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Speaker 1: So I don't want to know if you say that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you do say that, that's pretty awesome.

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Speaker 1: Ashley Terry jed myself. I want to know if you

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Speaker 1: say these lists of things. So you ready, you tell

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Speaker 1: me if you said this before? No offense, but of course, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm just being real with you. Ashley said that you're

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Speaker 1: too sensitive. You can just be honest. You can't take

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Speaker 1: a joke. No, no, okay, right, that's good two for four.

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Speaker 1: I say this because I care. I've said that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: not to be rude, but I've said that. I've said that.

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Speaker 1: Everyone thinks it. I'm just the only one who's brave

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Speaker 1: enough to say that's so rude. Eight ninety three. This

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Speaker 1: is the list of things that honest people say. People

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Speaker 1: who self identify as being honest actually say hurtful things.

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Speaker 1: You want more on the I want to hear these.

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Speaker 1: It's for your own good. Are you laughing? I've heard

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Speaker 1: those things before, and I don't think those are coming

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Speaker 1: from honest people. You're gonna like this one? You ready

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Speaker 1: for this one? You've done well for yourself, considering that

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Speaker 1: sounds like a slimy thing to say, hey, you've done

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Speaker 1: well for yourself considering fill in the blae. What more time.

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Speaker 1: This is a list of things that people who identify

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Speaker 1: with being honest. I'm not even done. You want more.

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Speaker 1: I know you like it. Let's see if anyone else does.

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Speaker 1: Here's like the number one, with all due respect.

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Speaker 2: God hate I use that one, so I'm gonna hand

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Speaker 2: up on that one.

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Speaker 1: But a lot. And there's one more that I know

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Speaker 1: for a fact. Jedu, Oh God, I'm just gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you like it is. And he said, this is an

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Speaker 1: honest person. Yeah, so one more time. Ready, I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna tell it like it is with all due respect.

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Speaker 1: You've done well for yourself, considering it's for your own good.

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Speaker 1: Everyone thinks it. I'm just the one that's brave enough

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Speaker 1: to say it, not to be rude, but I say

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Speaker 1: this because I care. You can't take a joke, you're

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Speaker 1: too sensitive. I'm just being real with you. And last

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Speaker 1: one no offense. But yeah, those are all like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, the thing is, we've all said those things.

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Speaker 1: Jet's just said more of them. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: True, I'm the man of the cliches. Those are cliche sayings, though,

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Speaker 2: what do you mean I feel like just because they're

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Speaker 2: used in so many movies, and just just what takes

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Speaker 2: the common phrases that people who identifies being and the

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Speaker 2: and the reason why I believe Ashley thinks that dishonest

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Speaker 2: people use it is because there's a lot of people

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Speaker 2: in movies television that are dishonest, that are dishonest characters

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Speaker 2: that say those like Tony Soprano.

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Speaker 1: What was he saying? I really don't know what he

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Speaker 1: said at the end of those things.

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Speaker 3: I don't think he knows what he said either.

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Speaker 1: This's not making any sense at all. Why are you

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Speaker 1: acting like you know what he's saying.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, he.

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Speaker 1: Says gobbol. I thought he was going to say one

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Speaker 1: of the things on the list. I was interested. Jules

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Speaker 1: were reading off the list of top phrases that people

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Speaker 1: who identifies being honesty, because there's a study that came

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Speaker 1: out that said people identify as being honest tend to

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Speaker 1: say very hurtful things. What's a common phrase from you?

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Speaker 3: I love that for you? Oh, I love that for

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Speaker 3: you even though you really don't like it, like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, I love that for you. And I catch

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Speaker 3: myself saying it all the time when it's.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't really love it, but it's like, okay, if

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Speaker 3: it makes you happy, I love that for you. And

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Speaker 3: a lot of those phrases that I think every phrase

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Speaker 3: you read off that list, I catch myself saying it

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Speaker 3: almost every day. So I guess I'm hurtful for being honest.

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Speaker 3: But honestly, they say the truth hurts. So I mean

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Speaker 3: sometimes you just got a lot of people make them

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Speaker 3: happy and not say them phrases.

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Speaker 1: We got to add that one to the list. Truth hurts.

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Speaker 1: I love that hurts. The truth.

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Speaker 5: I like to say is that it could be me

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Speaker 5: like I you got.

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Speaker 3: One that you ever heard the must be nice? Yes,

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Speaker 3: that's when it come from somebody else that's the hated person.

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Speaker 3: I don't say that, you know, hater will be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like that one.

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Speaker 3: Like their way of saying, yeah, they're a little jelly.

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Speaker 1: I'm realizing that all of you have said these things

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Speaker 1: to me, So now I'm really starting to give you jewels.

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Speaker 1: I'll talk to you later. Tammy backhanded compliments, Yeah, if.

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Speaker 6: You're doing so well. But I can't stand it when

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Speaker 6: people say things like, uh, I'm not trying to be

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Speaker 6: a bitch. But and then proceeds to be a bitch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that you're trying to soften the blow before they

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Speaker 2: continue to bitch about it.

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Speaker 6: Anybody knows that if I'm saying something slick mouth, I'm

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Speaker 6: trying to be exactly that exactly?

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Speaker 1: Are you a raggedy as I love you?

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Speaker 2: I tell you one that our bosses, our boss Joe.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes he does this when you're getting it, We get nothing,

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Speaker 2: a bit of a heated argument, and then and then

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Speaker 2: you'll say something he'll respond with, I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: Bye, Oh my god. It drives me insane. What do

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Speaker 1: you agree with me? Argument over? We don't need to

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Speaker 1: go back this path, Sarah. We're talking about the top

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Speaker 1: phrases that people who self identify as being honest say.

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Speaker 1: Some of those are you can't take a joke. Another

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Speaker 1: one is not to be rude. But how about this one?

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Speaker 1: It's for your own good? And then I'll read one more.

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Speaker 1: How about you've done well for yourself considering blank. Go ahead, Sarah.

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Speaker 7: So I just heard you will come on and say

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Speaker 7: that or love that for you, and I laughed because

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Speaker 7: I am one of those people that has probably said

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Speaker 7: almost every one of those phrases at one point or another. However,

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Speaker 7: I've also said it like at myself, like I've done

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Speaker 7: pretty well for myself considering everything I've been through and

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Speaker 7: all that, So I get it. But my other one,

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Speaker 7: when Jewels came on and said, uh, I love that

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Speaker 7: for you, I think that's one of those comes from

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Speaker 7: more of a negative kind.

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Speaker 5: Of place as opposed to all this.

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Speaker 7: But my other one was, yeah.

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Speaker 4: That that checks out. So like if I hear something

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Speaker 4: that yep, that that checks out for that situation or

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Speaker 3: But I am one of those people that's like.

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Speaker 5: All those phrases sound bad, but if it comes from

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Speaker 5: a place of genuine honesty, which I always say, there's

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Speaker 5: nothing that anyone can say about me that I haven't

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Speaker 5: already said about myself, or there's nothing that I would

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Speaker 5: say that I that I that I wouldn't say to

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Speaker 5: someone else is space. And I'm like, listen, it just

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Speaker 5: kind of is what it is like in other words, the.

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Speaker 1: List of things that in other words, the list that

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Speaker 1: I just read off, the the things that people who

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Speaker 1: self identifies being honest say that others are deeming to

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Speaker 1: be hurtful. You say they're not hurtful. That's just being honest, right.

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Speaker 7: I think if it comes from a genuine place here

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Speaker 7: for you and I am just trying to help, then.

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Speaker 1: Yet yeah, Sarah, that checks.

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Speaker 4: It does