, that is that's gonna marry you, that's 260 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: gonna it's gonna work out. You gotta like him. He's 261 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: gonna like you enough to propose and put a ring 262 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 2: on that finger tomorrow. If your twenty first birthday was yesterday. 263 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 2: That's the timeline based on your own projection. Now you 264 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 2: add into that the statistics. If you're single in America 265 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: and not married by the time you're thirty, your odds 266 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 2: of being proposed too drops to twenty percent one in five. 267 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 2: You don't get an engagement date by the time you're 268 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 2: thirty five, it drops to fifteen percent fourteen point seven. 269 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 2: It's over not happening, So get the work girls. Valentine's 270 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 2: Day is five days away. If you don't get a 271 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 2: ring in a date, you kick him to the gutta 272 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 2: and find yourself a nutter. 273 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 274 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 2: Hey lou can you please tell me with the new 275 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: change what hours steffusche, can you tell me what hours 276 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 2: he's going to be working which shift? Appreciate the call. 277 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm not in charge of scheduling that anymore. Here at 278 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 2: KFI uh fush you have a clue as to where 279 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 2: audience wants to know where you're going. 280 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 6: Well, uh, mine's pretty easy. I am not changing one iota. 281 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 6: I'm still gonna be here from three to ten. The 282 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 6: only difference is it'll just be the one show, the 283 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 6: Conway Show. But I'll still be here, same time, same 284 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 6: you know place. See that there's a whole Foosh fan 285 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 6: club out there. 286 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 2: There you go. I love it. Everybody's a warned to 287 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 2: know that you're gonna be here, and I'll be here tomorrow. 288 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 2: But if I'm the next time i'm here, I will 289 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 2: be sitting in for the vacationing Tim Conway Junior. I 290 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: think that will be the right way to say it. 291 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: If that's a if, that's what's happening. All right, So 292 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: here's team usay Curler. This will be the next insufferable 293 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 2: part of our lives. It's always something. We're never not 294 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 2: fighting as a society about something. And we were fighting 295 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 2: about the decision of putting Bad Bunny in the super Bowl. 296 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 2: Then we were fighting about which one we can watch? 297 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 2: Do we have to watch Bad Bunny? Can we watch 298 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: Kid Rock that? Now we're fighting about what he sang 299 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 2: about and now that's over. So the next fight will 300 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 2: be what the athlete said at the press conference after 301 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 2: they won the gold medal. This will go on for 302 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 2: another couple of weeks. And by the way, you can 303 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 2: catch the latest from the Winter Olympic Games live from 304 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 2: Milan free on the iHeartRadio app. Here is Team USA 305 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 2: athlete Rich Roohoner. He is part of the curling team, 306 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 2: which sentends me, I'm getting into curling and I can't 307 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 2: believe we're doing so well as Americans who do. This 308 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 2: is like a Scottish thing curling. If you've not seen it, 309 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 2: it's pretty cool. They basically vacate the hockey rink and 310 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 2: hand it over to the curlers and they set up 311 00:19:56,520 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 2: an ice shuffleboard cord effectively, and they roll a flattened 312 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 2: bowling ball made a granite called a stone. It's got 313 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 2: like an old iron handle on it, like from the 314 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 2: ironing board iron, and it's a piece of a granite 315 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 2: and it's really smooth and they roll or they move 316 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 2: it on the ice. They slide it on the ice, 317 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 2: and then they hand a guy a swifter like you 318 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 2: get at Costco, but without the swifter pad. So you 319 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 2: swift in front of the stone that's sliding, making the 320 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 2: ice melt, and that curls the stone into the shuffleboard 321 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 2: court that you want to go for. So it's a 322 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: lot of fun and it's catching on and the Americans 323 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: have figured out how to do it. And of course 324 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: one of the Team USA curling guys is from Minnesota. 325 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: That would make sense, but they don't know how to 326 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 2: shut up. They don't know how to get out of 327 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 2: their own way. You're like, one of the coolest sports 328 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: that Americans never heard of is now becoming a big 329 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 2: thing and we're winning. You can't help yourself, but talk 330 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 2: about public policy on interior immigration enforcement. 331 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 8: First of all, like to say, I'm proud to be 332 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 8: here to represent Team USA and to represent our country, 333 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 8: but we'd be remiss if we didn't at least mention 334 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 8: what's going on in Minnesota and what a tough time 335 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 8: it's been. 336 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: No, you're wrong, you would be remiss. I am a 337 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 2: professional talk show host. You would be remiss. You do 338 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: not have to mention what's going on in Minnesota at all. 339 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 2: Why are you bringing that up? Nobody asked you about it. 340 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 2: What are you doing? Be clever, Be quiet? 341 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 8: But we'd be remiss if we didn't at least mention 342 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 8: what's going on in Minnesota and what a tough time 343 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 8: it's been for everybody. This stuff is happening right around 344 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 8: where we live, and what's happening in Minnesota is wrong. 345 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 8: There's no shades of gray. It's clear. 346 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 2: Okay, it's not clear. Don't speak to me in absolutes, 347 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 2: and don't let sure me and who you're talking to. 348 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 2: You're talking about Title eight of US Code on immigration, 349 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 2: Like nobody wants to hear about that. 350 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: In Italy, do. 351 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 2: You know what the penalty is for entering Italy illegally? 352 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 2: Two years in prison. So please stop. It's so foolish 353 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: of you to go here. This is not the proper 354 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 2: platform and the world doesn't need to hear any of this. 355 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 2: And you're also wrong. 356 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 8: And I really love what's been happening there now with 357 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 8: people coming out showing the love, the compassion, integrity and 358 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 8: respect for others that they don't know and helping them out. 359 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:58,640 Speaker 2: Oh my, I mean that's got to come to an end. 360 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 2: We need to hire media consultants to these athletes. They 361 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 2: don't know the harm they are causing themselves, Like what 362 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 2: are you doing. Here's what you say. I am honored 363 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 2: to be competing with my fellow American teammates at this event, 364 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 2: competing against elite athletes like that's if you're a downhill skier. 365 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 2: This guy is a curler. It's not an athlete. But nevertheless, 366 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 2: I am honored to be here with Team USA and 367 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: we're delighted to be competing at the elite level here 368 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 2: in Italy, and I'm gonna work hard to bring home 369 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 2: the gold for my country. And that's all you say. 370 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: Why is that so hard? Here is Chris Lillis, he 371 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 2: is on He's an actual athlete, He's a downhill skier 372 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 2: on Team USA. Can't get out of his own way 373 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 2: in some of the protests and things like that. 374 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 8: I think that as a country, we need to focus 375 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 8: on respecting everybody's rights and making sure that we're treating 376 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 8: our citizens as well as anybody with love and respect. 377 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 2: All right, stop, stop, what are you talking about. You're 378 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 2: a downhill skier. You should be talking about skis and 379 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: polls and wind condition and snow and your competitors and 380 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 2: the new goggles they gave you. Right, if you're going 381 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 2: to go off script talk about something you know a 382 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 2: lot about, which is skis and polls and wind condition 383 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 2: and snow and the new goggles they gave you. Do 384 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: not get into US Code US title of US Code 385 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,719 Speaker 2: thirteen twenty five. You don't know what you're talking about, 386 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 2: and it's only going to hurt you. Going this route 387 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 2: is a mistake because after after skiing, there is one 388 00:24:56,359 --> 00:25:00,880 Speaker 2: of two things teaching other Olympic athletes how to ski 389 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 2: and shut up or commercial endorsement. And you're not going 390 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,399 Speaker 2: to be on the front of the Wheaties box acting 391 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 2: the fool in Milan, So shut up and ski. 392 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 393 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 2: Coming up following the news at ten, it's Coast to 394 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: Coast AM with George Norri. George, what's coming up, Lou. 395 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 5: We're going to talk about the wonders of the oceans, 396 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 5: and then later on in the show your Kashik records. 397 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 2: What do they mean and what's in them? On Coast 398 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 2: to Coast that's all coming up in just a short 399 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 2: little bit of time, nine minutes away. Coast to Coast 400 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 2: AM with George Norrie right here on KFI AM six forty. 401 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 9: Whoa, Lou, Yes, you definitely agree. I just it's an 402 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 9: honest question, like what other country is it okay for 403 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,239 Speaker 9: us to go into where they want immediately, you know, 404 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 9: remove us and penalize us. I just don't understand what 405 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 9: everybody wants. This is not good for anybody to have 406 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 9: people just of it in willy nilly. But you know, yes, 407 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 9: you always get it right on the head. I think 408 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 9: it's great. 409 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 2: I appreciate the calloo. That's right. So this new change 410 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 2: with the station, does that mean we're losing you? No? No, no, no, 411 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 2: they better not be losing you. No, I'll be back tomorrow. 412 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 10: All these athletes wikipedia Olympics who bring up politics and 413 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 10: stuff you know only in America, do you have the 414 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 10: right to be a dumbass when it comes to this 415 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 10: kind of stuff you know only in America? 416 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 2: I know, and that's what they are. They're very, very 417 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 2: athletic dumbasses. 418 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 8: It brings up mixed emotions to represent the US right now, 419 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 8: I think. 420 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 2: Don't want to be saying that. Don't want to be 421 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: saying that. There is no circumstance in which you want 422 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: to talk about your mixed emotions representing the United States 423 00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:00,400 Speaker 2: on the world stage at the Olympics. Just practically speaking, 424 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 2: what is wrong with you? Even if you feel that 425 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 2: the US Code on Immigration law is unfair, Like even 426 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 2: if you think that, which by the way, nobody is 427 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 2: arguing on the floor of the United States Congress to 428 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:27,360 Speaker 2: make illegal entry into the United States legal. I don't 429 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 2: know if you notice that, Like, there isn't anybody that's 430 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 2: out there jumping up and down and screaming and going 431 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 2: on the Sunday morning talk shows that's interested in changing 432 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 2: the law. They want to defund the agency that's in 433 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 2: charge of enforcing the law, which is kind of peculiar. Right, 434 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 2: So you want it to be illegal to be in 435 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 2: the United States, I legally, you just don't want anybody 436 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 2: getting the people that are in the United States. I 437 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 2: legally seems kind of odd. But as convoluted as that 438 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 2: point of view is right now in the United States, 439 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 2: it is for the most part half the country. So 440 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 2: I understand why you'd be confused as an athlete, but 441 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 2: don't be projecting that on the world stage. Not going 442 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 2: to help you. When Campbell's Soup comes a calling, you know, 443 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:20,439 Speaker 2: wanting to see if you want to be the next 444 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 2: spokesperson for the Tomato bisk Hey good news Americans are 445 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 2: still optimistic about the future. The bad news is forty 446 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 2: three percent of Americans are pessimistic about the future, and 447 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 2: that is a high. Fifty seven percent of Americans surveyed 448 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: express a lot of optimism about where their life will 449 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: be in five years, the lowest in this Gallop poll 450 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: since the question started first being asked in two thousand 451 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 2: and nine. Two thousand and nine, So were you more 452 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 2: optimistic in two thousand and nine than you are now? 453 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: I'm pretty optimistic now. I think you should be more optimistic. 454 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: I think if you are. We were talking earlier about 455 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 2: young people, people in their twenties not knowing how to 456 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 2: date because people that are seniors in high school have 457 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 2: never gone out on a date, Like fifty three percent 458 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 2: of high school seniors this year claim that they'd never 459 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 2: been out on a date. Now, that doesn't mean they're 460 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,959 Speaker 2: not having a good time. I watch my son as 461 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 2: a junior in high school, and every once in a 462 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 2: while to be you know, especially on the weekends, guys 463 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 2: in and out, sometimes guys and girls coming in and 464 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 2: out of the house just I don't know what they're 465 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: just kind of circling around using the house as a 466 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 2: pit stop. Out to their next I don't know, can's 467 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 2: visit or whatever. But they don't do a lot of socializing. 468 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: They just kind of hang on their phone. But I 469 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 2: remind them, I'm like, this is a date. You're on 470 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 2: a date. You're not talking to each other, but you're 471 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 2: on a date. You're spending time with each other. That's 472 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 2: what a date is. You could take full advantage of 473 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 2: it and get to know more about the people that 474 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 2: you're hanging out with or not. But you are on 475 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 2: a date, whether you realize it or not. And a 476 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 2: date should have a beginning and middle and an end. 477 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 2: But you absolutely have every reason to be optimistic things 478 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,959 Speaker 2: are going to be better for you. One of the 479 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 2: best lessons I learned, and I was not a philosophy major. 480 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 2: I can't even remember why I was in a philosophy class. 481 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 2: It must have been an all college requirement or something 482 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 2: stupid that they made me do. I really resented having 483 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 2: to take classes in things that I didn't want to 484 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 2: know anything about to make me a more well rounded person. 485 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 2: Really buged me, Like I don't want to know this, 486 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to take a test on this. I 487 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 2: don't want to fail a test on this. I don't 488 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 2: want to know what you're teaching. Well, you have to. 489 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 2: It's an all college requirement, so I think to fill 490 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 2: out my my major, I had to take this philosophy class, 491 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 2: and as it turns out, the teacher was pretty good 492 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 2: because I didn't care about it. I actually listened, and 493 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 2: I remember him talking about like being present. They didn't 494 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 2: call it that then, but there's a lot of philosophy 495 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 2: about only focusing on what is in front of you 496 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 2: at that moment and nothing else. Marcus Aureli has talked 497 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 2: about this a lot. Right just be present and focus 498 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 2: on what's going on right in front of you. He said. 499 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 2: Too many people spend time getting ready to be happy. 500 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,719 Speaker 2: He said, a lot of you people in college are 501 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 2: spending four years getting prepared to be happy. And I 502 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 2: remember thinking, you know, you're right, Like, I'm not thinking 503 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 2: about being happy now. I'm thinking about how happy I 504 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: will be once I get a degree in a job, 505 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 2: and that's stuck with me. So don't wait five years 506 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,719 Speaker 2: to be happy. Work on being happy right now, and 507 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 2: then ride that happiness for five years, because in five years, 508 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 2: new things will make you happy, and the things you're 509 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 2: thinking about right now won't matter all, there's my advice. 510 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,959 Speaker 2: Lou Penrose on KFI AM six forty Live everywhere, on 511 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app 512 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: KFI AM six forty on demand